Are You Divided Against Yourself

April 12, 2013

“A house divided cannot stand.”

Jesus said this. I’m going take this Wisdom saying of Jesus into a different context than he used, but then, he used it in a different context than the original.

I get involved in discussions on Web forums about the loss of jobs in manufacturing and IT from time to time. So I often think about the ethics of business. I’m now reading a book (only about half-way through it now) that is essentially an indictment of what is called “neoclassical” economics. I think it’s “neo” because it used to be “liberal” but now it’s conservative. Or maybe not.

That’s why thinking about economics and politics give me a headache!

But I’m not here today to talk about economics. I’m here to meditate on a person who may be caught up in two worlds–a self divided.

Part of the philosophy when applied to organizations–usually business, but could be church–proclaims that it’s all about maximizing gain–or as the philosopher of happiness John Stuart Mill might have put it–all maximizing our happiness.

My point about mixing this meditation with jobs is that business is seen as an organization that only cares about profits–not people, not products, not service. It’s also (and this is where, unfortunately, church organizations often come in) about individuals seeking power and status within the organization.

Now, if I live in such an environment not realizing that behavior determines personality and beliefs in most cases, then what happens to me when I leave that sort of environment and come to church?

Am I only there because of some comfort factor and therefore only feeding that JS Mill theory of maximizing my happiness?  And the teachings have no effect on the way I live when I go back to the office?

The authors of the book (which I’ll review later and give links) actually talk about two kinds of religion–those that focus on right doctrine and those that focus on right behavior.

James (brother of Jesus, writer, leader) saw this sort of thing 2100 years ago. He taught that when we gather together to celebrate the resurrection of Jesus, that we should be careful not to have distinctions as to class. He further taught, that our behavior should fit our message. In other words, we should not be internally divided. For then, we as individuals cannot stand.

James would say that when we return to the office, we should remember our teachings (Good Samaritan, rich young man, and so forth) and act according to our teachings.

I think many of our economic problems are a result of pushing ethics off into the back closet. Saying to myself, if indeed I even still attend a church, that  I agree (believe in) the right doctrine, so, I’m OK.

Except, I’m not.

I’d Rather be a Disciple

April 11, 2013

Scott Scruggs of Menlo Park Presbyterian Church also recently picked up on the line of thinking that Andy Stanley began about the difference between Christian and disciple.

Jesus seems always to have requested people to do something, not just be something. If he healed you, there was almost always some requirement. Maybe present yourself to a priest. Or sacrifice at the Temple. Or “go and sin no more.”

I am writing this in the Zurich airport. Down the terminal a little way from me is a group of Orthodox Jews. Several have narrow-brimmed hats squarely on the top of their head. A few have a wide-brimmed hat set back on the head where the front brim points almost straight up. They were saying their morning prayers. A few had prayer shawls over their heads. There were different styles of coats and suits.

Why the differences? They each follow a rabbi. They are disciples. They want so much to be like their rabbi, that they affect his dress style.

We don’t try to dress like our Rabbi (Teacher). We can’t even be 100% certain how he dressed. We can assume, but we don’t have a picture.

But that provokes the question about how we try to be like our Teacher/Master/Lord/Savior. If we don’t dress like him, I guess we have to act like him?

Perhaps our study and meditation for the next few weeks could be about how Jesus acted, what he did, what he said, how he said it, how he developed relationships, how he dealt with controversy, how he treated his friends.

The current term in vogue is to be a “Christ-follower.” I think that disciple is much stronger. I’m not just one of those who followed along while the going was good. I’m trying to be like the Master. I’m his disciple.

What is your excuse

April 10, 2013

I have much writing to finish reporting on my trip to Hannover so far. It is not getting done.

I am walking many miles per day (it is hard to describe how large the grounds are and the number of buildings to walk through at this trade fair). My legs are stiff. Especially in the morning.

Yesterday, I over slept (smarter today, I set an alarm). So I rushed through my morning to get to the train in time for my first appointment. No time for morning Yoga and meditation.

I was tired.

Tired is an excuse. Eating the wrong food so that my body sugar is not properly regulated is a reason. Deciding to talk with some people or stay for one more beer. These are reasons.

Reasons can be dealt with through proper decisions. It’s my responsibility to eat correctly to balance my weight and give me the proper energy. It’s my responsibility to decide when to return to my room. It’s my responsibility to decide to get up, stretch, study, meditate to begin the day. It is my responsibility to properly schedule my time in order to have time to write.

Are you not getting done what needs to be done in your life?

It’s your decision.

Excuses are tricks we use to deny our responsibility for our condition. We always have a choice about how to adapt to our situation.

Here is a little process:

  • What is the real cause for the way we feel or for the lack of  accomplishment?
  • What decision did I make or not make that put me in that situation?
  • What decision do I need to make right now that helps me toward my goal?
  • Make the decision and do it.

Are You a Christian or a Disciple

April 9, 2013

I listened to one of my favorite teachers this morning on the subway (U-Bahn) ride from my hotel to the “fairgrounds” or Messe.

He is teaching for a few weeks on the topic of Christian or disciple.

This is worth pondering. The origin of the word “Christian” was from those outside the faith and used as a term of derision. If you were inside the faith, you were a disciple. Some today use the term “Christ-follower.”

One term is a description. The other term implies an action. Do I just identify with a group? Or, do I follow a teacher/mentor/leader? Do I ask of my mentor, when faced with a situation in my life, what would you do? Even before you ask the question, the answer is “yes.” That is, whatever my mentor would do, that I will do.

I have never been asked the question before last week, but someone asked, “Are you a born-again Christian?” To be honest, I am somewhat put off by the question. It is a description that could well be asked with political overtones.

But, I’m not really all that political any longer. I am trying to be a disciple–someone who follow Jesus.

I try to remember to ask in every situation (oh, I wish I were not sometimes forgetful), Jesus, what would you have me do? And then listen (an interesting concept to many–or even a foreign concept to some). And then do.

A disciple of Jesus:

  • Asks Jesus what to do
  • Listens for the answer
  • Does what Jesus says

Gosh, that sounds simple. I wish it were.

Leadership, Dealing With Trust Issues

April 8, 2013

I’m in Hannover, Germany. My room overlooks the beautiful Machsee (a little lake) with the sunrise streaming over the lake. Beautiful morning. I’ll probably be walking several miles at the famous Hannover Fair (Hannover Messe) with about 23 buildings on the fairgrounds filled with exhibitors talking about the latest technology for industry. Always cool.

My meditation this morning included the latest Andy Stanley leadership podcast. This one on trust.

There are at least two points-of-view to look at the trust issue.

Trust is essentially doing what you say you’ll do. Living up to your commitments.

Do you say you’ll make the 9 am meeting, yet you don’t arrive until 9:15 or 9:30? Or you say you’ll be somewhere and then fail to show? Or you promise a report by end of day Wednesday, yet when Friday rolls around, no report?

In this gap between expectation and reality, how do those affected react? Do they suspect your motives, or do they give you the benefit of the doubt.

Suspicion is one real problem in an organization where there is often this gap.

Have you ever worked in an organization where people are suspicious of others’ motives? Constantly?

I have. Many times. I’m sure you have too. It’s never healthy.

A leader needs to perceive and deal with this attitude quickly. Have a conversation. Do some fact finding. Discover the cause of the gap. Deal with the facts. And if the facts are that the individual just cannot perform or be relied upon, then deal with that.

If you are the one who creates the gaps, transparency is your friend. Address the gap before anyone else has a chance to react. Let people know that you are aware and will change.

Suspicion in a church or any organization is like a cancer. It starts small and then it eats away at its health. Stop it before it can start.

Help People, Make Friends, Have Fun

April 5, 2013

Jesus started a mission. Then he built a church.

For the past 1,800 years more or less, we have built churches. Sometimes we do mission. It is so rare to do mission that we hold up “missionaries” as heroes of the faith.

Jesus left us with two commandments. Boiled down to essentials, they were that we should love God and love other human beings.

Jesus mission was to equip us to love God and encourage us to use that equipment to love (serve) others. He showed us examples. He fed people who were hungry. Healed those who were hurt. Loved those who were emotionally hurting.

I’m thinking about all this because I just formally accepted a “position” within my church. Officially known as Missions Coordinator. Once we had a passion for mission. People went to Mexico to help orphans and work with women caught in sex trade. People went to China to help orphans. People went to Haiti to build schools and churches.

I made a mistake. I asked one of our pastors what happened that I don’t hear about that anymore. I made a second mistake. I let another church leader know that I study and write about leadership. So…they said, we haven’t had leadership in that area for some time. How about you actually doing what you write about. Ouch. Fair question. I’ve used that very tactic on others.

There was a guy who saw his mission in business as “Helping People, Making Friends, Having Fun.” I thought, what a great theme for missions work–which by the way is anything we do outside the four walls of the building to help those who are hungry and ill, listen with love to those who are emotionally hurting, let people know about how to live a life with-God following Jesus so that they, in turn, can help others. I’ve heard testimonies of people coming back from trips. They helped people, made friends–sometimes for life, and had a lot of fun.

There are many readers of this blog from around the world. How do you do missions? Any tips for bringing new life to our mission activities? Any places we should go to reach out to people?

The Extent of Pride in Us

April 4, 2013

Yesterday I talked a little about humility and pride. In that sense, pride gets in the way of our relations with God and with other people. We think too much of ourselves with too little focus on others.

Recently I started thinking about pride as an attitude that gets in the way of our spiritual growth. I have the ability to express myself that makes it seem that I am entirely sure that I’m correct. (Now most of the time, I am, because I’ve researched the topic, but…) However, I always stand to be corrected. I’ll take in any new piece of information and evaluate it. If I’m wrong, then I’ll change. Sometimes it might take me a period of time to digest the new information and change, but I will change.

A discussion recently involved a few people who were absolutely positive they had the correct and only interpretation of a piece of the Bible. Thing is, I’m not sure that they understand those passages in the context of the entire Bible and in the context within which the stories were written. But their pride was such that there would never be a possibility of showing them that there were legitimate alternative views of the passages.

Their interpretation is purposely divisive–they want to be divisive and prove someone else is bad and that, therefore, they are good. Trouble is, no one is good. The Pharisees lived their lives trying to be good in order to please God. Jesus’ constant battles with them was really over how to please God. Jesus said there is no way to please God by being good. You only please God through belief. And belief is more than agreeing with a proposition. It is a life lived in the presence of God.

Therefore, the spiritual disciplines. We practice them not to be good, but to walk closer to God. And to listen to God. And to let God show us when we are wrong and need to correct our thinking.

Humble Does Not Mean Weak

April 3, 2013

The other day I tweeted a link to a blog that discussed the merits of being nice. Someone responded that nice isn’t always good because people will misconstrue nice as being weak and will then try to take advantage of you.

Now, if you don’t know about “tweeting” (something you do when you send a message out to your followers on Twitter) or “links” (something you can click on to go to another page), don’t worry. I was just sharing something interesting with my 1,750 + followers on Twitter.

Can you be nice, humble even, and still be strong?

I answered back that you can be strong and be nice.

Jesus was not weak. Some 19th Century philosophers, notably Nietzsche, thought he was. They had that same notion as my questioner. If Jesus had been strong, he would have fought and conquered both the Romans and the Jewish leaders.

Actually, what Jesus did required strength. He had options. He chose the one that best served others. Starting a war would have been a disaster. Thousands would have died–as they did in the rebellion that occurred 30-some years later that resulted in the destruction of the Temple.

Jesus is always my guide in these matters. Think on his daily life. He might be tired and cranky, but if someone came to him with a problem, he set aside his own problems and dealt with the person.

Nietzsche had it wrong philosophically. He was a bit of a prophet, though, in that he foresaw the rise of people who thought of themselves as the Übermensch–sometimes translated as “Superman.” (yes, the beginning of the comic book hero) But he totally misunderstood the strength of Jesus.

Think about how you can maintain your core strength and beliefs and yet humble yourself. Being humble simply means to put God and others before yourself. The opposite of pride–or the prevalent disease of our day, narcissism. Because of my strength, I can serve. That might be a good mantra for meditation occasionally. Remind you of your focus and your strength.

Because of my strength, I can serve.

Exploring New Church Leadership

April 2, 2013
Old Church Leadership Style

Leadership in the past age.

I just picked this image yesterday a little at random while surfing the Web. But it seams to represent the old “command and control” leadership developed with the industrial age.”

Churches have that, too. Catholics have had that a long time–although not without bumps along the way. Protestants thought they got away from it a few hundred years ago, but they just have fewer levels of hierarchy.

It’s still often a one-to-many style. There is a place for a good teacher who can teach to many. I listen to a few of these people every week–Bill Hybels, John Ortberg, Andy Stanley. They keep me grounded.

But even among Catholics, the idea of entering the “full-time Christian ministry” as a profession is weakening. They are consolidating some parishes in our area due to lack of priests. Seminaries are hurting all over the country. The high price they charge is seldom seen worth the reward. I look at some of the curriculum from time to time and cringe. Not from a liberal v conservative v fundamentalist v whatever point of view. More from a “they’re charging this much money for this type of class!?” point of view.

Leadership mentors promising people. Providing education as the need arises.  But also practical work of helping others–either in ministry or missions (inward to the brothers and sisters or outward to the world).

Except for those teaching times, that picture should be more like all blue and one grayed out.

  • Empower people to do ministry
  • Develop teams
  • Collaborate on projects
  • Mentor others (or seek a mentor)
  • Get out of the building
  • Do ministry and mission you’re passionate about
  • Be passionate in living with-God every day
  • Leaders say, “How can I help you”

Need For a New Post-Easter Leadership

April 1, 2013
Old Church Leadership Style

Leadership in the past age.

The empty tomb. The realization slowly penetrates their confused minds. The ministry is not over. It has only just begun.

The eleven leaders and however many other disciples realized what the message was. It took a few days to digest. I don’t blame them. I like to digest new ideas for a little while until I see all the possibilities.

I wrote recently about succession planning. Sometimes people do not grow into leadership until they actually have to be leaders. Their mentors may have seen the potential. Potential cannot turn into reality until one actually goes to work on it.

Walter Russell Mead is a thinker. Mostly he writes on politics. He’s sort of conservative, but I’m not always sure. This is a good thing. But he has a Christian heritage and writes on the church. Recently, he wrote on the state of Christian leadership–pastoral education. The eleven, he writes, could not have gotten a job in most any church today. You see, they didn’t have a piece of paper telling the world that they had graduated from a seminary.

Their seminary was part from a mentor (OK, the best mentor) and part from the “school of hard knocks” as we used to say. But over the past many years, we have developed the idea that priests and pastors (and Christian educators, music directors, missionaries, and so on) must be educated. It’s like an MBA for churches.

And Christian leadership has become a salaried staff position. Salary, benefits, position in the hierarchy, perks. Once upon a time, I was on the Ohio state Board of Trustees for a Protestant denomination. While attending my first meeting with the others trying to gage who I was and being a young man, most asked me, “What church do you pastor?” None, I replied. I’m a product development manager in industry. Hmmm, they thought.

Mead writes, “It’s time for new leaders with vision and imagination to take the church beyond the blue [his term for an old way of thinking, big institutions, etc.]. Since the colonial era, the genius of American Christianity has lain in the ability of new generations of Christian leaders to reinvent institutions, find an authentic theological stance and voice that appeals to each new generation, and put Christianity in the forefront of individual lives and social challenges from age to age.

“Theology can be debated; liberal, conservative, protestant, catholic, fundamentalist, modernist. There is much to be said for each of these positions, and the debates need to continue.

“But there’s a much more critical difference: the difference between life and death. There is a lot of dead wood in American Christian institutions today, and the carters are coming to clear it away.”

Is it time for people who have talent and are nurtured to assume more leadership in the Christian movement? People like most of us who read this blog? Time for us to stand up and be the leaders we should be–and nurturing and mentoring the next generation–to proclaim the resurrected Christ to the world? Just do it.