Archive for the ‘Disciplines’ Category

A Straight Shot of Gratification

July 9, 2026

Psychiatrist Phil Stutz notes, “The impulses for all of our bad habits travel along the same path – a straight shot to immediate gratification through what I call the lower channel… Lower channel functioning is a disaster. When the pleasure is over, we’re left with nothing.”

Perhaps you, like I, have experienced this straight shot of dopamine gratification through the instant reward system. Just like a sugar/caffeine high, the reward from other bad habits is fleeting.

Must be why Jesus tells us to live a more disciplined life. In the long run, the rewards are sweeter.

Motivation v Routine

July 8, 2026

Preachers and teachers thrive on motivation. Some speakers forge lucrative careers holding huge motivational rallies. Those of us who have attended such events wonder how long the fire lasts.

Motivation is short-term fuel. Routine is the only fuel that lasts.

Be intentional developing your routines.

Are You Lying To Yourself?

July 6, 2026

I picked this bit of research off the Arnold Schwarzenegger Pump Club newsletter:

A few years ago, researchers took a big, nationally representative group of American adults and asked: Are you active enough?  Sixty-two percent said yes. Then they strapped motion trackers to those same people and let the devices ride along for a full week. The verdict? Only 9% were hitting the guidelines. And the raw minutes would be funny if they weren’t so familiar. People reported around 324 minutes of moderate activity a week. The devices caught about 45. The participants didn’t miss by a hair. They overshot their own lives by nearly seven to one. The trackers aren’t perfect. But nothing shrinks a gap that size down to a comfortable size. We believe we’re doing more, and we mean it. Same as the kid with the pegs. Same as me while sleep-deprived. There’s a reason we’re wired this way, and it isn’t stupidity. Psychologists describe something like an immune system for the ego. When a fact threatens the picture we hold of ourselves, the mind mounts a defense as automatic as your body fighting off a bug. It blames the timing. It argues with whoever delivered the news. It hunts for the one flattering number and clamps down on it instead. In the moment, it protects you. Over the years, it walls you off from the exact truth you needed most.

How much physical movement do you really get in a day?

How much Bible study, spiritual reading, other reading do you really do in a day? Wait. Are you reading or just have the book open?

Are you really focused on God and others as you “pray?” Or does your mind drift as a leaf in a stream?

How much service work to you actually do versus what you tell yourself you do?

We are half through this year. Is it time to take a true evaluation of this year? No, really.  Where can I pick up even just one new activity to move forward?

Will Jesus Know You?

June 9, 2026

“Not everyone who says to me, ‘Lord, Lord,’ will enter the kingdom of heaven, but only the one who does the will of my Father who is in heaven. Many will say to me on that day, ‘Lord, Lord, did we not prophesy in your name and in your name drive out demons and in your name perform many miracles?’ Then I will tell them plainly, ‘I never knew you. Away from me, you evildoers!’ “

The constant stream of people I see in the news and people I meet otherwise who proclaim “Christian Values” astound me.  I wonder…does Jesus know them? To my observation (decidedly less valid than that of Jesus), doing the will of God seems to be somewhat lacking.

But then I reverse the lens of the camera kind of like camera mode on my iPhone to selfie mode. I wonder how I look to Jesus. Does he know me?

What about you?

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Disciplines and Practices

June 5, 2026

Jim Collins researches people and companies to discover patterns of success and failure. He likes to discover what makes people and organizations tick. I’m finishing his latest book, ten years in research—What to Make of a Life: Cliffs, Fog, Fire and the Self-Knowledge Imperative

I highly recommend this book to anyone curious about living a life.

He begins with the concept of encodings. He defines these as durable capacities of a person’s intrinsic construction that lie within, awaiting discovery through the experience of life.

He writes about many pairs of people (successful, because there’s enough data in the public domain). His team found three patterns to their lives:

  • Discover and display a set of encodings
  • Flip the arrow of economics to afford to follow the encodings
  • Focus inner fire

Among his pairs of subjects were the first two American women’s figure skating champions. These exemplify the “focus inner fire” part. But also these relate to my continual thoughts on spiritual (and physical and mental) practices. His comment caused me to revaluate the path I’ve been on.

Of all the sources of fire, I’ve concluded that perhaps the biggest is sheer unadulterated love of doing. If you discover something you’re encoded for and you love doing it, then you can’t help but want to do more of it.

  • Love is greater than discipline.
  • Love is greater than ambition.
  • Love is greater than ego.
  • Love is greater than fear.
  • Love is greater than achievement.
  • Love is greater than determination.
  • Love is greater than passion.
  • Love is greater than purpose.

I’ve read Charles Duhigg Power of Habits and James Clear Atomic Habits and Richard J. Foster and Dallas Willard on Spiritual Practices and even Arnold Schwarzenegger on setting up the day to do the first thing that will create momentum. 

Ah, but love. 

I’m not sure I could call it love…that I meditate almost every morning, that I go to the gym (and see familiar people), that I take walks.

But maybe. Maybe I love the feeling after?

What do you love?

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Consistent Practice

May 27, 2026

I have reshaped my body over the past three years or so. Body fat composition dropped to 13%. Noticeable changes to arms, shoulders, chest, thighs, calves. This came through subtle changes in  nutrition (we never really ate poorly) and through a consistent practice of strength training. Plus I met several nice people in the fitness center.

Similarly, we can transform our spiritual formation becoming the kind of person who does good naturally. We experience God’s grace transforming our habits of body and mind through intentional spiritual practice. Even though much of the practice is done alone, people on the path are often drawn to other fellow travelers on the path.

Taking Small, Progressive Steps

May 20, 2026

Many years ago, we saw a movie “What About Bob” starring Bill Murray. The phrase I remember most was “Baby steps.”

I thought of this intro while digesting this amazing conversation on Tim Ferriss’ podcast, The Most Incredible Transformation I’ve Ever Seen — Jerzy Gregorek on Autism, Cerebral Palsy, Coaching, and the Power of Micro-Progressions (#865). This conversation ranks as one of the most important I’ve ever heard. Gregorek, former four-time World’s Strongest Man, talks of guiding a young man with both Autism and Cerebral Palsy into a better life beginning with resistance training and then adding math and poetry.

The key? Gregorek didn’t treat the physical disability with rehab work. He used micro-progressive strength training. Sort of like “baby steps” leading to the ability to bench press 135 lbs. after beginning at 3 lbs.

Arnold Schwarzenegger discussed the many success stories people post on his Pump Club app. He observed why he thinks the Pump Club has been so successful. “I think it is this idea that you need to see the little steps along the way to keep yourself going. Normally people see fitness as before and after. We do it differently and celebrate every step.”

I  began thinking about a metaphor for spiritual development building upon this idea. I’ll pick up my intentional music practice. The goal for this practice includes mental development, finger dexterity, and enjoyment. (Maybe I’ll add a fourth career as a busker, who knows 😉 

  • Following a hiatus of moving and just staring at my 50-year-old guitar, I decided to begin again.
  • Purchase a new, sufficiently good instrument
  • Begin with scales to extend fingers due to my dupuytren’s (thanks to Irish and Welsh ancestry)
  • Begin work on chords and chord changes
  • Intentional practice, chord progressions in successive keys
  • Intentional practice—variety of finger-picking rhythms
  • Add voice—discovered I’m singing in different keys than before

It’s all a micro-progression.

Let’s consider spiritual formation or growth (or whatever you wish to call it).

  • Set aside quiet time at least once daily.
  • Read something uplifting—could be stories of Jesus from the New Testament or spiritual classics.
  • Begin with maybe 5 minutes. See if you can progress to 15 and then 30 minutes. Maybe then twice a day.
  • Walk outside in nature daily as much as you’re physically able.
  • Meet with 2-3 fellow seekers for coffee or soda regularly.
  • Find a service—bake cookies for a shelter’s dinner, knit blankets for homeless shelters, mow someone’s grass, there must be things within your skill set and constraints.
  • Find a place of worship that fits your personality.
  • Learn to listen—to God and to others.

Remember—baby steps. Don’t plunge in to everything trying to save the world. Take a step. Strengthen a muscle. Move to the next. You have a whole life to gradually develop the spiritual muscle leading to a life that includes love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, generosity, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control.

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Act First

May 18, 2026

Our average self tells us as we are sitting on the couch, “I will (exercise, practice my instrument, write my novel, pray, study, perform a service) when my motivation rises.”

This motivation to get up and do rarely happens. I have a time in late afternoon when I pick up my guitar for practice. Sometimes I just don’t feel it. But I run through a few chord progressions and finger picking styles, and I’m into it.

Motivation follows action. Not the other way around.

Waiting for the proper motivation for your daily time of prayer and meditation? Quit that. Pick a chair and a regular time—usually before the household comes alive. Then, like the old Nike ad, just do it.

Same with reading.

Same with exercise.

Force yourself if you must. Get up and start. Once begun, the rest is easy.

On Writing

May 14, 2026

Paul Graham, an early venture capitalist, on writing: “1. When you write something intended to be read by an important person, go through it and cut every unnecessary word. 2. The reader of anything you publish is an important person.”

The same thing could be said about speaking—except you must pause and think before you speak.

Looking at the Journey

May 12, 2026

I have often joked, albeit half-seriously, about how we view God as the Great Vending Machine in the Sky. Drop a prayer in the slot, and a solution appears.

My friend, Jon Swanson, wrote recently, “More and more, I try to talk with Jesus about process rather than outcomes. He already knows what I want, anyway. I think he cares most about the journey and how I travel. I suspect a sense of peace happens when I do what I can with what I have – and trust him for the outcome.”

I like the image of Jesus along for the journey. I’ve been leading small grief support groups for the past 18 months or so. As we discuss the varieties of grief experience, we discover this is not a one time event. It’s a journey that includes different stops along the way.

You may have noticed that your spiritual journey has a similar rhythm of starts and detours and stops and insight followed by being lost.

Richard J. Foster and Dallas Willard and the Renovaré movement talk of the with-God life.  Or like the subject of the little book The Way of the Pilgrim who tried to live a life of prayer while walking through rural Russia.

Sorry, once I start thinking, I start linking. And now, I must start the day’s journeying.