Leadership as team building

April 30, 2013

Someone was recently talking with me about leadership in an organization. “Problem is,” he said, “that too many only know how to work on their own. They can’t build teams.”

This is part of Jesus’ leadership legacy. He had a mission. He recruited disciples (people who shared that mission and wanted to learn and contribute). He taught them about the mission and how to do it. He created teams. They almost always went out in groups.

later, when he was gone and they were in charge, they still worked as teams. Paul even worked as part of a team. He just wrote individually.

Part of growing a team is common purpose. Part is trust. Part is having roles where each team member fills a role and the team succeeds. There is a humbleness like I have talked about where people think about the others. Yet each excels.

I have formed a few teams in my career. When they succeed, it is a beautiful thing. They are easy to destroy, though. They take work. But the result is worth it.

Leading from Strength

April 29, 2013

For some reason, I’ve been contemplating servant leadership. Several years ago I met a company president who proclaimed that concept. He supposedly followed a book by that name. The model was Jesus washing the feet of his disciples. He often gave gifts of a model of a sculpture from that scene.

I met the author of that book at a conference once. To be blunt, he left me a bit cold or put-off. That president? He didn’t look very much like a servant leader when he sold his company and promptly disappeared without telling anyone at the company that they were most likely all going to lose their jobs.

This was perhaps the wrong model, anyway. People probably don’t want that type of leadership in the extreme.

Let’s take two other examples.

Moses had a mission. God told him to take the leadership of moving the Hebrews out of Egypt. They had been there a long time. It was all they knew. Moses had a mission and a vision to change that.

So, they left Egypt. One day in the desert, Moses’ father-in-law showed up. He saw a huge queue of people waiting to get a few minutes of Moses’ time in order to settle various complaints. Jethro says, in effect, “Moses, you’ve forgotten your job as a leader. You keep the people focused on the mission and train other people to handle all these details.”

Jesus started a mission. He recruited and attracted disciples to help carry out the mission. He trained them through teaching, having them observe him, and then also providing practical experience.

I have seen far too many so-called leaders who have no clue about all this. Either they are ego-driven (and thus not thinking of others which is the foot-washing example) or they are, especially in the business world, totally driven by numbers. Church people and educators get driven by fads and programs.

The leader reminds people constantly about the mission. Maybe it’s providing a product or service that people need. Maybe it’s about giving people meaning in their life. Or maybe it’s about serving people with food and comfort.

The leader then recruits a team. Teaches them, guides them, reminds them constantly of the mission.

A leader cannot afford to get lost in the weeds. A leader must remain firmly focused on the mission. There is a mission. A team forms. They change the world.

Energy As The Flow of Grace

April 26, 2013

 

Cycle of Grace

Cycle of Grace from Acceptance to Work from Claypotchronicles

Of all the sciences I studied when I was young, I preferred physics. Thinking in the biological sciences has come a long way and I now appreciate the thinking of connectedness and networks biologists are studying. Chemistry? Well, I guess I’m glad they have it.

Physics is very much the empirical study of an ancient concept–energy. Ancient people contemplated the energy that flows throughout nature and from God to humans.

I think visually and associatively. So when I think of God’s Grace, I visualize it in terms of energy.

John Ortberg recently talked about a concept new to me called the Cycle of Grace. It comes from a book by Frank Lake (that I couldn’t find quickly). It dealt with burnout among pastors and missionaries. As a matter of fact, I lifted this image from claypotchronicles.com, where it seems that he starts with work. Ortberg started with acceptance.

You start the cycle knowing that you are loved and accepted by God. You didn’t earn that. God just says he loves you. Sustenance is what I often talk about here. It comprises the Spiritual Disciplines and practices that deepens and enriches your understanding and relationship. Next is significance, or why are you here? What is the work God called you to do? Finally is accomplishment (called work complete in the diagram).

If you start with work and try to gain acceptance, your efforts will be futile. That has often been the case with religious people. Check out Jesus’ debates with the Pharisees. But if you start with God’s Prevenient Grace, the fact that God loved you before you were you, then you have the foundation for great work.

Dallas Willard put it in terms that I can understand with my study of energy. He said that it now becomes God’s Grace flowing through you. I visualize that as a form of energy. We know people who give us energy when we meet them. Unfortunately we know those people who seem to drain the very energy right out of your soul when you meet them.

It is much better to be a channel of God’s Grace to others. A transfer of energy from God to another through you. That is the proper foundation for service.

We Need Disciples Like the First Century Ones

April 23, 2013

Jesus started a mission. He called disciples to do the work.

We have sort of screwed things up. We started calling ourselves Christians instead of Disciples. Then we sort of made it like a club.

But for three centuries, the Jesus movement grew because people saw how the disciples of Jesus lived and they wanted to be part of that.

Jesus said, you’ll know who my followers are by their love. Can we honestly say that about ourselves? About our churches? If yes, fantastic. If no, than as Desi used to say to Lucy, God will say to us, “You’ve got some ‘splainin’ to do.”

Willow Creek Community Church has begun its Celebration of Hope campaign featuring compassion and justice missions of the church. The first message was from Dr. Soong-Chan Rah. His description of how those early Christians lived is one of the best I’ve ever heard. You can click the link to listen for yourself.

In the 19th Century, Christians changed the world–women’s rights, ending child labor, ending slavery in many places, sending missionaries to carry Jesus’ story. By the middle of the 20th Century, Christians had changed and those of us who wanted to be both Christian and pursue justice were seen to be radical, or just weird.

Things are changing again. Disciples of Jesus are once again out in huge numbers carrying Jesus’ message along with our service and passion for justice. I wish this one sticks around for a longer time.

Patience and Drive While Reaching Goals

April 22, 2013

I had a business meeting in the north suburbs of Chicago on Friday and am now in Kentucky where I overnighted on my way to meetings in Greenville, SC. In between, playing with the grandkids in the west suburbs of Chicago.

Do you ever travel long distances? Even if there are no kids, do you ever think “Are we there, yet?”

It started my thoughts on reaching goals. Even spiritual goals.

You begin. “I’ll read a chapter a day in the Bible.” Or some other goal. Even more ambitious–“I’ll treat everyone with just a little more kindness today.”

Then you go on with your life. And you don’t always do it. And you lose patience with yourself.

But you’re going to get there when you get there. Spiritual depth does not come overnight. Nor does treating everyone the way you should treat them.

A little at a time you find yourself growing toward your destination. It comes. Not on our time, but when the time is ripe.

In the meantime, you just have to remind yourself to be patient with the work in progress. It’ll come.

Live With Intention

April 19, 2013

The word intention has recurred all week. In many conversations, people talked of praying with intention. And God sends the right people into your life.

I’ve done that. It’s amazing.

But right now, my intention is a quiet time with my granddaughter. She knows I get up early. She, in her own way for 3 years old, prays with intention that I come and get up early with my coffee and then sit and read and watch the sun rise.

You need those moments.

Mine starts off this way. Then I’m ready for business and work.

What is your intention for the day?

We Really Do Help

April 18, 2013

When you read about scary events, look for the helpers. There are always helpers.

Several people hare been writing about this quote from Mr. Rogers. He said his mother told him this when he was small.

It’s true. I bet everyone reading this has rushed to aid in a situation. I can recall some of mine–both when I helped and when I failed to act quickly enough because I failed to understand the situation.

There was an auto accident late at night. It was on the rural Interstate near home. I saw headlights going up and down weirdly. I stopped. As did the only other motorist that night. “Did you see what I did?” he asked.

I had no idea what I’d find as I ran across the median grass and across the other highway lanes. I had never witnessed a traffic accident. I had no training. A young woman had evidently lost control and the car flipped. Miraculously, she was completely uninjured. All she was focused on was finding her cat.

I stayed to calm her down while the other guy drove to a farmhouse we saw in the distance to call for help. I was no hero or anything else. It’s just the first impulse is to help.

Since I really don’t have time or interest to turn on CNN and watch endless repetition and mindless speculation, I miss some stories. In the Case of Boston, the stories of helpers and courage.

Humans do respond positively in a crisis.

But, as Teresinha pointed out about youth in Brazil, sometimes we don’t recognize the crisis. I’ve had training of various types since (sports first aid, first aid, CPR), but I’m no expert. I’ve since learned that first you need to recognize the situation or your training is worthless. There are a couple of times where I simply didn’t recognize the situation and failed to react. But I learn from that experience. Next time, I will know better.

We need to recognize the situations we have that maybe aren’t a single crisis, but rather a systemic crisis. Maybe more of us can point the helpers to situations before they get too destructive. Kind of like all the Christ-followers helping someone.

The Tragedy Visiting So Many Youth

April 17, 2013

My good friend from Brazil, Teresinha, wrote a comment on Facebook regarding one of my blog posts about the tragedy in Brazil of so many young men killing each other–she says like flies.

That same day, we have the bombings at the Boston marathon. What can a person be thinking as they assemble devices designed specifically to cause as much death and injury as possible?

Humans have asked why for a long, long time.

People come up with simplistic answers. “They just need Jesus.” Well, yes, that’s obvious. Except when you think of the thousands and thousands of people killed in the name of Jesus. Or, it’s because of single-parent families without a strong male influence. Well, yes. Except that there are many exceptions. Then there are the poor choices people make–like who their peer group will be. I just wrote about Lot, who made that poor choice.

It’s not easy. And it’s sad. It breaks my heart, too.

How do we reach these people early so that they can avoid the violent culture?

I am a member of a United Methodist congregation. The origins of that denomination are with the Anglicans, whose origins in turn are Roman Catholic. All of us practice infant baptism. This is not “believer’s baptism.” Different thing. We do that, too.

But infant baptism really is about the community. The parents and community of believers vow to raise that child to be a follower of Jesus.

Whatever happened to community? To be a safe place where people can come in their weakness and receive blessing and help? To a family with no male role model with the male role models within the believing community?

There will always be troubled and alienated people. But if we were more of a community, maybe we’d help more of them before they take that final, violent act.

I think about the mission work our congregation can do as I am preparing my mind and spirit to lead the effort. Is there just one thing we can do to help even just one young person caught in the dark side? There are millions of followers of Jesus in the world. If most of us reached out to just one or two (or more), think of the number of people we could reach.

But we have to do it in the spirit that Jesus taught. He said that people will know his followers because of their love. Not their judging attitude. Or their righteous attitude. But being the very personification of God’s love.

Meanwhile, the evil one is still at work in the world. We must be on guard.

Hospitality as a Spiritual Discipline

April 15, 2013

I confess, I am not nearly as hospitable as God would have me.

One of my small groups is studying the stories in Genesis. We’re looking at the life of Abraham.

This story compares and contrasts (bless my old political science professor whose every exam began “compare and contrast”) three different stories of hospitality. Actually, many people either misread or misremember the third of these–but we’ll get there in a minute.

The story begins with Abraham resting under some oak trees by his tent. Three men appear walking down the road. Abraham immediately gets up and greets the men. He implores them to sit and rest and partake of his hospitality. They agree.

Abraham rushes into the tent and tells his wife to make some bread. He selects a choice calf and instructs the servant to butcher and roast it. He gathers some milk and cheese. And thus he prepares a magnificent feast for the travelers.

Now, it turns out that two of the men are actually God’s messengers on an errand to eradicate a couple of cities who were the “sin cities” of the day. The third one is The Lord himself in the guise of a man. (strange story, eh?) It so happens that Lot, Abraham’s nephew, lives in one of those cities.

So, the second story is when the two messengers appear at the gates of Sodom. Lot “just happens” to be sitting by the gates and sees them. He, just like uncle Abe, recognizes them and offers hospitality of his house. They want to stay in the town square, but Lot knows what kind of place he chose to live in. He knows that the only safety they’ll find is under his roof.

The third story is actually the utter lack of hospitality of the men who populate the city. We don’t know what all manner of sins they did, but we know that they let their passions rule their hearts and they did many sins. In fact, they did not offer hospitality to the strangers but instead wanted to unleash their passions on these new people. Lot, because he offered hospitality, offered his virgin (but engaged) daughters to the crowd. Now that’s morality for you!

Some people read that third story as simply an anti-homosexuality morality story. But it is much, much deeper than that.

There is a man who is trying to live righteously (although who slips at times) and offers supreme hospitality. He lives and prospers–Abraham.

There is a man who knows the Lord and mostly tries to live righteously, but also who has chosen to live in a city full of passion and sin–think of it, can you imagine offering your daughters as sex toys for a crowd of probably drunken men?–and therefore is conflicted. In the end, he offers hospitality and lives, but not to a good end–Lot.

Then there are the men of a city who are slaves to every passion. They not only do not offer hospitality, they do the opposite. They are all killed.–The people of Sodom.

I think I can take a hint. God favors those who are hospitable. Maybe I need to clean up my act there. How about you.

Are You Divided Against Yourself

April 12, 2013

“A house divided cannot stand.”

Jesus said this. I’m going take this Wisdom saying of Jesus into a different context than he used, but then, he used it in a different context than the original.

I get involved in discussions on Web forums about the loss of jobs in manufacturing and IT from time to time. So I often think about the ethics of business. I’m now reading a book (only about half-way through it now) that is essentially an indictment of what is called “neoclassical” economics. I think it’s “neo” because it used to be “liberal” but now it’s conservative. Or maybe not.

That’s why thinking about economics and politics give me a headache!

But I’m not here today to talk about economics. I’m here to meditate on a person who may be caught up in two worlds–a self divided.

Part of the philosophy when applied to organizations–usually business, but could be church–proclaims that it’s all about maximizing gain–or as the philosopher of happiness John Stuart Mill might have put it–all maximizing our happiness.

My point about mixing this meditation with jobs is that business is seen as an organization that only cares about profits–not people, not products, not service. It’s also (and this is where, unfortunately, church organizations often come in) about individuals seeking power and status within the organization.

Now, if I live in such an environment not realizing that behavior determines personality and beliefs in most cases, then what happens to me when I leave that sort of environment and come to church?

Am I only there because of some comfort factor and therefore only feeding that JS Mill theory of maximizing my happiness?  And the teachings have no effect on the way I live when I go back to the office?

The authors of the book (which I’ll review later and give links) actually talk about two kinds of religion–those that focus on right doctrine and those that focus on right behavior.

James (brother of Jesus, writer, leader) saw this sort of thing 2100 years ago. He taught that when we gather together to celebrate the resurrection of Jesus, that we should be careful not to have distinctions as to class. He further taught, that our behavior should fit our message. In other words, we should not be internally divided. For then, we as individuals cannot stand.

James would say that when we return to the office, we should remember our teachings (Good Samaritan, rich young man, and so forth) and act according to our teachings.

I think many of our economic problems are a result of pushing ethics off into the back closet. Saying to myself, if indeed I even still attend a church, that  I agree (believe in) the right doctrine, so, I’m OK.

Except, I’m not.