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Treating Others As A Human Being

June 22, 2026

Kevin Meyer, retired manufacturing executive and Lean leader, recently wrote:

Jon Miller wrote something a few years ago at Gemba Academy that has stayed with me. The Toyota Way’s second pillar is universally translated as “respect for people,” but the original Japanese is ningensei (人間性), which means “human nature.” The distinction matters more than it appears. “Respect for people” is a floor — be courteous, invest in training, don’t humiliate anyone in public. Most organizations can claim this with a straight face. “Respect for human nature” asks something harder: what are people fundamentally capable of, and what conditions allow that capability to develop?

I have tried to incorporate Lean principles wherever I could. It teaches one to simplify. And also not to become so enamored with technology that we lose sight of people. I think this works in manufacturing, business, and nonprofit/church organizations. How can we say we follow Jesus and not respect human nature?

Meyer refers to Inamori Kazuo, who applied these questions consistently across Kyocera, KDDI, and his JAL turnaround. They read simply. They aren’t.

  • Is it the right thing to do as a human being? The frame is deliberately personal, not professional. Inamori believed most ethical failures in business come from leaders who shift their moral standards depending on the role they’re in. Keeping the frame constant is the discipline.
  • Are we doing this for the right reason? Strip away the strategic rationale, the competitive pressure, the board expectation. What’s the actual intention behind the decision?
  • Have we put in the maximum effort, every day? Not “are we working hard.” Whether we are genuinely committed to continuous improvement, with consistency and sincerity, not just when it’s convenient.
  • Does this decision create value for customers, employees, and society? Most businesses optimize for one stakeholder, tolerate a second, and ignore the third. Alignment across all three is the test.
  • Will I still be proud of this decision in 30 years? The long horizon changes the nature of the decision itself. Short-term pressures that feel urgent tend to look different from three decades out.
  • Are we controlling our emotions, or are our emotions controlling us? The question acknowledges that emotional reactions masquerade as strategy. Naming the question before the decision creates a brief but useful pause.

A key phrase that struck me with force: most ethical failures in business come from leaders who shift their moral standards depending on the role they’re in. We’ve seen it in churches, too.

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Energy and Systems Aligned

June 19, 2026

Energy ebbs and flows like waves reaching and receding on a sandy beach. Our bodies feel the ebb and flow of the digestive system writhing centrally through our torso. Food in; energy out. A system working properly is barely noticeable. Improper nutrition unbalances the system driving energy away. Physical energy recedes back to whence it came.

Just so, our spiritual system often aligns with our digestive system. Energy loss leads to spiritual dullness. Focus dissipates. Enthusiasm (the spirit within) fades.

Paul, the Apostle, described a properly functioning body as a metaphor for many things. Certainly we must pay attention to one to align the other—the body and spirit. When the systems work together, it’s a beautiful thing.

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Likes and Dislikes

June 18, 2026

Linus, the philosopher from Peanuts cartoons, once proclaimed, I love humanity, it’s people I can’t stand.

Reading from my spiritual training list—G.K. Chesterton’s Orthodoxy, I still like Liberalism, but it’s Liberals I can’t stand. (Note: written in early 20th Century England, so definitions vary.)

Listening to many people in my travels and reading—I could be OK with Christianity, but it’s Christians I don’t like.

I hope you (and I) don’t resemble that remark.

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You’ve Got To Be Carefully Taught

June 17, 2026

Hardly surprising if you were Swiss psychiatrist Carl Jung who coined the term synchronicity. I thought about my “task” when responding to people who post comments to social media or drop an offensive comment in a conversation. The thoughts went to responding through curiosity not judging. Then I looked at using questions.

Last night (as I write this), we saw a performance of Rogers and Hammerstein’s South Pacific. We’ve seen it several times over the years. I remembered it, yet I forgot parts. Like this song (written in the late 1940s) that explores hate and racial fears. Ideas compounding upon each other never cease to amaze me.

I offer the lyrics to You’ve Got To Be Carefully Taught by Rogers and Hammerstein from South Pacific for contemplation.

You’ve got to be taught to hate and fear,

You’ve got to be taught from year to year,

It’s got to be drummed in your dear little ear—

You’ve got to be carefully taught!

You’ve got to be taught to be afraid

Of people whose eyes are oddly made,

And people whose skin is a different shade—

You’ve got to be carefully taught.

You’ve got to be taught before it’s too late,

Before you are six or seven or eight,

To hate all the people your relatives hate—

You’ve got to be carefully taught!

You’ve got to be carefully taught!

I was cheated before

And I’m cheated again

By a mean little world

Of mean little men.

And the one chance for me

Is the life I know best.

To be on an island

And to hell with the rest.

I will cling to this island

Like a tree or a stone,

I will cling to this island

And be free—and alone.

Talking People Out of Hate–Part 2

June 16, 2026

[Previously posted December 24, 2025. Seems to go with the past three posts. Probably something I need to be reminded of more often than every six months.]

The post yesterday looked at a man unafraid to face people who hate him only because of his skin color. A black jazz musician named Darryl Davis who found a type of ministry engaging in conversations with white men who are active neo-nazis or ku klux klan members.

Shortly after posting that, a video popped up on my fitness and nutrition app (called the Pump Club founded by Arnold Schwarzenegger, it guides me in my resistance training). I have to admit that I never had posters of Arnold in his prime doing muscle poses. If I had lived in California, I’m not sure I’d have voted for him to be the “Governator.” I’ve only see two of his movies, and only one intentionally. But I’ve come to respect his nonprofit work, especially building the fitness and esteem of young people.

He directly addresses hate in this YouTube video. It is a powerful message.

If you haven’t guessed it yet, I believe that spreading hate and divisiveness is the polar opposite of the message we should be living as Jesus followers. We should be reconciling people as much as we can. Being always successful? Not likely. But we aren’t graded on success. We are graded on where our heart is.

In this Christmas season, in fact this publishes on Christmas Eve, let us dedicate ourselves anew to the Prince of Peace.

Talking People Out of Hate–Part 1

June 15, 2026

[Previously posted in December 2025. Seems to go along with the previous two posts.]

The conversation occurred between a black jazz musician and a white member of the Ku Klux Klan. The white man asked, “Why should I listen to you? You’re just a drive-by shooter and gang-banger.”

“Because I’m black?” replied the musician. “Perhaps that’s just where they live. On the other hand, you must be a serial killer. David Berkowitz, Ted Bundy, Jeffrey Dahmer, John Wayne Gacy, I can’t think of one black serial killer.”

“That’s not fair,” came the reply.

The breakthrough created a conversation. Perhaps not a conversion. But a start. Breaking through stereotypes leads to better conversations. Perhaps we can see other humans as, well, human.

Thinking of peaceful relationships hopefully leading to joy during this Christmas Season (some people’s experience of Advent), I reflected on this podcast episode of Adam Grant’s Rethinking. (I’ve previously recommended his book.) The only link I could find was to the podcast app I use on iOS. You can find it, I’m sure, on Apple podcasts.

This is the description of the episode. I highly recommend listening. The Ku Klux Klan is one of the tightest-knit White supremacist groups in America—once someone joins, they’re usually in for life. But since the 1980s, over 200 members have renounced their affiliation, and all give credit to the same man: a Black jazz musician named Daryl Davis. In this episode, Adam is joined by Daryl and Jeff Schoep, a former leader of the largest neo-Nazi group in the US whose life and mind were changed by meeting and befriending Daryl. They discuss techniques for challenging ignorance and prejudice, analyze the cognitive dissonance experienced by members of extremist groups, and reflect on the conversations with Daryl that helped Jeff think again. They also explore the limits of empathy and curiosity.

I cannot explain how some people come to feel hatred toward other groups. I’ve read many books and papers. More to my interest concerns having civil conversations across divisions. As a liberal living in a very conservative area, I’ve had some practice. It’s a continuing education process. How can you reach out and gently help others break stereotypes? Perhaps also for me.

Some links for Host & Guest

Adam Grant (Instagram: @adamgrant | LinkedIn: @adammgrant | Website: https://adamgrant.net/

Daryl Davis (Instagram: @realdaryldavis | Website: https://www.daryldavis.com/

Jeff Schoep (Instagram: @jeff_schoep | Website: https://jeffschoep.com/

Links

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Be Curious, Not Judgmental

June 12, 2026

Yesterday’s thought concerned how my job consists not of running around trying to “correct” everyone whose opinions were “wrong.” Rather, my job assigned by Jesus is to love others, even those who think and act differently from me.

This reminded me of one of my favorite TV scenes. Ted Lasso, the American Midwestern football coach, finds himself in England as coach of a Premier League soccer club. The wife gained possession of the club through a divorce from a rather nasty guy—Rupert.

The scene is the favorite club pub. Ted handles some darts. “You all like this game over here, don’t you?” he says as he tosses a couple of the darts at the board—right-handed. He and Rupert settle on a bet with major consequences for the club.

“Oh, I forgot, I’m left-handed,” admits Ted. They proceed to the climax where Ted needs three perfect throws. He tells a story of being underestimated his whole life and seeing a quote while taking his son to school—“Be curious, not judgmental.”

He hits the first one. “You see, if you’d been curious rather than judgmental, you’d have asked if I’d ever played darts before.”

“I would have said, ‘Yes, sir. Every Sunday afternoon with my dad from age 10 to 16…’ “

Research reveals the best approach to those potentially confrontational conversations is to be curious, not judgmental. Ask questions.

  • How did you come to that conclusion?
  • Where did you learn that?
  • Why do you think that’s true (right, useful)?
  • And more.

Curiosity, not judgmental, means truly listening to the person’s responses. You show concern and attempt at understanding. Questions asked calmly, not confrontationally. Do not sound like a defense attorney cross-examining a prosecution witness.

Be curious, not judgmental. That’s really hard for some of us. But exceptionally useful.

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Note to Self

June 11, 2026

I must take care to not lose equanimity when I see messages from someone purporting to speak for Jesus that contradict everything I’ve learned from studying the Gospels.

Just today I saw another social media post passing along blatant lies. This has become a regular occurrence. I don’t know what has so riled up the person to repost stuff from unknown sources. I wrote an extensive reply. Then I deleted it. Then I muted the person such that I will no longer see these things.

Even social discussions when someone blathers a rude opinion rarely deserves a reply. Maybe a “not everyone agrees with that.” And let it drop.

When called upon, it is my duty to defend Jesus.

My first job, according to Jesus, is to love those who oppose me—and Jesus.

I’m improving—but still trying.

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Like a Child; To a Child

June 10, 2026

Jesus’ followers asked him about greatest in his kingdom. They were constantly confused between what they had been taught about a coming kingdom on earth where the king of Israel would rule and what Jesus seemed to be teaching about a new kind of kingdom.

At that time the disciples came to Jesus and asked, “Who, then, is the greatest in the kingdom of heaven?”

Jesus answered a couple of ways. He first addressed what ancients have called the “beginner’s mind.” In other words, we must clear our minds of preconceived ideas and opinions to accept Jesus’ teachings.

He called a little child to him, and placed the child among them. And he said: “Truly I tell you, unless you change and become like little children, you will never enter the kingdom of heaven. Therefore, whoever takes the lowly position of this child is the greatest in the kingdom of heaven. And whoever welcomes one such child in my name welcomes me.”

He did not stop there. Taking a second look at the relationship of children to us, he said,

“If anyone causes one of these little ones—those who believe in me—to stumble, it would be better for them to have a large millstone hung around their neck and to be drowned in the depths of the sea.”

That means people such as I who write these blogs and others who teach others no matter where and what bear significant responsibility for what we teach. Are we passing along misinformation and ill-formed opinions we’ve picked up from spurious sources? Are we studying and meditating and trying to pass along spiritual truths compatible with Jesus’ teachings?

It’s worth pausing to reflect periodically assuring we’re keeping to the path.

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Will Jesus Know You?

June 9, 2026

“Not everyone who says to me, ‘Lord, Lord,’ will enter the kingdom of heaven, but only the one who does the will of my Father who is in heaven. Many will say to me on that day, ‘Lord, Lord, did we not prophesy in your name and in your name drive out demons and in your name perform many miracles?’ Then I will tell them plainly, ‘I never knew you. Away from me, you evildoers!’ “

The constant stream of people I see in the news and people I meet otherwise who proclaim “Christian Values” astound me.  I wonder…does Jesus know them? To my observation (decidedly less valid than that of Jesus), doing the will of God seems to be somewhat lacking.

But then I reverse the lens of the camera kind of like camera mode on my iPhone to selfie mode. I wonder how I look to Jesus. Does he know me?

What about you?

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