When I was a kid, I puzzled over the predominant attitude I felt in my rural village—fear of communism. Some of the farmers expected a Soviet invasion. Many church-goers lived in fear of atheist communists wiping out the church.
I was perhaps ten and ignorant (some things have failed to improve with age), but I remember wondering why we felt our beliefs and way of life to be so fragile.
Nassim Taleb coined a term “antifragile.” Fragile things break when confronted with stress. Antifragile ones grow stronger.
Children grow stronger into adulthood through the stresses of living.
Our ideas and beliefs should grow stronger and more resilient through confronting new ideas and challenges.
It’s OK to confront change and test our wings like the emergent butterfly that must beat its new wings against the cocoon in order to get the strength to fly. Or as I will be leaving my office after posting this thought to see if I can lift 6,000 lbs. of dumbbells 20 lbs. at a time and add strength to my body. Or thinking this through to add strength to my mind. Or spending 20 minutes in silence strengthening my spirit.
Push against the constraint. Become antifragile.
