Feelings of Loss

July 1, 2026

I suppose there’s a cosmic justice. I’ve been leading grief support groups for some time. This meant learning the experiences of grief in order to guide others.

Then it strikes home.

Around the turn of the century, I changed careers into trade magazine media then quickly adapted into blogging (and podcasting and the like). The early 00’s era witnessed a number of Silicon Valley tech bloggers. I was Midwestern Industrial tech, so orders of magnitude smaller market than the people who became my remote mentors.

One passed away far too soon last week. I read Om Malik’s work for decades. He was an innovator, thoughtful, generous. I’m still digesting the news.

I became involved with an association of suppliers of industrial software about the same time. I had work with that software in a previous career. I devoted hours of time and effort as part of the organization. The organization grew vibrant and inevitably diminished. Some of the supporting companies went out of business. Others lost interest in  supporting an industry association. Today news came that the association closed. Another slice of my life gone.

It’s not the same as losing family or friends. But today I feel a bit at a loss.

Work For Understanding

June 30, 2026

Sometimes the answer came too quickly.

Maybe it was to a math problem. 

But I didn’t think it through.

I didn’t understand the process. The relationships of the factors.

I read a difficult story from Jesus. Instead of thinking it through, I grab an answer.

The test…

Can I explain it to someone?

Put a little work into understanding. 

Antifragile

June 29, 2026

When I was a kid, I puzzled over the predominant attitude I felt in my rural village—fear of communism. Some of the farmers expected a Soviet invasion. Many church-goers lived in fear of atheist communists wiping out the church.

I was perhaps ten and ignorant (some things have failed to improve with age), but I remember wondering why we felt our beliefs and way of life to be so fragile.

Nassim Taleb coined a term “antifragile.” Fragile things break when confronted with stress. Antifragile ones grow stronger.

Children grow stronger into adulthood through the stresses of living.

Our ideas and beliefs should grow stronger and more resilient through confronting new ideas and challenges.

It’s OK to confront change and test our wings like the emergent butterfly that must beat its new wings against the cocoon in order to get the strength to fly. Or as I will be leaving my office after posting this thought to see if I can lift 6,000 lbs. of dumbbells 20 lbs. at a time and add strength to my body. Or thinking this through to add strength to my mind. Or spending 20 minutes in silence strengthening my spirit.

Push against the constraint. Become antifragile.

Human or Product?

June 26, 2026

I have spent much of this week at a trade show with about 1,000 exhibits and maybe 50,000 of my closest friends all about industrial automation, robotics, and the like. Rich Dixon brought this thought from Pope Leo to mind this week, which seemed appropriate.

When efficiency becomes the ultimate measure of value, people are tempted to see themselves as products to be optimized rather than persons called to relationship and communion.

I hope by now we all realize that when we use social media we are the product. Do not think for even a second that the developers of those tools think of us as humans. We are products served to advertisers who write huge checks to fill the pockets of billionaires.

Let us consider an even more intimate level. How are we treating other human beings with whom we interact?

Do we treat others in even our most mundane projects as tools to be manipulated or as fellow humans with whom we work together?

When we talk with others are we really talking at objects or with someone with whom to seek understanding?

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Only Love

June 25, 2026

“Everyone discusses my art and pretends to understand, as if it were necessary to understand, when it is simply necessary to love.”​— Claude Monet

Does Jesus also confuse us this way?

We dissect every word, phrase, action. We wonder why the stories about Samaritans. Who were they, anyway?

We complicate everything. Every thought. We complicate so much that we miss the point.

Like Monet said, “It is simply necessary to love.”

Smiling Faces, Tell Lies

June 24, 2026

I pondered yesterday about plastic love. Plastic smiles.

“Smiling Faces Sometimes,” a pop song from 1971 told it—Smiling faces, tell lies…

A young man told me when I was also a young man that everyone has a mask. He endeavored at every meeting to remove the other’s mask.

I wondered if our smiles were only a plastic ornament when we greet someone.

What if our smiles, rather than superficial, attempt to mask deeper emotions? Contempt? Despair? Anxiety? Insecurity?

The song continued—The eyes tell the truth.

I’m not so cynical as to think everyone I meet is masking something. I do think that every person needs the respect of our focus and attention. And those times we sense something deeper, perhaps a kind word will work a miracle.

Perhaps we also need to pay attention to our own smiling faces. What are we masking that must be dealt with?

Artificial Love

June 23, 2026

Someone who is lactose intolerant, “But I can eat Dairy Queen ice cream, since it is not really ‘dairy.’”

Sign on a flower bed, “Love grows here.” The flowers are plastic.

How are the smiles that greet you at your church? Artificial or warm?

How are your (my) greetings? Not genuine? Plastic?

How can you (I) be the real thing?

Treating Others As A Human Being

June 22, 2026

Kevin Meyer, retired manufacturing executive and Lean leader, recently wrote:

Jon Miller wrote something a few years ago at Gemba Academy that has stayed with me. The Toyota Way’s second pillar is universally translated as “respect for people,” but the original Japanese is ningensei (人間性), which means “human nature.” The distinction matters more than it appears. “Respect for people” is a floor — be courteous, invest in training, don’t humiliate anyone in public. Most organizations can claim this with a straight face. “Respect for human nature” asks something harder: what are people fundamentally capable of, and what conditions allow that capability to develop?

I have tried to incorporate Lean principles wherever I could. It teaches one to simplify. And also not to become so enamored with technology that we lose sight of people. I think this works in manufacturing, business, and nonprofit/church organizations. How can we say we follow Jesus and not respect human nature?

Meyer refers to Inamori Kazuo, who applied these questions consistently across Kyocera, KDDI, and his JAL turnaround. They read simply. They aren’t.

  • Is it the right thing to do as a human being? The frame is deliberately personal, not professional. Inamori believed most ethical failures in business come from leaders who shift their moral standards depending on the role they’re in. Keeping the frame constant is the discipline.
  • Are we doing this for the right reason? Strip away the strategic rationale, the competitive pressure, the board expectation. What’s the actual intention behind the decision?
  • Have we put in the maximum effort, every day? Not “are we working hard.” Whether we are genuinely committed to continuous improvement, with consistency and sincerity, not just when it’s convenient.
  • Does this decision create value for customers, employees, and society? Most businesses optimize for one stakeholder, tolerate a second, and ignore the third. Alignment across all three is the test.
  • Will I still be proud of this decision in 30 years? The long horizon changes the nature of the decision itself. Short-term pressures that feel urgent tend to look different from three decades out.
  • Are we controlling our emotions, or are our emotions controlling us? The question acknowledges that emotional reactions masquerade as strategy. Naming the question before the decision creates a brief but useful pause.

A key phrase that struck me with force: most ethical failures in business come from leaders who shift their moral standards depending on the role they’re in. We’ve seen it in churches, too.

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Energy and Systems Aligned

June 19, 2026

Energy ebbs and flows like waves reaching and receding on a sandy beach. Our bodies feel the ebb and flow of the digestive system writhing centrally through our torso. Food in; energy out. A system working properly is barely noticeable. Improper nutrition unbalances the system driving energy away. Physical energy recedes back to whence it came.

Just so, our spiritual system often aligns with our digestive system. Energy loss leads to spiritual dullness. Focus dissipates. Enthusiasm (the spirit within) fades.

Paul, the Apostle, described a properly functioning body as a metaphor for many things. Certainly we must pay attention to one to align the other—the body and spirit. When the systems work together, it’s a beautiful thing.

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Likes and Dislikes

June 18, 2026

Linus, the philosopher from Peanuts cartoons, once proclaimed, I love humanity, it’s people I can’t stand.

Reading from my spiritual training list—G.K. Chesterton’s Orthodoxy, I still like Liberalism, but it’s Liberals I can’t stand. (Note: written in early 20th Century England, so definitions vary.)

Listening to many people in my travels and reading—I could be OK with Christianity, but it’s Christians I don’t like.

I hope you (and I) don’t resemble that remark.

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