Hard Shelled

May 13, 2026

I remember my grandfather taking me out fishing for my first experience. I was perhaps about six years old. He came home the afternoon before with a pie pan covered with a damp cloth. Peeking inside, I saw a number of crawdads. He explained they were soft-shell crawdads. They were to be the bait we would use to catch catfish in the river.

Later in my youth, I experienced catching mature hard-shell crawdads in the shallows of a creek.

About that time, I heard the description “hard-shell Baptists.” To this day, I don’t know the details of the meaning.

I have no clue what reminded me about those experiences. But, naturally, I thought about it.

Let’s assume that transitioning from soft-shell to hard-shell is a metaphor for becoming older and becoming fixed in our ideas. We are no longer growing. Some may add an observation “closed-minded.”

My orientation to life never lost its youthful curiosity. Every day I look for something I can learn. Some people think I know a lot about the Bible. Well, I should. I led classes in it for decades. But, again, every day I discover something new I’d never thought about.

I would hate to be viewed as hard-shelled. 

Want to discover a way to look at the Bible through new eyes? We are taking a short-term class looking at the New Testament through the eyes of the North American Indigenous peoples. It’s the same story we know translated into English using the concepts native to these peoples. It forces you to open your mind and see again for the first time.

Looking at the Journey

May 12, 2026

I have often joked, albeit half-seriously, about how we view God as the Great Vending Machine in the Sky. Drop a prayer in the slot, and a solution appears.

My friend, Jon Swanson, wrote recently, “More and more, I try to talk with Jesus about process rather than outcomes. He already knows what I want, anyway. I think he cares most about the journey and how I travel. I suspect a sense of peace happens when I do what I can with what I have – and trust him for the outcome.”

I like the image of Jesus along for the journey. I’ve been leading small grief support groups for the past 18 months or so. As we discuss the varieties of grief experience, we discover this is not a one time event. It’s a journey that includes different stops along the way.

You may have noticed that your spiritual journey has a similar rhythm of starts and detours and stops and insight followed by being lost.

Richard J. Foster and Dallas Willard and the Renovaré movement talk of the with-God life.  Or like the subject of the little book The Way of the Pilgrim who tried to live a life of prayer while walking through rural Russia.

Sorry, once I start thinking, I start linking. And now, I must start the day’s journeying.

Change Your Life

May 11, 2026

A popular meme on the internet holds, “You are what you repeatedly do, excellence therefore is not an act but a habit.” Aristotle did not say this. The statement does fit within the scope of his thought. Leadership thinker, John C. Maxwell, restated this thought as, “You will never change your life until you change something you do daily.”

I approached this thought the other day about consistency and again regarding wishing and doing.

This thinking applies to health, fitness, learning, and relationships. Change something that you can practice daily. Then practice. With intention. Daily.

I’ve experienced this fact of life multiple times. It works.

Burning Time

May 8, 2026

Newsletter writer, Shane Parrish, wrote in Brain Food, “If you burn money, people call you crazy. If you burn time, they call you busy. We treat money as valuable because it’s quantifiable and time as disposable because it’s not.”

This is an intriguing thought. I’m betting we all fritter away our time. A couple days ago, my stomach was queasy. I could not focus. The good news—I was too tired and out of sorts to burn any money. The bad news—I did nothing useful with my time. No study. No writing. No practicing.

A better thought:

Shall we neither burn money nor time? Instead focus…with intention. And if the body’s system is out of whack, then that’s where the focus should go. That’s the real problem. Deal with it with rest or medication or a walk.

Know where the real current problem lies. Deal with it first.

Sometimes we’re so busy trying to do one thing that we miss the original constraint that must be solved.

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Deep Listening; Loving Speech

May 7, 2026

I follow many paths to find wisdom that will help me become a better person. Thich Nhat Hanh from the Buddhist tradition was a person I greatly admired.

He once wrote, “The intention of deep listening and loving speech is to restore communication, because once communication is restored, everything is possible, including peace and reconciliation.”

So much of our society these days seems to experience talking at each other or talking past each other. People have felt “free” to say whatever comes to mind. In addition to what the Apostle James says about speech, I applaud Hanh’s comment about intentional loving speech.

Consider how civil discourse would be if we weren’t trying to get “likes” and followers on social media and news media didn’t amplify the most extravagant and hateful speech.

Deep listening and loving speech. What a wonderful idea.

I Wish I Could

May 6, 2026

The famous concert pianist played a short chamber concert. A middle-aged woman rushed up to her at the conclusion.

“Oh, how lovely,” she gushed. “I wish I could play like that.”

“No you don’t,” replied the pianist. “If you did, you would find a teacher and practice hours a day.”

You wish you knew the Bible like someone you know.

You can. Pick up a Bible in a translation that suits you and begin reading. With intent. Every day. Think about it. How does this paragraph fit into the theme of the entire “book?” What is the writer trying to say? Does what I read contradict what I’ve been taught? (Many times I’ve talked with people who discovered that what they thought was in the Bible actually isn’t!) Find a teacher–in person or read commentaries.

You see someone with an aura of calm assurance and deep joy. You wish you could have it.

You can. Practice deep prayer with intent. Every day. Maybe three times a day like Daniel in the Hebrew scriptures. There will come a time of realization that you have changed. You’re calmer in interactions. You’re not so easily worked up.

You see someone who is a dedicated servant to others. They cook for a “soup kitchen” or serve food or offer hospitality at church. Wow, I wish I could be like them.

You can. Ask how you can help at the soup kitchen or the homeless shelter or at church. Practice doing with intent to be a server. 

Or, back to the original story. Find a teacher of piano or guitar. Practice daily. Maybe begin to serve by playing at small church gatherings. Invite people to your house for some music and food. Or find friends to do that. 

You can do it. Intent. Practice. Repeat. Go for it!

What Supports Us?

May 5, 2026

Weird thought while meditating this morning.

What supports us?

Our skeleton.

The earth.

Breath.

Food.

Social connections.

Spiritual connection.

Where do I nurture each with intention?

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Making Comparisons

May 4, 2026

Comparing yourself to others is for personal joy.

Comparing yourself to yourself is for personal growth.

Comparing yourself to Jesus is for depth.

Cramming New Thinking Into Our Old Ways

May 1, 2026

Rich Dixon thought about Jesus’ metaphor of pouring new wine into old wineskins.

Of course, we have no clue what Jesus was picturing. What the heck is a wineskin? You mean they were allowed to drink wine back then?

Rich transformed the thinking from first to twenty-first century language.

It’s tempting to cram Jesus’ teaching into our old ways of thinking.

For a math teacher, I think he nailed it.

Can we think of times someone has tried to persuade us that their old way of thinking actually reflected what Jesus taught? I hope we haven’t fallen victim to reinterpreting Jesus to suit our own politics or prejudices. That would be a huge loss.

Spiritual Fitness Routine

April 30, 2026

Computer science professor Cal Newport writes on the intersection of technology and life. His latest thinking involves reducing the distraction of smart phones and digging behind the hype of AI.

He synthesized some research recently on his podcast regarding cognitive fitness. I think these easily fit within a spiritual disciplines or practices framework.

Newport suggests five routines that promote cognitive fitness:

  • Read—delve into progressively more difficult texts over time if you have not been reading
  • Write—journal or keep a notebook of thoughts, ideas, experiences; write the newsletter for your organization; writing requires thinking and motor skills
  • Take “Thinking” Walks—get outside for a period of time each day, no phone, perhaps take a problem you’re working on or a concern to ponder, write insights achieved
  • Plug in your phone—when home, plug your phone in the kitchen or foyer, go to it when you need to look up something, also delete distractive apps
  • Learn a hard skill—guitar, violin, knitting, carpentry, something where you can see progress as you practice

These are great ideas. Transforming these to assist our spiritual development takes but a small step.

  • Read spiritual texts from the Bible to respected authors (e.g. Merton, Nouwen, the Desert Fathers, and the like)
  • Write a journal or daily reflections, a newsletter or blog
  • Take meditative or prayerful walks (with eyes open!)
  • Plug in your phone (see above), remove distractions from your life
  • Practice service and kindness (for many of us, this is a hard skill) or perhaps a musical instrument to contribute to gatherings