Cross Pollenating Life

April 3, 2026

From my earliest memories of high school, I recall loving to learn from a variety of sources trying to synthesize knowledge and experience.

Fitness has been a goal since the mid-70s when I moved from a job in manufacturing where I walked miles a day to a desk job in engineering where I walked feet per day. It happened in late summer. The first of April I went out to play softball and couldn’t run from home to first base. I joined the jogging craze the next day.

Now in my mid-70s I walk miles and resistance train. Like Yoga was developed thousands of years ago to train the body for sitting in meditation, the physical fitness helps my mental and spiritual fitness.

I use The Pump app to guide my program. It’s designed by Arnold Schwarzenegger and two guy who work closely with him. One just interviewed his boss.

Arnold Schwarzenegger Trained for 60 Years Without Counting a Calorie. Research Explains Why It Worked. The science of decision fatigue, goal complexity, and why simpler approaches to health are also the ones with the strongest evidence.

So I asked him: after sixty years of training, what has actually lasted? He gave me the answer, and I realized I already knew it. The basics. It’s always the basics that work best.

When we’re given too many choices, too much complication, too much nuance, we’re less likely to act on any of them and less satisfied when we do.  When a health plan contains too many decisions — which supplement? which protocol? which meal timing window? — every micro-choice draws from the same limited cognitive well. You deplete that resource before you ever get to execution.

A lifetime of studying and teaching the Bible has taught me the same thing about spiritual life. I love studying the earliest Jesus followers. For 300 years, they sought to live out what Jesus taught. We can tell from some early letters that have been preserved that avoiding the too human pitfalls sometimes complicated life.

The answer invariably returned to Jesus’ two commands. You shall love the Lord your God and your neighbor as yourself.

Period. Full stop.

Everyone who tries to complicate those commands with more options and decisions and complexity have strayed from the simple path. Physicists call it first principles.

(Oh, how am I doing? And how are you doing?)

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Spirituality Means Waking Up

April 2, 2026

Sometimes I can see it in the eyes. The person is lost. Sleep walking through life. Thinking they are free from encumbrances, while being buffeted by emotions, swayed by advertising, provoked by social media.

Reading from a retreat led by Jesuit priest Anthony de Mello—Spirituality means waking up. 

Open your (spiritual) eyes. Become aware of where you are, what you’re doing, what you are allowing to guide your life.

As de Mello repeated, “WAKE UP.”

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Paradox of Renunciation

April 1, 2026

We are in the season of Lent. Some people practice “fasting” as giving up something for Lent. I had an older friend, a devout Catholic, who gave up fried food, deserts, and beer for Lent. He lost several pounds over the six weeks or so. Easter Sunday was feast day. I think he gained it all back in a day!

The annual story around my village concerned a guy who gave up watermelon for Lent. Of course, there was no watermelon to be found.

How about you? Have you given up (renounced) anything? Maybe like being on a diet. You need to drop 15-20 pounds or more. Instead of changing your lifestyle, you focus on the foods you now cannot eat.

Then, has this happened?

Every time you renounce something, you are tied forever to it.

Some spirituality teaches to give up things. That ties you to them. Simply wake up, understand, and then the desire goes away.

The better way:

  • I am the sort of person who eats this way.
  • I am the sort of person who practices prayer/meditation daily.
  • I am the sort of person who smiles and greets others when we randomly meet.

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Frustration of Changing People

March 31, 2026

I’m so sick of lemonade

All this squeeze ain’t worth the juice

Pour some sugar over me

Still not sweet еnough for you

Got a lot of shit to say

Even more you nevеr do

Tell me, what’s it gonna take

To make a good thing out of you?

—Lemonade, Maren Morris

I once heard of a delusional male speaking of the woman he was dating. “She’s all about her kids right now. But once we get married, she’ll be all about me.”

I snorted my coffee when my daughter told me about her friend. She’s not going to change.

How many times have you witnessed relationships where one partner thought they could change the other to fit their mold?

How many times did that work?

Perhaps that’s a reason why the apostle Paul wrote so often about mutual submission. We each must make allowances for the other. It’s a function of the love that Jesus taught.

If one can’t live with the other’s “faults,” then it is best recognized early, and they should part.

You cannot force someone else into your mold.

This realization holds for romantic/life partnerships, business partnerships, people you’re negotiating with, people within your organization.

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The Practice of the Presence of God

March 30, 2026

Saint Pio of Pietrelcina stated: “Through the study of books one seeks God; by meditation one finds Him.”

We find in the Bible and other teaching the terms prayer, meditation, and contemplation. These are spiritual practices (also known as disciplines). These are a structured attempt to get in touch with and deliberately reflect upon revelations of God. 

I recall a time at university when I thought my life’s purpose was to be an intellectual. Then I discovered that knowledge in the head can be a dead end. The experience of the presence of God can be found through intentional practices such as prayer, meditation, and contemplation. Surprisingly, also through service.

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Our Tendency For Yes

March 27, 2026

I recently heard this phrase a podcaster applied to himself—promiscuous overcommitment

A great phrase.

I recently wrote about what “yes” is powerful enough to override the default “no”. 

Think on this phrase.

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Two Questions For Your Church

March 26, 2026

Dallas Willard said a church must ask two questions–one what is our plan for making disciples, and two how is it going?

I concur. But I also ask, what am I doing for the cause?

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Empty Ourselves

March 25, 2026

Robert Van Gulik was a scholar of China, a excellent writer, excellent artist, and Dutch ambassador to China before World War II. Retiring, he wrote a series of murder mysteries based on a historical character called Judge Dee. The mysteries are fiction, but Van Gulik brings 7th Century China to life.

When I’m between projects and my brain needs refreshment, I’ll pull one of these from my bookcase.

The other evening it was Necklace and Calabash where he drew a character typical of ancient China—a “Taoist” recluse. A sort of spiritual guide.

Master Gourd left Judge Dee with a piece of wisdom relevant for us all:

“It is only after we have been emptied of all our vain hopes, all our petty desires and petty illusions, that we can be useful to others.”

Are we so full of ourselves that we haven’t time to love and serve others as Jesus commanded?

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The Value of Prayer

March 24, 2026

My last post concerned the value of wisdom. Reading in Evagrius’ Chapters on Prayer last night, I found this nugget.

The value of prayer is found not merely in quantity but also in its quality. This is made clear by those two men who entered the temple, and also by this saying, ‘When you pray, do not do a lot of chattering…” (reference to Luke 18:10 and Matthew 6:7)

I’ll stop chattering.

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The Value of Wisdom

March 23, 2026

The value of wisdom lies in the recall.

Of what use is continual memorizing and study if it doesn’t help you when you need it?

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