Watching Out For Our Tongue

May 18, 2018

Imagine a community of people. A church, a neighborhood, a town, a society.

Imagine incorporating a teaching from James (the brother of Jesus found in 4:11 of his general letter)–

Do not speak evil against one another.

Morning Routines

May 17, 2018

We fall into morning routines whether intentionally or not.

We can waken to an alarm, rush around, grab a breakfast bar to eat in the car, and hurry out to work.

We can train ourselves to rise without an alarm early enough so as to avoid rushing. Read something inspirational. Meditate. Eat something healthy. Be ready for the day.

People who have asked a wide variety of people about their morning routines find that successful people have definite, intentional routines. Curiously, for the most part executives rise early and exercise and prepare for the day. Creative types, for example writers, rise early and write then exercise a little later.

I have a routine for when I’m home and one for when I travel. The difference is that when I travel I need to fit into the rhythm of the conference or host or vacation or whatever.

I never use an alarm (exception, catching an early flight or have an early meeting following a late night). Make coffee. Read and meditate. Do some writing. Eat a light breakfast. Exercise.

And I have a routine for exercise. These warmer days, I head to a local park to walk or run. Then the Y. Three days I do strength training. Everyday 15-30 minutes of Yoga. Then the sauna.

Twice this week, the fitness center at the Y has been crowded with someone on almost every machine. Yesterday, I looked at the possibility of standing around waiting for a machine to free up. Decided not to wait. Went up to the running track area where I do Yoga on the mats. Already out of sorts, I blew that off and went straight to the sauna.

All day I was unsettled. Couldn’t sit and focus at all until preparing for an interview late in the afternoon.

Amazing how creativity and deep work actually craves order and routine. Body, heart, mind, soul–they all need to live in harmony. Throw out one, and all of you is out of balance.

Pride Creeps In and a Fall Ensues

May 16, 2018

I’ve been contemplating the sin of pride lately. Pride is an insidious thing that creeps into us posing as a friend only to take over our lives driving us from God.

You can pick up a book of psychology or get The Ladder of Divine Ascent by my old friend the 6th/7th Century monk John Climacus, also known as St. John of the Ladder.

Pride is a denial of God, an invention of the devil, contempt for men. It is the mother of condemnation, the offspring of praise, a sign of barrenness. It is a flight from God’s help, the harbinger of madness, the author of downfall. It is the cause of diabolical possession, the source of anger, the gateway of hypocrisy. It is the fortress of demons, the custodian of sins, the source of hardheartedness. It is the denial of compassion, a bitter pharisee, a cruel judge. It is the foe of God, It is the root of blasphemy.

I think John didn’t like pride. Note some of the symptoms we can see such as anger, hypocrisy, lack of compassion.

Many men have crossed my path who were captured by this passion. Proclaiming to be evangelical Christian (and they may well be, not for me to judge), they were captured by this enemy, pride.

An old man, very experienced in these matters, once spiritually admonished a proud brother who said in his blindness: “Forgive me, father, but I am not proud.” “My son,” said the wise old man, “what better proof of your pride could you have given than to claim that you were not proud?”

A person must usually experience a fall, an event that brings many things to light, in order to realize the extent to which pride has entered into life. John says recovery is hard.

A help to the proud is submissiveness, a tougher and humbler mode of life, and the reading of the supernatural feats of the Fathers. Even then there will perhaps be little hope of salvation for those who suffer from this disease.

If we find ourselves needing to be in charge, in control, often angry, judgmental toward others, it is time to go to prayer and seek God’s help to end these passions before they grab us too deeply. Or find a good friend or advisor. Ask if you are showing signs of pride. Seek help.

Getting Perhaps a Moral Result With Immoral Actions

May 15, 2018

A TV series featuring detectives solving old cases (from England) shows the detectives narrowing in on the motive and people involved in killing someone. The motive they are uncovering concerns revenge for past wrongs.

People vote for a publicly immoral political candidate hoping for a morsel of moral outcome from that candidate.

These explore an ancient conundrum. Does the end justify the means?

If we put this in Biblical terms, is it OK to break God’s Law now hoping for a result that might glorify God?

Asked another way–

When I begin to do immoral things, how long before I am intentionally immoral? What happens when I am an intentional sinner (to use a church word)?

Paul the Apostle asked, “Should I sin more in order to receive more grace?” He said, “No.”

God told kings who tried that tactic he wasn’t happy because–they didn’t rely on him.

Peter drew his sword to protect Jesus on the night of the arrest. He struck and wounded one of the arresting group. Jesus told him to put away the sword and went on to heal the wounded victim. That was not the right “means”. The cross was the right “means.”

I have been amazed since I was quite small that so many people who profess great faith in God have so little confidence that God wins in the end.

Including A Wide Spectrum of Acquaintances

May 14, 2018

“Meanwhile [Peter] stayed in Joppa for some time with a certain Simon, a tanner.”

It’s just a sentence that is a transition from one story to the next in the book of the Acts of the Apostles. Rest assured that it wasn’t just thrown in to fill up space. But Luke’s purpose for including this little tidbit isn’t really known.

We, however, can look at this little sentence and get a glimpse of how we should be living.

This Simon was probably Jewish, but he was ritually unclean. Does that sound familiar to those who have read the gospels? It should. Jesus was often criticized for hanging out with people who were ritually unclean.

We read a lot of things into the writings of Paul the Apostle and use them to divide people. But try actually reading all of Paul sometime. Read those “afterthoughts” where he lists all the followers of Jesus.

These first groups of followers were quite diverse. They seemed to accept leaders from all walks of life. Women, slaves, tanners, whomever.

Is it time for a self-awareness check? How inclusive are your circles? Churches, business, social?

Maybe instead of trying to figure out ways to separate us, we should be looking around us figuring out how to be more inclusive and accepting.

Getting Ready for the Next Action

May 11, 2018

In Getting Things Done methodology, one of the most important things is to determine and write the next action.

Yesterday I wrote about how posture influences how we feel. Posture can also prepare us for the next action.

We teach infielders in baseball to assume a posture with their feet ready to move quickly and their gloves toward the ground. Their next action most likely will be to field a ground ball. If they are in a posture to react quickly, their chances of success are enhanced. If it is a pop fly, they have time to react.

I use a pose called Downward Facing Dog in Yoga both as a pose in itself and as a transition from standing poses to poses on the mat, say plank. When we get to Downward Facing Dog, we know we are prepared for the next pose.

When I sit in a particular chair, I know that I’m there to meditate. At another chair or at my standing desk, I know the next action is work.

I also know that if I sit in another chair in my office that I won’t be reading. I’ll wind up taking a nap.

Charles Duhigg in his book The Power of Habit calls these “cues.” If I’m an infielder in the proper posture, it cues me to be alert for a ground ball. If I’m have my book, sitting in that chair cues me to be ready to read or at my desk to study and take notes.

Choose your posture with intention. It will determine your outcome.

Posture Goes Before Attitude

May 10, 2018

Two people walk in the door at a gathering. You immediately judge one more competent than the other.

Perhaps you are feeling inadequate. Down.

Have you ever fought back the urge to walk over to an adolescent girl or young woman and physically pull her shoulders back and admonish her to stand straight?

I can’t count the number of meetings I’ve been in (it’s greater than the number of fingers on my hands) where I began the meeting sitting up straight and attentive only to discover 30-40 minutes in where I have slouched back to where my head is resting on the back of the chair. Guess where my energy went…

Want to change your attitude? Change your posture.

Stand up straight. Activate your abs. Bring your shoulders into proper alignment with your hips. Begin to feel more confident. Project strength.

Same with sitting. Although be careful analyzing people. One pastor criticized me for crossing my arms looking disinterested or judgmental. Actually, I was cold. Don’t crank the air conditioner thermostat down to 65 deg F. If you call a meeting, either keep it short or meaningful. Hopefully both. Or not at all.

Want to meditate? Find a posture that suits your physique. Repeat it. When you assume the posture, your mind knows to get in tune with the Spirit.

Want to pray? Open your hands. Not necessarily raising them, but if you like doing that, it’s OK. But the physical act of opening your hands relaxes you and opens you to hear God.

Your posture determines your attitude.

Who Is Your Third Person of the Trinity?

May 9, 2018

In the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Spirit.

Steve Carter, Lead Teaching Pastor at Willow Creek Community Church, has stumbled upon a weakness of the spiritual formation of many who would be Jesus Followers.

The third person of their trinity is not Holy Spirit. It is Holy Bible.

They read the words. Often seeking verses that sound good. Looking for people who also believe what they believe about the words.

Or, they study to the minutest detail. Reading thick books with lots of footnotes. They know more and more about less and less…until they know everything about nothing as the old joke goes about Ph.D.s.

Or, you can read books like Bob Goff’s “Everything Always” that I referenced yesterday.

A scholar can explore the various meanings of the rabbinic traditions, the Hebrew and the Greek, look at the grammar, tease out previously unwritten meanings of the second command–“And the second is like it, to love your neighbor as yourself.” Or the injunction at the end of the beatitudes where Jesus says that the person who hears his words and does them is a wise man.

Goff is a challenge. He not only treats people well, he becomes a friend. He’s not only filled with the spirit, he spreads it around.

Beautiful but Frustrating

May 8, 2018

Spring in the US Midwest, probably in any of the temperate zones, is beautiful but frustrating.

There is high wind and driven rain. There is sunshine and flowers and flowering trees and birds singing their spring mating songs.

It looks so inviting outside; you go outside and it’s still cold.

You’re glad to put winter behind; but, it’s not summer.

Maybe why TS Eliot’s most famous line is “April is the cruelest month”, but he wrote that from England. Who knows?

People are beautiful but frustrating, too. (No, I’m not writing to you in particular!) When you expect warm, you get cool. Some days are stormy; some days are sunny.

What do you do?

You take each day as it comes. Don’t look back. Don’t look ahead. Live in the moment.

I just finished Bob Goff’s book, Everybody Always: Becoming Love in a World Full of Setbacks and Difficult People. He tells great stories. He’s also crazy–or, like us rednecks used to say, crazy smart. Read the book and get inspired. He dealt with some pretty difficult people. Ever try talking to the head witch doctor of a country about Jesus?

That’s crazy.

Awareness

May 7, 2018

My body has adapted to sleeping in four different time zones over the past two weeks. I’ve slept in Germany, Ohio, Nevada, again in Ohio, Illinois, and (last night) in Ohio.

I met many nice and intelligent people, renewed old acquaintances, saw four great baseball games (OK, they were 10 year olds, but with more joy at playing than major leaguers), saw family.

This morning I’m contemplating this post and thinking about doing business with men who go out of their way to proclaim being Christian all the while owing me money, going back on agreements, and other nefarious deeds.

Then I look out the window. The flowering trees are in full bloom. There was a rose-breasted Grosbeak in the bird feeder. A little larger than our normal visitor, startlingly contrasted white and black with the beautiful rose breast. They are not frequent visitors. A delightful greeting.

Many people say they hate Mondays. Maybe they really do. I like Mondays. Starting a new week. Wonder what good I can do this week especially after a start like this.