Archive for the ‘Attitude’ Category

Hard Shelled

May 13, 2026

I remember my grandfather taking me out fishing for my first experience. I was perhaps about six years old. He came home the afternoon before with a pie pan covered with a damp cloth. Peeking inside, I saw a number of crawdads. He explained they were soft-shell crawdads. They were to be the bait we would use to catch catfish in the river.

Later in my youth, I experienced catching mature hard-shell crawdads in the shallows of a creek.

About that time, I heard the description “hard-shell Baptists.” To this day, I don’t know the details of the meaning.

I have no clue what reminded me about those experiences. But, naturally, I thought about it.

Let’s assume that transitioning from soft-shell to hard-shell is a metaphor for becoming older and becoming fixed in our ideas. We are no longer growing. Some may add an observation “closed-minded.”

My orientation to life never lost its youthful curiosity. Every day I look for something I can learn. Some people think I know a lot about the Bible. Well, I should. I led classes in it for decades. But, again, every day I discover something new I’d never thought about.

I would hate to be viewed as hard-shelled. 

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Cramming New Thinking Into Our Old Ways

May 1, 2026

Rich Dixon thought about Jesus’ metaphor of pouring new wine into old wineskins.

Of course, we have no clue what Jesus was picturing. What the heck is a wineskin? You mean they were allowed to drink wine back then?

Rich transformed the thinking from first to twenty-first century language.

It’s tempting to cram Jesus’ teaching into our old ways of thinking.

For a math teacher, I think he nailed it.

Can we think of times someone has tried to persuade us that their old way of thinking actually reflected what Jesus taught? I hope we haven’t fallen victim to reinterpreting Jesus to suit our own politics or prejudices. That would be a huge loss.

Law of Unintended Consequences

April 29, 2026

I devoted a portion of my university years studying international politics. I learned a sensitivity toward people in countries other than the US and even Western Europe. The study of the history of international actions taught me about the Law of Unintended Consequences.

It also taught me to consider alternative trains of thought.

For example, consider what we call the Golden Rule. No, I don’t mean “he who has the gold makes the rules.” I have met people who honor that one. I am thinking about “do unto others as you would like them to do unto you.”

I always adopted the meaning of doing good for other people.

Three sources in my reading last week all pointed to a nefarious side of this rule.

“Do unto others as you would like them to do unto you…so that, they will reciprocate and give you something.”

Gotta say, I am so naive that I never considered the use of the rule for manipulation.

I try to avoid being the object of manipulation. I think of it every time I open Facebook or LinkedIn (the only social media I use). These are engaged in a constant battle to manipulate us. Enter at your own risk.

I will continue to try to live by the Golden Rule. And, I guess that as I become aware of someone trying to manipulate me, I’ll decide my response from there.

What We Observe

April 24, 2026

Author Esther Hicks on where to look: “If all you did was look for things to appreciate, you would live a joyously spectacular life.”

Three Rules for Life

April 23, 2026

Coach Lou Holtz offers 3 rules: “I follow three rules: Do the right thing, do the best you can, and always show people you care.”

Repetition Builds Consistency

April 22, 2026

A truly ingrained habit forms not through motivation, but through consistency, through repeating actions until they become automatic. Through repetition. Don’t wait for motivation (he says as he’s waiting to get motivated to practice the guitar).

Because what you repeat becomes who you are.

Crucial Question to Ask of Yourself

April 21, 2026

If you want to activate more happiness in your life, ask yourself: Who am I helping grow? 

Listening Without Agreeing

April 8, 2026

You talk with a person who advances ideas that seem off to you. Like with a person I know who has bought almost every conspiracy theory alive on the internet.

The test. Can I listen without agreeing and without arguing?

Greek philosopher Aristotle on listening but not agreeing: “It is the mark of an educated man to be able to entertain a thought without accepting it.”

This remark is about 2,500 years old. I’d go him a bit modern to make it, “It is the mark of someone with equanimity and kindness who can entertain a thought without accepting it.”

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Practice Kindness

April 7, 2026

A philosophical razor consists of a principle or rule of thumb that allows one to eliminate (shave off) unlikely explanations for a phenomenon or avoid unnecessary actions.

Hanlon’s Razor describes one of my favorites. 

Never attribute to malice that which can be adequately explained by stupidity.

We interact with other people frequently. They do or say something. We take offense. Maybe it’s on the highway and we give the American one-finger salute.

Maybe these people aren’t out to get you. Maybe they have their own problems and aren’t even aware of you. Or, maybe, yes, they are just “stupid.” 

Our best response is…kindness. (He says as he helps a mother with two small children navigate leaving Starbucks.) 

I’ve never found kindness out of proportion even when dealing with those people who have (metaphorically) stabbed me in the back or revoked promises. I don’t think it’s weakness. I think it’s an attitude that allows me to forget the past and journey into the future.

Practice kindness.

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How We Interpret The Bible

April 6, 2026

Rich Dixon asked this penetrating question at Rich’s Ride Blog.

Do we use Scripture to interpret what love means – or do we use love to interpret what Scripture means?

When I sit down to read, am I asking God for the message? Or, am I looking for sentences that validate what I already think?

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