Archive for the ‘Intention’ Category

Taking Small, Progressive Steps

May 20, 2026

Many years ago, we saw a movie “What About Bob” starring Bill Murray. The phrase I remember most was “Baby steps.”

I thought of this intro while digesting this amazing conversation on Tim Ferriss’ podcast, The Most Incredible Transformation I’ve Ever Seen — Jerzy Gregorek on Autism, Cerebral Palsy, Coaching, and the Power of Micro-Progressions (#865). This conversation ranks as one of the most important I’ve ever heard. Gregorek, former four-time World’s Strongest Man, talks of guiding a young man with both Autism and Cerebral Palsy into a better life beginning with resistance training and then adding math and poetry.

The key? Gregorek didn’t treat the physical disability with rehab work. He used micro-progressive strength training. Sort of like “baby steps” leading to the ability to bench press 135 lbs. after beginning at 3 lbs.

Arnold Schwarzenegger discussed the many success stories people post on his Pump Club app. He observed why he thinks the Pump Club has been so successful. “I think it is this idea that you need to see the little steps along the way to keep yourself going. Normally people see fitness as before and after. We do it differently and celebrate every step.”

I  began thinking about a metaphor for spiritual development building upon this idea. I’ll pick up my intentional music practice. The goal for this practice includes mental development, finger dexterity, and enjoyment. (Maybe I’ll add a fourth career as a busker, who knows 😉 

  • Following a hiatus of moving and just staring at my 50-year-old guitar, I decided to begin again.
  • Purchase a new, sufficiently good instrument
  • Begin with scales to extend fingers due to my dupuytren’s (thanks to Irish and Welsh ancestry)
  • Begin work on chords and chord changes
  • Intentional practice, chord progressions in successive keys
  • Intentional practice—variety of finger-picking rhythms
  • Add voice—discovered I’m singing in different keys than before

It’s all a micro-progression.

Let’s consider spiritual formation or growth (or whatever you wish to call it).

  • Set aside quiet time at least once daily.
  • Read something uplifting—could be stories of Jesus from the New Testament or spiritual classics.
  • Begin with maybe 5 minutes. See if you can progress to 15 and then 30 minutes. Maybe then twice a day.
  • Walk outside in nature daily as much as you’re physically able.
  • Meet with 2-3 fellow seekers for coffee or soda regularly.
  • Find a service—bake cookies for a shelter’s dinner, knit blankets for homeless shelters, mow someone’s grass, there must be things within your skill set and constraints.
  • Find a place of worship that fits your personality.
  • Learn to listen—to God and to others.

Remember—baby steps. Don’t plunge in to everything trying to save the world. Take a step. Strengthen a muscle. Move to the next. You have a whole life to gradually develop the spiritual muscle leading to a life that includes love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, generosity, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control.

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Burning Time

May 8, 2026

Newsletter writer, Shane Parrish, wrote in Brain Food, “If you burn money, people call you crazy. If you burn time, they call you busy. We treat money as valuable because it’s quantifiable and time as disposable because it’s not.”

This is an intriguing thought. I’m betting we all fritter away our time. A couple days ago, my stomach was queasy. I could not focus. The good news—I was too tired and out of sorts to burn any money. The bad news—I did nothing useful with my time. No study. No writing. No practicing.

A better thought:

Shall we neither burn money nor time? Instead focus…with intention. And if the body’s system is out of whack, then that’s where the focus should go. That’s the real problem. Deal with it with rest or medication or a walk.

Know where the real current problem lies. Deal with it first.

Sometimes we’re so busy trying to do one thing that we miss the original constraint that must be solved.

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The Practice of the Presence of God

March 30, 2026

Saint Pio of Pietrelcina stated: “Through the study of books one seeks God; by meditation one finds Him.”

We find in the Bible and other teaching the terms prayer, meditation, and contemplation. These are spiritual practices (also known as disciplines). These are a structured attempt to get in touch with and deliberately reflect upon revelations of God. 

I recall a time at university when I thought my life’s purpose was to be an intellectual. Then I discovered that knowledge in the head can be a dead end. The experience of the presence of God can be found through intentional practices such as prayer, meditation, and contemplation. Surprisingly, also through service.

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Our Tendency For Yes

March 27, 2026

I recently heard this phrase a podcaster applied to himself—promiscuous overcommitment

A great phrase.

I recently wrote about what “yes” is powerful enough to override the default “no”. 

Think on this phrase.

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Two Questions For Your Church

March 26, 2026

Dallas Willard said a church must ask two questions–one what is our plan for making disciples, and two how is it going?

I concur. But I also ask, what am I doing for the cause?

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It’s All for Show

February 10, 2026

Many have observed that politics today is all about the show. Who does the best and fastest posting of a viral video on social media?

Rather than rational thought or governing quietly and well, politicians all seem to gravitate to the new toy—viral video. And not only politicians. Grifters looking for easy wealth also flock to the camera.

Believe it or not, Jesus had something to say about doing things for show. This is found in the Gospel according to Luke.

To some who were confident of their own righteousness and looked down on everyone else, Jesus told this parable: “Two men went up to the temple to pray, one a Pharisee and the other a tax collector. The Pharisee stood by himself and prayed: ‘God, I thank you that I am not like other people—robbers, evildoers, adulterers—or even like this tax collector. I fast twice a week and give a tenth of all I get.’

“But the tax collector stood at a distance. He would not even look up to heaven, but beat his breast and said, ‘God, have mercy on me, a sinner.’

“I tell you that this man, rather than the other, went home justified before God. For all those who exalt themselves will be humbled, and those who humble themselves will be exalted.”

God appreciates the many who quietly go about His business of loving others (feeding the hungry, visiting the prisoner, and the other things Jesus advised). No viral video needed.

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Where Conflicts Arise

January 22, 2026

Looking for some common-sense deep psychology? Try reading the early Jesus-followers. Try this insight from James in his circular letter to the first gatherings of followers. This also gives us some insight into the first churches. Their problems were not unlike ours.

What causes fights and quarrels among you? Don’t they come from your desires that battle within you? You desire but do not have, so you kill. You covet but you cannot get what you want, so you quarrel and fight. You do not have because you do not ask God. When you ask, you do not receive, because you ask with wrong motives, that you may spend what you get on your pleasures.

My current meditation teacher is leading us into exploration of thoughts and feelings in our sits. We learn to sit in awareness and observe. Then, perhaps, we label those thoughts and feelings—memories, plans, imaginings, for example. We learn that these things arise. We also learn to observe and recognize them. But not to let them monopolize us.

Do we desire something? Recognize it. Deal with it. Let it drift away. Through awareness we prevent it from grabbing our inner powers and derailing our spiritual path.

Let us check our motives and desires. Are we focused only on ourselves? Are we focused on what we desire for others? That’s entirely different. Evaluate your motives. Intentionally push them toward God’s wishes.

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Close Out One Year–Begin Another

December 30, 2025

The end of a season of life calls for reflection and anticipation. I’m posting this on December 30. We are all, no matter the culture or geography, closing out a calendar year. Sometimes a semester of school ends. Or graduation from high school or university. Or a child marries and leaves the nest.

Reflecting on the past brings with it opportunities to consider what we did to help people during the past time and, perhaps, where we fell short. We failed to put a donation into a cup somewhere. We failed to give a kind word when it would have helped so much. 

Perhaps we read something that deepened our spiritual life. Perhaps we had deep conversations. Perhaps we did help someone in need.

In the Examen promulgated by Ignatius of Loyola, we are told to review the day, face our shortcomings, and look forward to the new day.

I suggest that you avoid New Year’s Resolutions. Unless, that is, you make something very specific. Perhaps I will walk five days per week. Or, I will work out at the fitness center three days per week. (Not like Dave, who goes into our fitness center every Monday, steps one foot on the treadmill, then goes out to coffee hour and tells the men he went to the fitness center today 😉

Best is to be intentional about what sort of person you will be this year.

  • I am the type of person who intentionally eats nutritious meals.
  • I am the type of person who is physically fit.
  • I am the type of person who meditates and prays to deepen my spiritual life.
  • I am the type of person who is kind and generous to others along the way. 

And, if we slip up a day, that’s life. And, we go on to the next day.

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Fear Not!

December 29, 2025

That is the most common “command” in the Bible.

Every time a person in the Bible has a spiritual encounter with a messenger of God, the first words from the messenger are, “Fear not!”

I have had “nudges” from God and have had some spiritual experience within meditation. But I imagine if I had a full on vision, I would need those first words of calming.

I talked a bit yesterday about Jesus’s invitation. It’s simple, yet life changing. He needed a bit of that Fear Not discussion with his closest followers more than once. I imagine that many of his followers during the ensuing 20 centuries have needed that bit of reassurance.

Maybe that is why today we can find many who say they believe in Jesus. How many are actually followers? Obeying his commands about loving one another.

Many, it seems, put their own pride and prejudices ahead of these simple instructions from the Master. When we finally come into awareness of our wrong path, it’s time to stop and take stock.

Perhaps at that point we need to consider honest answers to these questions. What if you were not afraid? What path are you on? Who are you following? Yourself? Has someone led you astray?

You don’t need to be a theologian. It’s simple. Get up and move—“Follow me.”

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Being Busy or Seeing Progress?

November 25, 2025

My mom’s younger brother, Uncle Doyle, passed along to me his love of the comic strip Pogo. Walt Kelly was insightful and witty. In one cartoon, Pogo the possum notes, “Having lost sight of our objectives, we redoubled our efforts.”

Much software development happened because they could do it, not because it was good for society. Take for instance monitoring applications. Especially used during Covid when people had to work from home, managers could see how busy their employees were. Not necessarily how productive, but busy, for sure.

A recent The Pump Club Newsletter noted, “Busyness becomes a performance. We confuse activity for accomplishment because slowing down feels uncomfortable. Stillness can feel like failure.”

The reality? “But ask anyone who’s truly built something, whether their health, a business, a relationship, or a legacy. Progress doesn’t come from frantic motion. It comes from directed motion. Fewer things done with more intention. Effort pointed in the right direction.”

What are you working on? Health? Fitness? Prayer or meditative life? Service? Study?

One day at a time with intention doing what you need. Choose your direction, follow the path.

Movement can be a treadmill. Progress is a path. One keeps you occupied; the other gets you somewhere. 

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