Can Money Buy Happiness?

May 4, 2012

So, how many sermons or homilies have you heard on ethics where the speaker will inevitably get to, “money can’t buy happiness”? Michael Norton, a researcher at the University of British Columbia, decided to try some experiments. He started with Canadian university students and eventually took the research global.

He spoke at a TED conference (Google it, you hear some great short talks and learn a lot). Let him describe his results.

Oh, the answer is yes–but only if you spend it on others.

Here’s a link to the video.

Finding Your Vision for Leadership

May 3, 2012

Earlier I wrote about leadership as a spiritual discipline. The basic process of leadership is having a vision of the future and articulating that vision such that you get others to align with it.

But how do you get the vision in the first place? Do you just sit around gazing at your navel waiting for God to strike you? Well, actually, you have to help God.

The vision comes from looking around at your situation. Maybe in your church. Or your community. Or your business. And it occurs to you that there is a problem that is looking for a solution. You figure out how to solve that problem. That’s your vision. Now your journey of leadership has begun. Good is it’s something you’re interested in. Better is if it is something that many others are also interested in. Best is a solution that is a benefit and joy to other people.

Go for it. What are you waiting for? There are lots of problems waiting for a leader.

Loose the Bonds of Injustice

May 2, 2012

I was listening to Bill Hybels, senior pastor of Willow Creek, talk last weekend about commitment to serving the poor and disadvantaged. He suggested reading Isaiah 58 every day for a month. Among the things that God says is, “Is not this the fast that I choose: to loose the bonds of injustice, to undo the thongs of the yoke, to let the oppressed go free, and to break every yoke?”

This message came just after I had listened to at least three talks over the past couple of weeks from people who had visited “third world” countries recently. The reports included descriptions of the results of modern corporations moving manufacturing and production operations to these countries that have corrupt governments with few regulations. Nothing prevents the companies from taking shortcuts in processes. They dump wastes into rivers resulting in water unfit to support life. People were thrown off land that had supported them perhaps for generations and who now had no food and no means of support.

As a manufacturing professional, I’m grieved that we take advantage of people so easily and flippantly. Ethics apply everywhere. In fact, ethics is also good business. Being careless with waste and environment is a sign of sloppy, wasteful thinking. Actually, long term profits and success result from doing just the opposite of managers who take the easy way out.

Most of us will not be making those decisions. The question remains, when faced with decisions or choices about whether to grab a short-term easy benefit or whether to help other people in the long run, I, for one, hope that I choose the latter.

And for reinforcement, I’ll be reading Isaiah 58 daily for the month of May. Just to write it in my mind.

All They Need is Love

May 1, 2012

I must have three topics swirling in my head to write about this morning, and then I read a blog from Jon Swanson. He was writing about what he learned on Monday and related this:

“I listened to a 25 year old podcast while driving to get Hope. What new followers of Jesus need, said LeRoy Eims, is love and protection. Before they need rules, before they need scolding or expectations that they should immediately figure out everything that the church hasn’t been able to do right for the past 2000 years, they need love. And explanations.”

This is a lot of what Paul was saying in the last chapters of Romans. Treat others with respect and love. Yes, sometimes we are too quick to pile on rules. We tell the new Christian, “Congratulations. Now that you are one of us you need to stop doing [lots of things] and start doing [lots of things].” But they just need love. Actually, that’s what we all need.

Living a Disciplined Life

April 30, 2012

Benjamin Franklin was full of sayings. In fact, I just saw a blog that talked about 12. Try this one on for size:

“Early to bed and early to rise makes a man healthy, wealth and wise.”

Paul devotes fully a quarter of his letter to the Romans to practical advice about how to live from the time you rise until the time you go to bed. In one section, he discusses all the things that you typically do late at night. Under the cover of darkness, lots of sinful activity occurs. Young police officers whom I’ve known and who want to be in the action want to work the shift that covers from about 11 pm until about 3 am. Lots of stuff happening there.

To live a fruitful life, making a habit of early to bed and early to rise is the first habit you should cultivate. For many people that is tough. But you accomplish much more with that lifestyle and keep yourself free of many temptations.

Leadership as a Spiritual Practice

April 27, 2012

I’ve just returned from a business trip, and I’ve been thinking about leadership. Had a chance to see the foremost leader in the industry segment that I cover in my “other life,” and also saw the results of that leadership in the people of a multi-billion dollar company.

So I began to think about leadership within the faith community as a spiritual practice or discipline. Are you a leader? Small group or major church, there are many leaders. In my years of involvement, I’ve seen leaders succeed and fail. I’ve seen some start fast and then lose momentum and falter.

What if we all sometimes stepped back from our busy lives and reflected upon our own experiences and attitudes? What are our motivations? Have we even considered that? Are we just in a leadership role because someone asked us to take on a job?

Leadership as a spiritual practice involves consciously aligning our vision of where to lead with our spiritual calling. Leadership as a spiritual practice involves valuing the people on the team (or even building a team) and valuing those whom you are serving.

I recorded this podcast about leadership. It was targeted to my readership on manufacturing and automation, but I suddenly realized its relevance for this readership, too. I am on iTunes, although these podcasts are all about manufacturing. Perhaps I’ll start another series for this audience.

Christian Business People

April 23, 2012

There are two types of Christian business people–those who flaunt it and those who quietly live the life. I’ve met both in my life. And I hate to say this, but the former ones scare me. If I meet one, I instinctively reach for my pocket to see if my wallet is still there. That sounds cynical, but I’ve met only a handful and every one with whom I’ve had a business dealing owes me money promised.

I’ve met many of the second type. They have been universally ethical, honest and upright in their dealings. And great people with whom to share dinner.

I try to know the line between analysis and cynicism. Experience can be a bitter teacher. I typically trust people until I’ve been given reason not to. It’s only hurt me a handful of times–and I recover quickly anyway.

What brings this up is listening to a guy at church Sunday who is trying to be both types while only exhibiting the traits of the latter. If anyone can break the mold, he can. That would be fantastic. We have too many of those negative images. We need a positive one. What I picked up out of his talk was the way he talked about dealing with people. It’s like he cares about them. And that’s the best marketing you can have.

I hope he succeeds.

Live for Others As A Spiritual Discipline

April 20, 2012

Paul’s letter to the Romans is an orderly description of the progression of incorporating Spiritual discipline–or Spiritual practices–in your life. He builds toward the final section (Chapters 12-15) which is all about how to live your life. What is important after believing in Jesus as your path to God (or whatever words from your tradition you wish to use) is what you do from the time you get up in the morning until the time you go to bed at night.

He is quite comprehensive. About the only thing Western people (and maybe a lot of Easterners, too) would disagree with would be the first part of Chapter 13 where Paul describes the relationship to government. He asks why fear them. If you do good, then you have nothing to fear. On the other hand, he probably at that time had a benign attitude toward Rome. He no doubt thought, like almost everyone of his time, that Rome was never going anywhere.

In the time since (and I bet Paul reconsidered much of that thought 10-15 years later), we have seen governments come and go. We have seen how governments mistreat their citizens–for example when the various governments (federal, state and local) actively suppressed black people in the U.S. I grew up intellectually and morally in a time of witness against a government that practiced segregation. Against a government that practiced sending armies into small countries and killing tens of thousands. It’s common these days for people globally to stand as a witness against corrupt and tyrannical regimes.

Practicing life in the Spirit must go beyond your faith community and your inner life. It must go beyond celebration and worship and study, prayer and meditation. It must go out into the streets, into  the workplace, into your relationships–and do right at all times. And that takes discipline!

Overburdened With Spiritual Practices

April 18, 2012

Sometimes with all good intentions, I add a spiritual practice. Then maybe a physical practice. Maybe I want to add more study to my meditation practice and then look for another service. Then I feel a need to run further (which means take more time for my morning workout). And then when do I find time for some additional Yoga practice to try new poses?

Our pastor started this line of thinking a few weeks ago when he asked if we’ve added so many spiritual practices that we feel like we’re batting a bunch of balloons trying to keep them all in the air. Leo Babauta, a writer who focuses on how to live each day, talked about how we tend to overplan. We sort of overlook how much time it takes to do things. We lay out a plan for the day–or maybe for a vacation–only to find that there aren’t enough hours in the day.

This happens to me frequently. I feel like the guy in the old FedEx commercial who kept answering the phone–“I can do that”, “I can do that”, “I can do that”, “How am I ever gonna do all that?”

So we all need to release the inner OCD and learn to just do what we can, relax, go with the flow. Pick the most important thing for the moment and do it, not worrying about the other stuff.

I sometimes say, only half-jokingly, that part of my philosophy of life comes from the old Mad Magazine mascot Alfred E. Newman, who would say through that goofy grin, “What? Me worry?”

By the way–OCD=obsessive-compulsive disorder–you’ve got it, you know it. And where else can you find a Christian blog that quotes both ZenHabits and Mad Magazine in the same post? Enjoy the day, one moment at a time.

Need More Laws or More Ethics and Responsibility

April 16, 2012

I’ve been involved with athletics for many years, even though I’ve never really been a “jock.” But I’ve worked with hundreds of young people teaching them about how to referee soccer and how to grow up (I hope). But there has been a lot of coverage this year about egregious moral problems with college athletics (gasp!). I know, that’s hard to believe. But the charges of sexual abuse garnered more headlines than the games at times.

The New York Times published an article citing some lawmakers’ needs to pass more laws. That always seems to be the human response. Years ago, there was a comic strip entitled “There Oughta Be a Law.” The purpose of the law? Make people behave in an ethical manner. I think that has been tried–and found wanting.

God tried laws to train His people so that they would become the light of the world. Instead, they found the laws inconvenient, at best. It just didn’t work. Paul wrote about that in Romans. We need the Laws written in our hearts–that is, we need to make them a part of our life. We live the ethical life that God wants for us.

All it takes is for one ethical person to stand up. Will I have that courage when it counts? Hope so.