Working On Your Own Spiritual Development

February 15, 2012

There is a book that influenced a generation, “Zen and the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance,” by Robert Pirsig. The book was neither about Zen or motorcycles. In it Pirsig said, “The real motorcycle you’re working on is yourself.”

Today I’m thinking about working on practical things. Your (and my) daily life. Last week I was swamped with meetings and took little time for myself. Whose fault was that? Mine, of course. Why? Because I booked a schedule that did not include time for me and my spiritual development.

When that happens, you can lose balance and perspective in life. For me as a reporter and writer, that can be dangerous.

The solution is to schedule my time—in my calendar application—not only with appointments with others but also appointments for myself. This is also good to assure time with spouse, time with kids, time to pray, time for service. “Hey, can you…?” “No, I’mm busy.”

Now, if I could only do as I say 😉

Spiritual, Mind and Body Disciplines

February 13, 2012

I had only a few long-term goals for myself that I first conceived as a teenager. These were never written as new-age self-help gurus preach–with detailed plans and all that stuff. But they have been a guiding force for my entire life. First, I would never have a “beer-belly”, that is, I’d stay lean and fit. Second, I’d continue to develop my mind for as long as my physical body allowed. Third, my spiritual development would lead to wisdom, that is, I’d gain perspective and insight.

The discipline of the first goal is watching what I eat and exercising. Eat less and exercise more is still the best method of weight loss and toning. As soon as I finish this post, I’m off to the gym for my usual workout.

The discipline of the second goal is reading good books. I keep a list. Whenever someone recommends a good book, I write it down and then buy it. I seldom watch TV (although the Serie A match between AC Milan and Udinese yesterday was entertaining) and seldom read novels purely for the story (although I find murder mysteries to be a great way to relax yet still think). A further discipline is to reflect on the books.

The discipline of the third is continual reading of the Bible and spiritual leaders such as Augustine (St. Augustine if you’re Catholic). This also entails meditation and contemplation.

In this third discipline, I’ve found that the ancient tradition is correct–you will at some point early in your contemplation be shown by God all the sins that you have done and that you are capable of doing. You will experience this apartness from God to the depth of your soul such that you’ll never forget. But then, you will experience the saving grace of God–not as an intellectual concept but as a reality deep within your experience.

I mention all this, because once again I tried to get my small group to see the list of sins that Paul assembled at the beginning of the letter to the Romans in such a way that it applies to each of them. It is too easy to read the list and say, “I’m saved, so I’m past all these. Now I can point my finger at the sins of others and piously tell them to accept Jesus and be saved.”

No, this is an experience that we all need to recall. We are all sinners. We carry that with us. But if we have turned to God and let Him help, then we can also experience grace. Without the first, we’ll never have the second.

Discipline Amidst Busyness

February 12, 2012

I didn’t really take the week off. It was one of those travel weeks where the day began early, breakfast meetings, individual meetings, lunch meetings, more meetings, dinner with clients until midnight, then do it over. The schedule is at once energizing and tiring. And there is little time for contemplation unless I cut my 5 hours of sleep to 4 hours.

A weak excuse, I know. I’m in charge of most of my schedule. With discipline, I could carve out a half hour or so. As I reflect on a very busy week, I am forced to re-evaluate how I budget my time during my travels.

We all have busyness challenges. One woman told me she already gets up at 5 just to get ready for work when I suggested that we just get up a little earlier to read and contemplate and pray. Then I can’t follow my own advice.

Paul described us when he said that he doesn’t do what he wants to do and does what he doesn’t want to do. Guess it happens to us all.

I also took a weekend class last week (sacrificing half the Super Bowl) to improve my Yoga teaching skills and knowledge. Some Christian fundamentalists are worried that Yoga is a religion. It’s not. It’s a discipline–a way of disciplining your body so that it is fit for the rigors of contemplation and prayer. It all fits together–your body, your mind and your spirit. When it all comes together–what a wonderful thing.

I’m a work in progress. How about you.

Where You Set Your Mind

February 3, 2012

The Spiritual Disciplines are things you can do to order your life so that you can center you life on God. On the other hand, you need to focus on God before and during your practice of a Spiritual Discipline.

I think often about attention–where you place your attention. When you are having a conversation with another person, where is your attention? Is it on what you’ll say? Or is it on what the person is saying? Are you trying to understand them?

It’s the same with God. My current study is the letter to the Romans. Paul says there, “For those who live according to the flesh set their minds on the things of the flesh, but those who live according to the Spirit set their minds on the things of the Spirit.”

Victor Frankl was a psychologist who survived the Nazi prison camps. As he survived himself and watched others either survive or succumb, he developed a practice around this idea, “You have one freedom–the freedom to choose your attitude toward your circumstances.” You can choose what to think about. I don’t mean the random thoughts that flash through your mind. I mean the thoughts you choose to dwell on.

Are you feeling down? You can choose to think about something that is helpful. You can choose to think upon the many blessings that you have. You may not change your circumstances, but you can choose the way you respond to them. This may sound superficial, but it is not. Trust me. This is serious business. I’ve done it. It can change your day, week, month, life.

Just so, when you decide to follow a Spiritual Discipline, you can choose your attitude. If your thoughts are on Jesus, then you’ll have one attitude. If your thoughts are more along the lines of “Oh, man, I gotta sit and pray again. Oh well, let’s get it over with,” then you will not receive the fruit.

What, I’m Sinful Too?

February 2, 2012

Albert Einstein famously once said to make every explanation as simple as possible, but not simpler. Goes along with combining the Discipline of Simplicity with the Discipline of Study. People just love to make simple things complex. I see it where I work all the time. I’m on a committee that sets referee development policies for soccer referees in Ohio. Same thing. There are people who just want to make everything rule-bound and complex.

I was listening to a small group leader last weekend introduce Paul’s letter to the Romans and said it was Paul at his convoluted best. Hard to figure out what he’s saying. Wait a minute! Is this the same letter that, in its simplicity, deeply influenced Augustine, Luther, Wesley, Barth and others? It completely changed the face of Christianity–at least twice.

Humans seem to love rules. It divides people into those who follow the rules and those who don’t. That way comparisons as to whom is good or not can be made.

The last part of the first chapter is exquisite preaching. As you can tell from what follows, it sets the stage. Paul didn’t mean for us to parse through the list of wrong doing, pounce on one (say homosexuality), and then say “There it is. I was right. Paul hates those people I hate. I’m good; they are bad.”

No, Paul wanted us to read through that list and say to ourselves, “Oh my God. I have behaviors and attitudes and feelings that build up a wall between God and me. I am full of sin. What can I do to become right with God?”

We know from the context of the entire letter, that is what he expected and wanted. We know because he answers that last question. Hint: nothing. It’s God’s grace 😉 Or, as he goes on to say, leave the judging to God.

Spiritual Discipline of Study

February 1, 2012

Regarding my practical life, I am a disciple of David Allen’s way called Getting Things Done named after the title of his first book. He describes how to reduce the stress of holding too many things in your head and not knowing what to do next.

In his second book, “Ready for Anything,” he quotes a writer, J. Krishnamurti, who said, “Discipline does not mean suppression and control, nor is it adjustment to a pattern or ideology. It means the mind sees ‘what is’ and learns from ‘what is’.”

I thought this fit very well with the discussion of our small group around the discipline of study. Just last Sunday in another small group I witnessed how people can read an entire chapter of a book and lock on to one idea that reinforced a prejudice they brought to the study. Rather than seeing ‘what is’ and learning from it, many of the people bent the words to fit what they already “knew.”

When you study, approach the text with a receptive mind. But also a questioning one. What did the writer mean? What is the context–historical, social, philosophical? What were the writers contemporaries saying? How does this fit with other things that writer has published?

Dr. Henry Cloud, in his latest book “Necessary Endings,” describes the wise person as one who sees reality and adjusts to fit it and the fool as one who bends reality to fit what he already believes. I think in study we need to practice that discipline of seeing what is and learning from it. Always approach spiritual writings ready to be surprised and having your view of reality shaken. That’s what the Spirit does to us.

Discipline of Simplicity

January 31, 2012

We were discussing the spiritual discipline of simplicity this week in a small group. You might think of simplicity as just throwing out a bunch of stuff over-crowding your living space. And that could be one manifestation. But simplicity begins with the mind and the spirit.

While meditating on this, I came across this thought from Lee Segall, “It is possible to own too much. A man with one watch knows what time it is; a man with two watches is never quite sure.”

Too much stuff clutters  your mind and you’re never quite sure where you are. Perhaps it pops out in your life as the need to talk too much–to justify your meaning. Jesus told us to simplify your speech in order to become more trustworthy. He said to let your “yes” be yes and your “no” be no. Don’t overcomplicate your life and your speech.

An uncluttered workspace allows you to focus on what is the task at hand. An uncluttered living space soothes the mind. An uncluttered mind allows you to relax and think about what’s important. An uncluttered soul is full of peace and joy and is a blessing to others.

Lost Opportunity for Reconciliation

January 30, 2012

Reading the beginning of Romans where Paul is trying hard to convince people to leave old categories separating people behind and enter a new, universal fellowship with God.

Then I thought about the apostles at the same time who went into Syria–not only to Jews who lived there, but also to Syrians. Christianity had spread to Greeks and Romans already before Paul. It had spread among Syrians and Egyptians (we know from reading the Desert Fathers among other writings).

Just think if people had adopted that model. Think of the strife, fighting and bitterness in so much of the world today that could have been avoided.

But then I think of the hundreds of years of European history where Christians fought against each other in often bloody wars. Catholics against Protestant. So, I guess the mere adoption of a Christian facade overlaid on tribal identity wasn’t quite the answer.

We need, individually, to return to Paul’s writing and absorb it. As he said to his own time, “there is neither Jew nor Greek.” We need to feel that in our hearts. We will not categorize people in order to judge them. We will accept people and love them.

Spiritual Formation – First You Must See Yourself

January 27, 2012

I’m starting another study of Romans. I haven’t spent time in the letter for many years. It is a guide to spiritual formation.

Socrates famously said, “Know thyself.” Paul begins his letter to the Romans (after the greetings and his bio) with a list of all the bad things that humans are capable of–and in fact do. I think every writing I’ve read by people who have seriously taken the spiritual formation journey have experienced somewhere early on the fact that they are capable of much sin.

The same happened to me years ago. And the images still live. I was deep in meditation and suddenly before me was every type of sin (well, almost all I suppose). And I was convicted of sins I’d done, sins I’d thought, sins that I was capable of committing. It wasn’t until then that God became the most real to me.

Paul must have written Romans out of a similar experience. First he became aware of the immensity of sin and how it separates one from God. Then he began the journey to God which led to the Damascus Road experience with Jesus.

As long as we deny that we do things that are selfish, indulgent, hurtful, we will never clear the path to recognizing God. When I finally got around to reading the Desert Fathers–those weird guys who escaped to the deserts of Egypt and Syria in the first couple of hundred years after Jesus–I expected tips on spiritual insight. What I found was a guide to how to overcome layer after layer of sin that separated them from God.

By the way, I sort of dislike the word “sin.” It is perhaps overused and can become “church speak” that might lose its power over people. I have not come up with a better word that will drive home the fact that there are things you do, thoughts you dwell on that separate you from being free to live in the Spirit.

In my other “life” of process control in manufacturing, there is a phrase you can’t control it if you don’t measure it. Well, in spiritual life, if you don’t recognize the things that separate you from God, then you will not have true communion with God. You’ll be like Adam, who knew God, but he didn’t live with Him.

Live Simply in the Spirit

January 26, 2012

Jesus gave some advice about keeping your integrity and living simply. He said to not swear oaths with many words, but to, “Let your yes be yes and your no be no.”

Just now I am studying deeply the Disciplines of Simplicity and Solitude (or Silence) from Richard Foster’s book, “The Celebration of Discipline.” These Disciplines seem to go together quite nicely. You go into solitude and silence to discover what God wants you to say and do, and them you act simply without fanfare and self-centeredness.

As I contemplate upon these, I grabbed some time from my travels this week to check the headlines. We’re in an intense political season, and this week is a big one what with President Obama giving his State of the Union address and the Republicans lining up to blast it (even before they heard it). In checking Tuesday’s headlines, I saw some congresspeople spouting off many words that were actually contradicted by other news headlines about the economy on the same front page of the newspaper.

And I thought, how can all these people get up and say what they say with a straight face? No wonder the American people by and large long for a leader who speaks simply, with force and depth. One who isn’t merely trying to score debate points or make himself or herself (although there are a noticeable lack of females in this election cycle) look better than they are.

I sincerely hope I don’t come across that way. Or that you do. Live simply. Say what needs to be said–no more. Speak from the fruits of your solitude as you seek God’s guidance.

I’m just glad I chose a different career path than that of politician.