Those Who Cannot Remember The Past

March 2, 2018

Those who cannot remember the past are condemned to repeat it. –George Santayana

The history of Ohio where I am from does not extend much before 1750 or so. A few roaming bands of Native Americans (actually people who immigrated earlier than Europeans) and a few French beaver trappers populated the forests.

I’ve talked about the Amsterdam Museum that we visited a couple of days ago. Although there was history before, much of the tour started at around 1200.

Beginning seriously in the early 1500s with Martin Luther’s 95 Theses and continuing with John Calvin, John Knox, and several other thinkers, a movement began that divided Europe, led to the very nasty Thirty Years’ War, and echoes even unto today.

The ideas were one thing. But the result was firing up people under the guise of belief. Lines were drawn. Families split. People who found themselves in the minority in a region emigrated to other, safer regions.

Catholics prided themselves with ornate art. Statues of saints and Jesus and Mary adorned buildings. The Protestants were plain people. They regarded such things as idolatry. Dostoyevsky pondered such a division in conversations between Ivan and Alyosha in The Brothers Karamazov.

The result as revealed by paintings from the time on display at the museum showed mobs of people attacking a Catholic Church and tearing down those statues and other religious trappings. One painting I recall showed the “renovated” church at a Sunday Protestant service where the focus was on the pulpit where the pastor preached rather than on statues of Christ on the cross.

The faces on the mob shown in the paintings are what struck me. It may have been ideas to Luther, Calvin, et.al., but they inspired action definitely not in keeping with Jesus’ commands.

In America, we have become much more idea-centric trying to stir up masses to political action. Does this really reflect the growth of the church as revealed in Acts 2? Have we forgotten that political wins can readily turn into political losses? Those who live by the sword….

As for me, I’d love to see the term evangelical return to its root meaning describing one who spreads the “Good News.” I am hopeful.

Don’t Stop Kids When They Are Skateboarding

March 1, 2018

Vacation is one of my ideal times for reading. I do have to fit it in amongst the sightseeing that my wife prefers. Although we walked almost 6 miles yesterday, the temperature was in the low 20s F and with wind chill felt like 6 F. But we also toured Anne Frank’s house and the Van Gogh museum, had Dutch pancakes, and I was hit by a car backing up (not a problem other than momentary flash of “what the heck are you doing”).

The book I finished was Jordan B. Peterson’s 12 Rules For Life: An Antidote to Chaos. The book is filled with wisdom from a practicing clinical psychologist and top rated university lecturer. He does delve deeply into mythology, brings in the New Testament, and explains much from Dostoyevsky, Nietzsche, and others. It is also humorous at times, deeply personal, and wise.

He concludes with these questions he asked of himself and a final plea:

What shall I do to strengthen my spirit? Do not tell lies, or do what you despise. What shall I do to ennoble my body? Use it only in the service of my soul. What shall I do with the most difficult of questions? Consider them the gateway to the path of life. What shall I do with the poor man’s plight? Strive through right example to lift his broken heart. What shall I do when the great crowd beckons? Stand tall and utter my broken truths.

I hope that my writing has proved useful to you. I hope it revealed things you knew that you did not know you knew. I hope the ancient wisdom I discussed provides you with strength. I hope it brightened the spark within you. I hope you can straighten up, sort out your family, and bring peace and prosperity to your community. I hope, in accordance with Rule 11 (Do not bother children when they are skateboarding), that you strengthen and encourage those who are committed to your care instead of protecting them to the point of weakness.

The skateboarding rule regards the problems generated by overprotective mothers (and sometimes fathers) who refuse to let their children grow up, develop strength, and leave the nest. This is definitely a boomer parent problem that I have dealt with on the soccer pitch and my wife in the classroom.

I have no idea where I developed the idea at a young age that the duty of a parent is to develop strong adults out of the children entrusted to us who become contributing members of society. Since they both (unfortunately 😉 ) read these thoughts, they can comment a rebuttal. The bad part is they are no longer dependent. The good part is they are no longer dependent–probably since their mid-late teens, just when developmental psychologists say they should. If you are raising kids, there are several of the rules that you should definitely read. If you are developing yourself, the entire book is for you.

Rage

February 28, 2018

We are vacationing in Amsterdam this week. Yesterday following a brief “power nap” we headed out to explore. The main stop was the Amsterdam Museum. Here was represented the history of Amsterdam.

This brought memories of the first half of the 20th Century. Today is a visit to Anne Frank’s house.

We in America have experienced yet another rage of angry young men (boys) with arsenals. Very quietly in the late 1800s and first half of 1900s witnessed a more widespread, but hidden, rage against people of African and Jewish heritage. Think Ku Klux Klan hangings and shootings out in the “piney woods.”

Then you come to Europe and are reminded of the very public, and thorough, rage against Jewish people. The idea once again grows that the whole thing was just fiction–like the moon landing was a fiction–perpetrated by those who would like once again to vent rage against those who are different from them.

Those of us who meditate to experience God’s presence often also experience knowledge of the depths of sin, depravity, and violence that lies within us, ready to capture our consciousness. It seems you have to understand just how much capability lies within you before you can experience truly God’s grace and enlightenment.

In the midst of finger-pointing and denial, it is instructive to us all to ponder whether we could participate in a society’s rage against others.

Are You An Important Person

February 27, 2018

Are you an important person?

According to this article in Big Think, “the answer you give may indicate to psychologists how narcissistic you are. And on a societal level, the answer people give is changing. In 1963, when adolescents were asked if they considered themselves important, only 12% answered affirmatively. 30 years later, that percentage had risen to 80.”

“Narcissfism is on the rise in modern Western societies and scientists are trying to figure out why. Some hypothesize that individual narcissism follows from the culture someone lives in: the more individualistic the culture, the more narcissistic people tend to be.”

A chance to study the effects of culture came with the reunification of Germany. Researchers questioned people from each side of the Wall.
“The results showed that the participants from former West Germany scored higher on narcissistic grandiosity compared with the participants from former East Germany, even after controlling for gender and age. Interestingly, however, individuals from former East Germany had higher self-esteem than those from West Germany. This demonstrates that narcissism and self-esteem are not the same thing.”

The researchers point out that:

Self-esteem, defined as global evaluation of the self, is related to narcissism. However, recent data provide evidence that narcissism differs from self-esteem in various domains. Narcissism and high self-esteem both include positive self-evaluations, but the entitlement, exploitation, sense of superiority, and negative evaluation of others that are associated with narcissism are not necessarily observed in individuals with high self-esteem.

I observe narcissistic behavior often. In others, of course. 😉 There are ways we can improve ourselves. “Developing mindfulness, honoring your promises, respecting other people’s space, needs and desires, as well as facilitating the process of self-acceptance and forgiveness are all good practices to start with.”

The Psychology of Overcoming

February 26, 2018

Perhaps to paraphrase Willy Nelson “I’m Looking for Ideas In All the Wrong Places”. However, I read somewhat widely. I’m also fascinated by philosophers and psychologists whose ideas passed on to those who would misuse them and thus earn them a bad reputation among proper Westerners.

I was captured by a thought and a line of argument from Karl Marx, for example, that I would have done well to explore to the completion of my masters (even though the university closed the graduate department while I was there). He explored how humans had become alienated from their labor due to industrialization–the demise of craftsman and the rise of workers. As fate would have it, I’m a writer and analyst specifically on industrialization. But Marx was driven by his passions–how else to explain ignoring his wife and many children while burying himself in the London library researching how businessmen and capitalist economics (then somewhat new) oppressed workers. His followers–even more passion.

But I came today to talk about Nietzsche. Talk about your screwed up guy–he was a preacher’s kid raised by his mother and her two sisters. Need I say more?

I spotted this essay by Scotty Hendricks in my daily dose of a site called Big Think about the psychology of Nietzsche. Many scholars believe that Freud and Jung both began their investigations because of him.

Hendricks says:

He also understood that outside influences could have major effects on the of psyches of individuals. He explains in Human All Too Human that “Direct self-observation is not nearly sufficient for us to know ourselves: we need history, for the past flows on within us in a hundred waves.” Hinting that he understands that our deeper selves are influenced by many more factors than meets the eye. He lists among those factors culture and history, alongside our upbringings and a multitude of drives.

That we still have animal drives is a fact we often try to suppress. But one that Nietzsche saw as a mere fact and one to be dealt with. Dubbed “The Beast Within” by Zarathustra, these drives towards sex and aggression were being suppressed by an archaic morality which saw them as wicked. Nietzsche saw this repression as causing potential energy to go to waste. He argued that it was much better to understand that we have these primal drives and that’s alright, so long as they can be subdued and harnessed.

I think we ignore these basic ideas at our peril. If you read ancient Christian writers, for example John Climacus one of my favorites, you pick up some similar basic ideas.

We have these drives and emotions. We are living in a time of wallowing in our emotions–just check out your social media stream if you dare. The shouting and division that occurs daily changes only due to the topic of the day.

We ignore at the peril of our spiritual health and development that little phrase, “so long as they can be subdued and harnessed.” Climacus wrote “The Ladder of Divine Ascent” analyzing each of the drives and emotions and how to overcome them with spiritual formation some 1,500 years before Nietzsche. Someone should do another one for modern people. Living in the spirit is not for the faint-hearted.

Take Time To Stop And Breathe

February 23, 2018

We are in another cycle of shouting–different topic, same emotion. We shout “hooray for our side” on our social media, watch our favorite mass media, get all worked up. It is a self-reinforcing cycle of hype and emotion. Media and social media companies study how to keep the cycle going so that they earn the all-important attention of users/viewers. It’s all about money.

We learn that snack companies have chemists working on non-nutritive enhancers that exist only to cause addiction–we won’t be able to “eat just one.” It’s all about money.

Humans have a region of taste that craves sweet. Food processors add sugar or sugar substitutes in order to make their product more appealing. We eat more, they add more. Next thing we know it’s a self-reinforcing cycle. We get fat. Food processing companies make a profit. It’s all about money.

Jesus advised us to beware of whom we serve.

He thought that serving God first was a better idea.

When we step back and take a breath, we can gain perspective. We can make better choices.

Maybe we can love and understand rather than shout.

Maybe we can choose how we use social media–and how much.

Maybe we can make better food choices and live healthier lives.

Maybe living with-God is a better idea. It leads to other attitudes like love, joy, peace, forbearance, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control. A better way of life.

Billy Graham

February 22, 2018

Billy Graham

Only God can give us a selfless love for others, as the Holy Spirit changes us from within. This is one reason we must receive Christ, for apart from His Spirit we can never be freed from the chains of selfishness, jealousy, and indifference. Will others see Christ’s love in your life today?

Rest In Peace, Billy Graham

He was such a good communicator that students and faculty from the speech and communication departments of local universities would attend his rallies to study him. Hopefully some got the message 😉 He stayed above politics and divisiveness in order to reach all people around the world with this message. If only we could all learn from the example.

Anything You Can Do I Can Do Better

February 21, 2018

Annie and Kim met at the coffee house, as was their pre-work custom. As they sipped their lattes, Kim begins, “Can you believe the boss? How in the world did she ever get promoted to that position? I could do 100 times better than her.”

Annie commiserates, “Yes that’s true. She is clueless. And that executive council. Who put all those men in there? Why was I not included? I’m better than any of those. I’m sure it’s just because I’m a woman, after all, lots of people have their projects fail.”

Rob orders his Americano with two extra shots of espresso and joins them. “Did you see who got that Sales VP job? They didn’t even interview me. What in the world is going on here?”

Dissension. Jealousy. It’ll rip apart any organization–business, non-profit, church.

The apostle Paul knew this.

After going through theology in his letter to the Romans followed by a discussion about how everyone is the same before God–race, gender, nationality–Paul addresses how we should live individually and in community.

Immediately after talking about renewing our minds, he says, “For by the grace given to me I say to everyone among you not to think of yourself more highly than you ought to think, but to think with sober judgment, each according to the measure of faith that God has assigned.” He proceeds to list the different roles within the Christian community and the gifts that relate to each.

As for me, I have an analytical mind. I respond intellectually by analyzing the situation and the people. Care must be taken about the line between analysis and dissension. Mostly that line starts when I say something aloud.

How about you? When is it idle, or even destructive, gossip and when is it analysis that leads to improvement?

That is where the discernment that comes with transforming our minds enters the conversation.

Be Transformed By The Renewing Of Your Mind

February 20, 2018

The mind is its own place, and in itself

Can make a Heav’n of Hell, a Hell of Heav’n.

–John Milton

I am in the midst of 12 Rules for Life: An Antidote to Chaos by Jordan B. Peterson. This is not an easy read. (just a warning) But digging into it is worth the effort. I especially loved his rules regarding to parenting. Millions of people should read those.

In this chapter (rule), he says “Always Tell the Truth, At Least Don’t Lie.” Peterson, in his study of Milton (the English poet–if the name wasn’t familiar, get a book of English poetry and read him), says “Milton believed that stubborn refusal to change in the face of error not only meant ejection from heaven, and subsequent degeneration into an ever-deepening hell, but the rejection of redemption itself. Satan knows full well that even if he was willing to seek reconciliation, and God willing to grant it, he would only rebel again, because he will not change.”

Peterson practices and teaches clinical psychology. His book is full of examples. He further notes, “Those who have lied enough, in word and action, live there, in hell–now.”

Years ago I embarked on further study of depth psychology and brain science in order to understand one thing–how can people continue to tell themselves a belief even in the face of overwhelming evidence against it? This is something we still see today. And probably will tomorrow.

We allow our minds to be captured by emotions or by stubborn clinging to past opinions. We miss the opportunity for grace. We miss the opportunity for living a more full life filled with spirit rather than by narrow-minded law.

Paul quite consciously, for he was consummately logical, begins his section of the letter to the Romans (chapter 12) on how to live a Christian life in community by saying

Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your minds, so that you may discern the will of God–what is good and acceptable and perfect.

How To Read A Book

February 19, 2018

Only an open and empty jar is useful. Just so, our mind. In order to learn, we must empty it of preconceived ideas and open ourselves to new learning, new wisdom, new understanding.

I talked recently about praying with open hands. We must read with open minds.

It is important that we know the overall context of what we are reading, and the outline of chapters, then how the paragraphs fit within the argument (or story) of the chapter and finally how the sentence fits within the paragraph. Sometimes we must study the structure of the sentence in order to decipher the meaning.

When I was in high school, I was introduced to How to Read a Book by Mortimer J. Adler. Amazingly, that book is still available on Amazon.

In Lent, perhaps we devote the 40 days to opening ourselves to God in preparation for understanding the death and resurrection of Jesus in the context of the Bible and world history.

Rather than grabbing at sentences as the “final answer,” let us devote ourselves to understanding and discernment. The Bible was perhaps only written and compiled over a period of 500 years, but it covers the context of people trying to figure out how to live with-God over a period of some 2,000 years.

It takes time to read in context. Great understanding comes from reading from the outline to the specific and then back to the outline. But only if we empty ourselves in preparation for God to speak to us.

Approaching God–with open hands and open minds.