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Avoiding Sin

October 30, 2024

Perhaps your mother taught you right from wrong. Perhaps even your father. Perhaps they used the word “sin” to designate wrong.

Perhaps parents plus the type of church you attended tried to scare you into right actions through the threat of going to hell.

Why do you try to avoid doing the wrong things now? Or do you? I hope so.

I rather like the way John Wesley put it that good people avoid sin from the love of virtue, while wicked people avoid sin from a fear of punishment.

Jesus did sometimes talk about how people of a certain type will be thrown into the garbage dump where the fire never went out (a real place outside Jerusalem as illustration). Jesus’s teaching for us was to be that type of person Wesley described as lovers of virtue.

We avoid sin because that’s the kind of people we have become.

Character Over Talent

October 29, 2024

Character more than talent determines success in life. Not necessarily more money, power, or prestige. But as someone of whom people touched by them remember kindly.

Who you are shouts louder than what you do.

Joy

October 28, 2024

True, real joy always comes to us only as a present. It originates in God. Human joy is a share through grace in the joy of God, in God’s nature, which is nothing but the sphere of supreme joy. The sources of true joy, therefore, are found where the creature waits for God.—Ladislaus Boros.

Joy must be differentiated from pleasure. It is deeper and more lasting. 

Joy also differentiates from happiness, something transient, nice while it’s here, sad when it wafts away.

True Religion

October 25, 2024

But true religion, or a heart right toward God and man, implies happiness as well as holiness.—John Wesley.

Reaction To Stress

October 24, 2024

Should you indulge in news media or social media, you will discover our world is extraordinarily stressful. Sitting in contemplation, I view the vast panorama of history I’ve learned. Human life has always experienced forces applying stress.

A mid-twentieth century researcher called Hans Selye wrote, “It is not stress that harms us; it is our reaction to stress.”

That echoes the wisdom from early Stoic writers who taught that our freedom is that of choosing our response to stress.

Jesus first words to followers were, “Follow me.” His subsequent teaching seems to be a constant reminder, “Fear not.” His followers’ response to stress was to follow and trust.

Therapists teach mindfulness meditation to calm stress—probably most either self-inflicted or parent-inflicted. In my case, boss-inflicted (but that story requires more than a couple hundred words).

Following Jesus, we feel the surrounding presence of God—a force or source of energy that we can tap to help us through stressful times. Pausing then reaching for that source finds a marvelous antidote to stresses.

Creative or Possessive?

October 23, 2024

“The best life is the one in which the creative impulses play the largest part and the possessive impulses the smallest.”​— Bertrand Russell

I’d like to take this thought from the famous atheist philosopher Bertrand Russell and think on it.

Let us consider the impulses that drive our lives. We often think that we humans have free choice on all our decisions and life directions.

That last car you purchased. What made you wish to go buy a car? Why that make and model? And color?

What clothes are you wearing? Why that brand? Style? Color? Are they appropriated for where you are and what you’re doing?

Do I constantly crave some new possession? A new boat? A new house in a different neighborhood? Another piece of furniture? More books (that would be me)?

Or…

Am I driven to help at the food pantry? Perhaps start a new ministry to assist homeless or teach young people something? Perhaps write a book? 

In the end, these latter impulses provide a better, happier life.

Wesley Warning about Spiritual Practices

October 22, 2024

I’ve used meditation for most of my life for both spiritual and physical benefits. I’ve had God experiences. The practice has been calming when I needed it. It’s even impacted my overall personality.

Meditation, called mindfulness, has become all the rage over the past several years as therapists have discovered its benefits for their clients.

Meditation is also one of the spiritual disciplines. People who intentionally pursue practices such as prayer, study, fasting, worship and the like can find a deeper God relationship.

There is a trap into which one is easily snagged—pride.

John Wesley discusses spiritual practices that he calls means of grace. He warns, “After you have used any of these, take care how you value yourself thereon: How you congratulate yourself as having done some great thing. This is turning all into poison.”

The tradition I grew up in discouraged broadcasting the practice. Pride is a horrible thing.

Lack of Exercise

October 21, 2024

Instead of aging causing your muscles to lose their magic, the lack of physical activity reduces your muscles’ ability to respond to protein intake and exercise, accelerating muscle loss.

Instead of aging causing a closed mind and fixed opinions, the lack of reading widely and conversations with a diverse set of friends accelerates a fixed mindset.

Get out. Exercise the body through movement and resistance training. Exercise the mind and soul by reading widely and cultivating a diverse set of friends in conversations. Take time for meditation and prayer to bring some calm into your life.

The spirit resides in the body as the Apostle taught. Take care of both.

A Lifetime Commitment

October 18, 2024

Real health is never a three-month change, no matter how many online influencers and companies sell quick transformations. It is a lifetime commitment.

We read many experiences where a diet (pick your poison) helps people lose weight only to discover a year later the weight that once was lost now was found.

How many people have you met who have prayed “the prayer” after a sermon asking Jesus into their heart and yet whose life has not changed?

Good health, as far as genes and environment permit, requires a lifetime commitment lived fully a day at a time. Eat real food (not super processed manufactured stuff), not too much, mostly plants. Exercise including some form of resistance training.

Good spiritual health is similar. Maybe you have that moment where you decide to become a follower of Jesus. Good. But now a lifetime commitment lived fully a day at a time. Study the New Testament and other spiritual writing, practice serving other people, gather with others regularly.

What is Faith?

October 17, 2024

It is not a speculative, rational thing, a cold, lifeless assent, a train of ideas in the head; but also a disposition of the heart.

Somewhere a person exists who lives almost totally within the mind. Religion is a set of rules. Politics is a set of opinions. Other people either agree with their ideas or they are lost, ignorant, disregarded.

We probably know one of these people. Most likely more than one. And I’m not talking about on TV. Maybe they exist in your local church or pub or fitness center.

The quote that provoked my reflection is from John Wesley. I think he is reflecting the life and teachings of Jesus when he says that it’s all about a disposition of the heart.

How is our (my) heart disposed today? How can we better reflect the heart Jesus sought to instill in us? What am I going to do today to reflect life rather than “lifeless assent”?