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Physical Activity Boosts Spiritual Disciplines

April 9, 2025

The idea of leading a disciplined life gradually came to me the spring following a “promotion” at work from a position in manufacturing where I walked constantly (before the days of tracking steps) to a desk job the previous summer. I could barely run to first base in the first spring softball practice.

That led to a discipline of early morning runs before heading to work. That discipline got me through COVID when gyms were closed and we had just moved to a new state. I lost some fitness and gained some weight, but it could have been much worse.

Two books came my way years ago—Celebration of Discipline by Richard J. Foster and The Spirit of the Disciplines by Dallas Willard. I have taught classes based on these books.

Recently I sketched an outline for a new class on Spiritual Disciplines. Thinking on these and my experiences, I concluded that a further introduction was needed for the students. Perhaps an introduction of habit forming, such as from Atomic Habits or the Power of Habit.

Then this report on research on exercise and mental health from Arnold Schwarzenegger’s Pump Club newsletter—Researchers conducted a powerful statistical method that combines data from multiple studies to uncover underlying connections between exercise and mental health. The findings were clear: physical activity was strongly linked to increased resilience, and resilience, in turn, was associated with lower levels of anxiety, depression, and overall psychological distress.

Before we jump right into studying prayer, for example, as a spiritual discipline, perhaps we need to pay attention to our bodies and minds and their role in beginning and maintaining discipline. Unless, that is, we join a monastery where we are forced to rise at 4 am for morning prayers.

Pursuing Spiritual Discipline is a “full-contact sport.” We must involve mind and body, as well as, spirit to the extent of our capabilities.

Fear Not!

April 8, 2025

I carefully curate my news sources attempting to discard the most biased. Yet, whether I’m reading about technology, business, or politics, the message is Fear This!

Contemplating this “feature” of news, God spoke. OK, not like George Burns in the eponymous move or in the young Bill Cosby’s Noah skits. But the message was clear—consider the most used command in the Bible—Fear Not!

God, angels, even Jesus himself command people, “FEAR NOT!”

Let this sink in.

If God tells us not to fear, perhaps I should listen. Perhaps I should pause after reading or hearing, breathe, become aware of God’s presence around and through me, releasing my fears. What happens, happens. “It rains on the rich and poor alike.”

Relaxing into the presence of God takes us to a new level that we can figure it out and get through.

Against These There Is No Law

April 7, 2025

Jesus began his ministry by proclaiming the kingdom of heaven is here—around us, within us. He proceeded to try to explain how to live in the kingdom. Later he discussed leaving the Holy Spirit behind when he physically departed. 

How do we live in that spirit? That is the question.

There are few thoughts in the New Testament that intrigue me more than this passage from the end of the Letter to the Galatians. Here, Paul describes two ways of life.

Now the works of the flesh are obvious: fornication, impurity, licentiousness, idolatry, sorcery, enmities, strife, jealousy, anger, quarrels, dissensions, factions, envy, drunkenness, carousing, and things like these. I am warning you, as I warned you before: those who do such things will not inherit the Kingdom of God.

By contrast, the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, generosity, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control. Against these, there is no law. If we live by the Spirit, let us also be guided by the Spirit.

Let us not be conceited, competing against one another, envying one another.

Think of the people you know who live like the first description.

Now, think of people you know who live the second way of life.

Which would you rather be?

As for me, I would like to live like the second one, but it’s not easy. We must constantly renew our connection with the Spirit. Even once a day doesn’t always work for me.

Order from Chaos

April 4, 2025

I sit in meditation. Thoughts chaotically tumble through my consciousness. Focus and awareness are lost.

I scan news or social media. Everything in the world seems complete chaos.

I ponder the creation story. It tells me that God created order from chaos.

What does the creation story tell us about God?

Where can I turn to God to help me sort through my chaos? How can God help me find order in my awareness? How can I find trust in God to bring order out of the chaos around me?

God, help me turn my awareness toward you. Let me sit in calm awareness allowing your spirit to infuse me.

Helping Others

April 3, 2025

Shall we pause and reflect upon the manner with which we connect with others who are perhaps struggling with something or asking for help with a project?

We seldom realize the weight our words, even the shortest quip, fall on another’s consciousness.

Immediately I think of a quip an older student made to me when I was in first grade that controlled certain behaviors for ten years of school. The slightest comment can cause someone to gain faith…or lose it.

When we offer a critique of another’s work, choose wisely. Will our comment belittle them? Make them feel childish or ignorant or irrelevant?

Perhaps we can find encouraging words that enlarge their perspective giving them hope and positive guidance.

Maybe we have cultivated the life stance of kindness which guides our thoughts and comments.

Handling Anger

April 2, 2025

Be angry, but do not sin; do not let the sun go down on your anger, and do not make room for the devil. —Ephesians

This thought is psychology genius. The writer grasps the depths of human emotion bringing it to light within the spiritual tradition.

Be Angry

Anger is going to visit us. We cannot avoid it. Even recognizing what triggers our anger response does not prevent the emotion.

Do Not Sin

This may be the hard part. When anger visits, what is our response? Can we find a way to avoid the explosion where words and actions create inevitable separation and hurt?

Therapists and gurus advise pausing. Good luck trying that at times. But it’s true. A pause, a breath helps. Cultivating a habit of self awareness also helps. My current meditation teacher, Henry Shukman, says, “We all have emotions. Through meditation we can become less identified with it and simply observers of it.”

Do Not Let The Sun Go Down On Your Anger

One of the most revered of the Desert Fathers, Abba Poeman, when asked about dwelling on these emotions, said, “The axe cannot cut down a tree by itself.”

Do not grab that axe handle of anger and use it. Let it lie. Get over it however works for you. Make any necessary apologies. (Hint: just say “I apologize” or “I am so sorry” and do not add any explanation.)

Do Not Make Room For The Devil

The longer we sit in anger, the more likely that our personality will change. We can become one of those bitter, offensive people whom we avoid. We draw apart from God. Prayer becomes impossible. Other people annoy us.

Close that door before it’s too late.

Justice for Me and Not for Thee

April 1, 2025

Sometime before high school, I know not why, I developed two principal personal values—peace and justice.

Maybe I was influenced by these words from the Hebrew prophet Amos, “But let justice roll down like waters, and righteousness like an ever-flowing stream.”

He also said, “Hate evil, and love good, and establish justice in the gate.”

Maybe from reciting the Pledge of Allegiance that we frequently performed as a young student, “With liberty and justice for all.” 

I heard this question many years ago about a simple phrase. It resonates now as I ponder those thoughts, “What part don’t you understand?”

How often we see people demanding justice—for themselves—resulting with injustice for another. “I’ve been discriminated against; let us discriminate toward another to make up for it.”

Where is the “for all” in that?

When can we build a discrimination-free society with liberty and justice for all?

Jesus taught us the two fundamental life attitudes that point that direction—we must love God completely and love (serve) our neighbor, who is defined as even the most despicable social group imaginable (for Jesus’s listeners that was Samaritans).

The Spiritual Disciplines help us here. This is not a daily practice. It must become part of our lifestyle.

Helping Someone Grow

March 31, 2025

First Law—no one wants advice, especially unsolicited.

Second Law—if you feel the urge to give advice, see First Law.

My dad used to give me unsolicited advice—every six weeks when school report cards came out—for six years. I had taken some sort of standardized test in sixth grade. My parents went to visit the teacher. After that, the lectures began. Like I told a professor at the fitness center this morning, I think my IQ as measured by a test is higher than my intelligence. At any rate, the advice never took hold. I didn’t start getting good grades until my third year at university. I always have pursued learning on my own initiative unbound by curriculum.

That bit of biographical discourse began by reading this piece of wisdom:

Philosopher Baltasar Gracián on giving advice: “When you counsel someone, you should appear to be reminding him of something he had forgotten, not of the light he was unable to see.”

Doing that will require listening to and understanding the other person. And being aware of whether or not they wish to improve.

Too Much Complexity

March 28, 2025

The association that oversees development of networking systems met last week in Florida. Not the type of networking where people meet other people, although that is part of the reason I was there. This networking defines technology that allows many devices to connect to each other in an industrial setting.

An engineer from Procter & Gamble spoke at the conference in 2023. He explained how electricians and maintenance technicians install and troubleshoot the network in the company’s plants. “It’s too complex,” he proclaimed, “can’t you do something in your standards development to simplify things for us?”

A retired General Motors engineer spoke this year. He voiced a similar complaint that designing and implementing the network while keeping it secure from hackers was not specified and therefore left too much to chance. Once again, too much complexity.

Do you find the same thing when you read Bible study books or participate in a Bible study group and find that the discussion becomes far too complex?

There have been study groups where the leader suggested just blotting out some of the words to simplify things.

I suggest that you cannot do that.

Better is to say, “I don’t understand.”

A tip for reading Paul—return to the words of Jesus. I am always amazed at how he quotes Jesus writing before the Gospels were written. There is something behind the scenes that we just don’t know.

I many ways I am a “Red-Letter Christian.” (Some Bibles print Jesus’s words in red letters.) I believe that Jesus meant what he said. I believe that he expects us to do what he said we should do. Everything else is a footnote to:

You should love the Lord your God and your neighbor as yourself.

And who is your neighbor? Do what Jesus did for an example—pick someone from the most despised class of people that you know and show love to them.

If you find that complex, then we need to talk.

Why Do I?

March 27, 2025

A flock of blackbirds populates the leafless tree of late winter.

One, for no observable reason, flies away.

The flock follows.

Why?

Likewise, why do I sometimes get up and move later wondering where I was going?

Why do I spontaneously say awkward things?

Why do I make a spontaneous unnecessary purchase?

Why did I grab that doughnut at the last meeting?

Some people say they just want to be left alone to do their own thing.

Are they consciously exercising rational free will?

Or, do we fly off like the flock of blackbirds spontaneously following some unknown leader?