Where You Set Your Mind

February 3, 2012

The Spiritual Disciplines are things you can do to order your life so that you can center you life on God. On the other hand, you need to focus on God before and during your practice of a Spiritual Discipline.

I think often about attention–where you place your attention. When you are having a conversation with another person, where is your attention? Is it on what you’ll say? Or is it on what the person is saying? Are you trying to understand them?

It’s the same with God. My current study is the letter to the Romans. Paul says there, “For those who live according to the flesh set their minds on the things of the flesh, but those who live according to the Spirit set their minds on the things of the Spirit.”

Victor Frankl was a psychologist who survived the Nazi prison camps. As he survived himself and watched others either survive or succumb, he developed a practice around this idea, “You have one freedom–the freedom to choose your attitude toward your circumstances.” You can choose what to think about. I don’t mean the random thoughts that flash through your mind. I mean the thoughts you choose to dwell on.

Are you feeling down? You can choose to think about something that is helpful. You can choose to think upon the many blessings that you have. You may not change your circumstances, but you can choose the way you respond to them. This may sound superficial, but it is not. Trust me. This is serious business. I’ve done it. It can change your day, week, month, life.

Just so, when you decide to follow a Spiritual Discipline, you can choose your attitude. If your thoughts are on Jesus, then you’ll have one attitude. If your thoughts are more along the lines of “Oh, man, I gotta sit and pray again. Oh well, let’s get it over with,” then you will not receive the fruit.

What, I’m Sinful Too?

February 2, 2012

Albert Einstein famously once said to make every explanation as simple as possible, but not simpler. Goes along with combining the Discipline of Simplicity with the Discipline of Study. People just love to make simple things complex. I see it where I work all the time. I’m on a committee that sets referee development policies for soccer referees in Ohio. Same thing. There are people who just want to make everything rule-bound and complex.

I was listening to a small group leader last weekend introduce Paul’s letter to the Romans and said it was Paul at his convoluted best. Hard to figure out what he’s saying. Wait a minute! Is this the same letter that, in its simplicity, deeply influenced Augustine, Luther, Wesley, Barth and others? It completely changed the face of Christianity–at least twice.

Humans seem to love rules. It divides people into those who follow the rules and those who don’t. That way comparisons as to whom is good or not can be made.

The last part of the first chapter is exquisite preaching. As you can tell from what follows, it sets the stage. Paul didn’t mean for us to parse through the list of wrong doing, pounce on one (say homosexuality), and then say “There it is. I was right. Paul hates those people I hate. I’m good; they are bad.”

No, Paul wanted us to read through that list and say to ourselves, “Oh my God. I have behaviors and attitudes and feelings that build up a wall between God and me. I am full of sin. What can I do to become right with God?”

We know from the context of the entire letter, that is what he expected and wanted. We know because he answers that last question. Hint: nothing. It’s God’s grace 😉 Or, as he goes on to say, leave the judging to God.

Spiritual Discipline of Study

February 1, 2012

Regarding my practical life, I am a disciple of David Allen’s way called Getting Things Done named after the title of his first book. He describes how to reduce the stress of holding too many things in your head and not knowing what to do next.

In his second book, “Ready for Anything,” he quotes a writer, J. Krishnamurti, who said, “Discipline does not mean suppression and control, nor is it adjustment to a pattern or ideology. It means the mind sees ‘what is’ and learns from ‘what is’.”

I thought this fit very well with the discussion of our small group around the discipline of study. Just last Sunday in another small group I witnessed how people can read an entire chapter of a book and lock on to one idea that reinforced a prejudice they brought to the study. Rather than seeing ‘what is’ and learning from it, many of the people bent the words to fit what they already “knew.”

When you study, approach the text with a receptive mind. But also a questioning one. What did the writer mean? What is the context–historical, social, philosophical? What were the writers contemporaries saying? How does this fit with other things that writer has published?

Dr. Henry Cloud, in his latest book “Necessary Endings,” describes the wise person as one who sees reality and adjusts to fit it and the fool as one who bends reality to fit what he already believes. I think in study we need to practice that discipline of seeing what is and learning from it. Always approach spiritual writings ready to be surprised and having your view of reality shaken. That’s what the Spirit does to us.

Discipline of Simplicity

January 31, 2012

We were discussing the spiritual discipline of simplicity this week in a small group. You might think of simplicity as just throwing out a bunch of stuff over-crowding your living space. And that could be one manifestation. But simplicity begins with the mind and the spirit.

While meditating on this, I came across this thought from Lee Segall, “It is possible to own too much. A man with one watch knows what time it is; a man with two watches is never quite sure.”

Too much stuff clutters  your mind and you’re never quite sure where you are. Perhaps it pops out in your life as the need to talk too much–to justify your meaning. Jesus told us to simplify your speech in order to become more trustworthy. He said to let your “yes” be yes and your “no” be no. Don’t overcomplicate your life and your speech.

An uncluttered workspace allows you to focus on what is the task at hand. An uncluttered living space soothes the mind. An uncluttered mind allows you to relax and think about what’s important. An uncluttered soul is full of peace and joy and is a blessing to others.

Lost Opportunity for Reconciliation

January 30, 2012

Reading the beginning of Romans where Paul is trying hard to convince people to leave old categories separating people behind and enter a new, universal fellowship with God.

Then I thought about the apostles at the same time who went into Syria–not only to Jews who lived there, but also to Syrians. Christianity had spread to Greeks and Romans already before Paul. It had spread among Syrians and Egyptians (we know from reading the Desert Fathers among other writings).

Just think if people had adopted that model. Think of the strife, fighting and bitterness in so much of the world today that could have been avoided.

But then I think of the hundreds of years of European history where Christians fought against each other in often bloody wars. Catholics against Protestant. So, I guess the mere adoption of a Christian facade overlaid on tribal identity wasn’t quite the answer.

We need, individually, to return to Paul’s writing and absorb it. As he said to his own time, “there is neither Jew nor Greek.” We need to feel that in our hearts. We will not categorize people in order to judge them. We will accept people and love them.

Spiritual Formation – First You Must See Yourself

January 27, 2012

I’m starting another study of Romans. I haven’t spent time in the letter for many years. It is a guide to spiritual formation.

Socrates famously said, “Know thyself.” Paul begins his letter to the Romans (after the greetings and his bio) with a list of all the bad things that humans are capable of–and in fact do. I think every writing I’ve read by people who have seriously taken the spiritual formation journey have experienced somewhere early on the fact that they are capable of much sin.

The same happened to me years ago. And the images still live. I was deep in meditation and suddenly before me was every type of sin (well, almost all I suppose). And I was convicted of sins I’d done, sins I’d thought, sins that I was capable of committing. It wasn’t until then that God became the most real to me.

Paul must have written Romans out of a similar experience. First he became aware of the immensity of sin and how it separates one from God. Then he began the journey to God which led to the Damascus Road experience with Jesus.

As long as we deny that we do things that are selfish, indulgent, hurtful, we will never clear the path to recognizing God. When I finally got around to reading the Desert Fathers–those weird guys who escaped to the deserts of Egypt and Syria in the first couple of hundred years after Jesus–I expected tips on spiritual insight. What I found was a guide to how to overcome layer after layer of sin that separated them from God.

By the way, I sort of dislike the word “sin.” It is perhaps overused and can become “church speak” that might lose its power over people. I have not come up with a better word that will drive home the fact that there are things you do, thoughts you dwell on that separate you from being free to live in the Spirit.

In my other “life” of process control in manufacturing, there is a phrase you can’t control it if you don’t measure it. Well, in spiritual life, if you don’t recognize the things that separate you from God, then you will not have true communion with God. You’ll be like Adam, who knew God, but he didn’t live with Him.

Live Simply in the Spirit

January 26, 2012

Jesus gave some advice about keeping your integrity and living simply. He said to not swear oaths with many words, but to, “Let your yes be yes and your no be no.”

Just now I am studying deeply the Disciplines of Simplicity and Solitude (or Silence) from Richard Foster’s book, “The Celebration of Discipline.” These Disciplines seem to go together quite nicely. You go into solitude and silence to discover what God wants you to say and do, and them you act simply without fanfare and self-centeredness.

As I contemplate upon these, I grabbed some time from my travels this week to check the headlines. We’re in an intense political season, and this week is a big one what with President Obama giving his State of the Union address and the Republicans lining up to blast it (even before they heard it). In checking Tuesday’s headlines, I saw some congresspeople spouting off many words that were actually contradicted by other news headlines about the economy on the same front page of the newspaper.

And I thought, how can all these people get up and say what they say with a straight face? No wonder the American people by and large long for a leader who speaks simply, with force and depth. One who isn’t merely trying to score debate points or make himself or herself (although there are a noticeable lack of females in this election cycle) look better than they are.

I sincerely hope I don’t come across that way. Or that you do. Live simply. Say what needs to be said–no more. Speak from the fruits of your solitude as you seek God’s guidance.

I’m just glad I chose a different career path than that of politician.

Why Study Scripture

January 20, 2012

I’m teaching on the discipline of study this weekend. A couple of days ago I broached the topic of study->learn->do. You meditate to bring the Word more deeply into your soul. You study to analyze the word in order to understand the meaning. You read a devotional with Scripture in the morning in order to start the day off with the correct frame of mind. It all works together.

In order to do each, you need to start in silence with a clear mind and focus on the Word. Then you read something and figure out what the writer meant. This is work. I’ll talk about that work in a later post. I’m not from the generation that began with the later Boomers and extended on where evidently people were pampered and got the idea that work is bad. Actually, work is your highest calling. Whatever your talent, you need to work at it.

Going through the hard work of study must have some beneficial result else why do it. Study leads to understanding. Understanding leads to perspective. And this leads to wisdom. Wisdom is knowing how and when to act when faced with a situation. How to interact with people who need or are seeking guidance.

Some people think study is memorizing. They learned this in school. Memorizing is not all bad, but it is not understanding. You can quote a Bible verse to someone in need, but if you have no understanding, you cannot truly guide that person to understanding the truth in the situation. Quoting a verse does not take the place of a deep, focused compassion for another where the wisdom you have gained beginning with study becomes a spiritual fruit.

Study is good. Set aside some times for concentrated study of a book of the Bible this year. Or a spiritual classic like Augustine’s Confessions. It’ll pay huge dividends both for you and for the people you interact with.

Sit in Silence

January 19, 2012

‘All men’s miseries derive from not being able to sit in a quiet room alone.’ ~Blaise Pascal

Can you sit alone in a room? Just with yourself? Without checking Facebook to see what others are doing? Without flipping on the TV to get some noise?

The psychologist Carl Jung wrote about a patient who was becoming unbearable with tension and busyness. He suggested that the patient try sitting alone in his study every afternoon doing nothing. Just experiencing stillness. After a week, the patient returned and Jung asked how it went. He said that he tried it. He sat for a while. Then he got up and rearranged books on the shelf, shuffled papers, and other busy work. Jung told him the idea was that he was to sit still and just be with himself. “I can’t think of any worse company,” the man protested.

To me there is nothing better to do to start the day than to get a cup of coffee and just sit quietly for a time. My thoughts may wander for a while, then settle down. Sometimes if I have a problem, I’ll just release it mentally, then a solution will present  itself out of nowhere–so to speak. Sometimes I just start the day calmer when I know that I’ll be facing people who are not calm and who only serve to agitate my soul. It’s easier to deal with them when you begin the day calm.

Try it. Perhaps read from the Bible first. But don’t think about the passage. Just be still and enjoy the quiet.

Study to Learn to Do

January 18, 2012

We live in an era where continuous learning is essential to keep up with your job. You also need continuous learning in order to grow spiritually. I have thought a lot about study and learning, but Jon Swanson wrote something yesterday that woke me up. “You learn in order to do.”

When Jesus was tempted after fasting and praying for 40 days in the wilderness, he met each of the three temptations with a quotation from Scripture. He was hungry (probably almost starved), and the Temptor suggested that he turn the rocks into bread. Now, he could have done that. After all, he turned 5 loaves of bread into dinner for 5,000. But he just replied God says you cannot live by bread alone. He didn’t just know Scripture, he practiced it.

We all know people who are “book smart.” Engineers were famous for that in manufacturing when I started working there. They could work all manner of formulae, tell you about strength of materials with math, but didn’t always know just which alloy of aluminum would be best for an application. Or they could design a part only to discover that it was impossible to machine that part.

I guess I fear being book smart about the Bible and then getting caught not practicing it.