Faith Venture

Are you a good person? I’m an optimist most of the time. I tend to see people as good unless they prove me wrong. There are people who are the opposite. They are suspicious or cynical about people and expect the worst unless proven otherwise. And even then they aren’t sure.

In fact, none of us are truly good. We struggle with emotions, desires, actions that are not good. The apostle Paul’s starting point in his discussions of people is that we are not good to begin with.

So how do we get on the path toward being a good person?

I just finished John Ortberg’s latest book, Who Is This Man?. He said, “Because of Jesus’ emphasis on the heart, goodness does not begin with right behavior. It begins with openness to the truth about the mess in my inner being.”

This is not really a new thought. Ancient wisdom taught that first we must know ourselves. Or as the Scottish poet Robert Burns put it, “O, wad some Power the giftie gie us / To see oursels as others see us!”

To do that requires hard work on our part. We must sit in contemplation and step away from ourselves in our mind and observe ourselves. This also works if you are out somewhere, say in a queue at a market or airport ticket counter. You sort of project your mind out and observe yourself dispassionately as you act. I’ll tell you, that exercise has prevented me from foolishness on occasion.

The cool thing about the church calendar is that it prompts us to remember certain things with regularity. We are in Advent. Remembering the coming of Jesus. This is a good time for us to look within and see where we are harboring guilt, anger, greed, self-centeredness, and the like.

By being open to this, we can then prepare our hearts for Jesus to enter our lives to help us put those behind us and begin to approach living a good life with him.

I like to play around with words. Yesterday I was asked to help come up with a title for a Webcast (you can catch me live on the Web on January 31st moderating a panel discussion about software). My method is to come up with a phrase that I think captures the important points. Then I  start a list. I’ll play around with the verbs. Then the nouns. Consider a variety of adjectives. And write down the subsequent phrases until something seems to click.

Thing is, I write so often to areas where English is a second language, that I worry about being clear. So, I try not to use puns or plays on words.

But a friend posted on her Facebook page about my post on Being Blessed that I thought about the other usage of the word. Instead of receiving a blessing, say from God, some people are a blessing. That’s what I thought when she said yes she is blessed and give me more. I thought, she is a blessing–at least to me.

Think about your relationships and people you know or who have come into your life. So many are a blessing to you. Maybe just because when you see them they bring such joy and happiness as one friend, or peace as another friend does.

Maybe while we contemplate the great blessing from God that we celebrate this time of year we can also be more aware of our own being a blessing to people we meet.

That is a Spiritual practice I wish everyone would bring into their lives. Consider how great a world filled with blessing would be.

My last post talked about the idea that knowledge without experience is not sufficient for us to live a life with-God. But experienced can be pursued and gained in the spiritual life.

Experience as I’m thinking about it goes beyond just living through things. It requires first of all awareness. Many people live unaware of their environment, the people around them, their impact upon others. God can provide all manner of experience opportunities, but if you are not aware of what is happening, they will all pass you by. Be alert–like 007 James Bond who is always observing and evaluating.

I once saw a quote, “Some things must be believed to be seen.” Expectation is a key ingredient. Mary, mother of Jesus, probably prayed the Jewish woman’s prayer about becoming the mother of the Messiah. There was surely a bit of expectation in her life. But also, it had never happened before. So, we can expect God to act in our lives, but we may still be shocked at what He provides for us.

So, the question remains, what can we do to gain experience with God? Here are some tips.

Meditation on the Word. Read the Bible. Then stop and meditate on the passage. Go there in your imagination. Be part of the crowd around Jesus. Be part of a congregation where Paul is preaching. March with Joshua. Meditate with expectation that God will lead you to deeper knowledge.

Worship. Gathering with others in worship is a great way to open yourself to the reality of God.

Celebration. Once again, being with others while singing songs and praising will help you focus on God and lift your spirits making you open to God’s Spirit moving within you.

Confession. Pausing once–or many–times daily to tell God that you have fallen short of the type of life He desires. God will calm you.

Service. Sometimes there are no better ways to experience God in your life than to “be God” in the lives of others. Doing things for other people for God’s sake, not yours, will bring you closer to God.

I’m sure there are more. Open yourself to the possibility that God wants you to live in the fullness of a relationship just like Adam and Eve walked with him before they rebelled.