Archive for the ‘Wisdom’ Category

Decide Who You Want to Be

February 27, 2026

Arnold Schwarzenegger writing in his Pump Club newsletter taught,” Old Question: Why does change feel so hard for me? Better Question: What identity am I trying to grow into, and what’s one action that person would take today?”

Arnold has been a long-time fitness evangelist. But these questions work for other changes you may wish to make. Being a better follower of Jesus, for example. Or establishing a prayer or meditation routine.

 “We tend to act in alignment with who you believe you are. And change doesn’t start when motivation shows up. It starts the moment you create your new identity, and it continues with actions that turn that belief into reality.”

Like I advised on countless New Year’s Day posts regarding resolutions. Just write what kind of person you’d like to become this year.

“Psychologists studying habit formation find that identity-based habits outlast outcome-based goals. Instead of focusing on what people want (lose weight, get fit), researchers examined who people believe they are or are becoming.”

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Find The Simple Explanation

February 26, 2026

A famous quote from mathematician and physicist Blaise Pascal reminds us that a great deal of the work is in the revision: “I would have written a shorter letter, but I did not have the time.” Source: Provincial Letters (1657)

I could write an essay on this, but it will stand as is. And it works for other communication, as well.

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Unplugged

February 19, 2026

When a company I worked for closed in the mid-80s, I did some PC support. Answers to two questions solved 90% of the problems. Is it plugged in? (i.e. do you have power?) Turn it off, pause 20 seconds, turn it back on.

Later working with industrial automation, the same two questions when a customer called.

This week spanning four decades of experience, the same problem/solution arose.

I was reminded of these experiences upon reading this thought from Ann Lamott, “Almost everything will work again if you unplug it for a few minutes, including you.”

Feeling a bit stressed? Perhaps somewhat despondent? Can’t get started on that project?

Take a few minutes to unplug. Shut the laptop. Set the mobile phone to mute and dock it far away. Turn off the TV. Just sit. Unplugged. Five minutes can do it. Ten is great. Twenty—a miracle.

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It’s All for Show

February 10, 2026

Many have observed that politics today is all about the show. Who does the best and fastest posting of a viral video on social media?

Rather than rational thought or governing quietly and well, politicians all seem to gravitate to the new toy—viral video. And not only politicians. Grifters looking for easy wealth also flock to the camera.

Believe it or not, Jesus had something to say about doing things for show. This is found in the Gospel according to Luke.

To some who were confident of their own righteousness and looked down on everyone else, Jesus told this parable: “Two men went up to the temple to pray, one a Pharisee and the other a tax collector. The Pharisee stood by himself and prayed: ‘God, I thank you that I am not like other people—robbers, evildoers, adulterers—or even like this tax collector. I fast twice a week and give a tenth of all I get.’

“But the tax collector stood at a distance. He would not even look up to heaven, but beat his breast and said, ‘God, have mercy on me, a sinner.’

“I tell you that this man, rather than the other, went home justified before God. For all those who exalt themselves will be humbled, and those who humble themselves will be exalted.”

God appreciates the many who quietly go about His business of loving others (feeding the hungry, visiting the prisoner, and the other things Jesus advised). No viral video needed.

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Pray For Others

February 2, 2026

I listened to an Episcopalian priest tell his story. He was (is) an alcoholic. He tried to keep it hidden. That didn’t work. The results became obvious. His congregation rebelled against him and drove him out.

He started attended AA meetings—in the basement of that same church. He gradually got better. “I found more love and support in that group meeting in the basement of the church than I found upstairs among the Christians.”

James talks to us about community and prayer.

Is anyone among you in trouble? Let them pray. Is anyone happy? Let them sing songs of praise. Is anyone among you sick? Let them call the elders of the church to pray over them and anoint them with oil in the name of the Lord. And the prayer offered in faith will make the sick person well; the Lord will raise them up. If they have sinned, they will be forgiven. Therefore confess your sins to each other and pray for each other so that you may be healed. The prayer of a righteous person is powerful and effective.

That part about confess your sins to each other has been abused countless times over the centuries. From what I can tell about James’s attitude toward community life, I think his vision was more like the AA meeting than a vindictive “drive out the devil” sort of gathering.

Let us learn to pray. For ourselves. For others. Sincerely. Without vindictiveness. Honestly and truly trying to help others to heal. God’s Spirit surrounds us. The prayer connects. The help may not be what we anticipated, but help will be there for sure. I have seen it in action. It’s real.

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Stand By Your Word

January 30, 2026

Trust.

Do we say what we mean and mean what we say?

When we say we’ll do something, can people depend on us to do it?

Do we have the courage to say no when we should?

James gives us this advice on your word. By the way, when he says “swear,” he does not mean what common American language means. It means invoking someone or something to back up our “yes.” As in, “I swear on my mother’s grave that I’ll do that.” In past cultures, we may have said, “I swear as God is my witness that I’ll don that.”

Above all, my brothers and sisters, do not swear—not by heaven or by earth or by anything else. All you need to say is a simple “Yes” or “No.” Otherwise you will be condemned.

What are we if our word cannot be trusted?

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Patience

January 28, 2026

Advice and encouragement for those facing suffering forms a consistent theme from first century Christian writers. James offers a practice and a warning.

The practice is patience. Like a farmer, practice patience and stand firm.

The warning—when things get tough, don’t grumble against one another.

Be patient, then, brothers and sisters, until the Lord’s coming. See how the farmer waits for the land to yield its valuable crop, patiently waiting for the autumn and spring rains. 8 You too, be patient and stand firm, because the Lord’s coming is near. 

Don’t grumble against one another, brothers and sisters, or you will be judged. The Judge is standing at the door!

Brothers and sisters, as an example of patience in the face of suffering, take the prophets who spoke in the name of the Lord. As you know, we count as blessed those who have persevered. You have heard of Job’s perseverance and have seen what the Lord finally brought about. The Lord is full of compassion and mercy.

A takeaway—just as the Lord is full of compassion and mercy, so also should we be.

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Warning to Oppressors

January 27, 2026

James’s characteristic blunt language echoing teachings of Jesus explores our heart in relation to wealth. Those of us blessed with some measure of wealth need to be especially aware of the status of our hearts.

Now listen, you rich people, weep and wail because of the misery that is coming on you. Your wealth has rotted, and moths have eaten your clothes. Your gold and silver are corroded. Their corrosion will testify against you and eat your flesh like fire. You have hoarded wealth in the last days. Look! The wages you failed to pay the workers who mowed your fields are crying out against you. The cries of the harvesters have reached the ears of the Lord Almighty. You have lived on earth in luxury and self-indulgence. You have fattened yourselves in the day of slaughter. You have condemned and murdered the innocent one, who was not opposing you.

The question we must resolve within ourselves—how do we use our wealth?

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Judging Others

January 26, 2026

I knew a teacher who would get to these wisdom pieces about not judging others, step aside from the text, and teach that we actually should judge other people.

He was partly wrong…and partly right. When we meet new people, we must evaluate. On the visceral level, do we like them, do we trust them, do we agree with them? This sort of evaluation helps us survive.

James, I think draws us deeper into these relationships.

Brothers and sisters, do not slander one another. 

Remember, he writes to these small groups of new followers of The Way. Think of your church or small group. As you gather, do you speak ill of someone not there—or even to their faces? That is counter to Law according to James. It’s also counter to the teachings of Jesus about love.

Anyone who speaks against a brother or sister or judges them speaks against the law and judges it. When you judge the law, you are not keeping it, but sitting in judgment on it. 

I interpret James to be observing that type of person who takes perverse pleasure about judging people guilty (or innocent) according to God’s Law. I bet that all of us know someone like that. Hopefully that person is not us.

There is only one Lawgiver and Judge, the one who is able to save and destroy. But you—who are you to judge your neighbor?

There is only one ultimate Judge. Why should we have the hubris so as to usurp God’s place?

This is an extension of James’s warning to be careful of what we say. We can start quite a firestorm with a comment. I know. I’ve done it in my life. It’s far better for everyone to hold our  peace.

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Pride and Humility

January 23, 2026

Like I’ve said before, James does not soft-pedal his message.

You adulterous people, don’t you know that friendship with the world means enmity against God? Therefore, anyone who chooses to be a friend of the world becomes an enemy of God. Or do you think Scripture says without reason that he jealously longs for the spirit he has caused to dwell in us? But he gives us more grace. That is why Scripture says: “God opposes the proud but shows favor to the humble.”

John Climacus, one of the more influential Desert Fathers, also spoke boldly.

Pride is the denial of God, an invention of the devil, contempt for men. It is the mother of condemnation, the offspring of praise, a sign of barrenness. It is a flight from God’s help, the harbinger of madness, the author of downfall. It is the cause of diabolical possession, the source of anger, the gateway of hypocrisy. It is the fortress of demons, the custodian of sins, the source of hardheartedness. It is the denial of compassion, a bitter pharisee, a cruel judge. It is the foe of God. It is the root of blasphemy.

Whew!

Stories in our news feeds would shrivel like a dried worm on the street on a sunny day following a rainstorm without prideful people to describe.

More important than observing others, let us turn the microscope on ourselves. Where does pride sneak past our defenses showing up in most unfortunate ways? Avoiding pride requires ever present vigilance. We let our guard down for even a moment, and pride can slither into our being.

Where should we focus to avoid the power of pride? James says:

Submit yourselves, then, to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you. Come near to God and he will come near to you. Wash your hands, you sinners, and purify your hearts, you double-minded. Grieve, mourn and wail. Change your laughter to mourning and your joy to gloom. Humble yourselves before the Lord, and he will lift you up.

I hope he doesn’t mean to constantly walk around in gloom. But when we recognize pride growing in ourselves, time for optimism and laughter is over. In its place enters a dose of humility and turning to God’s grace to restore our souls.

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