Sometimes You Just Have to Say I Don’t Know
Thomas Jefferson (and most of the other founders of the USA) were children of the Enlightenment, also known as the Age of Reason. They were suspicious of things that couldn’t be figured out by reason. Jefferson famously went through his Bible and cut out all the stories of miracles.
I knew a guy who (I am positive he was mostly joking but I love the metaphor) when he got to a difficult passage in a letter that Paul wrote would say that it was time to get the big black magic marker and just blot out that paragraph.
Aren’t we all very much like that? If there is something we read that is either uncomfortable or we cannot understand, we prefer to blot it out of mind.
I suggest another strategy.
Try saying, “I don’t know.”
Then cultivate curiosity and imagination.
There was so much contained in the letters of the Apostle Paul that I had trouble understanding. I thought about those issues often. Then I happened to come across an 1,800-page scholarly work that taught me more than I could have wished.
But I was ready to learn.
Had I decided to just ignore uncomfortable passages and roll with my prejudices, I would have missed a tremendous education.
If the first step of personal growth is awareness of where we are, then the first step of learning is saying “I don’t know” and “I wonder why…”
