Archive for the ‘Leadership’ Category

Change Leadership Means Changing What We Do

September 20, 2012

In Andy Stanley’s latest leadership podcast, he discussed leading through change. Many of you are involved in leadership roles at work. His thoughts are just as valuable there as in your leadership roles within your faith community.

He always goes back to lessons learned from Nehemiah. Leadership can be studied in three phases. Mission/vision, model, product/program. The leader must be on a mission with a vision of the objective. The leader will communicate that vision. Then the product or program must be worked on to achieve the vision.

The key question as you are working down from vision to doing is “What is the best way to …?”

Stanley is very bright, but he may be perhaps a bit optimistic about the business world. He said that in business it’s pretty simple. If it doesn’t sell, they quit selling it. They move on to something that will sell. Sadly, I’ve experienced businesses that stubbornly cling on, trying to sell something that the market doesn’t want. Just like the church leaders he discusses who, when a program doesn’t seem to be working, seek to blame it on external forces rather than changing the program to something that works better.

That’s where Stanley says you’ll run into the most resistance to change. At the “doing” level. When you ask people to change what they do every day, they get resistant and can fall back into old habits. We don’t have people signing up for the mission to women in Tijuana? Some say let’s keep trying. Others say, we need to do it differently. The ministry to youth doesn’t seem to be clicking? Instead of saying, “It’s just kids today,” say, “What would be a better way?” But then people have to change what they do during the preparation and “class” times.

People really won’t change how they do things until they are shown that there is a better way. Getting some small successes along the way reinforces the new “habit” and progress happens.

Communicate your vision. Lead people into changing the way they do things. Move your organization forward.

Argumentative Just To Be Argumentative

August 28, 2012

Looking at Paul’s instructions to Timothy about his vision for a local church, Paul talks about idle chatter as I discussed yesterday. He could also be referring to his comments a little earlier about those who teach something different from Paul’s teachings having a “morbid craving for controversy and for disputes about words.” He also calls those people conceited and “understanding nothing.”

Learning comes from study plus discussion. Maybe the discussion is held through reading many books. The discussion could also be among people–say in a small study group. Someone says, I just read this but I don’t understand exactly what the author means by this. Another says, I think it means that. Still another refers to an ancient source that offers an interpretation.

We don’t enter the world as humans knowing everything that everyone has figured out before us. We must learn it for ourselves. That is hard work that many do not wish to undertake. Many just say, tell us what to believe and we’ll be happy.

Dostoevsky tells a story about Jesus meeting the Grand Inquisitor in medieval Spain in his novel “The Brothers Karamazov.” (Read the book, don’t watch the movie.) In the story, the Grand Inquisitor tells Jesus that the people just want to be fed. They don’t want freedom. So please just go back to where you came from and let the Church tell people what to believe.

Other people are rebellious. They don’t want to follow the leader. They just like to argue. I have known these people in both church and business. Even in soccer. They just seem to like to argue. They absorb a lot of your energy just dealing with them.

I’m with Paul on this one. If you have someone who is just plain argumentative–maybe because they just need the spotlight focused on them–you’re better off without them around.

I don’t think Paul would dislike the honest discussion of seekers. It’s those “conceited” people who just like to argue who are the problem.

Are You Changing Yourself

May 24, 2012

A reader of the magazine I edit sent this little poster he wrote. It was meant for manufacturing company workers, but it applies here:

There is nothing more threatening to a boss than a leader!

How do you tell which one you are?  Ask yourself why do you want to know. 

 If you answer that you want to know so you can change others’ opinion of you, you might be a boss.

 If you answer that you want to know so that you can change yourself, you are a leader!

 Why would someone begin Spiritual Practices? When you started, what was in your mind? Was it because you wanted to let other people know so that they would think of you as a saint or guru or something like that? Or, were you simply trying to change yourself?

These questions are worth pondering occasionally. Just to keep us on the right path.

Leadership as a Spiritual Practice

April 27, 2012

I’ve just returned from a business trip, and I’ve been thinking about leadership. Had a chance to see the foremost leader in the industry segment that I cover in my “other life,” and also saw the results of that leadership in the people of a multi-billion dollar company.

So I began to think about leadership within the faith community as a spiritual practice or discipline. Are you a leader? Small group or major church, there are many leaders. In my years of involvement, I’ve seen leaders succeed and fail. I’ve seen some start fast and then lose momentum and falter.

What if we all sometimes stepped back from our busy lives and reflected upon our own experiences and attitudes? What are our motivations? Have we even considered that? Are we just in a leadership role because someone asked us to take on a job?

Leadership as a spiritual practice involves consciously aligning our vision of where to lead with our spiritual calling. Leadership as a spiritual practice involves valuing the people on the team (or even building a team) and valuing those whom you are serving.

I recorded this podcast about leadership. It was targeted to my readership on manufacturing and automation, but I suddenly realized its relevance for this readership, too. I am on iTunes, although these podcasts are all about manufacturing. Perhaps I’ll start another series for this audience.

What has happened to Christians

April 5, 2012

OK, so that’s a headline more designed to be provocative than to be answered. I’m back in Ohio staring out at dawn breaking through my magnolia on Colonial Drive. And 30 degrees chillier than yesterday as I prepare for my run.

Ah, preparation. Today is the Thursday before Easter. This day some 2,000 years ago, Jesus had dinner with his closest friends. Their last act together before the momentous events to come. We commemorate two of the acts. Some have turned them into rituals. Others call it remembrance. There is, of course, communion (or Holy Communion). Not remembered as well was the demonstration of servant leadership through the act of foot washing. This has either been forgotten or turned into a symbolic ritual.

What started the thoughts I’m pondering today was a car on the Miami expressway we passed on the way to the airport. The owner had hung a large cross from the rear view mirror. And I thought, how can we have so many Christians, yet seemingly we have such little impact on the world?

That may not be a fair thought. It just popped into my head. But I’ve been pondering it. What has been my impact? Am I Jesus to the people around me? Or, do I get trapped in rituals or bumper-sticker Christianity? You know, theology by slogan.

In communion, we celebrate (I hope you do, at least) Jesus’ life, death and resurrection. But I think we forget the foot washing too often. It’s what Jesus really wanted us to remember. As a leader, am I too prone to human failings of desire for power and prestige? Or, am I serving those who follow me–only to turn them loose in turn to do the same?

Jesus was thinking about the Monday after Easter. What are we to do after the resurrection? Go and serve.

Treat People Like Adults

March 19, 2012

How do you treat people? How do the organizations to which you belong treat people? Your church? Are you expected to sit, listen and then do what you’re told?

Perhaps the most important book I’ll read this year is Gary Hamel’s “What Matters Now.” The noted management thinker proposes a new way of  management and leadership in organizations in his latest work.

He tells two stories of organizations–an Anglican parish (England) and a bank (in New Zealand)–whose leaders decided to do things differently. They decided to empower “front line” people to make decisions, get passionate about what they are doing and let them do their work. “If you treat people like adults, they’ll behave as adults,” said one of the leaders.

As a result of reading those stories last night, my mediations this morning massaged that idea. I know “managers” who treat people like children–and they are the kindly father who guides them out of his wisdom. Of course, that doesn’t work today. I am in organizations and I am acquainted with other organizations that are so structured with rules and where the leaders see their main job as retaining their positions that they treat people as children to be led or numbers to stroke their egos about the size of their organizations. Those organizations are doomed. It may be a lingering death or a quick demise, but they are doomed.

My habit to continue to develop? Treat people with whom I interact with respect due to an adult. It may not be easy, but I think that’s what Jesus did. And I’d like to be like that.

Trust Comes From Truthfulness, Goodwill

March 12, 2012

I wrote Friday about trust. To go deeper into the word, Gary Hamel, writing in his latest book “What Matters Now,” says, “Trust is not simply a matter of truthfulness, it is also a matter of amity and goodwill. We trust those who have our best interests at heart, and mistrust those who seem deaf to our concerns.”

That has been a problem with leadership in the Christian church for centuries. Especially so maybe today. In the United States it has become possible for preachers using the reach of TV to build empires accumulating much wealth. But it’s hard to emphasize that and have followers think you have their best interests at heart. The empire eventually crashes.

We are supposedly living with the “Me Generation” in charge. There are many people who think “me first.” This attitude is often reflected in our political leadership. When I was studying sales (to become one of them), I was taught to tune into my customer’s radio station WII-FM — what’s in it for me. Too often that is what the salesman is thinking–but about himself, not the customer.

At this time of year especially, think about Jesus–not to mention Peter, Paul, John, Stephen and the others. They certainly didn’t exhibit the WII-FM attitude. Thank God.

It is a challenge to us to try to live counter to the prevailing culture of self-centeredness. When we lead, do we exhibit truthfulness, amity and good will? That’s a good thing to stop and think about.

Can You Convince People to Change

January 12, 2012

Paul, the apostle, would visit a new town and immediately visit a local Jewish gathering. He would begin to explain their Scriptures in a new way. He would say that every interpretation you have been taught that has been handed down from teacher to student for hundreds of years (much longer than Europeans have been on North America) is wrong. And he would then try to teach them a new way to look at them.

It would be as if someone came to America and told Americans, “You know all those things you have been taught about the founding and purpose of America is wrong. Actually, ….” They’d be thrown out of the gathering.

No wonder Paul had such a difficult time of it. Some of his teaching undermined the credibility of Jewish leadership in the Temple. No wonder they wanted to kill him (after they killed Jesus, Stephen and others). Try to convince your boss she’s wrong! Take that thought up a few notches in intensity when you’re trying to completely change the structure of a religion. (Think, “Out, out, you Bishops.”)

Paul would win over some of the Jews to the new Way. But not that many, evidently. And he stirred up so much hatred in the establishment, that he wound up in prison–OK, sort of a gentleman’s prison, but still not free to go.

This shows the limits of using intellectual persuasion to convince someone to change. The growth of the church is really explained in the first few chapters of Acts–especially Acts 2. It was through the lives of those who had been changed. Kind of like that famous scene in the movie “When Harry Met Sally” where the two older women looked at Meg Ryan and told the waitress, “I want what she’s having.”

Take a lesson from Acts, then. It is through how you live that people will be open to coming to Jesus. Then you can explain why. And teach the background. And help them develop intellectually as well as spiritually. Just as your children learn more by watching you than listening, so your example by how you live teaches more than your words.

Two types of people

November 15, 2011

Luke records in the book of Acts that Paul, Silas and Timothy (and evidently Luke himself) decided to go from Asia Minor to Macedonia. When they were in Thessaloniki, “the Jews” stirred up a lot of problems for them, so they went on to Berea. Well, the Jews from Thessaloniki heard about it and went to Berea to stir up more trouble.

The people there decided to ship Paul off to Athens while Silas and Timothy stayed behind.

I got to thinking–there must be two types of people. And that may be what helped Paul have so much success. Paul evidently was the argumentative one. I bet some would even say obnoxious (especially if you didn’t agree with him). This made him a divisive figure. So when trouble visited Berea, they must have said, “Let’s ship Paul out of here.”

But Silas and Timothy stayed behind for some time. They must have been the teacher/pastor/counselor types of people. When they left, there was a strong church in place.

Bet we still need two kinds of people. Oh, there is also a third type–the ones who do nothing. Which are you?

Prayer and Fasting

October 31, 2011

I’ve been studying in The Acts of the Apostles for a couple of months. If there is a sort of foundation theme to the book, it lies in the spiritual disciplines of worship, prayer and fasting. In the first few chapters things happen when the group is gathered together in worship, prayer and fasting. Then decisions are made later as they are beginning to get organized only after prayer and fasting.

This seems to be a worthy practice for us to emulate–both in church work and in our personal lives. We tend to get so opinionated. We are capable of having a firm opinion on things even in the face of unarguable facts and evidence to the contrary. And we are capable of arguing that point forever. No listening. No compromise.

How refreshing would it be to have a process something like this–recognize a problem that requires a decision; formulate the problem clearly; stop, take a deep breath, pray, center your whole attention on God (something fasting will do for you); and then listen for God to speak.

The original apostles made momentous decisions that way. While fasting and praying, they were consumed by the Holy Spirit. Good things happened to those who gathered together for prayer, fasting and worship. I bet it still happens today. Maybe we should all try that.