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Heart Health

April 24, 2024

I had a check up with my cardiologist this week. Got a “thumbs up” from him. Reduced medications from five to two.

The important cardiologist, though, is Jesus. He was always concerned with the health of a person’s heart. “Where your treasure is, there is your heart also,” he taught.

The Irish poet/philosopher John O’Donohue writing in “To Bless the Space Between Us” adds, “And all through the Old Testament, God is interested only in the heart—not sacrifices, rituals, or rules—only the heart. Indeed, mystical tradition would suggest the heart is beautiful precisely because it is where God dwells: the heart is the divine sanctuary.”

Have you checked both the physical and spiritual hearts lately? How are you doing? 

What Sort of People Are Around You?

April 23, 2024

A story poet Carl Sandberg told concerned a farmer (imagine the old days) out contemplating his fields when a stranger stopped and asked, “What sort of people live around here?”

“What sort of people were there where you’re from?”

“Well, they are a mean, cantankerous, angry lot,” came the reply.

“Well, I imagine you’ll find the people around here a lot like that,” opined the farmer.

Later, a second stranger stopped and asked the farmer the same question. The farmer asked his question again, “What sort of people were there where you’re from?”

“Well, they are honest, hardworking, loyal people.”

“I expect you’ll find the people around here the same.”

The point?

The people you surround your self with determine your outlook.

Surround yourself with lying, thieving people and you’ll find yourself falling into that culture.

Surround yourself with honest, hardworking, achieving, generous people and you will find yourself being much the same.

Anger—The Obstacle

April 22, 2024

There is no greater obstacle to the presence of the spirit in us than anger. St. John of the Ladder

Anger hides inside devastating our attitude and love.

Anger explodes causing hurt, embarrassment, division, separation.

On the other hand, sometimes anger expressed clears the air leading to fruitful reconciliation. Sometimes anger motivates us to correct a wrong in the world around us.

Understand  your anger. Manage it. Deal with it.

The Urge To Voice An Opinion

April 19, 2024

How often do you yield to the urge to voice an opinion? Maybe it is live conversation where someone must be corrected? Or perhaps responding to some inane comment on Facebook.

I confess. Far too often. Many times silence is the better option. I once taped a little reminder to my notebook—STFU (shut up). Hmm, reminder…or reprimand?

John Climacus wrote instructions to monks around 600 CE. 1,500 years ago he noticed,

A man should know that a devil’s sickness is on him if he is seized by the urge in conversation to assert his opinion, however correct it may be.

Contempt Spoils The Discussion

April 18, 2024

Some of the best meetings I’ve experienced occurred while creating something. Spirited. Opinionated. Initial disagreements.

These generated some of the best businesses of my career.

And the same in some non-profit or church-based initiatives.

The key was a small group in which trust was the foundation and an outcome was anticipated.

The meetings where participants (or at least a few) held others in contempt never proceeded to fortunate outcomes.

Trust v Contempt.

Read the room. Run when contempt causes dissension.

Leave the Library

April 17, 2024

When Jesus invited people to follow him, he never led them to a library.

I watch the society of various birds from my study window. How the robins bicker over territory and the geese in formation and the blackbirds swarm. A true ornithologist cannot sit in a library and read books all day. She must go out into the woods and fields and observe and note and think.

Yet, how many Christians think that following Jesus can be done from a library filled with books or at a conference room table discussing books? How many theologians spend too much time in the library and not enough time with God?

Jesus took his followers out amongst people. And he taught his new message. And healed. And advised. And ate and drank with a variety of people. And associated not only with his own kind—Jewish males—but with Romans and women and Samaritans and Syrians and common people.

Study is a spiritual discipline. But so is service. And worship. Getting out from the library and meeting people.

Our Mind

April 16, 2024

Our mind is the instrument of knowledge, but it is very imperfect and filled with all sorts of ignorance. John Climacus, The Ladder of Divine Ascent

“You think you’re so smart!”

How many times have we heard that? From teachers? Parents? Spouses? Children?

And that is not meant as a compliment, right?

Unless we have other problems, we do think we’re pretty smart.

But, are we really?

When we develop the attitude of continuous learning, then we can overcome that problem of ignorance. Partially, at least. The brain is malleable throughout our life. If we stretch it and use it.

Let us recognize our shortcomings and adopt the attitude of continuous improvement.

Sacrifice

April 15, 2024

Arnold Schwarzenegger told of a time when he was Governor of California attending the funeral of a war hero. Also attending was the local State Senator, who spoke eloquently of the sacrifice of the young man for the greater good.

Following the service, Arnold spoke to the legislator. “We have an important piece of environmental legislation coming up for vote. We need your support.”

“I cannot vote to support the bill even though I think it’s right,” came the reply. “It would be political suicide.”

On the one side he praised the courage of a war hero; on the other side he intentionally rejected the courageous act of his own.

We can sit here in judgement of that legislator.

Or…

We can reflect on the story. Place ourselves in the protagonist role. When have we chosen not to do the right thing because we might suffer an embarrassment or hurt or loss of stature or job?

Pointing fingers at others does no good. Jumping on social media to berate another human does nothing but instigate hurt. Being convicted of our own shortcomings and vowing to change our life’s pattern toward doing the right thing—priceless. 

Intention Determines Direction

April 12, 2024

Race car drivers—Don’t ever look at the wall, for that is the next place you’ll be.

Intention determines direction. Where you look, where your thoughts dwell, that is where you’re going and what you’ll become.

Or stated the other way,

The road to hell is not paved with good intentions. It is paved with lack of intention.

Determine each day “what good will I do today?” Therein lies intention.

Prayer

April 11, 2024

There is an ancient meditation technique from India that identifies “primordial” sounds with energy centers in the body. You sit quietly. Regulate breathing. Then inhale deeply. While exhaling slowly say one of these sounds. The A sound is like ahh; the O sound is like Ohh.

From base of spine upward to top of head:

  • Lam
  • Vam
  • Ram
  • Yam
  • Ham
  • Sham
  • Om

Within Christianity there is a simple prayer, called the Jesus Prayer, that Christian monks, nuns, and recluses have repeated since at least the second century.

Lord Jesus Christ, Son of God, have mercy on me, a sinner.

You sit in meditation just as above. I would say the first phrase on inhale and the second one on exhale. I used the word “say” in both instances. Actually, you can repeat aloud or silently.

Over much time, I shortened the prayer to just the word “God” which focuses me on the entire sentence.

The apostle Paul said once that we should pray without ceasing. That was it. One sentence of a suggestion or command or something.

A marvelous little book called The Way of the Pilgrim tells the story of a 19th century Russian peasant who met with tragedy where his house burned to the ground and his family was lost. His only possession was a Bible. Recovering, he could only think of the command to pray without ceasing. He decided to wander the land of western Russia repeating the Jesus Prayer. The story tells of his adventures meeting various people who helped him on his way.

The power of a mind focused on prayer. The power of prayer itself.

Try it. First thing in the morning. When I exercised at a Y, I sat cross-legged in the sauna after exercise and prayed it for 15 minutes almost every day. When you’re standing in the queue to check out at a store. When you are stopped by a traffic light.

Many opportunities present themselves for us to pause and say this little prayer. It helps us remember who we are.