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Not Everyone Who Calls Me Lord

January 30, 2020

Every week, if not daily, we hear about an eminent teacher, leader, or preacher of the Bible being outed for a (somewhat) secret life of sin, abuse, sex, pride. Not the ordinary failings of the rest of us, but a willful, continuing pattern. And when they are finally brought out into public view? They disappear. No repentance. No apologies.

This is not a 21st Century phenomenon. No, John the Baptizer and Jesus the Son of Man both appeared in 1st Century Palestine with a central word–repent. That’s an old-fashioned word, but it contains a contemporary meaning.

Recognize your failings. The damage you’ve done to many lives. The trust you’ve broken. And change your life.

Both John and Jesus made a consistent point of highlighting the publicly religious people of their time and calling out their hypocrisy. How they call out to their God, “Lord, Lord” but their actions belie their hearts.

No wonder Jesus said (recorded in Matthew 7):

Not everyone who says to me, ‘Lord, Lord,’ will enter the kingdom of heaven, but only the one who does the will of my Father who is in heaven.

When you go out to the coffee house, how do you treat the barista who serves you? Or the server at lunch or dinner? Or the plumber who comes to do the dirty work of keeping your house in order?

This week I called the cable TV company and cancelled TV service. Yes, my wife and I are now officially “cord cutters”. The man on the other end of the conversations was having some computer problems. He kept apologizing for the delay. I kept saying, “No problem, do your job and I’ll occupy my time reading and writing while I’m waiting.” He told me at one point, “Thank you so much for your patience. Not everyone is that way.” I told him that I understood and to have a nice day–in a job, by the way, that is most thankless.

I say that merely as an example. Maybe not always am I that kind. But I try. And so should you.

Because, as a Jesus-follower we try to live with the understanding that God cares not so much about what we say as how we act. I read a commentary preparing these thoughts where the preacher (I suppose) said that we should “leave a trail of good works.”

This is not a works versus faith argument. The proof lies in the status of your heart. What we do betrays the state of our heart. Is it of the light or of the darkness/

The Spiritual Discipline of Thinking

January 29, 2020

I just finished a rather big (530 pages), but readable, book on thinking–Surfaces and Essences: Analogy As The Fuel and Fire of Thinking.

Don’t let the size scare you off. It is quite an enjoyable read packed with everyday examples and ending with the fascinating examples of mathematicians pursuit of solving quadratic equations (don’t worry if you’ve forgotten all about them, it’s not a re-hash of high school algebra) and the development of Einstein’s thinking as he came up with his many theories that explained gravitation and mass-energy unity.

Analogy is the selective exploitation of past experiences to shed light on new and unfamiliar things belonging to another domain. Analogy-making is the lifeblood of cognition. It is also is the wellspring of creativity. As they explore analogy making, they touch on the education establishment’s tendency to believe in teaching things–especially science and math–with formal logic rather than analogy. This latter is ironic because so many advances in math are accomplished through analogy and not through formal logic.

Some church denominations have a foundation of tradition and the Bible. Some say “only the Bible.” As I have wandered from church to church in my life, many years ago I made a (to me) remarkable discovery. Even the churches that are one way or another tied to the Reformed Bible-only view have traditions. Go figure.

This book’s summary of research and story of stories added to my knowledge and experience about how importance of story over lists of facts. Even in science and technology. Partly because sometimes what we take as facts really aren’t.

This insight includes Bible study where we err if we think it’s all about learning a list of things–perhaps a list of rules.

I have begun NT Wright and Michael Bird’s 980+ page 4.5-lb. “summary” of Wright’s scholarship to date The New Testament in its World. They write in the introductory chapter, “If you try to read [the New Testament] as a ‘how-to’ book, which sadly is how some people approach it, you may end up frustrated, thinking it would have been better if the spirit had given us something more like a car manual or railway time table. No: the New Testament is designed to draw us into the story of God’s plan, to rescue the world from chaos and idolatry and to launch his new transformative creation…This rescue and this launch have happened in Jesus.”

Sounds as if they had read Surfaces and Essences before it was written!

Go dive into the story. It’s fascinating…and life-changing.

I Am Imperfect

January 28, 2020

Sometimes I awaken around 4:30 or 5:00 and lie in corpse pose (from Yoga) for 30 to 60 minutes meditating. Then I rise, refreshed, to begin the day at 5:30.

This morning the question was framed, tell me about myself. Then I saw a hand writing “Imperfect.”

True, I thought–and then my meditation went off in other directions.

But, I thought, how profound.

How many of us go around pointing to someone else’s imperfections? And we do it as if we ourselves are perfect.

How many of us parse through a list of sins only to conclude that our own sins, if indeed we actually have any, are so very minor compared to sins of someone else?

How many of us build entire theologies around the particular “sin” we have identified as worse than others and organized them out of the club?

How profound the old saying, “when you point at someone, there are three fingers pointing back at you.” Yes, we probably have three times the failings of the one we are singling out.

Some time spent in prayer of confession before encountering others would be time well spent. Then maybe we could be as accepting as the one many claim to follow, but for which there is scant evidence.

As for me…I remain imperfect.

Wisdom—Being and Doing

January 27, 2020

There are four types of people revealed in the Hebrew book of Proverbs. There are the simple, the scorner, the fool, and the wise.

The simple live the unexamined life. Maybe they could be taught.

The scorner knows it all, is sometimes evil, might as well be ignored. Stay away from them.

The fool thinks he knows it all, but knows nothing. Teaching is wasted on them. We see this type often. But they don’t know it.

The wise are always learning. They are open to God’s leading.

But, sometimes people who have wisdom are not aware of how much they have. They are asleep. They must be awakened.

Some people know all the wisdom sayings, maybe even write them, but living wisely escapes them. Example–Solomon, who reputedly wrote that book of Proverbs, yet he lived unwisely and failed to bring up his son properly. That son caused the kingdom to split. So, even though seemingly wise, Solomon and his son exemplify fools in their lives.

Blessed is the person who knows wisdom and strives to practice it with every breath. I think that the story of Jesus and the scribe in discussion in the Temple during Jesus’ last week shows this. The scribe knew all the right answers and Jesus evidently perceived in his soul the longing to do right. Jesus told him he was not far from the kingdom of God.

Nassim Nicholas Taleb wrote a section in his book Skin in the Game entitled Intellectuals are Idiots. That is his typical blunt hyperbole. But haven’t we all met people who memorize well and perceive and live poorly?

Why Do You Do It?

January 24, 2020

There are people who accumulate university degrees like stamp collectors accumulate stamps. A pastor once told me (well, he told me many times as we sat in the post-workout steam room) how many advanced degrees there were amongst his congregation.

I don’t think we’ll delve into the impact his congregation had on the life of the community at large.

There are people who dress very nicely. They like to be seen. They like to be seen as leading some church or community organization.

There are people who like to be seen giving large amounts of money to an institution–usually earning a large plaque on the wall or their name on the building. Yet, they continue to live in luxury.

Jesus was watching people in the Temple courtyard one day and remarked to his followers one word of warning–beware.

Mark, recording his story in his Gospel, says As he taught, he said, “Beware of the scribes, who like to walk around in long robes, and to be greeted with respect in the marketplaces, and to have the best seats in the synagogues and places of honor at banquets! They devour widows’ houses and for the sake of appearance say long prayers. They will receive the greater condemnation.”

God is not looking at our clothes or degrees or gifts out our plenty. God is looking for scars earned from a life of doing justice (Amos 5:24) and being a servant.

Motivation. Why do you do it? To look good, or to do justice? To gain public recognition or to serve God?

What If

January 23, 2020

That is such a powerful phrase.

What if…causes you to shift the analogies you think in. To consider new possibilities. New ways of seeing situations and challenges.

Consider a thought from one of my favorite philosopher/theologians–Pierre Teilhard de Chardin (tay-yard de shar-dan):

Someday, after mastering the winds, the waves, the tides and gravity, we shall harness for God the energies of love. And then, for the second time in the history of the world, man will have discovered fire.

What if we really followed Jesus, who turned the world upside down by pursuing love, not power?

Self-Awareness

January 22, 2020

Fools laugh at others. Wisdom laughs at itself.

When we lack self-awareness, we focus on others. Our conversations are solely about other people–usually how they are silly or stupid or foolish.

Unaware of how that reflects back on us.

When we realize our own strengths, but more importantly, our own foibles and weaknesses, we laugh at ourselves. We laugh, not derisively, but with the joy of understanding that we are human.

Leadership As Getting Outside Yourself

January 21, 2020

I once wrote on leadership every Friday. Then I felt as if I’d run out of anything meaningful to say. In my day job, publicists offer me books to read in order to review. I’ll share one I just received Friday–Formula X: How to Reach Extreme Acceleration in Your Organization by Jurriaan Kamer and Rini van Solingen. It was published in Dutch last June; the English edition will be available Jan. 28.

It is European, so the protagonist is known as a Managing Director rather than General Manager or COO. And the conceit regards Formula 1 racing.

I say protagonist because while the book is about leadership and organizational change, it is written as a story or “fable”. In that regard it reminds me of The Goal by Eliyahu Goldratt.

The protagonist is bright, yet clueless. The story weaves business and personal problems. And it is through learning from how a Formula 1 racing team operates that he learns how to organize the company, build teams, and achieve goals. It is only out of despair that he finally wakes up, gets a clue, and builds a winning team.

Whereas Goldratt was building a Theory of Constraints for optimizing production (it’s a 1980’s book, but still valid), Formula X steps back and looks at organizing the company and all its silos and disfunctions. It’s a blend of Lean and SCRUM (from programming) and Holacracy and other newer ideas.

The model is FASTER (as in racing cars must become…).

  • Focus and clarity
  • Accelerate decisions
  • Simplify
  • Team engagement
  • Elementary physics (Newton’s Second Law of Thermodynamics, but don’t worry about that)
  • Rhythmic learning

The authors use such Lean principles as Respect for People, daily stand ups (quick meetings), a form of 5S, using the people to find root causes of problems along with experimenting to find solutions.

Good stuff.

I Have a Dream

January 20, 2020

I have a dream that my four little children will one day live in a nation where they will not be judged by the color of their skin but by the content of their character.

I bought into that dream. Actually, before the speech, I bought into justice as a core value. And I took some grief (as we say in farm country) for being a civil rights advocate–but nothing near the grief of the marchers in the South.

Once churches were at the forefront of the struggle for justice. Now they mutter platitudes about being inclusive while in reality being more known for anti-abortion, anti-gay, even still mostly segregated.

Once you could go to a political party to fight for justice. Now–either platitudes or buying your vote or both. Just stirring up hate.

If you’d have asked me 55 years ago if by 2020 racism would still be rampant, that women were still trying to be accepted in business and politics as equal to white guys, that the Christian church would be more interested in what happens in your bedroom than in the condition of your heart–I would not have believed it.

Even though my hometown nickname in the late sixties was “The Protester”, my personality has always been quieter rather than the bearded guy with a sign.

And still, yes Martin, I still have the dream that we judge people by the content of their character–and as Jesus-followers, we help all of us who fall short.

We remember, and even celebrate, the life and work of Martin Luther King, Jr. today in the US. But this blog is read around the world. And wherever you are, justice issues remain. There is racism and hatred. It takes just one person at a time to change things.

When Deeds Match Words

January 17, 2020
I’ve been made blue, I’ve been lied to 
When will I be loved
I’ve been turned down, I’ve been pushed ’round
When will I be loved
When I meet a new girl that I want for mine
She always breaks my heart in two, it happens every time
I’ve been cheated, been mistreated
When will I be loved

— Phil Everly, recorded by the Everly Brothers and also Linda Ronstadt

The surest way for a leader to corrupt an organization is to establish a culture of distrust through lying, cheating, and otherwise saying one thing then doing the opposite.

It’s something I’ve observed and experienced throughout my career. Presidents and other company leaders promise things–bonuses, promotions, new projects, continued employment, support–and then do none of them.

Even in churches. I just talked with a guy the other day who recounted several instances of pastors he has known leaving their wife and running off with the wife of someone else in the congregation.

If you wish to be a good and trusted leader, try not to break Linda Ronstadt’s heart (metaphorically). Don’t lie, cheat, mistreat…