Archive for the ‘Service’ Category

Love Is Something You Do

February 21, 2013

I have growing appreciation for John’s (the apostle) Greek usage. I don’t speak or read Greek, so I rely on experts. A few months ago I learned where John made up a Greek word to describe faith (as “leaning toward”).

This week I was listening to a speaker (now this may have been Jesus’ use of Aramaic, which also I don’t speak) who talked about a command Jesus left us recorded in John where he changed a noun into a verb. “Love one another,” he said.

You are not in love; you do love.

There is an old Christian folk song, “Love is something you do; love is something you do. Not always something that you feel, but it’s real.”

Modern psychological researchers have discovered something that Jesus already knew. In fact, it’s also ancient wisdom. Actions come first, feelings follow. Even if you don’t feel loving, your actions will lead you to be loving.

What cost is a smile? No matter how you feel. When your smile is reflected back to you, your spirits are lifted.

When you serve others–maybe just opening a door for a harried mother, or buying a meal for someone, or giving your coat to a homeless person–that loving feeling follows.

Now let’s go out and live into Jesus’ command. Love others.

Exercise Your Spiritual Gifts

February 15, 2013

What are your  Spiritual Gifts?

Notice, I didn’t ask “do you have” gifts. The answer to that is “yes.”

Aside from those dear people who know their gifts and are happily using them and from those who simply don’t care, I see two problems. Figuring out what our gifts are. Exercising those we have.

It is difficult for us to know ourselves. There are useful meditation techniques that help us step outside our bodies and give us a glimpse of how we actually are. Sometimes we so lack confidence that we convince ourselves that we have no gifts. Some over compensate for that feeling by forcing a supposed gift that really isn’t. Ever know someone not gifted for leadership who thinks he/she is?

Bill Hybels recently talked about experimenting. If you’re not sure what your Spiritual gift is, but you think it might be X, then go try it. Experiment and see. If it doesn’t feel right, or if you’re not having an impact, maybe that’s not your gift. Try again. Find a test. Ask others. Find your gift.

New Testament writers are fond of using the metaphor of athletic training. That must have been a popular illustration in the Greek of the time. After finding your gift, you must exercise it. But not in the sense of exercising your dog, which generally means just going for a walk. Look at that illustration as one of an athlete preparing for a competition. Test your limits. Do something daily to develop the gift. Read. Ask questions. Try. Then try some more.

It appears that I may be in a situation where I need to build a couple of teams. I’ve been reflecting on this. The important task for me is to determine the types of giftedness that the teams need in its various roles and then to find people with those gifts who are willing to join in the journey.

I’ll say more about those two journeys as they develop.

Meanwhile, what is your Spiritual Gift? What are you doing about it?

What if Christians Really Followed Teachings On the Poor

February 12, 2013

Jesus taught that we should be feeding the poor. The story of his feeding of the 5,000 (men) appears in all four gospels. Late in Matthew’s story, Jesus said when we fed the poor, we fed him. James taught that if you say you believe and do not act it out in your life, your belief leads to nothing.

I’m in a small group that is discussing service and plotting how to actually serve. In my own life, I’m evaluating service opportunities. But while we were discussing ideas around collecting food for  the poor in our town, I was reminded of some thinking I have done for many years.

What if all the Christian churches followed Jesus’ teaching to feed the poor?

I’m thinking of just the USA right now, but it probably applies generally. If you do the math (number of people on welfare or number of those below poverty line divided by the number of churches), it is not an out-of-bounds thought to say that we could remove the state welfare system and do a much better job of caring for people.

I diverted a year of my life and went to graduate school in political science. Mostly I was interested in political philosophy, but I did a graduate seminar in public administration (or bureaucracy). Bureaucracy is driven by procedures and policies. It is not driven by care for people.

The miracle wouldn’t be feeding the people. The miracle would be all the Christian churches working together!

But, imagine, what if….

Staying Connected

January 24, 2013

I love technology. Recently, and actually many times over the past 10 years, I have been involved in online discussions on technology, the future, impacts on jobs, and the like.

I can remember when I was one of only a few who had a mobile phone. Maybe that even made me feel technologically superior. I needed to be out front in gadgetland.

Then everyone had a mobile phone. But I had a mobile phone and a Palm Pilot. Ha! Eventually those merged into a “smart phone.” When the Dayton Pops had a concert at the same time as an Ohio State University football game, everyone in my section asked for scoring updates during breaks in the music action since I could access the Internet and get ESPN online.

But technology is only useful if just about everyone can benefit.

Last night I was helping out a team of people on a ministry project serving a lasagna dinner to a group of people in a retirement apartment complex. Before I prayed at the beginning of dinner, we asked for prayer requests. They were concerned about one of the residents who had several serious ailments occurring simultaneously.

After dinner and entertainment (two very talented  girls from a local high school), a woman of about 80 years of age stood up and, holding a Samsung Galaxy smart phone in a cool hot-pink case, asked if the group wanted an update on how their friend was doing in the hospital. Sounded like she was reading from a Facebook post. I was so impressed. And they were able to rejoice that their friend was showing positive signs of recovery from a stroke.

My mother had gotten into email before she passed away several years ago. She and one of my brothers were determined that they would get it set up without asking me for help. They did. And she was connected to her dispersed brothers, nieces and nephews for the last few years of her life.

It’s not the technology. When that gets out of the way and allows us to connect, that’s the cool thing.

Excellence Is A Habit

January 23, 2013

This is the 500th post to this blog. I sort of played around with it for a while, then got serious a couple of years ago. I appreciate all the comments either here or by email or Facebook or Twitter.

Rummaging around for a quote for Yoga class last night, I ran across this one from the Greek philosopher Aristotle:

“We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence, therefore, is not an act, but a habit.”

You just need to keep doing the best you can and pretty soon that becomes a habit. Just like a morning routine. Or, like service.

In the U.S., we have stop lights at most intersections. To expedite traffic flow (well roundabouts are better, but we won’t go there), it is usually legal to turn right on a red light after stopping and checking for oncoming traffic.

I noticed some time ago that if the light is changing and I have space, I’ll move into the left lane if there is no one in the right. In that way someone behind me who wishes to turn right can do so without waiting for the light to cycle.

Someone else just wrote that they noticed someone else who does that. Out of habit. One little service to others.

So I wondered, do we make serving others a habit? Not necessarily one big annual go out and do something. But in several daily acts, repeated every day. In other words, is serving others an act? Or, a habit?

I think of all the times that Jesus served in little ways (well, for him little) even when it distracted him from what he was doing or where he was going. He stopped and served. It was a habit. Part of his life.

From these habits of service weaves a pattern of a Christ-like life.

Finding and Following Your Call

January 4, 2013

Do you have a call? Are you sure you are following it?

Through different periods of my life, I’ve paused and asked God to let me know his calling for me. I’ve done many different things. I hope some of them were what God wanted. Listening is part of my daily routine.

So, it was either interesting or timely that I received a little brochure from an organization that I support financially called Lumunos. Sometime in the early 70s I ran across a little magazine titled after the organization that published it–Faith@Work. I never made it to one of their small group weekends, but the magazine was a source of nourishment for probably 30 years or more.

The organization has shrunk some. Finances forced the closing of the magazine. It still publishes a small version and has a blog. It’s worth checking out.

I searched the Website and didn’t find this brochure on it. So I’ll just give you some of the wisdom.

The Top Ten Reasons to Listen For and Follow Your Call

10. You will be less busy. (Following your call may mean saying no to many things that distract you from your call.)

9. You will have more energy. (From Isaiah 58:11, “The Lord will guide you continually, and satisfy your needs in parched places, and make your bones strong; and you shall be like a watered garden, like a spring of water, whose waters never fail.”

8. There will be less chance of burning out. (Henri Nouwen, “God does not want you go destroy yourself. Exhaustion, burnout, and depression are not signs that you are doing God’s will.”)

7. You will be more fun to be around. (As we do God’s will, we will have more joy.)

6. You will feel less stress. (Following call invites us to trust that we are not the ‘saviors’ of the world.)

5. You will be more creative. (When creativity is flowing, it is often a sign of call.)

4. You will be less fragmented. (Call is about the whole of our lives, and it brings the pieces together.)

3. You will have more good friends. (Common interests creates friendships.)

2. You will do less sleepwalking through life. (It requires that we pay attention to what is going on outside us and inside us.)

1. The world begins to look more the way God intends. (Frederick Buechner, “The place God calls you to is the place where your deep gladness and the world’s deep hunger meet.”)

Keep Your Heart With Vigilance

November 14, 2012

Yesterday the men’s study group that I join when I’m in town was discussing the Epistle of James. The question of the day was, does James, with his emphasis on doing, contract Paul, with his emphasis on grace.

It is said that Martin Luther, after discovering the power of grace, dismissed this letter.

I think they just wrote to different types of people with different goals. James assumed faith and was giving further instruction. He also wrote from the wisdom literature tradition. Paul was converting and nurturing new Christians, most of whom were Greek, not Jewish. And he wrote from the Pharisaic tradition.

But one of the guys yesterday probably nailed it when he noted, “It’s really all about what comes from the heart.”

In Proverbs we read that Wisdom says to keep her words in your heart and (4:8) “Keep your heart with all vigilance, for from it flows the springs of life.”

Jesus, though, warns us that what defiles us is not what we put in our stomachs, but (Matt. 15:18) “what comes out of the mouth proceeds from the heart and this is what defiles.” He also says to watch what you treasure for there will also be your heart.

So as we look at living a with-God life, it is well that we nurture the heart. Feed it with wisdom. Treasure the right things. And that will lead us to do good works. And we make both Paul and James happy.

Make a Point or Make a Difference

November 8, 2012

Well, we’re a couple of days post-election. Even my friends around the world were watching it. It was bitter and divisive. Many people still hold grudges about winners and losers. It probably was not the most bitter and divisive of all U.S. elections, though. And as I told several people, the sun will come up the next day and the economy and world events will just keep on keeping on. We do not have as much power over events as we might think.

Andy Stanley left something to think about in a recent podcast on leadership. He said to leaders, “You can make a point, or you can make a difference.” We’ve just had a (too long) season of many people just making points. But real leadership comes not from talk, but action.

Is it possible for people who believe different things to work together for the good of all? I think it is. I’ve witnessed it many times. Now is a time to do just such a thing. There is no way I agree with everyone, but that doesn’t mean I can’t work with them.  It works in churches where we may not all agree on the nuances of worship or theology, but out of service to Jesus we can make a difference.

Something was said in church Sunday. I do not remember the context. I pulled out my notecards and wrote, can being humble be misunderstood? Some people make a lot of noise by making points but if you look, you don’t see much action. These people often do well in organizations–for a while. On the other hand, there are people who quietly make a difference and you don’t realize it until later.

So, I come back to the theme. Can we agree to disagree on some points but still work together for the good of the people and the glory of God?

Jesus Taught About Entitlement

September 19, 2012

The other day, I was thinking about how so many in our world have a feeling of being entitled to what they have and what they want. I know many people who want something for nothing. Others think the world revolves around them and cannot understand it when other people don’t see that.

Bill Hybels, teaching on Proverbs, said that if you want to be a leader in your organization, you must add value. It’s not who you are or how many years you’ve managed to hang around. It’s how diligently and honestly you work. How many sales have you made? How have you organized your area? How much more responsibility can be entrusted to you?

Jesus’ friends James and John were about to go on to do great things. From what I can glean from the Scriptures, they were not poor fishermen–a picture often foisted upon us. Yes, they owned a fishing business. But they also were tapped into Jewish leadership. I think they revealed an entitlement mindset when they approached Jesus and asked about sitting on his right and left hand in the kingdom.

At that time, they really didn’t comprehend what the kingdom was. Then on the night he was betrayed, Jesus took off his outer clothes, put a towel around his waist and washed the feet of his friends. It was a scene of great humility. The room must have become eerily silent.

Here was the most entitled of all humans performing the work of a servant. This is the example. Go and do likewise.

Bible Study and Christian Service

August 29, 2012

Bible study as a culture neutral experience? Or, better said, cross-cultural experience. Bible Study magazine has an article this month on the organization InterVarsity Christian Fellowship. This is an organization for college students with local associations run by students.

It raised an interesting point. For many students, going away to the university (for my international readers, we use college and university interchangeably over here) is perhaps the first experience in multi-culturism. Perhaps it’s even the first time associating with people of different Christian persuasions.

The idea that the Bible is actually neutral in that regard–where you can gather groups of people from different cultures and different denominations in an honest and deep study of Scripture–never dawned on me. Not that I don’t approach it that way. But as a philosophy, that’s cool.

Perhaps since I was raised Methodist (4th generation, I’m told) with two Baptist minister uncles and then taught in a Catholic school, I regard all these and the rest as just different manifestations of how to worship God. Often it’s a matter of culture and upbringing. Fortunately in the U.S., outside of bouts of discrimination toward new denominations, we have not fought any religious wars along sectarian lines. In Europe, there’s an entirely different experience, which I’m sure deeply influences things there.

Just start with small groups and a Bible. And a passion for learning.

Service opportunities

Thought I’d pass along some reading I’ve done. There is a Website called “Lifehacker.” The hacker part comes from the technology sector where people “hack” electronics and programs to make them better. So Life-hacker is site that offers tips on how to live.

One of the Spiritual Disciplines is service. Many people are either confused or apprehensive about service opportunities. This Life hacker article discusses How to Find a Volunteer Gig You’ll Enjoy. Maybe it’ll help push some of you over the hurdle into a life of finding satisfaction in volunteer service.