Archive for the ‘Meditation’ Category

Repeating the Message

December 16, 2024

As Epictetus writes, “Every day and night keep thoughts like these at hand. Write them, read them aloud, talk to yourself and others about them.”

This is not my business blog, but I’d like to cite business legend Jack Welch, former CEO of GE. I dislike just about everything he did building the house of cards called GE at the time including the brutal way he treated people.

There is one idea that I gleaned from his book that I’ve found useful.

Repetition.

A leader must form a story for where the organization is and where it is going. He/she must repeat that story in every meeting they have within and outside the company. This is the only way to assure getting the message through.

This works also in meditation. Zen meditation teaches meditating on a koan, a thought that is usually physically nonsense. Christian meditation includes meditating on the Jesus Prayer (Lord Jesus Christ have mercy on me, a sinner). Recently I’ve picked up the focus phrase Be still and know that I am God.

Or, as Epictetus suggested, write them, read them, talk to others about them.

Like a Tea Bag in a Cup of Hot Water

November 21, 2024

Those of you who have followed my writing for some time know that I am an eclectic reader. I pick up ideas and wisdom from wherever I can.

Listening to an interview with Zen Master Henry Shukman on the flight to California this week. He mentioned that meditation is like dipping a tea bag into a cup of hot water. It infuses your life.

There is a rich history of Christian mediation. We also call it contemplation or prayer.

Sit for a moment or two. Let this idea of connecting with God infusing our life. How much better we would live if we let God infuse our life. Perhaps that is a part of what Jesus meant by the Kingdom of God surrounds us.

When I sit in meditation, the experience of God infusing my life is part of the whole.

(For a great book on the subject, try The Cloud of Unknowing by an anonymous 14th Century English Catholic religious.)

Dogma or Experience?

August 9, 2024

The church became officially recognized in the early 300s. By 330 CE, it had a creed, an official book of scripture, and evidently had developed rituals.

It was not much later that groups of men and women trekked into the desert wildernesses of Syria and Egypt searching for an alternative to the Church’s reliance on dogma and doctrinal orthodoxy as the means to understanding the depths of God.

These searchers gathered in small groups or went out to a cave alone to meditate and look for God’s presence.

This tradition has continued even until today. Perhaps the rock’n’roll mega churches were a bit of reaction to formal ritual and dogma. But each group develops its own ritual and dogma.

Many are not satisfied with either. We search for a deeper understanding of God. When Jesus spoke of different types of people, the Greek translation of his Aramaic was makarios. But it means more than “blessed” or “happy.” Its deeper meaning refers to a deep relationship with God. It is not a superficial “you will be happy” sort of thing.

If dogma soothes your soul, so be it. That should not be criticized. Some of us long for a deeper spiritual experience of God that can be translated to outer service in pursuit of peace, justice, healing.

When Heat and Humidity Build

August 7, 2024

Hot town, summer in the city, back of my neck feeling dirty and gritty–The Lovin’ Spoonful.

Summer arrives at its peak months. Heat builds to a consistent 90 F (32 C). Humidity, liking consistency, matches the 90 with 90%.

The atmosphere reaches the point of too much pressure. It cannot live with such conditions.

Lightning dangerously connects heaven and earth. Thunder jars startled ears. Rain violently strikes everything in the open.

Then it’s over. The air is cool and clear.

Just so with us. The pressure of annoyances, insecurities, fears fills our viscera reaching the mind. We explode venomous words to whomever happens to be near.

Unlike nature, this seldom clears the air. This storm damages what it touches.

Better for us humans is the self awareness of feeling the pressures beginning and dealing with them with intention.

Deep breath. A walk in nature alone. Baroque music.

Finding a gentle release saving relationships and mental health. Restoring the soul.

Empty and Full

July 31, 2024

Practicing meditation emphasizes emptying. Empty the mind of useless or evil thoughts.

Jesus told a story of what happens next. When Satan returns to find an empty house swept clean and empty, he musters seven other spirits and lurks there making it worse than before. (Matthew 12:44-45)

Emptying the mind is the essential first step. Filling it with the right spirit comes next.

Pause

July 30, 2024

I once led a Yoga practice as part of the summer youth program at a downtown community center. The kids ranged in age from about 8 to about 15. Maybe 20 of them. At the end of every Yoga practice is a practice often called “final relaxation.” It is a form of meditation, maybe even mindfulness.

For the length of the practice we did with these youth, final relaxation would be maybe 5-6 minutes. Figuring we could keep 20 kids still for 5 minutes seemed the Impossible Dream. We went sometimes as long as 15 minutes.

You all can do that, too. If an 8-year-old can lie still and breathe for 15 minutes, what is stopping you. A pause for even 10 minutes in a busy day where we breathe and perhaps focus on a scene can change your outlook on life, and indeed, your life itself.

I would often set a scene as we began relaxing. Imagine yourself in a sunny meadow filled with beautiful wildflowers. The grass is soft as we sink into it. We can smell the flowers. Our breathing slows. We are just here.

Breath

June 26, 2024

Let us pause and consider our breathing.

With intention we slow our breathing.

Inhale…exhale.

Under stress, the breath comes quickly,

raising blood pressure,

ready to face the enemy.

Slowing breath with intention,

our body slows,

mind focuses on breath and spirit

blood pressure drops.

The ancients knew the connection

between breath and spirit, vital life force.

Ruach in Hebrew, 

Pneuma in Koine Greek, 

Prana in Sanskrit.

Inhale spirit;

Exhale worry, fear, hate.

With Open Hands

April 30, 2024

Andrew Huberman, a famous neuroscientist, described how making a fist sends a signal to the brain thence through the body to tense up and prepare for fight or flight. So, unclench your fists to begin to relax.

Which reminded me of Henri Nouwen’s marvelous little book With Open Hands.

People often are concerned with posture during meditation or prayer. Maybe they’ve seen photos of an old guru or a famous movie star sitting cross-legged (we call it lotus or half-lotus position in Yoga, not easy for everyone to get into) with hands resting on knees and the tips of thumb and second finger touching (called “completing the energy circuit”).

Forget all that. You can sit on a cushion on the floor or on a firm chair with an upright posture engaging strong abs. The important thing is what we learned from Huberman and Nouwen. Unclench your fists and open your hands. Now you will be in a more relaxed posture and a more inviting one. It signals the body and the mind that now I’m open to God. I am ready to receive God’s blessing or nudging or whatever the spirit feels I need for the day.

With open hands.

Prayer

April 11, 2024

There is an ancient meditation technique from India that identifies “primordial” sounds with energy centers in the body. You sit quietly. Regulate breathing. Then inhale deeply. While exhaling slowly say one of these sounds. The A sound is like ahh; the O sound is like Ohh.

From base of spine upward to top of head:

  • Lam
  • Vam
  • Ram
  • Yam
  • Ham
  • Sham
  • Om

Within Christianity there is a simple prayer, called the Jesus Prayer, that Christian monks, nuns, and recluses have repeated since at least the second century.

Lord Jesus Christ, Son of God, have mercy on me, a sinner.

You sit in meditation just as above. I would say the first phrase on inhale and the second one on exhale. I used the word “say” in both instances. Actually, you can repeat aloud or silently.

Over much time, I shortened the prayer to just the word “God” which focuses me on the entire sentence.

The apostle Paul said once that we should pray without ceasing. That was it. One sentence of a suggestion or command or something.

A marvelous little book called The Way of the Pilgrim tells the story of a 19th century Russian peasant who met with tragedy where his house burned to the ground and his family was lost. His only possession was a Bible. Recovering, he could only think of the command to pray without ceasing. He decided to wander the land of western Russia repeating the Jesus Prayer. The story tells of his adventures meeting various people who helped him on his way.

The power of a mind focused on prayer. The power of prayer itself.

Try it. First thing in the morning. When I exercised at a Y, I sat cross-legged in the sauna after exercise and prayed it for 15 minutes almost every day. When you’re standing in the queue to check out at a store. When you are stopped by a traffic light.

Many opportunities present themselves for us to pause and say this little prayer. It helps us remember who we are.

Can’t Sit Still?

December 7, 2023

Blaise Pascal, 17th century French mathematician, physicist, inventor, philosopher, and Catholic writer, said, “Many of our major problems derive from our inability to sit still in a room.”

Pioneering Swiss psychologist Carl Jung told of a patient who exhibited anxiety and restlessness. Jung prescribed for him to go home, go to his office, close the door, and sit for a few hours every day.

The patient returned for his next appointment stating that he didn’t feel any better. Jung asked about his day. He said, well, I sat in my chair. Then I got a book and went through a few pages. Then I got out my violin and played for a short while. Then I tried another book.

Jung reprimanded him, “I told you to sit quietly. Just be with yourself. Just sit.”

Modern psychology? Pascal prescribed that 300 years earlier.

If you cannot stand to be alone with yourself for even an hour or even a half-hour a day, is it any wonder that others cannot stand to be with you, either?

The story concerns an elementary schoolroom from many years ago, but it could be yesterday. The teacher noticed that while she was explaining something a little boy sat staring out of the window. “What are you doing, little boy?” asked the teacher. “Thinking,” replied the boy. “Don’t you know you’re not supposed to think in class?” responded the teacher before realizing the irony.

The boy was on the right track. Finding time to sit and think is a good thing. Try it.