Archive for the ‘Learning’ Category

The Less I Know

October 16, 2025

George Bernard Shaw said, “The trouble with this world is that the ignorant are cocksure and the intelligent are full of doubt.”

A later interpretation of Shaw is the Dunning- Krueger Effect—the less you know about a subject, the more certain you will be that you are correct.

Jesus once said, “Unless you change and develop minds like children, you will never enter the Kingdom of Heaven.” This thought exists in many wisdom traditions. It’s called more simply (and I like simply) “beginners’ mind.”

Unless we empty our minds and soak up learning like children, we become fixed in our beliefs. And these beliefs could, and probably will, be completely wrong.

Journeying on the path to deeper learning, we will encounter friends and acquaintances who have not progressed beyond the beliefs and opinions of childhood. Certainly there exists a small, but thriving, online community that continues to believe the earth is flat.

Encountering such people, which we will daily, our only real response is compassion. Arguing is counterproductive only leading to strained relationships. Acquiescing is not being true to ourselves. Compassion, reflecting the frequent response of Jesus, becomes the way to health.

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Learn from Mistakes

October 1, 2025

Sometimes I’ve not done my best. Sometimes even I make a mistake.

It hurts.

Someone may point it out. I must regroup and reflect.

I consider myself a constant learner. If I am to learn, I must learn from my mistakes and shortcomings. Consider what was wrong. Observe people doing it right. Copy. Practice. Repeat.

Whether it’s guitar, singing, learning a language, resistance training, raising a dog. Whatever.

Own your mistakes. Swallow your pride. Learn from them. The path to true growth.

Curiosity Is A Skill

July 29, 2025

This is becoming a mini-series on curiosity.

Let’s see…a student for 17 years, teacher for one, school board member for eight, wife taught in elementary school for 35.

Some people dislike public schools (meant to provide a common education for everyone in a democracy) because they want to see teachers’ salaries reduced. Some because they don’t teach political or religious philosophy they espouse.

I side with Seth Godin. He calls it the industrial-education complex. Schools, public and most private ones (and most universities) exist to churn humans through the system such that they can provide bodies in industrial-type jobs. Not thinking or creative jobs. Assembling things, entering data/writing rote reports, attend meeting after meeting (sort of just like school).

In this post called Why and How from a couple months ago, Godin tackles science non-education. (Interesting that my copy of Burn Math Class arrived today. I’ve had the same feelings about math class as science class—and I like both things.)

Let’s get rid of science class in school.

Instead, beginning in kindergarten, we could devote a class to curiosity and explanation.

A class that persistently and consistently teaches kids to ask why and to answer how.

The unacceptable single-word answers are “because” and “magic.”

Curiosity is a skill, and it can be taught.

I learned biology when my parents bought a microscope, and I began exploring. I read about planets, and relativity, and dinosaurs. I learned electronics math while learning how to assemble and analyze circuits. I bought a 22-scale log-log slide rule (still have it) and an electronics math slide rule in the early 60s while in high school.

I was frustrated by chemistry. I kept wanting to ask Why. He kept saying to memorize the balance equations or whatever. The only math class than kept me interested was geometry. The teacher said what I’m really going to do is teach you to think. And he did. Solving proofs for theorems was pretty cool.

Everything in school could be taught as an outgrowth of curiosity instead of ramming down a curriculum devised by people far away who haven’t seen a classroom for decades.

Turn the teachers and kids loose and let education happen.

(By the way—works for spiritual topics, too. Curiosity led me to mediation, which led to studying the “mystics” and Desert Fathers, which led to studying the Christian thinkers and leaders of the first 300 years of the movement, which led to deeper understanding of the New Testament, which led to deeper meditation awareness…)

Learning or Education

May 21, 2025

With the exception of my final two years at university, the only time I cared about grades came with the school report cards every six weeks. Dad was given the mistaken impression by a teacher that I was smart and lectured me every six weeks about my grades. Which, by the way, never improved during that time.

Even as young as 15, I was more concerned with learning than grades. Even at 17 when I looked into potential professional graduate school (seminary) I figured out that what that was was simply a certificate which served as a ticket into a club. A club I may not wish to join.

Seth Godin recently wrote, “Education is the hustle for a credential. It exchanges compliance for certification. An institution can educate you, but only you can learn.”

[I figured out the game, finally, during the third quarter of my second university year. The game meant I should work enough to get high enough grades to graduate. That I did. And at the same time devised my own curriculum to learn what I wished outside the approved structure. But I’m staring at the envelope holding a portfolio with a piece of paper awarding me a BA. That’s all I needed to get interesting jobs—and continue learning.]

If you wish to be a doctor of something or a pastor or the like, you’ll need that certificate. Nothing wrong with that. You can probably study both in the system for the grade and certificate and to learn just for your own growth. Just be aware of what road you’re on.

[This is post number 3,500 on this blog. I started it in 2008 as sort of a trial. I didn’t treat it seriously for about a year. With the demise of Google search and algorithms and the essential end of Twitter, my traffic is down a little. But there are many subscribers one way or another. Mostly I write to think. For those of you who continue to read—Thank You very much.]

There Are Sermons and then There Are Sermons

February 3, 2025

When you maintain a state of awareness,

When your beginner’s mind remains open to the fresh breeze of new ideas,

When you live with a sense of expectation of nudges or whispers from God,

Then, meaningful things come together.

Consider how Matthew records a long teaching from Jesus (chapters 5-7). We call it The Sermon on the Mount.

Just as I suggest reading through the book of Proverbs every January (31 chapters, 31 days), I have suggested as much to myself as to you reading and meditating on that Sermon often. Daily wouldn’t be too much.

A podcast interview led to my purchasing The Narrow Path: How The Subversive Way of Jesus Satisfies Our Souls by Rich Villodas. This is a meditation on that Sermon.

Soon after finishing the book, Rich Dixon, writing in 300 Words a Day, discovers the power of reading through the Sermon as he contemplates how to solve a problem facing his ministry to orphaned children rescued from the sex trade.

I take two mentions closely timed to be a nudge—it’s time to once again consider carefully what Jesus teaches in this Sermon.

Perhaps for you, too. After all, it is a guide on how to live as a follower of Jesus.

Find a Guide

January 24, 2025

Common wisdom holds that we should learn from our mistakes.

Indeed, reflecting on what went wrong vowing not to repeat that effort, being open to admitting error and growing, will improve your life.

Experience is an expensive teacher.

Perhaps having a guide to help you traverse a wilderness rather than trying wrong path after wrong path before finding the correct one will save time, grief, perhaps your life.

I have sought guidance through books since I was quite small. Mentors have appeared at times to help.

Learning from another’s experience provides a much better path to learning and growth.

Resources abound. Find them. Use them. 

(It’s why I provide links to books I’ve found useful. Others provide the same service. Avail yourself to these signposts on the journey.)

Make Stuff Up—With Confidence

July 22, 2024

I was trained long ago to speak and write as if I knew what I was talking about. They told me to sound confident, forceful, knowledgeable—even though I might just be putting forth a proposition expecting pushback and discussion.

This thought from Seth Godin recently came my way.

One of the valid complaints about some AI systems is that they make stuff up, with confidence, and without sourcing, and then argue when challenged. 

Unsurprisingly, this sounds a lot like people. We often end up with what we are willing to tolerate. Show your work and ask for receipts.

Then I thought of the many people I’ve known who are so convinced of their opinion as the only way. They speak with complete confidence in their being correct.

Maybe I need to find a way to be more humble and invite discussion. Maybe we all need to achieve the self-awareness that reflects back to us that we don’t know it all. Sorry if you think you do—you don’t.

What Your Mind Believes

June 6, 2024

I became curious about how people came to believe ideas. People I knew could hold fast in a belief beyond all evidence to the contrary. When it came to religion, say Judaism and Christianity, people could read the same words (albeit in different languages which presents a problem) and hold opposite beliefs.

So, I read deeply in psychology and then in the burgeoning field of brain/body physiology. Discoveries poured forth in the late 80s and 90s.

I learned about the complex interconnectedness of electrical signals in the brain and nervous system and the various chemicals secreted in the gut. We continue to learn more of this interconnectedness.

Two takeaways presented themselves.

First, your brain will believe whatever you tell it to believe, especially when it is reinforced. Now, if that belief is connected to strong feelings emanating from the gut, here comes one of those firm beliefs. And we know how hard it is for people to change their minds.

This leads us to the inevitable conclusion that we must be intentional about what we feed the mind. A steady diet of our favorite news TV—what is that doing to our brain? Even more reason to study reputable spiritual writing.

Second, let us consider the interconnectedness. As Paul wrote about how the church is one body made up of many parts, he had no clue about how deep that interconnectedness goes in our bodies. So, our churches and communities need to be even more intentional about how we are and should be interconnected.

I Don’t Understand That

May 23, 2024

I heard something this morning. Then I paused. I don’t really understand what that means. How can I visualize that idea? How can I adopt it as part of my life?

Wouldn’t it be great if we humans were more willing to pause and think, “I don’t really understand what that means” or “I don’t really understand what you mean.” Maybe we could discuss so that I could understand you better and you could understand me better.

Having The Answer

March 20, 2024

Sometimes I research topics thinking I have the answers. Time passes. New information appears. I discover that I don’t have the answers.

Sometimes I think I know the exact meaning of a passage from Scripture or some spiritual writing. Then someone says, doesn’t that word in Greek mean this…? Then I need to ask again, just what did the writer mean?

Just when I’m comfortable that my opinions reflect reality something changes and I’m wrong.

Curiosity may have killed the cat, but for us humans, it never ends.