Archive for the ‘Intention’ Category

Learning Through Overcoming Incompetence

August 15, 2025

My music life began with percussion lessons at about 8 or 9. I was in the University of Cincinnati band a year. Feeling percussion was a bit awkward to move around with, I taught myself guitar from books and friends.

My practice slipped for a few years for several reasons among which were moving and Covid.

Then I did a little performing discovering that a few years off from both playing and singing causing major negative effects.

I also have a hereditary condition (prominent among those of Irish and Nordic descent, and I have Irish ancestors) called Dupuytren contracture. Hardening stiffness of the tendons of the hand cause fingers to contract. My case is mild. The massage therapist helps. I picked up guitar seriously again as a method of stretching my hand.

Starting again was not like riding a bike. My mind said it knew hundreds of chords and patterns and progressions. My hands said, “What???”

  • First, I had to admit incompetence.
  • Then, I found an online teacher.
  • Following his advice, I developed an intentional practice.
  • Before anything, I added Farmer’s Carry to my resistance training routine. I grab a 40 lb. dumbbell in each hand, stand upright, walk for about 60 seconds. It strengthens grip, lower arms, and abs.
  • Then I pick up and tune the guitar each time. I can mostly do it by ear.
  • A series of scales stretch fingers, strengthen the pinkie finger, and practice proper finger placement.
  • Next are a series of practicing difficult chord changes over and over.
  • I finish with chord progressions for a series of songs.
  • Practice bled over to singing bringing a return to breath support, stop forcing, find natural voice.

Why all this detail? This bleeds over into spiritual practice. It’s all about doing things intentionally.

  • Admit incompetence realizing that dashing off a few thoughts called prayer doesn’t bring me closer to God.
  • Meditate with intention (I’ve had teachers, but I found a new online teacher).
  • Read with intention—not just to get in a number of words but to intentionally discover what Jesus wants me to learn from the reading.
  • Spend time in nature on walks thinking/reflecting.
  • Find an avenue of service (spiritual practice is not all internal, it must include serving others).

Finding the Simple Path

July 15, 2025

We had a vision of a ministry to support people who had certain needs.

Simple. We copy from other ministries that people knew. We listened to someone with myriad ideas, powerful personality, a well thought out, yet complexly structured, ministry.

Not so simple.

We began soon discovering life doesn’t fit complex theories.

We found the path, the simple path, the path that led some toward health.

Isn’t that like our lives? We try to live by following complex theologies or philosophies. It really doesn’t work. We still haven’t found a life imbued with the fruit of the spirit. 

Love, joy, peace, forbearance, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control.

Aren’t these the qualities of life we seek? Not through following complex theologies and philosophies. It’s the simple life in the Spirit.

Maybe pick one for the day. Perhaps try to intentionally be kind to yourself this morning and then to everyone and everything you meet along the way.

Choose Community Wisely

May 21, 2025

Parents know to observe carefully the friends their adolescents hang out with. Their friends have greater impact on the youth than parents at this stage.

The online community we hang out in, if we so choose to spend time in “social media,” impacts our thoughts and, indeed, our life. 

Belief is born when we combine community with emotion.

Choose your community online or in person wisely. You can be sucked into a vortex of conspiracy theories and negativity. Or you can find generous people who relate with kindness and build each other up.

We think we have free will and will make up our own minds. But often we get drawn a bit at a time into a life we would not have chosen.

Develop the power of reflection and awareness. Choose your friends and direction with intention not by osmosis.

Why Do I?

March 27, 2025

A flock of blackbirds populates the leafless tree of late winter.

One, for no observable reason, flies away.

The flock follows.

Why?

Likewise, why do I sometimes get up and move later wondering where I was going?

Why do I spontaneously say awkward things?

Why do I make a spontaneous unnecessary purchase?

Why did I grab that doughnut at the last meeting?

Some people say they just want to be left alone to do their own thing.

Are they consciously exercising rational free will?

Or, do we fly off like the flock of blackbirds spontaneously following some unknown leader?

What Matters Now

March 14, 2025

That is actually the title of a book discussing business leadership and strategy by Gary Hamel. I opened my eyes following meditation staring at that title.

It’s a wonderful thought for the day.

One of the many things that annoy me about almost all media that’s shoved at us these days (even my favorite news sites fall into this trap) is speculation. This might happen!! Or What if this??

These only lead to emotions such as worry or anxiety. Publishers wish to invoke those emotions so that you’ll come back for more…oh, and by the way, look at the ads. 

I understand the need to forge an income. My other blog has a sponsor. Most of my business life found me figuring out ways to serve customers or shave costs in order to make enough profits to pay us and enable the organization to survive.

The key for us on the receiving end lies in the daily (hourly?) reflection on What Matters Now. 

I cannot solve the leadership crisis in countries or the wars and destruction ongoing in our world. I can find ways to serve others in my communities. I can find ways to grow intellectually and emotionally. I can find what matters now that I can work on—and then do it.

It Is In The Body

January 22, 2025

I am working on a study guide to lead people into the practice of Spiritual Disciplines. I constructed a parallel list of practices from several writers. I wondered what was similar. What was different.

I stared at the list while sitting in the lounge of the ship taking us from Australia to New Zealand. A piano/violin duet performed quietly in the background. Comfortable seating. Art displayed. Small groups of people talking. And I pondered.

The thought came to me clearly. They all began with a list of ancient practices. They dived right in with prayer, study, communal worship, fasting. These indeed are individual practices.

They all assumed that the seeker has already made the decision. That the seeker knew how to develop some habits and unlearn others.

To write to a beginner, intellectual knowledge goes nowhere.

Let us look at nutrition.

Body weight is directly proportional to calories ingested. If you eat more calories than you burn, your weight will go up. If you resistance train, then the added weight might be muscle. Otherwise it will be white adipose tissue—fat.

Before anything, we must look in a mirror and realize we have too much weight. Perhaps we realize the health ramifications of too much weight—diabetes, high blood pressure, joint pain, loss of mobility.

Then we decide that something must be done. We change our attitude toward food. We realize we must eat fewer calories, but we also must supply proper nutrients to the body. We also still need to enjoy eating. No diet that we cannot sustain over time will work. 

We change what we eat, how we eat. We realize we can eat good food and eat well, yet cut portion size, late night snacking, pitching things from our pantries such as potato chips (and the like) and pastries.

I’ve dropped 20 pounds over a couple of years that way. With dedication to resistance training adding muscle (which weighs more than fat).

Let’s talk about spiritual life. Somewhere we’ve looked into the mirror of life and realized that we are not walking with God. We would like to experience living with-God. We would like to experience at least some of those fruit of the Spirit—love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control. We know people like that. We’d like to be one of them.

We decide to change. Maybe one thing at a time. Maybe setting aside five minutes every morning to read from the Bible or from a devotional. Maybe we learn to pray with just our breath to begin with in those five minutes.

Then we learn about how to study, how to meditate, how to pray. We find a group where we can worship and pray together—like finding a gym for fitness, it’s a gym for spiritual fitness.

Habits start one little trigger at a time. I see my cup of coffee and my chair. I take the freshly brewed coffee to my chair to savor both for a few minutes of intentional reading or prayer daily. It becomes a habit. We expand. We roll out of bed 30 minutes earlier so that we can spend a little more time in the chair. One day we look in the mirror and marvel at the change.

The pursuit of spiritual discipline begins with the small step of decision and intention. Maybe it starts with nutrition and fitness so that when we roll out of bed heading to the coffee maker and chair we feel fit and alive. It’s hard to concentrate when the body screams at you.

Maybe this will become the introduction to my little study guide—or a longer book. Who knows?

Avoiding Sin

October 30, 2024

Perhaps your mother taught you right from wrong. Perhaps even your father. Perhaps they used the word “sin” to designate wrong.

Perhaps parents plus the type of church you attended tried to scare you into right actions through the threat of going to hell.

Why do you try to avoid doing the wrong things now? Or do you? I hope so.

I rather like the way John Wesley put it that good people avoid sin from the love of virtue, while wicked people avoid sin from a fear of punishment.

Jesus did sometimes talk about how people of a certain type will be thrown into the garbage dump where the fire never went out (a real place outside Jerusalem as illustration). Jesus’s teaching for us was to be that type of person Wesley described as lovers of virtue.

We avoid sin because that’s the kind of people we have become.

Inside Out

September 12, 2024

The Revised Common Lectionary readings for last Sunday contained reading from the second chapter of the letter from James (the half-brother of Jesus). This letter is part of the wisdom literature of the Bible. James applies the words of Jesus to the everyday circumstances of living a life of following Jesus.

There is obviously something here for me to infuse into my daily life. I heard a sermon and then read a meditation on the the instructions of this chapter.

Consider that the word has gone throughout the city neighborhood that there are regular meetings at your house where people sing and share stories and listen to teachers. Some of the “cool kids” from the neighborhood show up and are welcomed. Some of the geeks and poor show up. They are shown seats in the back. Some bring a cornucopia of snacks to eat during the meeting. Others have nothing.

James told his followers (and us) that behavior was flat-out wrong. 

Practice looking into your heart and then practice recognizing others from the inside out rather than the outside in.

I use the word “practice” intentionally. Life isn’t a one-shot deal. It’s practice where we do it over and over until we get it right. And then keep improving.

So, to end where I began—what areas of life do I need more intentional practice?

The Power of Money

September 9, 2024

Often people with little money experience a happier life than people with great wealth.

Sometimes people with great (or moderate) wealth find many ways toward generosity benefitting manifold charitable organizations helping many.

Sometimes people with great (or even moderate) wealth use that wealth to wield power over people, ministries, organizations, even governments.

The common denominator—heart condition. Have you checked in with your spiritual cardiologist recently? Where is your heart regarding wealth or lack of it?

Stuck

August 22, 2024

Stuck

Clowns to the left of me

Jokers to the right

Here I am

Stuck in the middle with you.

I’ve heard that song by the Scottish group Stealers Wheel at least ten times the last week. Restaurant, coffee house, radio station at home. Someone is telling me something.

Sometimes we are stuck.

We can’t decide. This one or that? This way or that? A project that just doesn’t move. Writing that doesn’t start.

Robert Pirsig wrote in Zen and the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance about being stuck. You are trying to disassemble a part. The screwdriver slips. The screw’s head is stripped. You’re stuck. You can’t proceed.

First you must recognize that the problem changed. Then tackle the new problem to get unstuck.

It’s like spiritual formation. First the realization. Then the focus and intention. Then the new work to overcome being stuck.