Archive for the ‘Ethics’ Category

Non-Possessiveness or Are You Packing Too Much Stuff

July 19, 2012

I’m beginning to practice minimalist packing for traveling. In this era of airlines charging fees for checking baggage, people respond by carrying on more and more luggage. Overhead bins fill. Even though I have “status” and early boarding rights (and can check for free), it’s still a hassle.

Tuesday and Wednesday I was in St. Louis. Everything I needed I took in my backpack. Razor, toothbrush, hair brush, a little bag of toiletries, a little bag of connectors for my electronics, a couple of books, laptop, iPad, change of shirts and underwear.

I always pack running and workout gear and then seldom use them on trips. I need to do my normal work packed in to a couple of hours early in the morning before heading out to breakfast meetings and then meetings. Then dinner. So, I left them behind. No sense packing extra clothes I’ll not wear.

The ethical behavior I was just reading about is non-possessiveness. Do you carry more baggage than you need?

Jesus talked about this several times–storing up treasures in heaven, not on earth. We get tied to our material possessions.

You can take the baggage metaphor a number of ways. Sometimes we possess old hurts and longings that we actually are tied to. We perhaps like that victim feeling.

What is essential for your journey through life? What can you really do without? Getting rid of the need for possessions can be freeing.

It’s not that I don’t have possessions. They are not bad. The question is rather am I tied to them. Is my self worth wrapped up in having a certain car, house, painting, shoes, whatever?

Pack light for the journey. Carrying too many possessions is like a boat anchor dragging you down.

Contentment or Wish I Were Somewhere Else

July 18, 2012

Ever think that someone else is “over there” having a lot of fun and you’re left out? I bet most of us had those feelings at least once during our adolescent years. I did.

Was it true? Did you ever get “over there” and discover that there really wasn’t much going on?

This reading I’ve been doing on ethical principles landed on the principle of contentment. The author cites a Chinese proverb that says, “People in the West are always getting ready to live.” The saying sounds a little suspicious to me as far as origin, but the thought is interesting.

We could be content in living the life we’re living and not so much worried about what other people are doing.

Last Friday I led a Yoga class with a group of about 20 kids ranging in age from perhaps 7 to 14. These are “disadvantaged” kids. They were all worried  about another kid. “He’s not doing it.” “She’s not paying attention.” My response–let’s just pay attention to ourselves and not worry about them.

Then I thought, what a good phrase to bring into my life. Make sure my life is right with God first. Or as Jesus said, why worry about the speck in someone else’s eye when you have a log in yours.

Maybe somewhere else the sun is shining (or in our case, since we’re in the midst of a drought, somewhere else they have rain). But I can live contented where I am with what I have. And if a new opportunity for learning, growth or service is presented to me by God, then I am prepared to take that next step.

Oh, those Yoga kids… At the end of the class, I had them sitting cross-legged on the ground. Trying to teach them to find a safe place in their imagination to go when they get upset–to calm down before acting. Imagine 20 restless kids on summer break sitting outside in the sun quiet for about 6 minutes. It was amazing.

Walk With God Leaving Excess Behind

July 17, 2012

I’m a little late today. Had a 6 am flight from Dayton to St. Louis. Having trouble with my wireless modem, so finally broke down and spent $7.95 for Internet access at the St. Louis airport.

Read a book on ethics on the flight here. Obviously not deep, but had many good thoughts.

One chapter discussed walking with God in the sense of approaching each day with holiness rather than indulgence. Interesting thought–especially for those in a western culture. We live in an economy based on consumption. Messages surround us, penetrating our souls constantly, telling us we can be happier, more attractive, more successful, more popular, smarter if only we’d buy something.

Indulge yourself the beautiful models tell us. You can’t have too much–at least until you reach the point you can qualify for one of those hoarder “reality” TV shows.

We can indulge in other ways, too. Maybe we indulge in silence when there’s a lot of life around us. Maybe we indulge in WiFi–wait, don’t hit me too close to home.

All I wanted was a quiet little spot to have some breakfast and wait for my colleague to arrive. The airport is not busy. No one else is at this nice little airport restaurant. All is well. I guess I’m indulging. Then a family comes in. With every other place open, they choose to sit at the booth behind me. Boy of around 6 is in the group, with mom and grandparents. Boy is loud and kicks the booth–same seat as mine. I feel every kick. Grandpa is a whiner. Flight was cancelled due to mechanical failure. Upset their day. He whines about the flight, about the airport, about the kid, about relatives….

Ah, but I just read this book. In the end, it’s not all about me. I can adjust and calmly do my work. Probably got more done than in the quiet of my study. Hope they have a good next flight!

Another Human Hero Bites the Dust

July 13, 2012

Today’s news from the world of sports transcends sports. An exhaustive investigation into the Penn State University football program in the wake of child molestation by an assistant coach shed light on the way Joe Paterno ran not only the football program, but the university.

As Frank Deford put it on NPR July 4, football coaches live a life of keeping players eligible to play. That extends to coaches, as well. When reports surfaced that top assistant coach Jerry Sandusky was molesting young boys, Paterno chose to keep it quiet rather than tarnish a carefully honed image of a spotless football program. Who cares about the boys?

The Bible is full of examples of heroes with flaws. Our history is full of examples of heroes with flaws. Yet, especially in this age of finely tuned media manipulation, heroes are still cultivated and revered. Then we discover that they are merely human.

Even Jesus was seen as a hero with flaws when he failed to lead the anticipated revolution against the Romans. It took a couple of months for even his closest friends to understand the type of revolution he was talking about. But, there are no more like him.

Paul told us at the beginning of Romans that all humans are sinners. If you ever think otherwise, go back to Rule 1.

It is very hard for people to live an ethical life. You have to try very hard. Billy Graham is perhaps the best example I can think of. He understood the seduction of crowds, publicity and adoration. He worked very hard to maintain his integrity.

Football coaches, indeed all coaches and even corporate and religious leaders, can become all-powerful. They can rule by force of personality. They can come to believe their press clippings. Then comes the inevitable fall.

It’s the same with all of us. Where is your integrity hiding today?

Be a Good Person or a With-God Person?

June 5, 2012

I teach Yoga. That may sound like heresy to some Christians. It doesn’t have to be. But I was just doing some advanced learning about Yoga–where they get beyond the poses and how to lead a class–that goes back into the Hindu roots of the practice.

An acquaintance who lives in India recently popped up in my Facebook “suggests” and his personal blurb said something about appreciating his Hindu roots that it taught him to be a good person. One of the trainers in the Yoga training said much the same thing. The thing I ponder is–can you be a good person in a vacuum? Now I don’t know enough  about Hindu philosophy and practice to critique the religion, but I’m just running with the thought.

I place this at the opposite end of the spectrum from some Christians I know who think that “I’ve got Jesus, that’s all I need.” Can you just say you believe in Jesus (whatever that means) and then just sit on your rear and do nothing?

What I have learned through bitter experience and observation is that it’s very hard to be a good person consistently and over the long term without sufficient grounding in the Spirit of God. Jesus did say to believe in him, but everything else he said pointed to how to live in the Spirit of God.

Jesus said to “love your brother” and then gave examples that showed “love” to be an action verb and not a description of an emotion.

When you are living a with-God life, your natural impulse will be to live as a good person. That’s why Jesus said you won’t need the Law because the Law will be written in your heart. Being good is what you are.

Now, if I could just be that way 24/7…

Better to be Poor than a Liar

May 15, 2012

Much of ancient philosophy and certainly the writings collected in The Bible are there to teach us how to live. We probably took courses in philosophy and religion if we went to a university. The professors probably taught it as either history or an intellectual pastime.

This post’s title comes from Proverbs 19. People are still people, no matter how sophisticated or rich we become. During the past couple of weeks we’ve witnessed more cases of people in power acting like emotional children. And the effect was devastating.

Yahoo! is one of the oldest and most respected brands on the Web. Yet lately it has had trouble finding a chief executive officer to lead it to new progress. Then it settled on a guy by the name of  Scott Thompson. Then, oops, it came out that his resume said he had a degree in computer science. That gave him technical credibility in Silicon Valley where he felt he needed it (evidently). Trouble is–he never earned such a degree. Well, he won’t be poor. He was paid $6.2 million for his four months at the company. But he is far poorer in both wealth and reputation.

Then I read about the technology products retailer Best Buy. Seems the CEO of that company had an inappropriate relationship with a female employee according to news reports. Those reports appeared just after he resigned after a quarter of poor financial performance. Although nothing was said at the time, the assumption was he resigned due to performance. Over the weekend, new appeared that the founder and chairman of the board resigned as chairman because he knew about the relationship and did not tell the internal audit committee.

Have you ever lied on your resume? Or stretched the truth when seeking a job? I have a weird educational history–partly because even though I have a college degree, I’m mostly self-taught. I try to be very careful when describing my background (even though my last three positions didn’t really require much, but when I had engineering jobs, well…).

It’s all about how you live your life. Do you live with-God to the best of your ability? Or do you live in a trail of deceit?

Can Money Buy Happiness?

May 4, 2012

So, how many sermons or homilies have you heard on ethics where the speaker will inevitably get to, “money can’t buy happiness”? Michael Norton, a researcher at the University of British Columbia, decided to try some experiments. He started with Canadian university students and eventually took the research global.

He spoke at a TED conference (Google it, you hear some great short talks and learn a lot). Let him describe his results.

Oh, the answer is yes–but only if you spend it on others.

Here’s a link to the video.

Loose the Bonds of Injustice

May 2, 2012

I was listening to Bill Hybels, senior pastor of Willow Creek, talk last weekend about commitment to serving the poor and disadvantaged. He suggested reading Isaiah 58 every day for a month. Among the things that God says is, “Is not this the fast that I choose: to loose the bonds of injustice, to undo the thongs of the yoke, to let the oppressed go free, and to break every yoke?”

This message came just after I had listened to at least three talks over the past couple of weeks from people who had visited “third world” countries recently. The reports included descriptions of the results of modern corporations moving manufacturing and production operations to these countries that have corrupt governments with few regulations. Nothing prevents the companies from taking shortcuts in processes. They dump wastes into rivers resulting in water unfit to support life. People were thrown off land that had supported them perhaps for generations and who now had no food and no means of support.

As a manufacturing professional, I’m grieved that we take advantage of people so easily and flippantly. Ethics apply everywhere. In fact, ethics is also good business. Being careless with waste and environment is a sign of sloppy, wasteful thinking. Actually, long term profits and success result from doing just the opposite of managers who take the easy way out.

Most of us will not be making those decisions. The question remains, when faced with decisions or choices about whether to grab a short-term easy benefit or whether to help other people in the long run, I, for one, hope that I choose the latter.

And for reinforcement, I’ll be reading Isaiah 58 daily for the month of May. Just to write it in my mind.

Christian Business People

April 23, 2012

There are two types of Christian business people–those who flaunt it and those who quietly live the life. I’ve met both in my life. And I hate to say this, but the former ones scare me. If I meet one, I instinctively reach for my pocket to see if my wallet is still there. That sounds cynical, but I’ve met only a handful and every one with whom I’ve had a business dealing owes me money promised.

I’ve met many of the second type. They have been universally ethical, honest and upright in their dealings. And great people with whom to share dinner.

I try to know the line between analysis and cynicism. Experience can be a bitter teacher. I typically trust people until I’ve been given reason not to. It’s only hurt me a handful of times–and I recover quickly anyway.

What brings this up is listening to a guy at church Sunday who is trying to be both types while only exhibiting the traits of the latter. If anyone can break the mold, he can. That would be fantastic. We have too many of those negative images. We need a positive one. What I picked up out of his talk was the way he talked about dealing with people. It’s like he cares about them. And that’s the best marketing you can have.

I hope he succeeds.

Live for Others As A Spiritual Discipline

April 20, 2012

Paul’s letter to the Romans is an orderly description of the progression of incorporating Spiritual discipline–or Spiritual practices–in your life. He builds toward the final section (Chapters 12-15) which is all about how to live your life. What is important after believing in Jesus as your path to God (or whatever words from your tradition you wish to use) is what you do from the time you get up in the morning until the time you go to bed at night.

He is quite comprehensive. About the only thing Western people (and maybe a lot of Easterners, too) would disagree with would be the first part of Chapter 13 where Paul describes the relationship to government. He asks why fear them. If you do good, then you have nothing to fear. On the other hand, he probably at that time had a benign attitude toward Rome. He no doubt thought, like almost everyone of his time, that Rome was never going anywhere.

In the time since (and I bet Paul reconsidered much of that thought 10-15 years later), we have seen governments come and go. We have seen how governments mistreat their citizens–for example when the various governments (federal, state and local) actively suppressed black people in the U.S. I grew up intellectually and morally in a time of witness against a government that practiced segregation. Against a government that practiced sending armies into small countries and killing tens of thousands. It’s common these days for people globally to stand as a witness against corrupt and tyrannical regimes.

Practicing life in the Spirit must go beyond your faith community and your inner life. It must go beyond celebration and worship and study, prayer and meditation. It must go out into the streets, into  the workplace, into your relationships–and do right at all times. And that takes discipline!