Archive for the ‘Disciplines’ Category

It’s Time for Reading

December 27, 2017

The running around, stress, parties, families are past now. Christmas was a couple of days ago.

Along with taking time for reflection about the past year and future year this week, I like to read. Something that will stretch me a little.

This year I’m finishing Walter Issacson’s biography of Albert Einstein. He’s returning me to the reasoning behind Special Relativity, General Relativity, the universal law of gravitation. And the beginnings of quantum theory.

Cool stuff.

It is not a bad thing for everyone to learn some science. Plus he had an interesting life.

Reading every day is a good thing. If you are not in the habit, begin picking up something to read at a set time every day. Read fiction and non-fiction. Science, philosophy, history, biography. I’m partial to detective novels and murder mysteries. These are habits I formed at least by age 10. And continue until today.

Curiosity may have killed the cat, but curiosity makes us grow.

A Time of Reflection

December 26, 2017

I hope you all found a place to worship, celebrate, and be with family and/or friends.

We use “Merry Christmas” as a greeting. But one hopes that the merry part seeps inside.

We are in that week between the holidays. We build up to Christmas, many get time off from work or school, then we get to New Year’s Eve and New Year’s Day to celebrate a more ancient thankfulness of getting to another year.

I, as do many, use these days for a kind of relaxing. It is a good time to reflect on the experiences of the last year in the context of how we need to grow and change in the new year.

What did we learn in the last year?

Where can that point us to change in the new year?

  • New career?
  • Improved career?
  • New relationships?
  • New beginnings?
  • New things to learn?
  • New places to visit?
  • Better health?

I quoted John Dewey recently about the importance of reflections on experience. Any time is a good time, but if you get this week “off”, it is a perfect time to set aside an hour or so a day to reflect, journal, visualize the coming year.

I don’t do the traditional “goal setting” of New Year’s Resolutions. But I still look at where I am and where I need to be. And where I can grow.

A salesman I knew was known for “Always be closing (a sale)”.

Make this year one of “Always be growing”.

Give Yourself A Gift

December 22, 2017

How about giving yourself a gift that keeps on giving? Further, it benefits everyone around you.

The gift of health. At least, the best you can be.

I got this graphic from James Altucher. He’s weird. He interviews interesting people on his podcast show.

Thanks to him, I now listen to Shawn Stevenson. At 18 he was shown an x-ray of his spine. He had the spine of an 80-year-old. Eventually, he made a decision. He has a degree in nutrition. He started eating well. He started working out. He interviews people on The Model Health Show podcast.

Wonder what I listen to when I’m exercising?

You can make a decision.

Sometimes you need a trigger. I have a locker at the Y. Every work day that I’m in town I go to the gym. I meditate in the sauna. You only need 10-15 minutes of meditation to set up the entire day. The sauna is healthy. I shower and dress for the day. That’s the trigger. The Y is where I go to get ready for work.

This chart contains some good advice.

My gift to you. Merry Christmas.

9 rules of health

Thinking of Christmas as a Time For Service

December 21, 2017

There are many who are enkindled with dreamy devotion, and when they hear of the poverty of Christ, they are almost angry with the citizens of Bethlehem. They denounce their blindness and ingratitude, and think, if they had been there, they would have shown the Lord and his mother a more kindly service and would not have permitted them to be treated so miserably. But they do not look by their side to see how many of their fellow humans need their help, and which they ignore in their misery. Who is there upon earth that has no poor, miserable, sick, erring ones around him? Why does he not exercise his love to those? Why does he not do to them as Christ has done to him? – Martin Luther

Until I had read this thought from Martin Luther, I’m not so sure I’ve ever thought of Christmas as a time of service. Traditionally it is a time for family.

Increasingly it is a time for non-profit organization fund raising. Our phone seemed to ring constantly all afternoon yesterday (while I was interviewing a senior Vice President of a software company on my business phone). The last call came at 9:21 pm.

There are ways to support others. We support an orphanage and women’s shelter in Tijuana. I’m on the board and we support a local service – Alpha Community Center.

But Luther wasn’t talking about that. He is echoing the words of Jesus who gave us the example of the Good Samaritan.

Should we be thinking bad thoughts about the people who forced Mary to sleep in the “barn” and have her baby alone amongst the animals?

Or, should we be looking in the mirror and saying, “When have I passed by a person, a fellow human being, and done nothing to help her?”

Reflecting On Our Experience

December 20, 2017

“We do not learn from experience… we learn from reflecting on experience.” – John Dewey

“Whether it is right in God’s sight to listen to you rather than to God, you must judge; for we cannot keep from speaking about what we have seen and heard.” — Peter and John before the religious leaders recorded in Acts 4

You have to appreciate Peter and John. They had just been hauled before the very group that had ordered their Teacher killed. They should have been shaking in their sandals. They should have been answering “No, sir” and “Yes, sir” to the group.

But they stood firm and first challenged the leaders (should we listen to you or God) and then told them that the leaders could not stop them from talking about their experiences.

John Dewey was an American philosopher who was instrumental in the public schools movement. He was exactly correct in his observation that just having experiences doesn’t help us that much. It is the process of reflecting upon our experiences where we find growth.

When you step back and look at the New Testament, isn’t most of it this very thing–reflecting upon the experiences of the people who met, lived with, and experienced Jesus. Including Paul’s experience with the risen Jesus.

I just heard the story of a woman who is probably in her early 30s and a worship leader. At 14 her parents divorced. She spiraled into alcohol, drugs, prostitution (five abortions). By age 19 she was suicidal and ready to give up. She “happened” to meet someone who took her to a recovery group. She’s been sober every day since. Then she found a church that would accept her. It nurtured her, gave her opportunities.

Most powerful were the questions she asked–of herself and others. That is the act of reflection. “What if…?” And “How can we…?”

I bet most of us are reflecting on our Christmases Past during this time of year. I hope they are better than Scrooge’s Christmas Past. But we all have some stories of dysfunction. But also stories of grace and growth.

I can’t believe that Christmas is almost here. Where did December go? Time to take a deep breath, relax, and experience the joy of the season.

Advent—Jesus Entering Our Life

December 19, 2017

“Now when they saw the boldness of Peter and John and realized that they were uneducated and ordinary men, they were amazed and recognized them as companions of Jesus.”

Imagine if I were to find myself in Rome outside St. Peter’s. Imagine further that I, with my meager credentials of almost an MA in political philosophy, began teaching the Gospel boldly. Around me are seekers. But also around me are people who are set apart, who have arrays of advanced degrees in theology and ministry. Imagine further that people listened to my teaching because it had the power of Jesus, whom I am following. And the M.Div.’s and D.D.’s and Ph.D.’s–what are they thinking?

There were Peter and John shortly after Jesus’s ascension. They never went to Rabbi school. They had no degrees. No resume. But they had spent their lives studying the Scriptures for signs of the Messiah. More important, they had devoted three years to studying under a Rabbi–an acceptable practice then just as now.

During my first trip to Jerusalem, I saw men wearing overcoats and fur hats. “Their Rabbi is from Poland. They dress and act just like their Rabbi.”

What was notable about the religious leaders’ description of Peter and John? “They…recognized them as companions of Jesus.”

On the spiritual side of Christmas, we celebrate Jesus entering the world as a human. The personal side of Christmas is to celebrate Jesus entering our lives.

The challenge is–do people see it in us?

Living In The Light

December 15, 2017

A friend from many years ago often told the story of his pastor. Every message the man preached eventually got around to the evils of sex. Then one day the pastor packed up and left suddenly–with the wife of the chairman of the board of Deacons.

Sometimes we betray ourselves with our speech.

When we start reading the inevitable “year in review” articles journalists love, 2017 events will read more like Zombies than Love Story. Especially weather and natural events have been devastating for many.

Reflecting on my months of reading in the gospel of John and his theme of light, I’m thinking of all the sordid things that have been brought out from the shadows this year. Perhaps the #MeToo movement may have enough critical mass that will cause men to grow up in relationships and women to speak up notwithstanding real fear of losing their careers. This is not just adultery that rips apart families, but systematic abuse of power in a hurtful physical/emotional way.

I think I’m like many men who reflect back over long careers and wonder if there was ever a time…

But the things coming to light were seldom isolated events. They reflected character–or lack thereof.

John begins and ends with the light. He also begins with how Jesus has the power to make us children of God and ends with Jesus praying that we have eternal life–that is, knowledge of God in the deepest sense.

This Advent we pray for the Light to infuse the world and the spreading of Peace. And for our own courage to take part in that spreading.

So Many Opinions, So Little Thought

December 14, 2017

Nutrition and fitness comprise some of the areas I study regularly.

Now I could develop this line of thought into the gap of knowing and doing, but I’ll save that.

Last night while listening to my favorite health podcast (The Model Health show), I was struck by how this degreed Ob/Gyn being interviewed departed from science to give an emotional justification for some of her ideas. (Note: I like the show, but as with everything you have to listen with your brain as well as your heart.)

It seems for every 2 certified nutritionists, there are 3 opinions. Maybe more.

That doesn’t mean that I don’t continue to listen and read in the field. It just means I take in information and think about it and consider it along with other information I’ve taken in. That’s the “TP” of the Myers-Briggs scale (I’m an ENTP, fyi).

During a Bible study once many years ago, someone with strong political opinions loosely based on the Bible exclaimed, “It’s all there in black and white. How can anyone dispute this?”

I thought (but I hope didn’t say out loud), “You can gather a dozen scholars with multiple Ph.D.s in a room (you can literally with books) and the likelihood of 13 opinions is high.”

Does that mean you stop reading the Bible?

No, of course not.

It just means to not go through the Bible looking for verses you agree with and (mostly) remembering them. It means reading with an open heart and mind to see how God is speaking to you. And using discernment to reflect upon the context both within the paragraph or letter you’re reading and within the long tradition of the church.

Sometimes you can read the passage 50 times before a glimmer of understanding happens.

And read a longer passage. If Paul, read at least an entire chapter, if not the entire letter. I’m betting that had men read certain passages in their entirety rather than pulling out a particular verse, women and other people would have been spared much grief over the last 2,000 years.

We are responsible for coming to our own understanding. As we approach the end of a year, it is an ideal time to reflect on this year and to decide what kind of person we wish to be next year. How about one who grows in discernment and understanding, and whose daily life reflects that?

I Saw The Light

December 13, 2017

I saw the Light, I saw the Light,

No more in darkness, no more in night.

Now I’m so happy, no sorrow’s in sight.

Praise the Lord, I saw the Light.

We have been reading the gospel of John for a while, so we’re about the the end of the story. But the season is Advent, celebrating the beginning of the story.

One thing about John, he doesn’t begin the story where his buddies Matthew and Luke do. Matthew begins right off with a Jewish genealogy. Luke gets around to a (different) genealogy, but he tells a story. It’s a story of the Spirit of God working in a number of rather ordinary people that culminates in the manger scene with the birth of a boy.

John puts it in grand philosophical scheme, “In the beginning was the Word, and the Word was with God, and the Word was God.”

A few sentences later, “The true light, which enlightens everyone, was coming into the world. He was in the world, and the world came into being through him; yet the world did not know him.”

When Jesus was offering a pastoral prayer to his followers just before he goes out to face his enemies, he uses some of the same terminology about being in the world and not in the world.

Here we also learn about the meaning of his coming–to glorify his Father by dying and then resurrecting.

But the beginning of the story, Advent, talks about the coming of the Light–the Light that is meant for everyone. It’s not only for people that look like me. It’s everyone. As in–everyone.

When Jesus followers do things to divide into various groupings that tend to shut others out, I grieve. And I’m sure that Jesus grieves, as well.

When we see the light, the only response possible is to pass the light on. That’s the beginning and the end.

Practicing Mindfulness

December 12, 2017

We are reading in the gospel of John in a small group. John has been talking about these tough spiritual concepts about “being in the Father” and “the Father in me” and “Jesus in me” and “being in Jesus.”

I mentioned the long tradition of meditation as a method of experiencing that union with God. I’ve been at it for more than 50 years. I can testify that it will change your life.

Contemplating these things this morning, I rested in the question of what it means to be “in the Father” or “with-God” life.

The image of the fruit of the Spirit rose in my consciousness. Paul writes to the community of Christ followers in Galatia, “But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control.”

Being in the Father means that we these words describe us–the type of person we are, the type of actions people see in us.

During this season of the year, joy and peace are words thrown around sometimes casually. Patience, kindness, gentleness, and (especially) self-control are other practices that certainly would help us and those around us navigate through the season.

While discussing meditation as a way to experience union with God, the question was posed, what about mindfulness? We hear a lot about that.

The mindfulness practices we are hearing about, especially from therapists, strips away New Age clutter or spiritual meditation, and just takes us back to the practice. People began noticing decades ago that people who meditate experience many favorable physical and emotional benefits. So, therapists have taken the technique to help people cope.

The number one app in the Apple App Store in 2017 is called Calm. It’s one of probably hundreds of apps that help you:

  1. Slow down
  2. Breathe deeply
  3. Focus on a word, or body part (my feet and legs feel warm and relaxed, for example)
  4. Reconnect body, mind, and soul
  5. Find sanity in a sometimes insane world

Peace.