Archive for the ‘Attention’ Category

Don’t Live A Half-Rep Life

November 12, 2025

Just as I’m exploring meditation more deeply through an app (The Way with Henry Shukman), I am exploring resistance training more deeply through another app (The Pump Club with Arnold Schwarzenegger and others).

It started with the most basic rule of all: every exercise, when done with a full range of motion, is a stretch and a flex. Don’t live a half-rep life. Be fully present. Go all the way in everything you do.   -Arnold

  • Be fully present when you bench press those weights.
  • Be fully present when you do your work.
  • Be fully present when you study, pray, or meditate.
  • Be fully present with those whom you serve.
  • Be fully present with those with whom you converse.

This is the first day of the rest of your life. Live it in the present.

[Aside: I’ve learned that my long-time meditation practice has not been out of the main stream, yet I learn to go more deeply. I’ve increased the size of my shoulders, biceps, thighs, calves, while losing much white adipose tissue in the trunk. Resistance training and nutrition and sleep. The not-so-magic formula. I am now sharper mentally as I study and think things through.]

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Breaking News

November 10, 2025

Breaking news is overrated. Receiving a summary the next day is more than sufficient. OK, sometimes immediate news is important—tornado in the area, rising flood waters. 

Breaking news became important, not to us, but to people who make money because of us, thanks to the invention of the 24-hour news channels. Repeating news all day and all night would be boring. But breaking news, ah, that draws our attention frequently. That’s the goal. The news source doesn’t matter. It’s all the same—stir emotions, entice our eyes and attention, show us more advertisements, capture attention again.

Shun that for your mental and spiritual health.

I thought about breaking news in the Christian Bible.

Perhaps the word-of-mouth spreading news of Jesus’s healings. That certainly drew crowds and the interest of secular/religious authorities.

The big one—Mary rushing to report to the other disciples about the empty tomb and meeting Jesus after his very public death. Being a woman, some of the men didn’t believe her rushing to verify for themselves. That one had to be tough to understand.

The two men leaving Jerusalem walking to the village of Emmaus asking the stranger who joined them if he had heard the news.

Develop and apply a filter for news. Develop awareness of what’s important and publishers design in order to keep us tuned in. Perhaps the best “breaking news” is what we call the “Good News” or “Gospel”.

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Focus

August 7, 2025

Philosopher Arthur Shopenhauer observed, “If a large diamond is cut up into pieces, it immediately loses its value as a whole; or if an army is scattered or divided into small bodies, it loses all its power; and in the same way a great intellect has no more power than an ordinary one as soon as it is interrupted, disturbed, distracted, or diverted.”

When you pray, pray.

When you study, study.

When you meditate, meditate.

When you serve someone, serve them.

When you rest, rest.

Doing two things simultaneously accomplishes neither.

Hurry, Hurry, Hurry

August 4, 2025

My Uncle Doyle, mom’s younger brother, loved the comic strip Pogo by Walt Kelly. I remember his introducing me to it and reading it as a child. Kelly was a master at condensing a thought into something meaningful.

“Having lost sight of our objectives, we redoubled our efforts.” Pogo

Shall we pause and reflect?

Once I hurried through everything. Even before I learned the Navy SEAL mantra from the firing range—Slow is smooth; smooth is fast—I learned the value of slowing. Focusing on the task and slowing down actually helps me accomplish more. Leaving stress behind.

Perhaps it’s time to stop, look around, recall our objective, and try easy.

Open Our Eyes, Lord

January 9, 2025

I got this story recently from Dan Millman’s Peaceful Warrior newsletter, but I’ve seen it before somewhere. Like a parable of Jesus, this should make us think.

Imagine walking along a sidewalk with your arms full of groceries and someone roughly bumps into you so that you fall and your groceries are strewn over the ground. As you rise up from the puddle of broken eggs and tomato juice, you are ready to shout out, “You idiot! What’s wrong with you? Are you blind?”      But just before you can catch your breath to speak, you see that the person who bumped into you actually is blind. He, too, is sprawled in the spilled groceries, and your anger vanishes in an instant, to be replaced by sympathetic concern: “Are you hurt? Can I help you up?” Our situation is like that — when we realize that our own ignorance is the source of disharmony and misery, we open the door to wisdom and compassion. -B. Alan Wallace

Paying Attention

December 6, 2024

Love begins with paying attention to others. —John O’Donohue

Do we notice the person we serve when we perform an act of kindness?

When holding a door open for someone at the coffee house, pause, make eye contact, smile. Sometimes a smile is a little nudge of love that can perk up a down day.

When giving the person a couple of dollars to buy a StreetWise, looking at the person, acknowledging their existence. A bit of love’s energy flows to someone who needs it.

When someone speaks, listen with attention. 

[Note: StreetWise is a street magazine sold by people without homes or those at-risk for homelessness in Chicago.]

Vigilance

September 18, 2024

Vigilance

Beyond focus, it’s a careful watch for possible danger.

But also, it’s a careful watch for movement of the Spirit.

Sustained concentration, although that is impossible for humans.

Vigilance implies alertness, staying awake, not losing attention amidst the endless stream of thoughts.

Vigilance requires mindfulness.

Cynicism and Optimism

October 9, 2023

She had me lying face down on the massage table. As her fingers drove deeply into my back, she says, “The world is going to Hell in a Handbasket.” 

I did not want my massage therapist to get worked up enough to press even harder, so I used my calming voice to consider the truth of the opinion.

Of course truth or facts never get in the way of a good opinion. 

The reality is where you decide or default to place your attention.

Turning off CNN or Fox (whichever poison you’ve chosen) is a great start. Then deciding not to continue to line the already bulging pockets of Mark Z or Elon M by letting them capture my attention continues the journey on this correct path.

I know there are events in the world. But I don’t dwell on them. I know there are morons in Congress. Nothing I can do about that.

I also know there are many people doing good work in the neighborhood, city, and world. I work with many smart and  dedicated engineers and business people making the world a better place.

In many ways in most of the world, life is better than ever before. Yet, many people feel bad. Why? Expectations, I guess. Or where they place their attention. 

At the end of the day pause and consider, “Where have I allowed my attention to drift today? Toward the good? Toward the bad?”

Managing Projects and Attention

September 7, 2023

My day began poorly. The time management gurus tell you not to check email until late morning. I have had a project that runs first of August until mid-October for 35 years. I assign referees to high school soccer matches. The job is getting harder and harder.

This morning I opened email at 5:45 AM. Dale says, “I am still injured and cannot do tonight’s game.” First thing to do is send an email to my entire list of referees hoping someone will see and respond. Then I leave for my workout, which I miss only in extreme situations. After no one responds by 9:00, I go through my list and cull five people who might possibly be open and send them direct messages. I contact the school’s Athletic Director to alert him. I alert the other official. Meanwhile, I’m trying to finish three games on Saturday.

By 3:00 PM I’ve done all I can and all the kids are going to get to play their games.

Amongst that mental work, I found time out to practice Spanish and German on my Duolingo app. Different sort of mental stress.

Now at 5:00 PM I had taken a walk and a 15-minute power nap. My mind is now focused to write a couple of short essays.

Yesterday I wrote about a to do list as a menu. Some days your time is like choosing from a menu. I have a pretty scripted routine of reading, working out, writing, taking breaks to work on soccer, and so forth.

Some days everything gets turned around. I just have to solve the emergency. Go to the meeting. Whatever the situation may be. Then pause, breathe, and choose from the menu of things to tackle next.

Too many days like this, and the chances of living in chaos increase. But, not to worry. Routine, if established long enough, will return. It’s called resilience. Flexibility. Keys to sanity.

Keeping Yourself Firmly Grounded

August 1, 2023

Carole King put it, “I feel the earth move under my feet…”

Jimmy Buffet sang, “Earth she’s movin’ under me…”

These are powerful images. We expect the earth to be solid under our feet. When we teach Mountain Pose in Yoga (standing upright), we lead the students to feel their feet firmly grounded as they lengthen their spine yet relaxing their shoulders. Feel strong and grounded like a mountain.

The relaxation meditation I used last night told us to sit in the chair, place our feet flat on the ground, and feel grounded to the solid earth.

We want our emotions grounded. Not like air, moving randomly this way and that.

Building our spiritual, emotional, and intellectual life upon a solid foundation leads to a stable life ready to grow and serve.

Perhaps Jesus had something like that in mind when he told us, To hear my words and do them is like building a house on a solid foundation of rock where the rains, and the storms, and the winds came and yet did not destroy it.