Archive for the ‘advent’ Category

Preparing for Christmas—They Got It Wrong

December 25, 2025

I read Mary’s song of blessing again. My takeaway for us, especially if we are gathering with family—beware pride, practice humility. 

Everyone got Jesus’s birth wrong.

Mary was shocked. And then really pregnant. And escaped the rumor mongers of her hometown.

Joseph was even more shocked. He is almost never discussed again. The mystery man. He just reveals to us what a real man, a spiritual man, would do.

The magi (“wise men”) prepared for a journey, went in a general direction, but still didn’t really know where, and all the imports of the special revelation.

King Herod only thought in terms of the succession to his throne. That sort of reminds us of King Saul trying to protect the succession of his throne from David.

The Gospels record three people contemporary with the event who all saw part of the event but failed to see the full import.

Jewish people during Jesus’s ministry failed to understand the full import of the event and his ministry—until after the resurrection.

His closest friends and followers got it wrong—until they got it right.

I bet that many (most?) people today, even those who claim to follow him, don’t really digest the full importance of the event.

Even so, 2,000 years after the fact, we still have a feast day to remember his birth.

I wish you all a merry Christmas. Put aside pride and differences in order to celebrate with others.

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Talking People Out Of Hate–Part 2

December 24, 2025

The post yesterday looked at a man unafraid to face people who hate him only because of his skin color. A black jazz musician named Darryl Davis who found a type of ministry engaging in conversations with white men who are active neo-nazis or ku klux klan members.

Shortly after posting that, a video popped up on my fitness and nutrition app (called the Pump Club founded by Arnold Schwarzenegger, it guides me in my resistance training). I have to admit that I never had posters of Arnold in his prime doing muscle poses. If I had lived in California, I’m not sure I’d have voted for him to be the “Governator.” I’ve only see two of his movies, and only one intentionally. But I’ve come to respect his nonprofit work, especially building the fitness and esteem of young people.

He directly addresses hate in this YouTube video. It is a powerful message.

If you haven’t guessed it yet, I believe that spreading hate and divisiveness is the polar opposite of the message we should be living as Jesus followers. We should be reconciling people as much as we can. Being always successful? Not likely. But we aren’t graded on success. We are graded on where our heart is.

In this Christmas season, in fact this publishes on Christmas Eve, let us dedicate ourselves anew to the Prince of Peace.

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Curbing Your Tongue

December 22, 2025

As I have turned from inward toward outward during Advent (since I have never been an Advent sort of person), I have been thinking about how each of us interacts with others. If we call this the “Christmas season” rather than Advent, then we consider the themes of peace and joy with perhaps a pinch of anticipation tossed in.

One form of peace enters our experience through how we treat  others, how others treat us, and how we observe interactions of others at some distance.

I listened recently to an interview with a kindergarten teacher on what it’s like to be one. She said at one point, “Kindergarteners are so cute. They say whatever comes into their minds.”

And I thought about the general discourse in society today. Especially where I hear some people (who have an especially amplified voice thanks to the insidious spread of social media) who became angry feeling they were forced into civilized discourse rather than being able to say whatever comes to mind. 

But what is cute in 5-year-olds sounds much differently when it comes from adults. With maturity comes the ability to speak with a civil tongue. Especially for those who claim to be following Jesus.

Let us consider the teaching of James, the brother of Jesus, an early leader of “The Way,” and a profound wisdom teacher. 

When we put bits into the mouths of horses to make them obey us, we can turn the whole animal. Or take ships as an example. Although they are so large and are driven by strong winds, they are steered by a very small rudder wherever the pilot wants to go. Likewise, the tongue is a small part of the body, but it makes great boasts. Consider what a great forest is set on fire by a small spark. The tongue also is a fire, a world of evil among the parts of the body. It corrupts the whole body, sets the whole course of one’s life on fire, and is itself set on fire by hell.

All kinds of animals, birds, reptiles and sea creatures are being tamed and have been tamed by mankind, but no human being can tame the tongue. It is a restless evil, full of deadly poison.

With the tongue we praise our Lord and Father, and with it we curse human beings, who have been made in God’s likeness. Out of the same mouth come praise and cursing. My brothers and sisters, this should not be. Can both fresh water and salt water flow from the same spring? My brothers and sisters, can a fig tree bear olives, or a grapevine bear figs? Neither can a salt spring produce fresh water.

What is James telling us at the end of his analysis? What we say is a reflection of the status of our hearts. What was Jesus’s top concern—the status of our hearts. And where should our hearts be resting? Upon God. Which then has the effect upon us of loving other humans. 

So, we tie the inner and the outer together. As we consider the themes of peace and joy during this season (and the year following), let us consider how we use our “tongues,” whether vocally or through our fingers on a keyboard. Let us put a metaphorical bit in our mouth. 

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Sometimes It All Becomes Clear

December 16, 2025

Yesterday I was thinking about the “songs” of Mary and Zechariah and how they didn’t realize the full implications of what the birth of Jesus really meant.

Not their fault. They went along with what they had been taught. No problem with that.

We have a few stories later in the Gospels that told of Mary’s struggle to figure out what Jesus was doing.

I thought about this figuring out thing last week as my wife and I were working a jigsaw puzzle.

I group pieces by color and begin assembling. Focusing on one piece at a time, soon I had a chunk of picture completed.

I stood up and stepped back. Suddenly the picture of the old pickup truck startled me. I could defocus and see the big picture.

Sometimes when we study, we focus on a word or phrase at a time.

Meaning only comes when we mentally step back. Maybe going outside for a walk. Maybe closing our eyes briefly and then brewing a cup of tea. Or maybe waking up during the night after a dream.

Suddenly, the big picture comes into focus. We look beyond the little snippets of scripture we recite and see what Jesus really meant.

Those are good moments worth celebrating.

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Sometimes We Can’t See It Coming

December 15, 2025

“His mercy extends to those who fear him,

    from generation to generation.

He has performed mighty deeds with his arm;

    he has scattered those who are proud in their inmost thoughts.

He has brought down rulers from their thrones

    but has lifted up the humble.

He has filled the hungry with good things

    but has sent the rich away empty.

He has helped his servant Israel,

    remembering to be merciful

to Abraham and his descendants forever,

    just as he promised our ancestors.”

This quote from the Gospel of Luke is Mary’s Song (sometimes called the Magnificat). She is overjoyed at the news that she is the chosen one from among generations of young women praying to be the mother of the messiah. 

I think this passage, just like many others, has been subject to much interpretation by reading our own personal hope and attitudes into it. Some say that this is prophecy (meaning forecasting) of what will happen. But to me, the not-Greek-scholar) reads the verb tenses not as future tense but as events done in the past pointing to God’s continuing work.

What captured my interest with this year’s reading coupled with the next passage recording Zechariah’s joy at having a son was how they both interpreted this coming Messiah in terms of the long tradition of hope in Israel.

John was the forerunner of Jesus. Jesus was the Messiah. But both reinterpreted the tradition. 

John taught repentance. Turn your life around and start doing what God wants. Jesus also preached that when he began his ministry. He didn’t preach arming yourselves, forming an army, and kicking the Romans out of the land. In fact he taught the opposite.

He turned the entire Roman ethos of all relationships based on power to an ethos of being strong through serving. He was not the traditional version of the Messiah as savior meaning saving the country from foreign invaders. It was more saving people from their sinful lives and totally inverting culture and society.

I do not find fault that Mary and Zechariah had a different view. They simply gave voice to what they had been taught. Much to everyone’s surprise, Jesus changed things.

Many today continue to view relationships from personal to society in terms of power dynamics. Jesus followers take a different attitude toward life. Someone told me recently that many believe in Jesus, but few follow him.

Have you been awakened by Advent and the stories of Jesus’s appearance this year? Or re-awakened? Is it time to become a follower?

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Too Much

December 12, 2025

I have everything I wanted and nothing that I need.—Lord Huron

I heard this song the other day. It resonated.

Don’t think that I’ve ever had everything I wanted, although life has been good to us.

Thinking of all I have that is in excess of what I need.

Thinking of generosity post a couple days ago. Maybe if I have what I need, I could live into a more generous life?

Where are you today?

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Start With Lesson Two?

December 11, 2025

Official Advent readings include the story of the birth of John the Baptizer. He was the forerunner or preparer of the way for Jesus. And also his cousin.

We can consider John as the start, the first lesson, of Jesus’s ministry.

I thought of this when I recently heard this old Sufi story.

A person wanted to learn to play the flute. A woman in town plays and teaches the flute. The person goes to her house and knocks at her door. 

“I would like to learn to play the flute. Can you teach me?” 

“Yes, I can. The first lesson is 20 rialis. All the rest are 10.” 

“Great,” came the reply. “Let’s start with lesson two.”

But, you can’t begin with lesson two. The first lesson is important. The first lesson is the first lesson, not the second.

And the first lesson about a crucial meaning for the coming of Jesus?

John lived in the wilderness and preached, “Repent, for the Kingdom of God is around us.”

Repent—perhaps an emotion-laden word these days. Translate it as—change your ways. Instead of living like you have been, choose the better way, the way of living in God’s Kingdom.

How are you (we) living? Would it be better if you (we) changed our direction? Even just a little?

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Transitioning From Inward To Outward

December 10, 2025

Americans are perhaps the most generous people in the world. Americans of almost every political and religious persuasion contribute generously to many charities especially at this time of year.

Making a special effort toward generosity at this time of year builds a strong sense of well-being and happiness as part of our Advent preparations.

This attitude will enhance our lives throughout the coming year.

As we act, so we become. We can say together—we are someone who lives with generosity.

Advent—Preparing Our Hearts For Jesus

December 9, 2025

I’m still thinking about the inward journey of Advent. That part of the path where we check in with ourselves to uncover the status of our heart at this time of year.

I experienced a series of “visions” many years ago during a month of meditation sessions. At first, I was walking along a residential street pausing to notice an old house. The yard was overgrown with weeds, the walkway cracked, the fence in disrepair. But I was fascinated. A few days later, I decided to enter (thinking either Jung or Scooby Doo?). A door drew my attention. Eventually, I opened the door. It was, of course, to the cellar. A guide appeared, and we descended the stairs.

I was introduced to visualizations of every kind of sin. The experience told me that within myself, I was capable of all sin. And, that is true. I may not perform every sin, but I realize that I am capable if I slide that direction. 

[The series of meditations continued to where the cellar experience changed from revealing my weaknesses to celebrating acceptance into a huge party of every type and kind of God’s children. We are all people to be loved and served.]

The desert fathers of the early church studied the evil passions. They have taught me about self-awareness of the presence of the passions (emotions or destructive thoughts) and ways of mitigating them.

We cannot stop thoughts from entering our minds and guts. It’s whether we let them fester and grow or deal with them that determines our life stance.

Evagrius Ponticus, one of these early desert fathers, compiled a list of these passions—eight in number. A later Pope called Gregory the Great reformulated them as the Seven Deadly Sins.

These eight, you ask?

  • Gluttony
  • Lust
  • Avarice
  • Sadness
  • Anger
  • Acedia/Sloth
  • Vainglory
  • Pride

Evagrius emphasized achieving apatheia—freedom from destructive passions—as a goal of the spiritual life. Not emotional numbness, but freedom from being controlled by passions

Check out the list. Which are we prone to sit in? How can becoming aware of these propel you to seek the words of Jesus that will free us from wallowing in these destructive passions?

Advent—a time to prepare our hearts for the coming (or re-entry?) of Jesus.

Advent—Looking Inward

December 8, 2025

I have called myself a follower of Jesus for decades. Preparing myself for Christmas and the idea of entering anew into a relationship with him, I’ve been researching and reflecting on obstacles. After today’s thoughts, I’ll take a look at Evagrius’s list of eight “evil passions” reflecting on how they impact me (and probably you).

I am reflecting today on an ancient poem that I first saw perhaps some 62 years ago. I am still reflecting on the meaning of this for me. Which of these am I? I hope for four. Maybe realistically one? I know that it took years to wake up in the following sense.

He who knows not and knows not that he knows not is a fool…shun him.

He who knows not and knows that he knows not is a student…teach him.

He who knows and knows not that he knows is asleep…wake him.

He who knows and knows that he knows is wise…follow him.

Life seems to give us many in category one who think they are in category four. Learn discernment. I hope that we (you and I) are not a fool. I consider myself a continuing student.  Who among my readers need to awaken? There is surely one who is wise.