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Preparing or Playing

September 11, 2024

John Shirk writes at The Catch website about NFL players returning from injuries. It’s appropriate for new players, as well. They can spend time watching films, discussing what offenses work best against which defenses, lifting weights.

Preparation is good, indeed essential for professional level performance. It matters not a bit if the player never enters the field of play and performs.

Let us consider us. How much time do we spend in preparation? Going to church, discussing why this theology is better than that theology, attending meetings to discuss church growth?

Jesus taught in the church of his day (synagogues). Almost all the stories that are told about him have him out in the community. Talking with curious and searching people. Healing physical ailments. Healing emotional ailments. Guiding. Mentoring.

I’d guess that the same should go for his disciples—those who claim to follow him. Is it time for us to get out of the training room and into the playing field?

{I ask that of me as well as challenging you.]

How Do You Know a Christian?

September 10, 2024

How do you know a Christian? Is there a way to tell who is and who isn’t? Do you quiz them on their beliefs to see how well they line up with the Nicene Creed? Do you ask them if they’ve invited Jesus into their hearts? One answer is to check their behavior. If becoming united to Christ changes us, then one should expect to see those changes lived out in everyday life. A number of the Church Fathers suggested a test like this one, though the specific change they were looking for may come as a surprise.—Cody Cook

The early church grew in spurts when the people around them said, “I want what they’ve got.” How is it going for you?

The Power of Money

September 9, 2024

Often people with little money experience a happier life than people with great wealth.

Sometimes people with great (or moderate) wealth find many ways toward generosity benefitting manifold charitable organizations helping many.

Sometimes people with great (or even moderate) wealth use that wealth to wield power over people, ministries, organizations, even governments.

The common denominator—heart condition. Have you checked in with your spiritual cardiologist recently? Where is your heart regarding wealth or lack of it?

Programs or Change of Heart?

September 6, 2024

I’ve been thinking about organizations. Large ones. Smaller ones. Businesses. Non-profits. Religious.

An idea infuses a leader’s mind. I need to spread the idea, she thinks. Oh, I know, let us birth a program. We will compose a theme. Maybe it can sire a letterism that looks cool on a T-shirt. We will have meetings. We will have small groups focus on the theme for a period of time—say three months.

Then the theme will die. The T-shirts become what the people wear when they paint the bedroom. The banners go into storage.

Or, maybe…

The leader (at any level) decides to act in a certain way. He models a behavior. She asks questions and invites honest feedback. Maybe they quit “majoring in the minors” and begin focusing on what’s important.

Maybe everyone’s heart changes. Maybe just a little at a time. It’s like losing weight. A little change and maybe you lose a pound a week. In a year, there has been a lifestyle change and 50 pounds are gone. Often change is like that. It creeps up on us until one day realization of change hits our consciousness.

Consistency

September 5, 2024

A little at a time over time. A consistent approach.

Physical fitness and health link to emotional fitness and health link to spiritual fitness and health.

Sure, genes and traumatic incidents play a significant role in physical and emotional illnesses. But for as much as we can control, we can work on all of these intertwined parts of our whole life.

Arnold Schwarzenegger and his team call it the “Positive Corner of the Internet.” Their newsletter is filled with evaluation of studies and nutritional guides designed to help us improve our physical selves. 

Today’s issue reported three studies that all showed how consistency of even small improvements in diet and exercise significantly impact health and well being.

I add that the same approach to spiritual fitness works. Say you are starting from no spiritual discipline. Just getting out of bed five minutes earlier to read half of a chapter of a Gospel or to take those moments to focus on God done regularly leads to noticeable improvements in how you feel during the day. Soon you will find that five minutes expand to a half-hour. Perhaps half reading something that feeds the mind and soul and then meditating on that for the other fifteen minutes.

Make a subtle change in what and how you eat by cutting portion size

Park you car in the employee parking lot or supermarket lot such that you walk more

Rise early to spend just a few minutes of reading and meditation

Those three small disciplines at whatever stage of life you are in will improve your life.

Put Away Evil Speaking

September 4, 2024

Put Away Evil Speaking–John Wesley.

O that all you who bear the reproach of Christ, who are in derision called Methodists, would set an example to the Christian world, so called, at least in this one instance! Put ye away evil-speaking, talebearing, whispering: Let none of them proceed out of your mouth! See that you “speak evil of no man;” of the absent, nothing but good. If ye must be distinguished, whether ye will or no, let this be the distinguishing mark of a Methodist: “He censures no man behind his back: By this fruit ye may know him.” What a blessed effect of this self-denial should we quickly feel in our hearts! How would our “peace flow as a river,” when we thus “followed peace with all men!”

I was brought up in the Methodist Church and have spent most of my adult life as a member. I don’t remember any specific instruction on Wesleyan thought. Some recent reading suggested several books to read next, so I picked up Wesley’s Collected Sermons. 141 of them. When the book opened in Kindle, the note told me 24 hours remaining of reading time. I’m now half through. I stand amazed at how much my thought came from John Wesley.

The quote from John Wesley should be “inscribed on the heart” of all who call themselves Methodist of whatever flavor. Furthermore, the thought is good for all who claim to follow Jesus. Even further, it wouldn’t hurt every person regardless of religion or politics or whatever to follow this advice.

Getting Out Of Your Way

September 3, 2024

Pogo, a cartoon character from long ago, announced to his friends, “We have met the enemy, and they are us.”

We know the spiritual disciplines or practices that help us open up to God: meditation, prayer, study, worship, service.

The gap between knowing and doing can sometimes be easily stepped over and we proceed. Sometimes the gap is a chasm we cannot cross. Only to discover that the creator of that chasm is us.

We didn’t find that chair in the morning to sit and pray and meditate. We think we are not spiritual enough, and besides, we’d rather get another half-hour of sleep.

We set out that book to study and never opened it. We tell ourselves we are not smart enough to understand. It’ll be too hard. We’re too tired to think. We look at the book and then notice our phone. We pick the phone up first because it’s entertaining and easy. Then our entire study time just got sucked into the drain of nonsense.

We didn’t even bother to open a door for a mother struggling with a package and an infant or for someone handicapped struggling with a non-handicapped accessible door. We think that someone else will help. It’s not my job. Or like someone I was mentoring long ago, “I don’t care.”

There’s a word Jesus uses in the story of Martha and Mary. The Greek word of course can be translated with any one of a number of English words. I saw in one translation the word distracted.

That resonates. We allow ourselves (remember the story “the toy is broken” where we dodge responsibility) to be distracted by many things.

The opposite is focus. Sometime I sit before the laptop and find that I must take a deep breath and mentally bring myself into focus on the task. Or the same when I must repair something. It is my job to find that way to bring myself into focus on what is important at that moment. When something in you suggests an easy way out, tell it to take a rest, I have something important to do.

Cynicism

September 2, 2024

Does the feeling that cynicism invades your soul, surrounds your spirit alter you? It seems everywhere. Conversations. Media. Everyone has sinister ulterior motives. No one can be trusted.

Singer and songwriter Nick Cave observed of himself:

Cynicism is not a neutral position—and although it asks almost nothing of us, it is highly infectious and unbelievably destructive. In my view, it is the most common and easy of evils.​I know this because much of my early life was spent holding the world and the people in it in contempt. It was a position both seductive and indulgent. 

He later changed his outlook:

It took a devastation to teach me the preciousness of life and the essential goodness of people. It took a devastation to reveal the precariousness of the world, of its very soul, to understand that it was crying out for help. It took a devastation to understand the idea of mortal value, and it took a devastation to find hope.​

Blessed are those whose natural compass of life has guided them to hopefulness and helpfulness. It’s harsh to need a devastating event to change. 

You can find good people everywhere. You can find evil. Discernment is knowing the difference with enough distance to avoid being sucked into contempt and cynicism.

Perform The Basics

August 30, 2024

Arnold Schwarzenegger has exhorted people into a fitness life for his entire adult life. In a recent newsletter, he wrote this:

The basics are simple: Eat protein Eat vegetables and fruits Eat healthy carbs Train with the movements that have always worked Walk Drink enough water Sleep If you can’t check all of those boxes — and be honest with yourself, count this weekend where you ate wings and fries and drank beers and missed your workouts and never saw a vegetable — why are you worried about what supplement to take, or the perfect workout, or the “optimal” diet? You aren’t trying now. You’re stalling. You think one of these things might be a magic pill.

John Wesley taught his own set of spiritual basics:

  • Prayer
  • Study the Scriptures
  • Participate in the Lord’s Supper

My advice—do both sets of basics for a balanced and healthy life.

When We Wonder If We Are On The Right Path

August 29, 2024

Say you have chosen a path. On the journey, you have decided that Jesus is your best guide. So you try to follow him, do what he does, live like he teaches.

How is it going?

Ryan Holliday write in his newsletter The Daily Stoic something geared toward what they call the Stoic or philosophical life that is quite applicable to those of us trying to follow the with-God life. The parallels between the Stoic life and the with-God life are startling. We can learn from each other.

Holliday writes:

If you’re wondering if you’re getting better, wiser, more philosophical in this Stoic journey, here’s a test: How many arguments are you getting in each day? How often are you fighting with others? We talked about Elon Musk a while ago. Imagine having ten kids, billions of dollars, seven companies, tens of thousands of employees, a real opportunity to write a better future…and spending your time seeking out culture war issues to get sucked into. Imagine engaging with random trolls online, getting into spats with journalists and politicians. You might think that sounds pretty silly…but are we really that much better in our own, smaller lives?

Does that sound like your Christian life? Always arguing. Always proving a point that your theology is more scriptural? People avoid you because of that attitude?

Or maybe when you rise from your night’s slumber, you go to the bathroom, make your coffee, sit in prayer or meditation, and consider—what will I do today that reflects following Jesus on this journey with God? Will I show the kind of love Jesus talked about? Or will I be obnoxious and argumentative?