OK, I’m going to provide a little last minute advice for upcoming family dinners.
Liberate yourself from the need to be Right.
Choose to be useful instead.
OK, I’m going to provide a little last minute advice for upcoming family dinners.
Liberate yourself from the need to be Right.
Choose to be useful instead.
No, I’m not thinking about Glenn Miller, even though we’ve attended two WWII-era plays this season. (Great song, I grew up learning to play drums to big band music. Oh, to be 9 again.)
I think about how I (and most likely you) tend to wait until we’re in the mood to do things—perform a service, write that novel, say Hi to a friend, read Luke 1…
Professionals don’t wait until they are in the mood before they do the work. They do the work to get in the mood.
Same with us. Perform that charity service, write that note, visit someone. As you do, the mood will follow.
Sort of like yesterday’s thought—the world seems backward. The more we do good things, the better the mood we’re in, and the better the reciprocation of others. It spreads.
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Back when I was singing a lot of folk stuff, I ran across this song by Glen Campbell:
Let me be a little kinder let me be a little blinder
To the faults of those about me let me praise a little more
Let me be when I am weary just a little bit more cheery
Think a little more of others and a little less of me
Christmas occurs just over a week from today. By now you are probably frazzled by sending cards, finding gifts, attending parties, planning the big dinner.
I don’t know about you, but you’re probably like me—the more frazzled I get with busyness, the less kind I am to others.
Today is a great day to pause, breathe, and treat the next person you see with kindness (even if it’s you in the mirror). Then make it today’s habit.
There is a weird truth—the more you show kindness, the easier it makes it to show more kindness. And even stranger still—the more you show kindness, the kinder other people are back at you. The more you share, the more there is. It’s a great thing.
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Yesterday I was thinking about the “songs” of Mary and Zechariah and how they didn’t realize the full implications of what the birth of Jesus really meant.
Not their fault. They went along with what they had been taught. No problem with that.
We have a few stories later in the Gospels that told of Mary’s struggle to figure out what Jesus was doing.
I thought about this figuring out thing last week as my wife and I were working a jigsaw puzzle.
I group pieces by color and begin assembling. Focusing on one piece at a time, soon I had a chunk of picture completed.
I stood up and stepped back. Suddenly the picture of the old pickup truck startled me. I could defocus and see the big picture.
Sometimes when we study, we focus on a word or phrase at a time.
Meaning only comes when we mentally step back. Maybe going outside for a walk. Maybe closing our eyes briefly and then brewing a cup of tea. Or maybe waking up during the night after a dream.
Suddenly, the big picture comes into focus. We look beyond the little snippets of scripture we recite and see what Jesus really meant.
Those are good moments worth celebrating.
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“His mercy extends to those who fear him,
from generation to generation.
He has performed mighty deeds with his arm;
he has scattered those who are proud in their inmost thoughts.
He has brought down rulers from their thrones
but has lifted up the humble.
He has filled the hungry with good things
but has sent the rich away empty.
He has helped his servant Israel,
remembering to be merciful
to Abraham and his descendants forever,
just as he promised our ancestors.”
This quote from the Gospel of Luke is Mary’s Song (sometimes called the Magnificat). She is overjoyed at the news that she is the chosen one from among generations of young women praying to be the mother of the messiah.
I think this passage, just like many others, has been subject to much interpretation by reading our own personal hope and attitudes into it. Some say that this is prophecy (meaning forecasting) of what will happen. But to me, the not-Greek-scholar) reads the verb tenses not as future tense but as events done in the past pointing to God’s continuing work.
What captured my interest with this year’s reading coupled with the next passage recording Zechariah’s joy at having a son was how they both interpreted this coming Messiah in terms of the long tradition of hope in Israel.
John was the forerunner of Jesus. Jesus was the Messiah. But both reinterpreted the tradition.
John taught repentance. Turn your life around and start doing what God wants. Jesus also preached that when he began his ministry. He didn’t preach arming yourselves, forming an army, and kicking the Romans out of the land. In fact he taught the opposite.
He turned the entire Roman ethos of all relationships based on power to an ethos of being strong through serving. He was not the traditional version of the Messiah as savior meaning saving the country from foreign invaders. It was more saving people from their sinful lives and totally inverting culture and society.
I do not find fault that Mary and Zechariah had a different view. They simply gave voice to what they had been taught. Much to everyone’s surprise, Jesus changed things.
Many today continue to view relationships from personal to society in terms of power dynamics. Jesus followers take a different attitude toward life. Someone told me recently that many believe in Jesus, but few follow him.
Have you been awakened by Advent and the stories of Jesus’s appearance this year? Or re-awakened? Is it time to become a follower?
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I have everything I wanted and nothing that I need.—Lord Huron
I heard this song the other day. It resonated.
Don’t think that I’ve ever had everything I wanted, although life has been good to us.
Thinking of all I have that is in excess of what I need.
Thinking of generosity post a couple days ago. Maybe if I have what I need, I could live into a more generous life?
Where are you today?
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Official Advent readings include the story of the birth of John the Baptizer. He was the forerunner or preparer of the way for Jesus. And also his cousin.
We can consider John as the start, the first lesson, of Jesus’s ministry.
I thought of this when I recently heard this old Sufi story.
A person wanted to learn to play the flute. A woman in town plays and teaches the flute. The person goes to her house and knocks at her door.
“I would like to learn to play the flute. Can you teach me?”
“Yes, I can. The first lesson is 20 rialis. All the rest are 10.”
“Great,” came the reply. “Let’s start with lesson two.”
But, you can’t begin with lesson two. The first lesson is important. The first lesson is the first lesson, not the second.
And the first lesson about a crucial meaning for the coming of Jesus?
John lived in the wilderness and preached, “Repent, for the Kingdom of God is around us.”
Repent—perhaps an emotion-laden word these days. Translate it as—change your ways. Instead of living like you have been, choose the better way, the way of living in God’s Kingdom.
How are you (we) living? Would it be better if you (we) changed our direction? Even just a little?
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Americans are perhaps the most generous people in the world. Americans of almost every political and religious persuasion contribute generously to many charities especially at this time of year.
Making a special effort toward generosity at this time of year builds a strong sense of well-being and happiness as part of our Advent preparations.
This attitude will enhance our lives throughout the coming year.
As we act, so we become. We can say together—we are someone who lives with generosity.
I’m still thinking about the inward journey of Advent. That part of the path where we check in with ourselves to uncover the status of our heart at this time of year.
I experienced a series of “visions” many years ago during a month of meditation sessions. At first, I was walking along a residential street pausing to notice an old house. The yard was overgrown with weeds, the walkway cracked, the fence in disrepair. But I was fascinated. A few days later, I decided to enter (thinking either Jung or Scooby Doo?). A door drew my attention. Eventually, I opened the door. It was, of course, to the cellar. A guide appeared, and we descended the stairs.
I was introduced to visualizations of every kind of sin. The experience told me that within myself, I was capable of all sin. And, that is true. I may not perform every sin, but I realize that I am capable if I slide that direction.
[The series of meditations continued to where the cellar experience changed from revealing my weaknesses to celebrating acceptance into a huge party of every type and kind of God’s children. We are all people to be loved and served.]
The desert fathers of the early church studied the evil passions. They have taught me about self-awareness of the presence of the passions (emotions or destructive thoughts) and ways of mitigating them.
We cannot stop thoughts from entering our minds and guts. It’s whether we let them fester and grow or deal with them that determines our life stance.
Evagrius Ponticus, one of these early desert fathers, compiled a list of these passions—eight in number. A later Pope called Gregory the Great reformulated them as the Seven Deadly Sins.
These eight, you ask?
Evagrius emphasized achieving apatheia—freedom from destructive passions—as a goal of the spiritual life. Not emotional numbness, but freedom from being controlled by passions
Check out the list. Which are we prone to sit in? How can becoming aware of these propel you to seek the words of Jesus that will free us from wallowing in these destructive passions?
Advent—a time to prepare our hearts for the coming (or re-entry?) of Jesus.
I have called myself a follower of Jesus for decades. Preparing myself for Christmas and the idea of entering anew into a relationship with him, I’ve been researching and reflecting on obstacles. After today’s thoughts, I’ll take a look at Evagrius’s list of eight “evil passions” reflecting on how they impact me (and probably you).
I am reflecting today on an ancient poem that I first saw perhaps some 62 years ago. I am still reflecting on the meaning of this for me. Which of these am I? I hope for four. Maybe realistically one? I know that it took years to wake up in the following sense.
He who knows not and knows not that he knows not is a fool…shun him.
He who knows not and knows that he knows not is a student…teach him.
He who knows and knows not that he knows is asleep…wake him.
He who knows and knows that he knows is wise…follow him.
Life seems to give us many in category one who think they are in category four. Learn discernment. I hope that we (you and I) are not a fool. I consider myself a continuing student. Who among my readers need to awaken? There is surely one who is wise.