Wasting Time

February 20, 2024

“What fools call ‘wasting time’ is most often the best investment,”wrote Nassim Nicholas Taleb in his little book of aphorisms The Bed of Procrustes.

Some of us feel that we must fill every waking second with something. Work. Reading a book. Scrolling social media. Meetings. Shopping.

Sometimes boredom is a good thing. Just sitting doing nothing. Thoughts wandering like a summer breeze. 

Sometimes taking a walk outside. Going nowhere. No music; no podcasts.

Yesterday during my afternoon walk I greeted a number of people…and dogs. I watched two otters swim in the creek behind my house. I listened to Sandhill Cranes squawking until one that was in front of me decided to fly just over my head to join the others.

And I was refreshed. And percolated ideas for writing. And appreciated what God has created outside and in me.

Heroism

February 19, 2024

Historian Heather Cox Richardson writing in her newsletter Letters from an American on January 14, 2024 had this to say about heroism:

When I was writing a book about the Wounded Knee Massacre, where heroism was pretty thin on the ground, I gave that a lot of thought. And I came to believe that heroism is neither being perfect, nor doing something spectacular. In fact, it’s just the opposite: it’s regular, flawed human beings choosing to put others before themselves, even at great cost, even if no one will ever know, even as they realize the walls might be closing in around them.

When I was but a lad we were given many stories from World War II about men who performed heroic deeds. Those stories resembled the insight that Richardson expresses.

Heroism is not limited to war. Stories about regarding people who have put others before their own health and welfare. The Jesus Movement grew exponentially in the early days of the Roman Empire when a plague struck the city. Officials and leading business men fled to the hills. Christians crept from their hiding places in order to minister to the health and souls of the stricken. The courage and selflessness of these Jesus-followers served as inspiration to a generation.

In our own times, we can look to Mother Theresa who served the poorest of the poor in India.

Or think of the many women you may know who give up time and energy to serve food and clothing to the poor and homeless of your city.

What can I do today to put others before me in service? And you?

Encouraging a Routine

February 16, 2024

Steve Jobs co-founded Apple Computer and led it to greatness. He famously picked up ideas from many sources. He was in the process of dropping out of Reed College when he heard about a calligraphy class. He audited it. That led to the innovative fonts and interfaces of the Macintosh.

He traveled to Japan to observe manufacturing. All the workers wore uniforms. He thought, if I wore the same thing everyday, I wouldn’t waste any time figuring out what to wear every day. Therefore his trademark black turtlenecks and jeans.

My first job entailed a lot of walking around the manufacturing facility. After a few years, I was “promoted” to a desk job in a rather small office area. I didn’t notice anything until April when our church league softball team began practicing. I could barely run from home to first base. From then on I got up a half-hour or more earlier and went outside to run. One little routine which evolved to run (outside where possible), weight training, Yoga in the mornings followed by sauna then start the day.

Following a hectic six-week period in February and March 2020, we moved to a new city and state the first week of the pandemic shutdown. No more gym, but up every morning to run or walk around my new environment. Be outside in nature. Birds and a variety of little furry critters. It was the routine of up, exercise, breakfast, contemplate and write every morning that kept me sane.

There are things you can do that you don’t have to waste time thinking about every morning. And now you are prepared for your day. 

Contempt

February 15, 2024

It’s not our disagreements that cause division. It’s contempt that causes division.

So often our attitudes define our relationships and actions. 

Can we have honest discussions with others about religion, faith, politics, or our community? Can we listen with holding someone who disagrees in contempt assuming lack of intelligence? Can we speak civilly without condescension in our tone of voice?

I come back to listening. Can we even listen? What are they really saying? What is the emotion they are holding? What needs do they feel that we should be hearing? Maybe not with agreement, but with empathy.

We have all known people who seem to look upon others with contempt. They assume such superiority.

We don’t want to be one of those people. 

Second Guessing

February 14, 2024

American professional football just held its annual championship game. The two teams competed well. The coaches prepared the teams with skill and ingenuity. The players individually played with passion and athleticism. It was thrilling with one team winning on the last play.

I scanned my few news sources the next morning only to see some reporter propose that the losing coach blew one or more decisions at the end leading to the loss.

This is a person who never did the hundreds of things that bring a team together that eventually plays for the championship. But the headline received many clicks, and he got paid.

How often do we sit on the sidelines second-guessing the people actually making the decisions and doing the work? The pastor screwed up again. Or the committee or organization leader fails to lead—to our satisfaction. But how often do we stand up and take the chance to lead? This second guessing leads to dissension and division.

Worse  still is when we second guess ourselves. “If only” thinking can ruin our lives. We can live in despair for years with that thinking. Of course we need to learn from experience. How often we say “I’ll not do that again!” Beware living the “if only I…” life. It leads nowhere.

Fat Tuesday

February 13, 2024

Today is “Fat Tuesday” aka Mardi Gras. In the Chicago area it is Paczki (poochky) Day. That is a Polish treat, a jelly/fruit/cream filled pastry. Alas, by the time I arrived at the coffee house they had sold out. So, I won’t have that extra store of fat to take me through the fasting of Lent.

But then, I was not raised with an extensive Lenten tradition. Neither was my wife. 

I wondered why we are so much more Advent people than Lent people. Both are celebrations of crucial events foundational to the Christian faith. First must come the birth; then must come the resurrection which cannot happen without a death.

On one hand:

  • Six weeks of “Christmas” or “Holiday” music that brings a certain sentimentality?
  • Anticipation of presents?
  • Shopping?
  • Holiday parties and treats?
  • Joy?

On the other hand:

  • One party day (today)
  • Six weeks of somber reflection
  • Six weeks of fasting (for some)
  • One day of party—in America celebrated with piles of chocolates for kids and others and fancy clothing

Perhaps I am, as always, overthinking. There are different seasons to the calendar and to the church calendar and to our lives.

Now at the end of another long winter we look forward to spring. It is a somber time of reflection. What does it all mean? And pointing to the resurrection—which means everything.

The Practice

February 12, 2024

I have followed and taught on the work on Spiritual Disciplines by Richard J. Foster and Dallas Willard. Some people call them Spiritual Practices due to negative connotations of the word discipline.

If you have tried to develop a regular practice of study, prayer, meditation, and silence and found it difficult to sit every day, or even every other day, then you have met what the writer Steven Pressfield calls The Resistance. He defines it in his classic book for creative people The War of Art.

He discussed it recently in his email newsletter. “We have a practice in order to confront and overcome Resistance. A practice by definition defeats Resistance because it produces work every day with total focus and dedication. And a practice is lifelong, so we know we’ll never quit.”

He explains further with thoughts that should help us in our own spiritual practice if we but infuse them into our lives:

I was years into the act of having a practice before I even thought about its efficacy as a strategy to overcome my own Resistance. Resistance was (and is) a given for me. It wakes up with me. I know I will have to face it every day, and I know it will never diminish or relent or go away. But I have a practice. That’s all I need to know. I know at a certain time of day I will go into a certain room. I will enter with a very specific mindset, i.e. “Leave your problems (and your ego) outside.” And I will engage in a very specific (though infinitely varied in the moment) enterprise. I have left Resistance outside as well. It is not allowed into the space where my writing practice takes place.

Teaching on Prayer

February 9, 2024

How do you imagine God? Where is this God that you imagine?

Someone said they were puzzled by how they could send a prayer all the way up to heaven and it could make it to God.

I understand. Many people imagine God as sitting in an ornate chair up in the sky somewhere.

Jesus said that the kingdom of God is all around us. Paul tried to describe it as our bodies are temples, that is the residence of God in the language of the day, of the Holy Spirit, that is the way we experience God after Jesus’s resurrection.

We could just as easily imagine prayer as a conversation with someone right here beside us. Someone I read many years ago described gatherings of the first followers of Jesus as experiencing him right there in the room with them. More than a belief—an experience.

A good and refreshing conversation includes me talking, me listening, pauses, nodding our heads in agreement, lifting eyebrows in surprise, maybe a smile or a tear.

I once offered to teach a prayer class. It should be a limited term class. Six weeks. Experiencing various types and methods of prayer developed over millennia. People came expecting me to teach about prayer, you know, six examples from the Bible to memorize or something. I wanted to show them, actually have them experience, different forms of prayer much like teaching different poses in a Yoga class or how to use dumbbells when doing resistance training where you actually must perform the action taught. 

How about you? Do you just want an intellectual knowledge about God and conversations with God? Or perhaps a deeper experience of relationship? 

Sometimes we are way too much into head and way too little into heart (soul).

Taming the Tongue

February 8, 2024

James, one of the first leaders of the Jesus Movement, wrote about the tongue. It’s a small part of the body, he says, yet like the bridle in a horses’s mouth or the rudder of a ship, it can move great things. Like a forest fire started by a small fire the tongue is a fire.

Every species of beast or bird or reptile or sea creature can be tamed—but not the tongue. It is a restless evil, full of deadly poison.

Every one of us has experienced recriminations from saying the wrong thing at the wrong time. Each of us has hurt someone sometime by saying something hateful.

And yet we believe we have the “right” to say whatever we want whenever we wish—without suffering from the repercussions.

Why are we shocked when we spread lies, half-truth, hate and then people respond strongly against us?

We can say whatever comes to mind first. That doesn’t mean we should. Wise people choke back those first comments, count to 10 or even 100, and then see the harm those words would cause and how better off the world would be if we stay silent.

Words have power—use them wisely.

Dandelion in Crete in Winter

February 7, 2024

We were on the Greek island of Crete last week. It is winter in the Mediterranean. Cool, rain. The wind from the sea must have been gusting at 40 mph. Maybe there was just a glimpse of the stories of Paul and ships on the Mediterranean at the wrong time of year.

We walked along a fortress wall by the harbor at Souda Bay. Bad weather and rough seas changed our itinerary from Heraklion. No problem.

Here grew one lonely dandelion amidst the rocks. The dark spot on one flower is a honey bee. One plant struggling up from the rocks, yet seemingly successful against all odds.

One bee. Found a flower. Some juicy food to take back to the hive.

Sometimes we struggle against the odds in our spiritual development journey. Sometimes we find success.

Sometimes we do our job. Maybe alone. Against the odds. Yet, we find nourishment.