Why Do You Work For God

February 4, 2013

Great leaders inspire by communicating why the organization exists. So says Simon Sinek in his book, “Start With Why: How Great Leaders Inspire Everyone To Take Action.” Actually the book is surprisingly poorly written–should have been an article, rather than a book. Or, yet, it’s better as a short talk–as his appearance at the TED Talks generated millions of views.

His idea is insightful. Why do you work in the church? In fact, why do you work anywhere? If you are a leader in your church, why does your function exist?

I was reflecting on Paul’s letters–yep, all of them. He was the consummate organizer. Think about it. He had a “why”.

Micromanaging kills enthusiasm. Just filling a spot in a program kills enthusiasm. Just heard a story about a many who was moved by guilt and other manipulative tactics to take on leadership of a children’s class at church. He really didn’t like working with kids. He really wasn’t a teacher. Although a successful businessman, he failed miserably as a children’s teacher. He didn’t have a “why”, just a “what” that was filling a spot and reading the curriculum.

This week, define your why. If it doesn’t inspire, find something that does.

Pray With Intention

February 1, 2013

We talked about praying to God with concerns without giving Him the solution. We need to trust that God knows the solution. He just needs us to lay out the concern. Focus our attention in the Spirit on the need.

A small group I participate with when I’m in town is studying James. We just hit chapter 5 where James talks about praying for others and ourselves.

One of the guys, who has also shared with me alone the same thought, brought up about praying with intention. We talk about being able to share in Spiritual conversations wherever you may be whenever the door opens. He had decided to visit a local bar and prayed with intention for God to bring someone into his life with whom to share a Spiritual conversation.

And, so it happened.

Interesting. There are several things happening in that story. There is trust in God. There is the vision to actually ask God. Then there is the response–he actually had to get up out of his easy chair, tell his wife he was going to a local bar (that could be the end of it for me–just kidding), and have the courage to sit there and then respond to someone’s need.

As he encouraged me, I prayed with intention for God to just bring people into my life. I’m looking at some life changes, so it seemed timely advice. Amazing. I had two conversations the other afternoon in the space of three hours where two people came into my life with answers to things that had burdened my heart for months.

Why wait so long? It is true. As part of your daily (or three-times-a-day) prayers, concentrate on asking God to bring people into your life. Of course, then you have to be open to these people. And you may have to go to work.

Why Do We Work For Something

January 31, 2013

You volunteer to work for an organization–say a church or charity. You work somewhere to earn money to live. If you are a leader, especially of a church or charitable organization, you find yourself constantly recruiting to fill positions.

One of the talks I listened to while working out this week was by a senior pastor of a large church. He was talking about some techniques a pastor might use to recruit people to fill positions in the church. He might use guilt, for example. Or peer pressure.

Then I had another conversation this week about church leadership. She told me that she’s discovered that church leaders must begin with a foundation in the Holy Spirit. Only then can you feel called to serve. She was on to something. Manipulation only works in the short term and eventually breeds an environment of people doing what they don’t want to do only out of a sense of being talked into it. Not much moving of the Spirit there.

I have begun reading Simon Sinek’s book, “Start With Why: How Great Leaders Inspire Everyone To Take Action.” I’ve watched his TED Talk. It’s powerful. Last night I read, “There are a few leaders who chose to inspire rather than manipulate in order to motivate people.”

His emphasis seemed to be on “a few” as in “not many” or “not nearly enough.”

Manipulation may be conscious or it may be just a person’s life orientation. Maybe the leader doesn’t know why, either. Sinek talks about What an organization does (which most people know), How an organization does What (which many people know), and Why an organization exists (which few people seem to know and can articulate).

A friend of mine recently wrote on his blog asking why people join professional associations.

I’d ask in this context, Why do you volunteer for church or charity work? When you recruit and lead, do you know Why your organization does what it does? Can you be passionate about doing what you do if you don’t know Why?

Adding Structure to Your Life And Your Kids

January 30, 2013

Structure is very important to how I live. I organize myself around it. That’s why I appreciate the Spiritual Disciplines (or Spiritual Practices). That’s why I practice rising early every morning and encourage others to do the same.

I often discuss structure in the life of kids. Beginning from just days old, kids need structure. They need to know boundaries. They need to know “yes” from “no”. They need a certain regularity. My daughter is a therapist who works with kids. She deals with the result of lack of structure many times a day.

Here is another TED Talk. Chris Anderson, the founder of the TED Talks, calls them “Ideas worth sharing.” I agree, so I’m sharing this talk from Colin Powell, “Kids Need Structure.” He’s the retired Army general and former US Secretary of State. He rose from rebellious kid to the top of his profession. Worth 10 minutes of your time. And if it causes you to help a kid grow, then it’s priceless.

Just Let God Know the Need

January 29, 2013

One of the many things I read every day is 300 Words a Day by Jon Swanson. He is really grounded in daily life with interesting insights. The other day he wrote about someone coming to him with a problem–logistics about a church program. He wrote:

“I needed to separate the need she had from the solutions she offered. Once the need was clear, the best solution would come. I suppose this could be a lesson about teamwork and collaboration. but for me it’s a lesson about prayer. Too often I tell God the solution, and wonder why I don’t get my way. When I let him know the need and wait, solutions I never imagined appear.”

He is so right. Don’t we all have this problem of praying to God for a specific solution? I’ve been attempting to just lay out the situation for God in my prayers. I’m pictorial in thinking (even though I write for a living, go figure). So, when I am praying for others or for me, I just enter quietly into God’s presence and picture the person or event. Just lay it out there for God.

And, yes. I have received many solutions–and still am today. About lots of stuff. And I’ve seen changes in the lives of people that I lay before God–not praying for a solution or even that “cop out” phrase according to your will. I know that God will work in the situation and the proper solution will happen.

The coolest thing is that I rest in the confidence that God knows the solution. I don’t have to be his boss.

Story of Ending Domestic Violence

January 28, 2013

In this TED Talk, Leslie Morgan Steiner describes what it’s like to be in an abusive relationship and how she ended it. Share this with anyone you think may be in such a relationship, or who may know someone who is in such a relationship. Obviously, it will be hard for someone to become close to God while living in such circumstances.

Leslie Morgan Steiner, Why Domestic Violence Victims Don’t Leave

Causes Have Effects On Our Lives

January 25, 2013

Paul wrote in his letter to the Romans, “The wages of sin is death.”

When I hear that, my mind pictures one of those hardhearted, judgmental types of people who aggressively invade your space and tell you you’re going to Hell.

Actually, I think he was trying to say that “what we sow, therefore shall we reap.” Jesus taught also about causes and effects in our lives.

We could call it the eventual burning in Hell with images evoked from Dante or Renaissance paintings. Better to think of it as the hell we live in if we don’t pay attention to causes and effects.

In America, many writers are exploring the increasing income divide  between rich and middle class-to-poor people. I wish to discuss neither economics or politics. Rather, I recently saw a talk where a graph was displayed showing the correlation of the decline of marriage and growth of economic inequality.

The decline of stable marriages with two partners pulling together has had disastrous effect on the quality of many lives. Life becomes a struggle, which you have to face alone–or with children mixed in a family where each have different parents. Years of political and economic policies along with business decisions to drive down wages makes it mandatory to have two incomes to live a middle class lives. Saw this coming in the late 80s. Now we have it full on.

I remember still being a rebellious adolescent. “You’re not going to tell me what to do. I don’t need those conservative structures.”

It’s not about conservative or liberal. We grow and observe with increased clarity. What  we sow, so shall we reap. Some confuse freedom–much like the so-called prodigal son. He squandered his inheritance–in the Greek his essence, his very being.

Responsibility, marriage, commitment. These are not conservative words. They are not slavery words. They are growth words. Only from a strong foundation can we grow into the peace of Christ. I think that this is a Spiritual practice that helps us toward ultimate freedom of a with-God life.

Staying Connected

January 24, 2013

I love technology. Recently, and actually many times over the past 10 years, I have been involved in online discussions on technology, the future, impacts on jobs, and the like.

I can remember when I was one of only a few who had a mobile phone. Maybe that even made me feel technologically superior. I needed to be out front in gadgetland.

Then everyone had a mobile phone. But I had a mobile phone and a Palm Pilot. Ha! Eventually those merged into a “smart phone.” When the Dayton Pops had a concert at the same time as an Ohio State University football game, everyone in my section asked for scoring updates during breaks in the music action since I could access the Internet and get ESPN online.

But technology is only useful if just about everyone can benefit.

Last night I was helping out a team of people on a ministry project serving a lasagna dinner to a group of people in a retirement apartment complex. Before I prayed at the beginning of dinner, we asked for prayer requests. They were concerned about one of the residents who had several serious ailments occurring simultaneously.

After dinner and entertainment (two very talented  girls from a local high school), a woman of about 80 years of age stood up and, holding a Samsung Galaxy smart phone in a cool hot-pink case, asked if the group wanted an update on how their friend was doing in the hospital. Sounded like she was reading from a Facebook post. I was so impressed. And they were able to rejoice that their friend was showing positive signs of recovery from a stroke.

My mother had gotten into email before she passed away several years ago. She and one of my brothers were determined that they would get it set up without asking me for help. They did. And she was connected to her dispersed brothers, nieces and nephews for the last few years of her life.

It’s not the technology. When that gets out of the way and allows us to connect, that’s the cool thing.

Excellence Is A Habit

January 23, 2013

This is the 500th post to this blog. I sort of played around with it for a while, then got serious a couple of years ago. I appreciate all the comments either here or by email or Facebook or Twitter.

Rummaging around for a quote for Yoga class last night, I ran across this one from the Greek philosopher Aristotle:

“We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence, therefore, is not an act, but a habit.”

You just need to keep doing the best you can and pretty soon that becomes a habit. Just like a morning routine. Or, like service.

In the U.S., we have stop lights at most intersections. To expedite traffic flow (well roundabouts are better, but we won’t go there), it is usually legal to turn right on a red light after stopping and checking for oncoming traffic.

I noticed some time ago that if the light is changing and I have space, I’ll move into the left lane if there is no one in the right. In that way someone behind me who wishes to turn right can do so without waiting for the light to cycle.

Someone else just wrote that they noticed someone else who does that. Out of habit. One little service to others.

So I wondered, do we make serving others a habit? Not necessarily one big annual go out and do something. But in several daily acts, repeated every day. In other words, is serving others an act? Or, a habit?

I think of all the times that Jesus served in little ways (well, for him little) even when it distracted him from what he was doing or where he was going. He stopped and served. It was a habit. Part of his life.

From these habits of service weaves a pattern of a Christ-like life.

Our New Life Pattern

January 22, 2013

The Willow Creek Association conducted a huge survey of Christ followers. The results were interesting. I have heard of a couple that I noted. For those who had lost interest in church, the thing that brought them back into a life with Christ and his church was the development of a spiritual practice or discipline.

Considering the results from everyone in the survey–hundreds of thousands of people from many global locations–the practice that they overwhelmingly noted that kept them close to God was the practice of studying the Word.

That shows one reason why I think it is so important to develop the life pattern of rising early, reading Spiritual material–the Bible first and then good teachers and thinkers on the Bible–first, meditating on the Word, and holding your concerns in prayer before God.

So, we start by changing our personal story from “I’m not a morning person” to “I arise early and start my day with God.”

“I am now able to meet the day and my responsibilities with a new perspective.”

“I now have a new focus every day by starting with God.”

This does not assure a stress-free life. People and circumstances will always interfere. But now you are more able to cope and make clearer decisions.

Trust me. It works.