Ideas Come and Ideas Go

September 27, 2018

This blog started about 10 years ago. A pastor suggested it. I teamed with another person at the beginning. She went to seminary as a late career change, graduated, was ordained, served a couple of churches and retired.

Me? I quit my day job but still do essentially the same thing only I don’t write much for print magazines any longer. And probably have more readers now. But less money some years.

Eight years ago I decided to make this a discipline. Since I was focused on spiritual disciplines. Tried leading some small group sessions on the disciplines.

So, it became my discipline.

We need those. Disciplines, that is.

Over the 10 years, I have seen several trends come and go. A few guys started “fat blogging” where they blogged about health, nutrition, fitness, and losing weight. Their writing discipline mirrored their fitness discipline, I think. It didn’t last long.

I used to intentionally write about leadership every Friday. There were many leadership blogs I read. They are gone. I write about leadership when I see something. I don’t think leadership is any better, now, but the fad seemed to pass.

Several people wrote about productivity and self-development. A couple of them turned the blogs into businesses. Now, you have to pay to see what they write. They make incomes in 6, 7, even 8 figures. I’m still free.

I don’t even get speaking gigs.

But that is discipline. I recommend it. Seek out and read stories and studies of disciplined people. They are stories of success, health, attitude.

Oh, and the guys who went off to make a lot of money? All of a sudden I’m hearing from them again. Business must be declining. Or egos need stroking.

Jesus just said follow. And keep going. And I hate 10-year retrospectives.

Breath of Life

September 26, 2018

“When you inhale, you are taking the strength from God. When you exhale, it represents the service you are giving to the world.”

Ancient people knew the relationship of breath and spirit. In New Testament Greek, the same word is translated either breath or spirit depending upon context.

Inhaling deeply fills you with life.

But the exhale is the important part.

Try it. Breathe in deeply. Exhale slowly and completely.

Feel your body relax. A sense of well being ensues.

When the kids or coworkers or boss or politics or your favorite sports team exasperate you, try the breath.

Spend 10 minutes every morning breathing with intention.

This very act changes the structure of the neurons in your brain–for the better.

This act is the basis of meditation where we seek the presence of God.

Breathe…and invite the spirit in.

Change The Story

September 25, 2018

The parable of the Good Samaritan is well known. A neighbor is someone in need that we help–as in the “second commandment” to love your neighbor as yourself.

But Martin Luther King Jr. looked at the story and commented that some day we need to fix that road so that people can walk in safety.

That is a changemaker. Someone looks at a story and turns it upside down.

Jesus often presented a saying, “You have heard it said…, but I say…”

What’s your story?

What do you see that, if turned on its head, would change your story?

The Ability to Think

September 24, 2018

I write these posts on an iPad with the latest Apple keyboard. It’s much like a small computer.

The WordPress app offers a string of words suggested by past usage to help get a writer started.

There was a spot on the bottom of the screen. I tried to clean it. I wrote a sentence (noun, verb, modifier). Weird.

Why do we teach people to write?

I’m not sure about that answer these days. There have been some strange philosophies such as just let the child write whatever comes to mind. It’s more important to fill a page with words than to think.

Sounds like someone who had to write too many 600-word essays in school.

What amazes me is reading prose from 3,000 years ago–or maybe even further back in time.

It is so logical and well-thought-out. Scholars can decipher several rhetorical devices (consult Dr. Google if you don’t know what those are) that help bring forward the argument.

I was just re-reading the Gospel of Matthew for the first time. Yes, I have read it many times, but I approach each time as if it were the first time and try to decipher new insights.

Matthew takes what today we call four chapters to painstakingly lay out a story and an argument that places Jesus firmly in the tradition of a Wisdom King. We don’t recognize kings, let alone think them wise. But back in the day, this would be immediately understood by all the readers/listeners. Especially the non-Greek ones.

This is 2,0000-year-old prose that is beautiful in logic, consistency, story telling.

Matthew wasn’t filling a page with writing. He had actually thought it out. And we can see it, even today.

This is a good example for us to follow whether we write essays, letters, or emails.

To See Others

September 21, 2018

The Scottish poet Robert Burns wrote about the gift of God to ourselves as others see us.

The other side of that is to see others as they see themselves.

My favorite news, Axios, contained this item is last night’s newsletter:

What Men Don’t See

Three high-profile murders in recent months shared two common factors: 1) The victims were women engaged in physical activity outdoors; 2) They were killed by men, seemingly at random.

Why it matters: The past few years, most recently the #MeToo movement, have exposed a major gap in what men know about what women face — and the common knowledge women are taught about how to deal with these dangers.

Between the lines: It’s not a new phenomenon for women to feel unsafe being outdoors by themselves. But recent instances are reminders of how often women feel targeted or singled-out in a variety of settings, even those that are most familiar.

I’ve talked with a few women at the park in the morning when I’m out for a run. While I think I’m watchful, they point out an entirely different level. There are several who never make eye contact when we meet.

I think I understand. I have empathy for others. But can I fully.

A further gift is to see others as they see themselves.

Why Do You Go To Church

September 19, 2018

Is it an obligation?

To see friends?

For a lively worship experience?

To contemplate?

Maybe curiosity?

Hear a good message (whatever that means to you)?

From my daily email from Plough came this thought:

Madeleine L’Engle

Sometimes the very walls of our churches separate us from God and each other. In our various naves and sanctuaries we are safely separated from those outside, from other denominations, other religions, separated from the poor, the ugly, the dying.…The house of God is not a safe place. It is a cross where time and eternity meet, and where we are – or should be – challenged to live more vulnerably, more interdependently.

Never Stop Learning

September 18, 2018

“I took a course on that topic as an undergraduate in college. I am an expert.”

Some people learn a little on a topic and think they know everything. (The quote was actually by a young man I hired once upon a time.)

Other people fail because they are overwhelmed by the comparison with experts or the seeming great amount of things to learn.

Still others learn something intentionally every day.

Only The Disciplined Are Free

September 17, 2018

Eliud Kipchoge is the world’s best marathon runner. He just set a new world record in the Berlin, Germany marathon–2 hours and a minute.

How did he achieve that? “Only the disciplined ones in life are free. If you are undisciplined, you are a slave to your moods and your passions.”

Someone posted a picture of the daily schedule of a famous (I guess) body builder. He has a disciplined approach to his day. Rise early, eat, workout, eat big breakfast, and so forth until bed. He rises each day at 2:30 am and is in bed by 7:30 pm.

My schedule includes rising at 5:30 and in bed by 10. Reading, writing, workout, work, reading, sleep.

Successful CEOs, creative people, athletes all have a disciplined schedule of rising early, working out (whatever that might be), reading, practicing or doing, family time, sleep.

This is ancient wisdom. Try reading the Proverbs in your disciplined early morning reading time.

When you don’t have to make so many decisions about the routine matters of life because of your discipline, then you are free to create, achieve, serve, or whatever you do.

Only the disciplined ones in life are free.

Correct One Another In Peace

September 14, 2018

Father was yelling at his young son. He yelled so loudly he could be heard for hundreds of feet away. His tirade was laced with the most vulgar words of his limited vocabulary.

It was disgraceful. I came very close to walking two houses down to stop him.

We read in The Didache (an ancient Christian teaching) under the heading Call to Follow the Gospel, “Furthermore, correct one another not in anger but in peace, as you find in the Gospel.”

Quick, first impression especially for Americans but maybe others–Christian person.

What picture came to mind?

Someone shouting at others with anger and emotions tending toward hate to another group?

Too often, that is true.

We convince not with anger but with peace and love.

Do As I Do

September 13, 2018

Children learn but little from what you tell them to do; children learn by watching what you do.

There are people who stand on the sidelines and tell you how to live and what to believe.

But their own lives are characterized often by the opposite of what they say.

The easy part it to tell others what to do.

The hard part is in the doing.

Beware those who stand on the side of the contest criticizing others.

Be one of those who enters the fray and puts faith into action.

Jesus said he had two commandments which were actually one–to love God and to love your neighbor. James said that the love part is expressed in doing love, not just preaching it.