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Holding On

November 6, 2024

The idea burrows through the conscious mind to the unconscious one. Sometimes we know not the source of the idea.

Ideas resonate with an emotion and stick.

Henri Nouwen wrote a little book on prayer called With Open Hands.

He thinks about how opening our hands opens us to God in prayer.

Have you ever become aware of clenched hands? You are trying to go to sleep. You realize your hands are closed into fists.

The very act of intentionally opening your hands brings immediate relaxation.

The same with our minds.

The very act of opening our minds opens our eyes to new possibilities. New ideas can bring us to a new level of awareness. 

We can leave the fixed mindsets of prejudice, opinion, bitterness, cynicism behind.

Open now to hearing Jesus’s voice calling to a better way of life.

Love Over Opinion

November 5, 2024

I saw this on Rich’s Ride blog

Our love will change the world, not our opinions.

This worked once a couple of thousand years ago. Followers of Jesus walked a different way such that they changed the world.

Today is election day in America. I hope all who are citizens are voting today—for my candidate, of course. 🙂

Oh, I guess I didn’t mention who that was. Oh, well…

I went to graduate school with an idea of earning a PhD in Political Science. Things happened. I wound up back in technology with a side of philosophy. Much better off. But I donate to candidates I like and will vote. And hopefully the months-long low level anxiety will leave. And my email folder and messages folder will grow strangely silent.

Paraphrasing John Mellencamp, Oh, yeah, life goes on, long after the thrill of the politicking is gone.

Attitudes

November 4, 2024

It’s way easier to be negative, sarcastic, and cynical. It’s much harder to be hopeful, positive, and proactive.

Everywhere we look, we see words meant to instill fear, uncertainty, and doubt.

That is the easy thing for media to write. Mainstream media and influencers alike. It generates likes and views.

It is much harder to analyze the good with the bad. The think of hopeful, positive, and proactive.

People are cynical. Oh, but think about the many people you know who are kind. Who will carry a bag for you, open a door, smile and say Hi.

Many good people exist. Also many good and helpful services to which we can contribute.

Should we find ourselves mired in negativity and fear, we can take small steps to change. We can change our information sources. We can look for just one positive thing in the next person we meet. We can notice beauty. We can take one step toward generosity.

Communication

November 1, 2024

Words.

What a wonderful invention. We can combine them to assist thinking and communicate our thoughts to others.

I forget the movie, but I remember the line—“What we have here is a failure to communicate.”

Sometimes the words just come out wrong (to paraphrase a song from somewhere). We thought we said one thing, but somehow it came out another.

I offer this thought.

“Communication is about what is received, not what is intended. If there is a gap between what you are saying and what they are hearing, you have to find a new way to say it.”

Virtue

October 31, 2024

The last post discussed people of virtue avoiding sin because it was just the way they lived.

Let us take a look at the Stoics. One of the leading Stoic philosophers, Seneca, wrote essays that sounded so much like Paul that later Christian thinkers thought he was Christian. It’s unlikely that he ever heard of Jesus.

That doesn’t mean we can’t learn from them. Ryan Holliday, today’s leading exponent of Stoic philosophy, writes, “Virtue to them was a way of life. It was pivotal, essential, irreplaceable. It wasn’t something you talked about, it was something you did. Aristotle said that we acquire the virtues the same way we acquire any skill—a carpenter builds, a flutist plays, a runner runs.”

Similarly, a follower of Jesus follows. We don’t go around pointing to other people’s faults instructing them with platitudes. We participate in a way of living involving prayer, meditation, study, service. And virtue.

Avoiding Sin

October 30, 2024

Perhaps your mother taught you right from wrong. Perhaps even your father. Perhaps they used the word “sin” to designate wrong.

Perhaps parents plus the type of church you attended tried to scare you into right actions through the threat of going to hell.

Why do you try to avoid doing the wrong things now? Or do you? I hope so.

I rather like the way John Wesley put it that good people avoid sin from the love of virtue, while wicked people avoid sin from a fear of punishment.

Jesus did sometimes talk about how people of a certain type will be thrown into the garbage dump where the fire never went out (a real place outside Jerusalem as illustration). Jesus’s teaching for us was to be that type of person Wesley described as lovers of virtue.

We avoid sin because that’s the kind of people we have become.

Character Over Talent

October 29, 2024

Character more than talent determines success in life. Not necessarily more money, power, or prestige. But as someone of whom people touched by them remember kindly.

Who you are shouts louder than what you do.

Joy

October 28, 2024

True, real joy always comes to us only as a present. It originates in God. Human joy is a share through grace in the joy of God, in God’s nature, which is nothing but the sphere of supreme joy. The sources of true joy, therefore, are found where the creature waits for God.—Ladislaus Boros.

Joy must be differentiated from pleasure. It is deeper and more lasting. 

Joy also differentiates from happiness, something transient, nice while it’s here, sad when it wafts away.

True Religion

October 25, 2024

But true religion, or a heart right toward God and man, implies happiness as well as holiness.—John Wesley.

Reaction To Stress

October 24, 2024

Should you indulge in news media or social media, you will discover our world is extraordinarily stressful. Sitting in contemplation, I view the vast panorama of history I’ve learned. Human life has always experienced forces applying stress.

A mid-twentieth century researcher called Hans Selye wrote, “It is not stress that harms us; it is our reaction to stress.”

That echoes the wisdom from early Stoic writers who taught that our freedom is that of choosing our response to stress.

Jesus first words to followers were, “Follow me.” His subsequent teaching seems to be a constant reminder, “Fear not.” His followers’ response to stress was to follow and trust.

Therapists teach mindfulness meditation to calm stress—probably most either self-inflicted or parent-inflicted. In my case, boss-inflicted (but that story requires more than a couple hundred words).

Following Jesus, we feel the surrounding presence of God—a force or source of energy that we can tap to help us through stressful times. Pausing then reaching for that source finds a marvelous antidote to stresses.