Archive for the ‘Living’ Category

Don’t Underestimate Your Influence

May 11, 2011

You are more influential than you may think. People are always watching and listening to you. Are you being what you profess?

Jesus knew that. We don’t really know how many committed followers he left behind after his ascension. But he knew that their influence would eventually influence the entire world.

My “day job” entails writing about manufacturing and automation. I interview people from top executives to engineers who make things work. Then I write about what they say and add analysis and context. It was just something I did. One day a senior executive told me, “Gary, it really matters what you write. You influence many people.” I never really thought about what influence I might have.

The same with this blog. I had thought about a place to write some thoughts based on my reading, meditation and thinking. A pastor said, why not put one on our church’s Website? So this one started several years ago. Then people started commenting or talking to me about what I was writing.

It makes you think about your responsibilities–and to become responsible. Jesus depends on his followers to spread the word. Are you using your influence responsibly?

If only other people would disappear

May 9, 2011

Do you find it discomforting to deal with people who have different views than you? Different opinions? Different lifestyles? Even among people who profess Jesus?

I got to thinking about this when I read something from a political analyst — David Brooks of The New York Times. For years I read the political columnists faithfully. Then one day about 10 years ago or longer, I discovered that they say the same things over and over. Tell me a topic and a columnist, and I’ll tell you the content. So, I quit reading them. But I’ve recently seen two things by Brooks that were intelligent observations rather than rants.

He just wrote, “The political culture encourages politicians and activists to imagine that the country’s problems would be solved if other people’s interests and values magically disappeared.”

This applies to Christian life, too. Reflecting on Jesus’ ministry, the Pharisees he encountered held a similar view. If you weren’t one of them, then it was as if you didn’t exist. Jesus, on the other hand, befriended and counseled all sorts of people. Prostitutes. Tax collectors. The adulterous and promiscuous woman at the well. People who were ritually (and medically in some cases) unclean.

Jesus seemed to have one goal–to bring everyone into relation with God. It’s worth asking periodically, are we getting too comfortable socializing with just “our own kind?” Or are we willing to reach out and relate to those who are not like us? Do you wish that those who are not like us would “just magically” disappear?

Because It’s Fun

May 5, 2011

Donald Miller was talking with a heart surgeon who has done marvelous work helping thousands of people aside from his practice. “When I asked why he desires to help so many people, his answer surprised me. He said ‘because it’s fun.’ And then he went on to say ‘I like helping people because I enjoy it, I’m the opposite of an evangelical.’ I don’t know if he knew I was a Christian, but the comment came like a curveball and I had nothing to say. I was so accustomed to the passive guilt complex so many of us hear week after week and in book after book that I knew he’d have no shortage of evidence that Evangelicals are constantly being made to do good things they don’t really feel like doing.”

It made me think. My profession now is magazine editor. I have fun. I travel around, meet lots of smart, interesting people. I write about trends in technology and manufacturing. People respect what I write. On the other hand, I teach–lots of things. I have fun doing all that. Even when it all comes together at once and I feel overwhelmed (like now, I’m on a business trip, trying to write, study so I can write this blog, do tons of things for the soccer program in western Ohio, and think about how to fix some things around the house), I still have fun helping.

That passive guilt feeling engendered by so many churches.

Miller says “ought to” are two words that kill enthusiasm. Jesus taught some “oughts.” But he basically brought his disciples together with a vision of doing important work for the people. Are you working for the church because you ought to? Or because you’re doing things you enjoy? It can be fun helping people. If it isn’t, it’ll probably show in your attitude. So you should look for something else to do.

Rejoicing in death or pray for peace

May 3, 2011

Osama bin Laden is dead. Is this a time for rejoicing? No doubt he was an evil man, a true believer not unlike Hitler being a true believer in whatever his gods spoke to him. He caused the deaths of tens of thousands. But to celebrate in the streets?

Actually, it reminds me of the great sadness he has caused. But he was a human being. To rejoice in his death seems wrong. It seems more to me that it is a call for prayer. Pray for peace. Pray for the true God to speak to these people who are out chasing their mental/emotional shadows and leaving death, destruction and oppression in their wake. Yet these people give a voice to the oppressed. Where is our witness to the oppressed? Like Jesus or like Osama? Why let people like him speak for the oppressed?

He is dead. Now what? Shall we pray?

Jesus a New Kind of King

April 29, 2011

I’m still pondering Jesus’ last week before his execution. That week was crucially important to his followers. A huge chunk of the Gospels detail that one week. Events leading to his birth take a little space, his 2-1/2 year ministry about half, the last week something like 40 percent, and the 40 days he was with them after his resurrection is barely detailed (none at all in Mark).

John, probably the Gospel that can be traced to Jesus’ inner circle, does not talk about the Passover Meal in detail. He is the only one to talk about the foot washing. Obviously that was significant.

There they were. Still thinking that Jesus was going to be King of Israel, kicking the Romans out. Only a few days before, they had entered Jerusalem as potential conquerors. They were celebrated the high holy days of Passover. Emotions had to be high and optimistic. When and how was Jesus going to reveal his true destiny as King?

Then, at dinner, Jesus removed his outer garment, and like a slave or servant, prepared to wash the disciples’ feet. Now, wait just a second there, partner. This is not the work of a King. This is not the work of the disciples or any Hebrew man. Servants do this dirty work.

They still don’t know what’s up. Peter says that no way he’s going to let a King wash his feet. Kings don’t do that. But Jesus says, “If I don’t wash your feet, then you won’t have any place in my kingdom.” So Peter says, in effect, then wash all of me.

It had to be difficult. When you have one thing in your head, it’s hard to grasp the opposite. Happens to us. All the time. They had one vision of King in their heads. They just couldn’t grasp a different view.

Jesus was showing a new kind of king. A new kind of leader. It wasn’t about power. It was about serving.

As Bill Hybels, sr. pastor of Willow Creek Community Church asked in his Easter message–imagine if all the politicians in America would put aside their petty squabbling and power struggles and truly serve American people; imagine if business leaders put aside their power and truly served their people; imagine if husbands and wives put aside their agendas and truly served each other.

It has been 20 years shy of 2,000 years since Jesus showed a new kind of leadership by voluntarily allowing himself to be executed. Yet, humans still have a problem understanding servant leadership.

Try imagining a new world.

The Days After Easter

April 26, 2011

There are other religious traditions in the world that have a story about God visiting Earth. I have never read about one other than Christianity that claims the resurrection. What makes Jesus different from other teachers and prophets is that he died and came back to teach again.

After suffering traumatic experiences then experiencing joy, I’ve got to believe that the disciples took a few days to let the events sink in. I also have to believe that they listened more acutely to what Jesus had to say. His teaching was no longer theoretical. It was experienced.

I’ve read theology most of my life. For years I would subscribe to “Theology Today” to check into the conversations and then stop for a while. But it was all inbred theoretical reasoning sort of stuff. It’s mind games that humans have played ever since they had developed agriculture and had leisure time.

As I had more spiritual experiences, theology took a much reduced role in my life. Same thing had to have happened with the first disciples (I’m not talking about the 12, but the entire circle of which we’ve never been given a list or a number). Once they experienced the entire Jesus event and once they had digested and understood it, only then could they teach and preach with such power.

There are many theologies (theories) revolving around Jesus’ death and resurrection, but those don’t interest me so much. Theologies cause divisions. But experience unites.

If all this is still theoretical with you but if you are serious about entering a spiritual life, then you can. A couple of thousand years of practitioners have written about their experiences. These can be called “Spiritual Disciplines.” Now some people just seem called to spiritual life from the beginning. Others desire it. Either way, putting a discipline into your life of study (the Bible and other spiritual writers), prayer, service, community, worship and more will take you on your spiritual journey.

You don’t have to have a Ph.D or D.D. or whatever. In fact, that may get in your way. Just start by getting up 15 minutes earlier in the morning. Read a little. Pray a little. Then during the day look for service opportunities (a kind word, smile, a couple of dollars to someone who needs lunch, take someone to the doctor, whatever presents itself). These will start you on the way. Jesus will become real to you and through you.

Multiplying Jesus Work

April 18, 2011

John spends a lot of time recording Jesus’ teaching during his final week. Jesus has spent about three years gathering disciples, that is people who emulate his lifestyle and teaching.

Now Jesus sees that the end is near. All of the various political/religious factions that had something to fear or to lose because of him have now come together in one massive conspiracy.

Many people think Christ is Jesus’ last name. But it was a title. We use Christ, which is derived from the Greek for “anointed one” which in turn was a translation of the Hebrew Messiah, “the anointed one.” What were you anointed for? As King of the Jews.

So, Rome in the person of Pilate did not want a King to rise up. The Pharisees didn’t agree with Jesus view of holiness. The Sadducees who wanted collaboration with Rome as a strategy for the survival of the Temple and the nation, didn’t like the way he stirred up the crowds. In fact, the crowds wanted someone to lead them to victory over the Romans.

The only way out was for Jesus to die. So, he had to prepare his disciples for life after him. It is interesting that several times he tells them to bear fruit. Jesus himself didn’t travel over about 30 miles during his ministry. After he is gone, each disciple will multiply Jesus’ ministry and reach thousands all over the known world.

We are part of that legacy. Because they each went to work forming communities of believers, and the communities begat new communities, we are now followers of Jesus.

And our job is to continue to bear fruit, because there will always be those whose life has strayed and needs the love and power of Jesus. It’s up to us to do the work begun by Jesus’ death.

Love one another

April 15, 2011

John records Jesus’ last few days with his closest friends as a time of instruction. Jesus was preparing them for their life without his presence.

Twice John records Jesus saying he is giving one command–to love one another. The second time he said it, he added, and this is true love that you give up your life for another.

If that was Jesus last command (and he said in between that if you love him, you’ll keep his commands), then have we ever forgotten that command! You don’t even have to look back at the sordid history of the Christian church. Just look around today.

Do you belong to a church where there are critics and sometimes even fractious behavior? Are people prone to call other Christians “non-Christians” because they don’t believe the same set of propositions?

Who has a lifestyle of helping others? Actually we know a few. Right? And we think they are saints. But why aren’t all of us that way? Maybe we forget. Maybe we get caught up in ourselves and we forget what Jesus taught and what he did. And that we are supposed to emulate him. That’s what disciples do. And we’re Jesus’ disciples, right?

I wonder what would happen if all Christians would practice this command. Would people outside the church be attracted to the church? Would more people want to become Christian instead of being cynical about Christians?

Maybe this is something we should try.

How do you react to situations

April 13, 2011

For some reason the personalities of Jesus’ closest friends has been on my mind this week. We like to look at Peter’s reactions and criticize his lack of consistency and his denial under stress. We think we’d be better. I doubt it. Honestly. I don’t deal with authority figures well. Just ask my wife about times she tells asks me to do something. How about in a life and death situation where the authority figures have weapons and legal right to use them–on you?

Aside from Judas, the only other glimpse we have at a friend in this crisis situation is John. I have a feeling that whereas Peter was borderline manic/depressive–subject to mood swings and impetuousness–John was more balanced. He seems to have had more control over his emotions, was accustomed to leadership (probably his father was in the Jewish elite) and more “spiritual.” (I’ll define that someday.)

It was John to whom Jesus entrusted his mother as he was dying. (One wonders where Jesus’ brothers were.) John was the stability that is sometimes needed, whereas Peter was the forceful personality that, when harnessed and guided correctly, propels a movement.

Jesus picked people carefully. He obviously saw a need for both personality types. He saw that Peter had trouble coming to grips with his thoughts and feelings. But he knew that once Peter had fully digested the situation he would be the rock upon which all could stand. And he know that John would bring that stable, intelligent, unifying force to the movement.

We have different personality types. They are neither right nor wrong. They need to be understood. Weaknesses need to be addressed and strengths emphasized. Personality types are not for judgement about whose is better. They are to be understood so that you can assume your proper role in the furtherance of God’s kingdom.

Ask yourself honestly. How would you react? Are you a Peter? A John? Something else? How can you absorb the experiences of Jesus’ dying and use it to the glory of God?

Betraying a Friend

April 11, 2011

Betrayal. What is it? Judas betrayed Jesus. He visited the Jewish religious/political leaders and offered to betray Jesus for money. Jesus said that one of his inner circle would betray him. But I don’t understand exactly what it meant.

We know from the Gospels that the religious/political leaders were threatened by Jesus. They wanted him out of the way. That meant, they needed him killed. Even though he had not organized a movement, he led a loosely organized protest movement that could get out of hand at any time.

Then Jesus used theater (always a good protest movement tactic) to enter Jerusalem in the manner of a newly crowned king at the beginning of a holy time when the population was greatly expanded due to the presence of pilgrims in the city. Sort of like pouring gasoline on the flames. But the removal of Jesus had to be done quickly and quietly lest the pot get stirred any more.

Here’s what puzzles me. Jesus taught openly in the temple. He was arrested by the temple police. I cannot believe that the leaders of the police did not know who Jesus was. But, what we know about what Judas did was that he led the police to where Jesus was when he was away from the crowds, late at night, in a quiet place. He identified Jesus to the police and the arrest was made.

People have speculated about why Judas acted this way. John says it was because he was greedy and wanted money. I guess I’d believe a guy who was there rather than someone speculating about psychological motivations without ever meeting the person.

I guess the act of betrayal is one where someone trusts you and you act against them. I wonder how often I’ve let some need of mine get in the way of the needs of someone else. I wonder what would happen if we all acted in such a way that we noticed that we were about to betray a friend by gossiping about them or not being there when they need help or working to prevent them from doing something they want to do. Would we all get along better and live with more justice? Would God smile?