Archive for the ‘Leadership’ Category

Good Feel For People

May 22, 2024

The human resources department of one large company I worked for traveled to the various manufacturing sites leading management seminars. I can still remember one where they put up one of those consultant’s 2×2 matrices. They compared “feel for people” versus “intellectual control of emotions.” Good and Poor. Of course, the top right box was good in each category. 

That is something for which we can strive as leaders of organizations whether non-profit, or profit, or church, or wherever 3 or more are gathered for a task.

I thought of this when I read Axios (one of my two favorite news sources) Finish Line newsletter about the private equity firm KKR. If you don’t know KKR, think the Richard Gere character in Pretty Woman.

The big picture: KKR operates what it calls “Centers of Excellence,” including one focused on human capital. One of its goals is to learn how to identify great leaders, whether current CEOs or future CEOs, for the sake of driving outsized returns. The focus is more on psychological traits than on résumés. Behind the scenes: KKR has discovered that having a genuine sense of empathy might be the key identifier, according to Pete Stavros, KKR’s co-head of global private equity. For example, does the person exhibit a sense of responsibility not only for shareholders and top executives, but also for the most junior of employees? In other words, a North Star of: “My people, my problem.” Other signals could include a company’s safety record or employee engagement scores. The bottom line: This might sound squishy, particularly to spreadsheet obsessives. But private equity might be one of the last industries to recognize the importance of corporate culture — and how that culture can beget capital.

A follower of Jesus should pick this up from his way of life. When he did get angry, it had a purpose. And he certainly had empathy for all except people who put on false masks.

Servant Leadership

February 21, 2024

Right off I will admit that I have no clue just what servant leadership means in practice.

Christian business leaders sometimes like to talk about servant leadership. I recently listened to an interview with a woman who was CEO of a turnaround business effort. She mentioned servant leadership but never really explained it. But I also heard how she built teams within the company focused on the essential factors that would lead to business success.

I also knew a man who was CEO of a small technology company. He gave people statues for their bookcases of Jesus kneeling before Peter while washing his feet. That, of course, is the hallmark of servant leadership. Jesus then taught a lesson that his followers had to learn the hard way about “if you want to be a leader, you must first be a servant.”

That man in the end showed no courage and disappeared when the investors forced a sale. That is an image that will always stay with me. And color my impressions when I hear someone say they are a servant leader. It’s not in the words. It’s in the actions.

Drawing on the stories of Jesus and reflecting on these two brief examples, I offer some thoughts:

  • Have a vision of the end—changing people’s lives, what a successful business/organization looks like
  • Inculcate a measure of humility in your life—recognize you don’t know everything and you just may not be king
  • Build teams that work with a focus on what’s important
  • Support and guide people
  • Don’t be the person who “Lords it over people”, but be a fellow traveler on the journey
  • Have the courage to tell people the bad along with the good

There is probably more. I will give it some more thought.

Leaders, Make Others Powerful

November 3, 2023

Are you a leader? Do you aspire to be a leader? Doesn’t matter what level—organization, committee, mission group, weekend soccer league.

Ben Zander, conductor, teacher (search YouTube for his clinics with young musicians), leader, shares this observation:

The conductor of an orchestra doesn’t make a sound. He depends, for his power, on his ability to make other people powerful.

We read maybe with some Schadenfreude about the downfall of prominent leaders whose ego grew large in the belief that they were the organization.

Zander’s observation remembered often and incorporated into our very actions will save us. Sorry, leaders, it is not all about you. You had better thank all those people who make you look good.

I like bringing many things back to the realm of energy. I can sense it in an organization almost as soon as I enter a lobby. Satya Nadella, CEO of Microsoft who rescued it from the Steve Ballmer-generated slide, said this about business, but equally meaningful for any organization of any size, “The only way a business is successful and productive is if employees feel that sense of empowerment, that sense of energy and connection for the company’s mission and are doing meaningful work.”

Church Growth? What Is The Real Goal?

October 27, 2023

Today is more of a meditative essay than short contemplative thought.

Many years ago I was involved in leadership in a church. The fad of the day was the Church Growth movement. Oh, yes, that continues even now 40+ years later. But I went off to church growth classes and seminars. Our small church probably had about 100 weekly attendance. We learned about building a building along the major highway or freeway. The building should be in the middle of a gigantic parking lot. There should be no traditional religious icons or art. The music should be contemporary. The speaker enthusiastic.

The goal copied from business (and actually borrowed from 19th Century Social Darwinism) focused on growth—growth in numbers of weekly attendees and growth in revenue.

I’m not sure anyone stopped to think about the real goal of a New Testament church. Oh, Bill Hybels at Willow Creek, the prototype of the genre, talked about an Acts 2 church. Trust me, they didn’t achieve that goal. Much good was undoubtedly achieved. But I wondered until I experienced it first hand. 

This week the Plough Daily thought drew from an essay by Charles E Cotherman (the link gives you  one of an allowed three page views, I believe). He said, in part (the entire essay is worth reading):

The drive for efficiency within local churches became more pervasive over time. In post-war America, it was often led by a revolving group of church growth consultants and expert communicators who built large ministries through the systematic appropriation of business techniques and large media platforms. But as local churches looked to top-selling Christian authors, famous television preachers, and well-known worship leaders, what they witnessed was a new kind of efficiency that rewarded those who had won the competition for market share. No wonder the temptation toward church consolidation and mega churches has been so compelling. Like Walmart, these larger churches have harnessed the power of efficiency to great effect.

Cotherman was concerned with small rural churches that at one point were considered “inefficient” (whatever that means). He noted, “What small rural churches can offer, however, is an opportunity to be truly known within the church and the larger community.”

My point evolves from that thought. What is the goal of the church? Is it really more about relationship? About people living the kind of life in the spirit (like in Acts 2) that other people are attracted? Is the goal number? Efficiency? Or better, isn’t it more about making the Good News  come alive within the lives of real people?

How?

Marketing guru Seth Godin wrote today about “Small groups, well organized.” He noted challenges for anyone seeking to make an impact.

  • First, we get distracted by the inclination to make the group as big as we can imagine. After all, the change is essential, the idea is a good one. It’s for everyone. Except that’s a trap. Because a group that’s too large cannot be coherent or organized. 
  • Or perhaps, we blink and settle for a group that’s too small. Change requires tension, and if our group is so small that it’s comfortable at all times, we are probably avoiding making an impact. 
  • And well organized? That’s the persistent, generous work of creating the conditions for deep connection. 

When in doubt, focus on how to organize the folks you already have. Find a way to give them the tools for them to tell the others. Build a resilient loop, one that gets more organized and powerful as you grow. The right-sized group and ceaseless peer-to-peer organization are the foundation of culture change.

I applaud the phrase right-sized. Remember the goal. Is it only numbers? Or is it lives worth living?

I am “thinking out loud.” What do you think? I encourage thought–whether or not you comment.

I Want What She’s Having

September 25, 2023

The scene in the movie When Harry Met Sally when the title characters are at lunch and Sally fakes the sounds of having sex and the two older ladies at the next table put down their menus and tell the server, “I want what she’s having.” That little throw-away joke stuck with me. 

“I want what she’s having.”

Almost 50 years ago a small group of people set out to build “a church that unchurched people would like to attend.” Willow Creek Community Church started a movement across America, and perhaps the world. It was OK to play rock music in church. Before long it was disparaged as a “rock concert followed by a TED Talk.” But thousands still attend this type of church. I’ve even attended one in Mexico. Lively. Enthusiastic. Some places have been just pure performance, though. Professional musicians with a teacher with an ego.

What has been the impact on individuals, though? Inquiring minds would like to know.

I have been imagining, “What if we built a community that people outside said, ‘I want what they have.’ “

It wouldn’t have to be thousands in one location. That would probably be self-defeating, since it would be so easy for someone to be anonymous, to get lost in the crowd.

Maybe smaller gatherings that spread? People just meeting Jesus, studying what Jesus taught, practicing the life that Jesus exhibited for us. The enthusiasm of serving one another and the community. Has that been done before?

Well, yes. Read the first few chapters of the Acts of the Apostles.

Media celebrates big numbers. Fantastic growth. But what if we got the growth part backwards? What if our job is building community? I don’t know. Just wondering.

Doing Significant Work

July 14, 2023

Is what you are doing—in your organization, workplace, family, community—significant work?

  • Does it make a positive change in the world?
  • A positive change in some other human being?
  • A positive change in you?

As a leader, are you providing people with significant work? Or, just busy work? Maybe the work we’ve always done (and never thought about why)?

What significant work can you (and I) do beginning now that will make a difference?

Do it!

Another Perspective on Perspective

June 9, 2023

Some people have a theory in their heads about the way life is supposed to be. Or the way society is supposed to be. Or an organization.

Theories lead to rules to enforce those theories. Rules lead to those who achieve power to force other people to live according to their theory.

There is a scene at the end of the movie National Lampoon’s Christmas Vacation where the CEO comes to realization of the effects of his theory on people, “Some things look good on paper until you realize the effects on people. I now realize it’s the little people, like you, Clark, who really matter.” 

The world over has political and religious leaders who have a theory of how things should be and are trying to force people into the mold. I guess that’s a human thing.

It’s when we change perspective and realize the effects upon individual people that we come closer to the Spirit of God. The mission Jesus proclaimed from the very beginning was to bring people into the Kingdom of Heaven. Not by force—that was the Roman way. But by love—that was Jesus way.

Leadership Lesson From Fixing Coffee

May 17, 2023

I cleaned the filter of grounds after brewing my 6 am cup of coffee this morning. The thought came upon me from a book I read when I was perhaps 11. A history of the American Civil War. A southern general (I forget which one) was leading his troops toward Gettysburg, Pennsylvania where there would be a significant engagement with the enemy. It was a leadership lesson that has stayed with me all these years.

While soldiers were marching toward their next battle, often the column would halt. No one along the line knew why or for how long. When the call came to halt, the soldiers would gather twigs from around them, start small fires, and brew coffee. They would hope to get the process done and drink the precious liquid before the march resumed. If the order to march came too soon, they had to throw out the partially done coffee and the grounds.

The lesson: this general would always pass the word back through the ranks about whether there was time to brew coffee or not. Despite all that was on his mind, this general thought also of his men.

How do we consider those around us? Those for whom we have responsibility? Do we have empathy? Do we think it’s our job to tell them how to live, what to do, as if they are mere objects?

Gospel of Welcome

April 4, 2023

I’ve been reflecting on this week almost 2,000 years ago. Yesterday I reflected on what we advertise through what we do.

John Fischer was a “Jesus Music” pioneer who started an online church trying to reach younger people with the message of the Gospel of Welcome, Grace Turned Outward. Sunday’s church at The Catch focused on this teaching after the “Sons of Thunder” James and John approached Jesus about being his next in command in his “kingdom.”

You know that the rulers in this world lord it over their people, and officials flaunt their authority over those under them. But among you it will be different. Whoever wants to be a leader among you must be your servant, and whoever wants to be first among you must be the slave of everyone else.

Mark 10: 42-44

There are places around the world, including here in America, where leaders using the name of Jesus are intentionally doing the first part of Jesus’ observation. They stopped reading after the first full stop (period). The last sentence is the teaching for us who are followers of Jesus to digest and incorporate into our lives.

This is something I’ve tried, and often failed, in my management and leadership career. It’s not easy. I’ve seen many people proclaim themselves “servant leaders” and yet go down in flames. Jesus never made things easy.

Except for grace. Something that comes over you at the moment when you realize you don’t deserve it. The supreme paradox of life.

What’s Next?

March 21, 2023

The importance of leadership to an organization—church, business, nonprofit, family—cannot be over stated. Weak or no leadership leaves the organization adrift.

Myth: for one to exert leadership, there must a formal top position on the organization chart. The org chart usually reflects management responsibilities. Leaders can be anywhere. The are people with care, who read widely and talk with many people, who see a possible worthwhile vision of what could be. They don’t dwell so much on why as for asking why not.

The way we think about our priorities makes a huge difference. Leaders of every stripe make one thing more than any other: decisions. In any environment with constraints (which is, actually, any environment), the decisions about time and resources–about what to do next–change everything. How do we decide what’s next? Is it based on urgency, proximity or values? First in/first out is not a strategy, it’s an excuse. Even worse is the one about the squeaky wheels.

Seth Godin

The next step as Seth suggests is decision. And this is the decision—what is the next right action? That is our focus from hour to hour.