Archive for the ‘Disciplines’ Category

Fitness Isn’t Punishment

June 27, 2025

Arnold Schwarzenegger observing fitness behavior. The people who find joy in the gym are the most likely to keep showing up to the gym. Fitness is supposed to make us feel better, but many people decide to stress about it.

I see the same thing on the nutrition/weight loss side of the equation. People look at “dieting” in order to lose weight as punishment.

That won’t work. Maybe short term. But not for life.

Best is to find the joy of eating wholesome, tasty food in smaller portions. Thousands of recipes exist. One needn’t feel deprived. Heck, have an occasional ice cream.

These practices form the foundation for further spiritual practices. When we feel better, we are more awake to study or finding God’s voice in our prayers and service.

Be Like a Monk

June 13, 2025

Someone told me that it is a sign of creativity to take ideas from outside your area and apply them to what you are working on. I will take that as a good thing.

My father took me to percussion lessons at about age 8. I played in school bands from junior high through high school to university. Along the way, I picked up a little experience with saxophone and trombone. But I picked up a guitar during my second year of university and have played it off-and-on ever since. Moving and Covid caused a break in the action.

I recently picked up an online guitar teacher called Klaus Crowe. He just posted a cool little essay regarding guitar practice called How To Be A Guitar Monk.

This is really cool. Let us try substituting our spiritual practices in place of the noun, “guitar.” Maybe prayer or meditation or study. Maybe even service. I’m posting some of the original. Make your own substitution for whatever spiritual practice (or guitar, for that matter) you need to work on.

“One guitar. One focus. One day at a time.”

1. Create a Sacred Practice Space

Designate a quiet, clean, distraction free place for your guitar. It doesn’t have to be fancy, just intentional. When you enter this space, you only play guitar. No phone, doom-scrolling or multitasking.

2. Set a Ritual Practice Time

Consistency is king. Choose the same time every day to practice, even if it’s just 15 minutes. Mornings are best for many, but anytime works as long as you’re consistent.

3. Focus on Fundamentals, Not Flash

Monks don’t chase applause, they seek mastery. That means practicing:

  • Clean chord transitions
  • Slow, accurate scales
  • Perfect timing with a metronome
  • Tone and dynamics
  • Solid technique

4. Limit Your Tools

Many guitarists drown in options: pedals, amps, tabs, apps. A Guitar Monk thrives on limits.

Try this:

  • One guitar
  • One amp or no amp
  • One notebook
  • One piece of music at a time
  • You’ll be amazed how much more you get done with less.

5. Practice Mindfully

Be present. No autopilot. Pay attention to:

  • The intent behind your practice
  • Mental distractions
  • Your technique
  • Your Posture
  • Tension in your wrist, shoulders, arms, or jaw
  • Slow down. Practicing slowly is a superpower. It builds precision, awareness, and muscle memory far more effectively than rushing.
  • Listen deeply to each note. Don’t just play, hear the tone, the attack, the decay. Let your ears lead.
  • Practice one thing at a time. Don’t multitask. Choose one goal, like cleaner chord transitions or even vibrato and give it your full attention.
  • This turns practice into meditation and your guitar into an extension of your self.

6. Master Your Mindset

Before the fingers follow, the mind must lead.

Becoming a Guitar Monk isn’t just about technique, it’s about how you think.

  • Detach from results. Focus on the process, not perfection.
  • Replace frustration with curiosity. Mistakes are teachers, not enemies.
  • Be patient. Real progress is quiet and gradual, like water shaping stone.
  • Let go of comparison. Your path is your own.
  • Return to the why. Ask yourself often: Why do I play? Keep that answer close.
  • A calm, focused mind is the most powerful tool in your practice. Train it like your hands.

7. Commit Like a Monk

A monk doesn’t dabble, they commit fully, with heart and patience.

To follow the Guitar Monk path:

  • Decide once. No daily debate. You practice because it’s who you are.
  • Go deep, not wide. Master one piece or technique instead of skimming many.
  • Be loyal to the process. Trust the repetition. Trust the slowness.
  • Accept the quiet days. Not every session feels magical, that’s part of the path.
  • Renew your vow. Each time you pick up the guitar, return with fresh intention.
  • Commitment isn’t about pressure, it’s about peace in knowing your direction.

Becoming a Guitar Monk is not about being better than anyone else. It’s about becoming better than you were yesterday, through simplicity, focus, and devotion.

Too Much Advice

May 28, 2025

Arnold Schwarzenegger recently wrote a note to The Pump Club (an online fitness community) regarding too much fitness and nutrition advice floating around. Even if much of it is good advice, which unfortunately it is not, too much becomes confusing. Your head fills with more information than it can act upon.

Recently picked up guitar after a few dormant years. I know and have practiced many chords. I know from experience which keys I can sing in—and which genres. But I sought assurance. I visited my old friend Dr. Google. Man—too much advice. How to hold the guitar, what sort of strap and how to mount, what is the appropriate singing range based on an app.

I’ve devoted years to simplifying fitness and nutrition into something that works. Taking that thought back to the practice of guitar, I sought to simplify.

The same with spiritual practice. After 60 years of meditation experience and teaching, I found a new teacher online—just to check in to assure I’m still on the right path. His message—simplify. If the lesson didn’t come right away, well, that’s OK. Come back tomorrow.

Spiritual practice is just that—practice. Every day. If you didn’t receive a lightning bolt from God, well, that’s OK. There’s always tomorrow. Over time your personality will change. Just from sticking with the basics. Day after day. 

Read, pray, love.

Getting the Message

May 15, 2025

Every day the social networks LinkedIn and Facebook send email messages. On the surface, they just want to  inform me about posts from people I know. What they really wish to achieve is my attention and presence on their sites. They earn income from my presence while viewing interminable advertisements.

I recently offered to a small group a meditation on words from Isaiah where God says that we should not fear because “I, the Lord your God, has your right hand.”

Sometimes reading isn’t enough. Sometimes we need to feel the message. God doesn’t pester us with endless emails. Perhaps we need to develop the practices that tune us into God’s “social network.”

We can practice stillness. Stopping our hectic pace at regular intervals leaving an opening for God to connect.

We can practice small support groups where the group can offer assurances to each other in God’s name.

These practices will take us a lot farther than endless scrolling on social media.

There is a way for us to get the message.

Sometimes Hearing God’s Voice Seems To Be An Accident

May 14, 2025

But practice makes us accident prone.

Even ten minutes twice a day practicing stillness and listening makes all the difference.

Setting a Compass

April 17, 2025

Sailors once upon a time checked a map to determine the direction of their destination. They left port, set their compass for that direction, and followed the course.

We have GPS today. I am contemplating a vacation to Scotland. Part of the desired destination is to visit the Shetland Islands. OK, only because we’ve watched a TV series based on a series of novels where the setting is there. 

I visited Google Maps. We would fly into Edinburg and spend some time. A ferry crosses to Shetland from Aberdeen. The GPS told me the route from Edinburg to Aberdeen (1 hr 27 min if you’re interested). When we visit, I’ll set the GPs for the destination and follow the course.

Some people teach that the goal of someone entering Christianity is to go to heaven (sometimes incorrectly visualized as somewhere in the sky) by praying a magic prayer. And that’s it.

That concept has always made me uncomfortable in the sense that it’s (one) too easy and (two) there’s no “then what.” 

I’m one of those strange people who believe that Jesus meant what he said. And, much of what he said taught how to live with God in the Kingdom of Heaven starting right now.

Perhaps instead of trying to short-circuit to the goal, we should set our compasses toward the goal and practice living a life with-God.

Just as I wrote a couple days ago, stories evolve in layers unveiling new and more important meanings. As we live out our vision of progressing toward a goal rather than being completed resting on our laurels, we live a better life.

Physical Activity Boosts Spiritual Disciplines

April 9, 2025

The idea of leading a disciplined life gradually came to me the spring following a “promotion” at work from a position in manufacturing where I walked constantly (before the days of tracking steps) to a desk job the previous summer. I could barely run to first base in the first spring softball practice.

That led to a discipline of early morning runs before heading to work. That discipline got me through COVID when gyms were closed and we had just moved to a new state. I lost some fitness and gained some weight, but it could have been much worse.

Two books came my way years ago—Celebration of Discipline by Richard J. Foster and The Spirit of the Disciplines by Dallas Willard. I have taught classes based on these books.

Recently I sketched an outline for a new class on Spiritual Disciplines. Thinking on these and my experiences, I concluded that a further introduction was needed for the students. Perhaps an introduction of habit forming, such as from Atomic Habits or the Power of Habit.

Then this report on research on exercise and mental health from Arnold Schwarzenegger’s Pump Club newsletter—Researchers conducted a powerful statistical method that combines data from multiple studies to uncover underlying connections between exercise and mental health. The findings were clear: physical activity was strongly linked to increased resilience, and resilience, in turn, was associated with lower levels of anxiety, depression, and overall psychological distress.

Before we jump right into studying prayer, for example, as a spiritual discipline, perhaps we need to pay attention to our bodies and minds and their role in beginning and maintaining discipline. Unless, that is, we join a monastery where we are forced to rise at 4 am for morning prayers.

Pursuing Spiritual Discipline is a “full-contact sport.” We must involve mind and body, as well as, spirit to the extent of our capabilities.

Justice for Me and Not for Thee

April 1, 2025

Sometime before high school, I know not why, I developed two principal personal values—peace and justice.

Maybe I was influenced by these words from the Hebrew prophet Amos, “But let justice roll down like waters, and righteousness like an ever-flowing stream.”

He also said, “Hate evil, and love good, and establish justice in the gate.”

Maybe from reciting the Pledge of Allegiance that we frequently performed as a young student, “With liberty and justice for all.” 

I heard this question many years ago about a simple phrase. It resonates now as I ponder those thoughts, “What part don’t you understand?”

How often we see people demanding justice—for themselves—resulting with injustice for another. “I’ve been discriminated against; let us discriminate toward another to make up for it.”

Where is the “for all” in that?

When can we build a discrimination-free society with liberty and justice for all?

Jesus taught us the two fundamental life attitudes that point that direction—we must love God completely and love (serve) our neighbor, who is defined as even the most despicable social group imaginable (for Jesus’s listeners that was Samaritans).

The Spiritual Disciplines help us here. This is not a daily practice. It must become part of our lifestyle.

Recognizing When I’m Wrong

March 26, 2025

Sometimes we believe things only later to discover we have been wrong. What is our reaction?

  • We quickly discount the new information as “fake news”
  • We quickly begin to search for ways the new information cannot be right
  • We consider the new information and change our views

The Myers-Briggs Personality Types Indicator in the third field poses a dichotomy of J and T. The J personality type would most likely choose the second alternative. The T would go with the third. (Hint: I’m an ENTP). The reason I prefer the Enneagram to the M-B is that the latter seems to imply a static personality. Proper use of the Enneagram is to explore what caused you to be a certain type with those particular nuances encouraging continually adapting behavior to grow more whole.

I propose we all need to work on using the third response. That is the heart of Adam Grant’s latest book, Think Again: The Power of Knowing What You Don’t Know.

The latest newsletter from Arnold’s Pump Club (a health and fitness newsletter I highly recommend for tending to the physical health part of our life) emphasizes that trend. Adam Bornstein, You Can’t Screw This Up: Why Eating Takeout, Enjoying Dessert, and Taking the Stress out of Dieting Leads to Weight Loss That Lasts, lists 31 myths that he has believed and taught in his past that he discovered later were wrong.

Samples:

  • All sugar needs to be removed (the poison is in the dose)
  • Motivation matters, and if you lack it, you’re weak-minded. (I’m embarrassed to say I once believed this; I’m so sorry.)
  • If you can’t stick to a behavior, it’s because you don’t care or don’t work hard enough. (Behavioral change is complicated and starts with shifting self-perception.)
  • Artificial sweeteners are harmful to all people (They don’t sit well for some and are completely tolerated by others)
  • Good foods vs. bad foods is a smart way to teach people how to eat better (it’s not).
  • Social health doesn’t influence physical health.
  • Emotional and mental health doesn’t influence physical health.

Let us pause and reflect. What things do we believe that we’ve found get in the way of a healthy spiritual, physical, social, and emotional life? What things do we need to leave behind? Where can we grow into a life full of gratitude and generosity?

I agree with the Apostle Paul when he said that our bodies are the Temple of the Holy Spirit, and we should take care of it. Of course, illness and infirmity strike. But somehow we can make the best of what we have. The myriad of physical improvements we can make certainly help us with our spiritual disciplines.

Jesus Facing Conflict

March 25, 2025

So many psychologists and other assorted experts have been writing about the many interpersonal conflicts within our society right now (as if that’s a new thing!), that I thought I’d take a look at how Jesus dealt with conflict. If I maintain that I am a follower, then I must look to him and learn from him.

I have outlined a short book or pamphlet on the subject and have begun the thinking and writing. I’ll probably outline ideas here. Feedback with other ideas is always welcome. My teachers both in academia and corporations taught me to write as if I know what I’m talking about. Many times it’s really current thinking that is always open for something new that can expand it.

Chronologically, the first conflict that Jesus dealt with according to the Gospels (Matthew and Luke) was with the person identified as the Tempter, the devil, Satan. I think if we applied this to ourselves, we would identify it as our inner demons, dark thoughts, emotions.

In the literature of spiritual development, a first spiritual “high” always precedes a time in the “desert” facing temptations.

Just so, Jesus follows his baptism and hearing of God’s blessing with 40 days of fasting in the wilderness. He was then faced with three temptations.

One was food. He had been fasting, that is, intentionally going without food as a spiritual practice to help one become open to God’s word. He was tempted to use his power (which we lack) to turn stones into bread. This was followed (Matthew and Luke differ on the order of temptations) by the lust for power. The Tempter offers him temporal power over all the kingdoms. The other temptation was immortality—jumping from a high building into the ravine below trusting God to save him.

Jesus calmly evaluated each situation. He turned the story from himself to God. He quoted from God’s word to refute the temptation.

I’m guessing that most people reading this do not think they are Jesus. How do we translate these into something meaningful for us in this era of conflict with friends, family, social networks?

We first become aware that we are facing an adversary—those thoughts and emotions that well up from deep in our gut. We must pause and consider. Are these things emphasizing bodily pleasure, lust for power, or prodding our desires to be like God?

We must pause. Then we can look to our teachers or our Teacher. He taught us to look first to God. What is God’s desire for our life? Can we muster the courage to turn our backs on temptations letting them wither and die for lack of support? Can we return to the practices that bring us closer to God and lead us to serve our fellow humans (and other creatures)?