Archive for the ‘discernment’ Category

When We Wonder If We Are On The Right Path

August 29, 2024

Say you have chosen a path. On the journey, you have decided that Jesus is your best guide. So you try to follow him, do what he does, live like he teaches.

How is it going?

Ryan Holliday write in his newsletter The Daily Stoic something geared toward what they call the Stoic or philosophical life that is quite applicable to those of us trying to follow the with-God life. The parallels between the Stoic life and the with-God life are startling. We can learn from each other.

Holliday writes:

If you’re wondering if you’re getting better, wiser, more philosophical in this Stoic journey, here’s a test: How many arguments are you getting in each day? How often are you fighting with others? We talked about Elon Musk a while ago. Imagine having ten kids, billions of dollars, seven companies, tens of thousands of employees, a real opportunity to write a better future…and spending your time seeking out culture war issues to get sucked into. Imagine engaging with random trolls online, getting into spats with journalists and politicians. You might think that sounds pretty silly…but are we really that much better in our own, smaller lives?

Does that sound like your Christian life? Always arguing. Always proving a point that your theology is more scriptural? People avoid you because of that attitude?

Or maybe when you rise from your night’s slumber, you go to the bathroom, make your coffee, sit in prayer or meditation, and consider—what will I do today that reflects following Jesus on this journey with God? Will I show the kind of love Jesus talked about? Or will I be obnoxious and argumentative?

Trusting the App for Advice

August 8, 2024

My bed has sensors, most likely pressure sensors that can detect breath, movement, and heartbeat. The accompanying app performs calculations based on the readings—average heart rate, average breath rate, restful v restless sleep. It provides an overall score for the night’s sleep. It supposedly detects how long it takes to fall asleep.

It also pops up a piece of advice. Sometimes the advice is ludicrous. 

The other day, I opened the app. It gave advice for evening wind down in order to help me fall asleep more quickly. I looked at the graph provided for sleep that night. Sleep came within one minute of crawling into bed.

One of the writers providing advice in the book of Proverbs in the Old Testament tells us to seek out many advisors.

We can observe our leaders, political or organizational or otherwise, who have listened to good advice and those who either chose to ignore sound advice or relied on untrustworthy sources.

Pause. Think about your sources of advice. Evaluate the good from the bad. Choose advisors wisely.

Beware YouTubers

May 9, 2024

A woman broadcasts nutrition “information” on YouTube. She lifted part of a study that claims oatmeal is harmful to your health that mainstream media reported.

Many published research papers show the many benefits of eating oatmeal—it has fiber of which most Americans eat way too little; it appears to help regulate glucose; it helps decrease one type of cholesterol (I am a sample of one there).

We do that with theology, too, don’t we? You know who you are. You who lifted one verse from the Bible or other spiritual work and constructed a theology around it. The end of the earth, the role of women, the superiority of certain races.

Discernment—perceive, understand, and judge things correctly. Maybe it means reading an entire paragraph, or the entire passage, or letter, or book. After finding context and checking translations, perhaps we lay people can achieve a partial understanding of the breadth and depth of God.

So many learned and intelligent men have written lengthy systematic theologies beginning with the Bible. And they all differ. What hubris do you have thinking you can know it all?

Humility is the beginning of understanding.

Heart Health

April 24, 2024

I had a check up with my cardiologist this week. Got a “thumbs up” from him. Reduced medications from five to two.

The important cardiologist, though, is Jesus. He was always concerned with the health of a person’s heart. “Where your treasure is, there is your heart also,” he taught.

The Irish poet/philosopher John O’Donohue writing in “To Bless the Space Between Us” adds, “And all through the Old Testament, God is interested only in the heart—not sacrifices, rituals, or rules—only the heart. Indeed, mystical tradition would suggest the heart is beautiful precisely because it is where God dwells: the heart is the divine sanctuary.”

Have you checked both the physical and spiritual hearts lately? How are you doing? 

Sacrifice

April 15, 2024

Arnold Schwarzenegger told of a time when he was Governor of California attending the funeral of a war hero. Also attending was the local State Senator, who spoke eloquently of the sacrifice of the young man for the greater good.

Following the service, Arnold spoke to the legislator. “We have an important piece of environmental legislation coming up for vote. We need your support.”

“I cannot vote to support the bill even though I think it’s right,” came the reply. “It would be political suicide.”

On the one side he praised the courage of a war hero; on the other side he intentionally rejected the courageous act of his own.

We can sit here in judgement of that legislator.

Or…

We can reflect on the story. Place ourselves in the protagonist role. When have we chosen not to do the right thing because we might suffer an embarrassment or hurt or loss of stature or job?

Pointing fingers at others does no good. Jumping on social media to berate another human does nothing but instigate hurt. Being convicted of our own shortcomings and vowing to change our life’s pattern toward doing the right thing—priceless. 

Discretion

April 9, 2024

I was at coffee with a few others and announced, “Discretion is the word of the day.”

But I was in error.

It may be my word of the month. Or even the word to ponder for 2024.

An early leader of the Christian church, John Cassian, wrote this about discretion and the Desert Father Anthony the Great (St. Anthony in the Roman and Eastern traditions).

We believe that discretion is the true light of the body. It is our sole guidance for life. We call it our divine council. Like a city that has its walls destroyed and is not fenced in, so is a man who does anything without council. Our inward house cannot be built without discretion. Herein lies wisdom, intelligence, and understanding. A house is built with wisdom, and again it is set up with intelligence. With understanding, the storehouses are filled with all the precious riches and good things. The blessed Anthony maintained that discretion leads us in stages to God. It is the mother of all virtues.

Wisdom.

Intelligence.

Understanding.

Some would add discernment—the ability to see subtle differences and choose wisely.

Reflecting on life’s experiences and on what we’ve be taught or have read yields wisdom. Thinking about what we perceive develops our intelligence. Eventually we come to understanding. And our inner house is built.

Pen-and-Ink Theologians

April 8, 2024

I was a “straight-A” student in philosophy and theology at university. But my heart was never really in it. I still read philosophy and theology. I have subscribed to theology journals for short bursts to see what the discussions are. 

But all this theorizing and arguing in the abstract for all its apparent depth seems shallow.

I saw a comment on Ryan Holliday’s Daily Stoic blog about the Stoics not being “pen-and-ink philosophers.” Philosophy to them meant finding the best way of living.

The so-called “desert fathers” of early Christianity were much the same. Perhaps that’s why I am drawn to studying their lives. They fled to the deserts of Egypt and Syria and other places to escape the theological waves of controversies and persecutions of the 300s to the 600s. 

No “pen-and-ink theologians”, they tried to live out a spiritual life. They didn’t want to argue. They wanted to find God.

They were seekers. And not ashamed of it. And those of us today whose desert may be a bench in the park and who are seeking God need not be apologetic. We’re not in search of all the answers of the theologians. We’re in search of God.

Taming the Tongue

February 8, 2024

James, one of the first leaders of the Jesus Movement, wrote about the tongue. It’s a small part of the body, he says, yet like the bridle in a horses’s mouth or the rudder of a ship, it can move great things. Like a forest fire started by a small fire the tongue is a fire.

Every species of beast or bird or reptile or sea creature can be tamed—but not the tongue. It is a restless evil, full of deadly poison.

Every one of us has experienced recriminations from saying the wrong thing at the wrong time. Each of us has hurt someone sometime by saying something hateful.

And yet we believe we have the “right” to say whatever we want whenever we wish—without suffering from the repercussions.

Why are we shocked when we spread lies, half-truth, hate and then people respond strongly against us?

We can say whatever comes to mind first. That doesn’t mean we should. Wise people choke back those first comments, count to 10 or even 100, and then see the harm those words would cause and how better off the world would be if we stay silent.

Words have power—use them wisely.

Whatever Else Get Insight

January 5, 2024

As the story goes, Solomon was about to become king at a young age. God said to him, what would you like? Solomon asked for wisdom. He got enough to fill two books. His renown for wisdom spread through the known world.

Yet his life was a shambles. His son destroyed the kingdom in short order.

Reading through the book of Proverbs every January starts the year off providing a solid foundation for which to build a good life in the new year.

Buried in the beginning of Chapter 4 lies a bit of a warning.

Get wisdom, and whatever else you get, get insight.

Wisdom itself will not provide the righteous and good life. People with PhDs who have no sense about how to live are more numerous than stars you can count at night.

Insight—accurate and deep understanding; the capacity to gain understanding; to perceive clearly or deeply.

Do not merely read through the proverbs. Take some time daily to ponder them. Think about the meaning. Think about how these apply to how I will live today.

Need an example of wisdom without insight and the ability to live out the wisdom—think Solomon.

Don’t be a Solomon. Be like someone who puts wisdom into action—be like Jesus.

Pride—The Sin of Hubris

January 2, 2024

When I’m serious about studying Christian thought, I love to go to the writers of the first two to three generations of the church. These people were trying to figure out what this new movement meant, what it meant to live with a risen Jesus.

Especially the Desert Fathers were concerned with pride. They knew the power of pride to bring people down.

I’ve been rereading some of the theologians of the 16th, 17th, and 18th centuries. What amazes me is that these very smart and educated men all latched onto certain verses from the Bible and then built a system of theology on them. One source noted that Calvinism is “proved” by these six verses. Meanwhile Arminianism by a different set of six verses.

A few hundred years later a preacher in a small village near my home town was studying scripture and “discovered” a Bible verse. He built a “Biblical Research Institute” and started a movement called The Way International.

What I do find amazing is the hubris of people who read a translation of a translation and then proceed to tell people they know exactly what God thinks.

There is a phrase from French psychologist Émile Coué repeated by Chief Inspector Dreyfus in the Pink Panther movie series—“Every day in every way I’m getting better and better.” (Oh, that was said to help many people, but it didn’t work for Chief Inspector Dreyfus.)

The first step to knowledge is to recognize our lack. Then, dispelling hubris, we learn a little bit more each day. I think we could read Matthew chapters 5-7 everyday for the remainder of our lives and everyday realize something new to apply to our lives.

[Check the beginning of Proverbs Chapter 2.]