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Choose Community Wisely

May 21, 2025

Parents know to observe carefully the friends their adolescents hang out with. Their friends have greater impact on the youth than parents at this stage.

The online community we hang out in, if we so choose to spend time in “social media,” impacts our thoughts and, indeed, our life. 

Belief is born when we combine community with emotion.

Choose your community online or in person wisely. You can be sucked into a vortex of conspiracy theories and negativity. Or you can find generous people who relate with kindness and build each other up.

We think we have free will and will make up our own minds. But often we get drawn a bit at a time into a life we would not have chosen.

Develop the power of reflection and awareness. Choose your friends and direction with intention not by osmosis.

Not a Contest

May 20, 2025

His entire life was driven by the need to be better than his brother. Every thing, every situation, every skill, all was competition. Every interaction was win/loss.

No relationships. No relaxation. Even vacations were competitive—had to be bigger, better, more expensive, more physical.

What a loss, I thought.

Life is not a sporting event. It’s about coming to grips with that lost little girl or boy. Living with generosity and kindness.

It’s never too late to start.

Kindness Is a Gift

May 19, 2025

It makes every interaction easier.

Practice giving it generously.

To yourself, as well as to others.

Hearing From God Seems Accidental

May 16, 2025

But practice makes us accident prone.

Even ten minutes twice a day practicing stillness and listening makes all the difference.

Getting the Message

May 15, 2025

Every day the social networks LinkedIn and Facebook send email messages. On the surface, they just want to  inform me about posts from people I know. What they really wish to achieve is my attention and presence on their sites. They earn income from my presence while viewing interminable advertisements.

I recently offered to a small group a meditation on words from Isaiah where God says that we should not fear because “I, the Lord your God, has your right hand.”

Sometimes reading isn’t enough. Sometimes we need to feel the message. God doesn’t pester us with endless emails. Perhaps we need to develop the practices that tune us into God’s “social network.”

We can practice stillness. Stopping our hectic pace at regular intervals leaving an opening for God to connect.

We can practice small support groups where the group can offer assurances to each other in God’s name.

These practices will take us a lot farther than endless scrolling on social media.

There is a way for us to get the message.

Sometimes Hearing God’s Voice Seems To Be An Accident

May 14, 2025

But practice makes us accident prone.

Even ten minutes twice a day practicing stillness and listening makes all the difference.

Practicing Gratitude

May 13, 2025

Don’t let the seeds stop you from enjoying the watermelon.

We can focus on what others do that annoys us preventing us from enjoying the kindness and helpfulness of others.

We can lose ourselves thinking on our problems, or we can pause and enjoy the beauty of the day.

Don’t practice negative thoughts preventing you from resting in gratefulness for that which you have.

Thanks to Seth Godin for the thought.

What If?

May 12, 2025

At a recent software conference, the Chief Technology Officer developed a theme of what if we could solve some problem and iterated with their solutions.

I thought, what if we took the Apostle Paul at his word when he wrote to the Jesus followers in Galatia, There is neither Jew nor Gentile, neither slave nor free, nor is there male and female, for you are all one in Christ Jesus.

What if we ended the game of dividing people into groups deciding which we liked and which we didn’t?

What if we accepted each person for what they are perhaps also seeing what they  could be?

What if we ended all this nonsense of gender politics, racial politics, culture politics?

Well, the political part can’t happen—that’s how politicians build enough of a coalition to get elected only to reward some of their followers.

But, for followers of Jesus, for those who proudly proclaim themselves to be Christian, what if we put aside those divisions in favor of treating each person as the child of God that they are?

What a wonderful world it would be.

Finding Joy In What You’re Doing

May 9, 2025

For three hundred years, the movement that Jesus started spread throughout the Mediterranean world mostly because of the way his followers lived. People noticed the joy that imbued their lives and their gatherings. They simply lived differently from others around them.

I picked up these observations on living with joy from one of my favorite news sources—Axios Finish Line. You don’t have to follow NBA basketball to understand this.

Steph Curry of the Golden State Warriors is this year’s NBA Teammate of the Year.

The money quote: “At the heart of Curry’s leadership style is one word, repeated again and again by teammates, coaches and staffers,” The Athletic reports. “Joy.”

Three lessons for all of us to emulate:

  • Celebrate everyone else. Curry gets joy from hyping up the people around him. Current and former teammates said no one celebrates their wins more than Curry — even when they’re breaking his records. Eric Housen, an operations staffer on the Warriors told The Athletic of Curry’s first MVP speech: “This was his moment, this is what he earned, and he thinks to thank the equipment guy. That was just… I don’t even know how to describe the impact that had on my life and the feeling that came over me.”
  • Find the fun. Curry has a great time on the court — and it’s infectious. Curry even has a regular “joy” segment during his workouts. He’ll make up a silly game to play while drilling 3-pointers.
  • Love the little things. Golden State Warriors head coach Steve Kerr told The Athletic: “He loves the game, he loves the work, he loves being part of the team, he loves the bus rides, he loves the banter.”

The bottom line: When asked by reporters for his reaction to winning Teammate of the Year, Curry said, “It’s a reflection of how much fun I’ve had being a part of this organization for so long.”

Maybe we could use the incentive to find a little joy in what we do—work, church, home, volunteering.

AI, Creativity, and the Spirit

May 8, 2025

Even as a youth, I had two differing interests. One was science/technology and the other philosophy/spirituality. I typically confine my science/tech thoughts to my other blog—The Manufacturing Connection. Faith Venture explores thoughts on spiritual development (occasionally pointing to foibles of modern living).

Sometimes the two streams come into a confluence.

Like worries about AI and creativity and spirituality.

The current month’s theme of MIT Technology Review proclaims “Muse or Machine: Defining Creativity in the Age of AI.” The lead article—Is “creativity” meaningless?

Have you read so much idle speculation about AI that you are worried? Feel the anxiety that the writers wish to provoke?

I cannot do that level of linear algebra nor program in Python. But I’ve read several academic works sent to me. I have at least a moderate level of intelligence (not artificial).

Think on this thought from Seth Godin then consider your own experience: Art is what happens when a human does something original and generous that might not work. It has little to do with paint.

I make some use of AI in my research. I’ve read many (most?) of the sermons of John Wesley. When I was trying to write a concise list of his thoughts on practices, I asked Claude.ai. Or trying to remember some thoughts from Augustine of Hippo. Claude quickly returned a nicely written summary. It then asked if I wished to explore one of the topics more deeply.

I could have abdicated to Claude publishing its response unedited.

Better was to consider the research returned, think on it all, then write an essay of my take on the subject I was pondering—spiritual disciplines.

AI, my creativity, deepening my knowledge of the life in the Spirit all at one time.

Lifting the thought from one of my boyhood heroes, Alfred E. Newman of Mad Magazine, “What, me worry?”