Posts Tagged ‘attitude’

Why are you pursuing Christmas

December 11, 2010

Have you thought about why you are rushing around, decorating, buying, composing wish lists, playing special music? Do you just do it? Of course, this assumes you are actually celebrating Christmas, I guess.

Walter Hilton has this great illustration in “The Ladder of Perfection.” A hound that runs after the hare only because he sees other hounds run, when he is weary, he stays and rests, or turns home again; but if he runs because he sees or is in view of the hare, he will not spare for weariness till he has caught her.

If you are going through all the effort and emotional swings of Christmas only because all your family and friends are or “it’s the right thing to do,” then you will be exhausted and weary. But if all you do is in the context of celebration of Jesus’ coming, if you devote this time as a period of renewing your focus on Jesus, if you share your joy, then you’ll not only survive the month, but you’ll thrive. And bring others along with you.

Work Your Way Out of Spiritual Darkness

November 15, 2010

After spiritual highs come spiritual lows. After Jesus’ baptism and vision came 40 days in the wilderness full of temptations. St. John of the Cross wrote “Dark Night of the Soul” describing the phenomenon. Happens to all of us. Sometimes we just don’t “feel” the presence of God.

How do you get over that feeling and get back to the with-God life? Thomas a Kempis writes that you should do good works. Modern psychologists hold that you should consciously act the way you want to be and feel, and it will come. I wrote earlier about looking for opportunities to start the day by doing something good for someone. It turns out that that is good for your soul.

You are not saved through your works–God’s grace takes care of that. You don’t want to be like the early American Puritans who held that God picks some and not others. You don’t know if you’re one, but you don’t want the community to know that you’re not in the chosen, so you act like you are. No, those are false trails.

It’s simply that you can’t trust emotions. You have accepted God’s grace. But you just don’t feel it every day, every minute. What you do, is look for that first opportunity to do something good for someone. As soon as you do, then it’s easier to do it again. And that will help you get your focus back on God–where it belongs.

No Freedom Without Constraints

November 13, 2010

I was listening to, of all things, a podcast of a speech on computer programming. The speaker brought in illustrations from literature, among other things. The basic point was that you have freedom to create only when you are focused by constraints. You have freedom to creatively express your thoughts once you choose a form–for example, writing in haiku or sonnet forms comprises a constraint, but it also frees your mind to express your thought.

Adolescents are fond of trying out the idea of freedom of action without constraints. When I observe people, I sometimes think that there are way too many adults who have not progressed beyond those adolescent urges. Too many choices leads to chaos, while narrowing your options leads to freedom.

God is wise in these matters. Once again, the adolescent mind says, “I should be free to do whatever I want. There should be no constraints on my thoughts and actions.” But God says, “If you live within the constraints that I have established for a good and fruitful life, then you will truly achieve freedom and life.” It’s a little like a paradox.

You have to experience it for yourself in order to understand the truth. But subduing your emotional reactions to events and your adolescent urges to satisfy every sensual desire, enables a life with God where you are free to change your life and the lives of those you meet.

If you live a life in nature, you will be tossed from emotion to emotion, desire to another unfulfilled desire. But if you live a life in the Spirit, then you bring focus and attention to your life and you are free to live a fulfilled life of peace, joy and service.

Achieve Focus On God

November 2, 2010

How do you achieve focus on God? Paul wrote that we should pray without ceasing. What does that mean? The little book by an anonymous author called “The Way of the Pilgrim” charts the journey of a 19th Century Russian peasant who lost his family and his house and sets out on a spiritual journey.

As he travels, he ponders the advice of Paul. Then he happens upon a wise person who told him to pray the Jesus prayer 1,000 times a day. He gave the pilgrim a rosary upon whose beads he could count. The pilgrim began reciting the prayer aloud, but then discovered that he could just think them. Eventually the words were written on his heart and they were with him always. He then met many people on his journey who helped him including one rich man who sponsored his journey to the Holy Land. It’s a wonderful little book. Changed my life.

The prayer? “Lord Jesus Christ, Son of God, have mercy on me, a sinner.” Many people shorten it to “Jesus Christ have mercy on me.” Eventually you can just say one word and it will remind you of the whole thing (e.g., God, Jesus, mercy). This should help your focus–and your outlook on life. How can you mistreat others if you are always focused on God?

Judge or Judge Not – God Knows

October 7, 2010

American society currently, at least the vocal part, seems to be in a rush to judgment. So many people want to sit on the Lord’s throne and make pronouncements as to the worth or salvation of everyone–well, everyone except themselves and maybe their friends. This may be true to a small extent in other societies, too.

Reading James’ pastoral letter, he warns us not to judge others. That is God’s job. Every time this verse comes up for discussion in one of my small groups, we have one guy who always speaks up and says, “I don’t agree. We have to judge others.” To which I always reply, “There’s judging and then there’s judging.”

I think James is saying, do not take upon yourself to be the final judge–the person you meet at the end of your life who either says “Welcome, good and faithful servant,” or says, “Depart from me,” and casts you into Hell. In English we can use the same word for making a decision in a legal sense and for discerning the goodness or correctness of other people.

This latter interpretation is a necessity for everyday life. You must evaluate everyone you meet with whom you may have some interaction and decide (judge) whether you should believe them or not. If someone comes to you and says “I have discovered the exact time of the end of the world,” you could apply your knowledge of the Bible where Jesus says, “No one knows the time, not even the Son.” Based on this, you would make the judgment not to believe this person.

Now my friend in the small group may border into the group of Christians with whom I have the most trouble with–those who think they have discovered the Truth through one Bible verse and proceed to sit in final judgment (or so they think) on the salvation of others. Even others whom they have never met, and so cannot even begin to look into their souls and their lives to see if they are upright and walking with God. I cannot bear that burden. I cannot be that presumptuous. I can discern others and choose whom to believe and whom to befriend. But I’m content to let God do His work in that regard. The only thing I can do is use my talents to show Him to others. That’s probably the best attitude for you, too.