Leadership Summit

August 10, 2009

I’ve been off the proverbial grid for most of the past two weeks. Two of those days were invested in the Willow Creek Association Leadership Summit. These were intense days of high profile leaders and scholars speaking on a variety of subjects applicable to both church leaders and business (and NGO) leaders as well. Considering I used Marriott points from my business travels, the $99 I paid (discounted because of an affiliation with Compassion International) plus meals and the drive to and from Chicago generated huge return on investment.

As I break down my notes and compile themes, I’ll have a series of posts reflecting on the teaching. From a personal leadership view, Bill Hybels talked about starting his day off right. Instead of being in a rush to be the first one in the office every day, he invests the time in reading (the Bible and thoughtful literature), meditating and journaling. Now when he arrives at the office, he’s refreshed and ready to tackle the meetings and tasks of running a huge operation.

I’ve written on the impact the study of Luke 12 has had on me, and I’m obviously not alone. Many speakers cited the stories–especially of the “Prodigal Son.” Jesus tells the three stories gathered in that chapter to illustrate who is a neighbor when he says the second commandment is to love your neighbor as yourself. Much of the teaching of the summit for church leaders pointed to examples of how people of faith are responding to this commandment.

As Hybels put it in his opening remarks, there is nothing like the local church when the church is doing it right. In these stormy economic times when people are losing jobs and even their houses, he challenged his members who are still working to be generous to their brothers and sisters. The response was overwhelming.

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Make a list

July 16, 2009

I was doing some quick browsing through some of Paul’s letters looking for something when I noticed a pattern. Much as Paul preaches the gospel of God’s grace and living in the Spirit, he also gets trapped into making lists. Much of the first letter to the Corinthians is in that vein. Even the first Christians said, “It’s great to talk about living in relationship to Jesus, but just give me a list–a  check-off guide. In that way I know what to do and can measure how good I am versus others.” And Paul would play that game. I know he was just trying to be helpful, but his writings in that regard have led to endless speculation and argument.

This leads to another game that too many Christians love playing–arguing about the small points in Paul’s lists. There’s an old English saying, “Penny wise, pound foolish.” Some pay close attention to little things in life (for example the speck of sawdust in other people’s eyes) and miss the big picture (that is, living in relationship with Jesus).

There was a time when I lived to argue. Then one day I saw that arguing gets you nowhere. I just try hard (and often fail) to live in relationship with God and let the arguers argue. That’s the truth of simplicity. Live in relationship with God and serve others.

Gary Mintchell

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How do you know you’ve sinned

July 5, 2009

Why didn’t God make it easy for us to know everything? This question from my wife as we discussed some contentious issues that people in the church love to fight over sounds like the makings of a series.

I’ve been studying sin–and God’s response–while my Bible study group reads Romans. So first, what is sin? Well, Paul gives us one of his many lists in the introduction to the letter. People love lists. We can take these as a checklist. Hmm, I don’t do that one, or that one, oh, let’s skip that one, I don’t do that one–and so on. Meanwhile what we’re really thinking is — other people do that one, she does the next one, he does that one — so I must be better than they.

I think that the real question lies not in looking at others (remember Jesus’ story about checking out the piece of sawdust in someone else’s eye when we have a plank in ours?), the real question as we read Romans and the rest of the New Testament is “Really, no dodging the issue, what sins have I done lately, the last hour, the last day, the last week?” My new crusade is to get people away from the theoretical, from looking at others. The real issue is within me, and you.

If I come to realistic grips with my sins, my straying from a relationship with God, then perhaps my life and witness will help others look at the mess they’ve made with their lives and also seek a relationship with God. Note, I didn’t say the observance of a list of rules–I said a relationship. Living with Jesus is the key. How can I worry about others when I’m such a mess? That’s the issue.

Gary Mintchell

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Conversations

June 19, 2009

It’s amazing the conversations you can have just by opening up–and by listening. I travel a lot for business and have had some of the most deep and interesting conversations at dinner. This week I was in Phoenix. There was a dinner for people from the media (I’m a magazine editor) and various marketing and engineering people from the host company. I sat with my journalist friends from Mexico, Argentina and Brazil. Silvia from Brazil asked if I was “how do you say, Protestant”. Then she wanted to know what sect. (Her English is far better than my Portugese.) I told her I was Methodist. She laughed. Her father-in-law is (as close as I can tell) the equivalent of a District Superintendent and her brother-in-law is a local church pastor both in the Methodist Church in Brazil.

She is Catholic, no surprise to me, but we went on to have a fascinating conversation about religion and spirituality, about my favorite stream of Catholicism–the Carmelites.

At other dinners I’ve discussed spirituality with a wide range of Christians and with Hindus, Buddhists and Moslems. If you’re polite, listen, present your ideas with humility, it’s amazing what you learn about people and the seeds you can plant in return.

I’ve heard the phrase frequently lately from Gandhi about “I like your Christ, but I don’t like your Christians.” I’ve also read other people who couldn’t figure out why, when they should agree with people of various Christian persuasions, didn’t–only to discover it was really the people they didn’t like, not the idea.

Lord, save me from being one of those people who turn people off. Make me a better listener. More like a gentle rain than a hurricane in my dealings with others.

— Gary Mintchell

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Sinful

June 10, 2009

Reading in Romans to prepare for a new series has been reinforcing some of my meditations lately. It is so exceedingly easy to see the sin in others. I’ve had a lifetime (long one) to see the bigger picture, yet I still sometimes find it easy to see the sin in someone else and become critical.

When you meditate deeply in God, you are given the experience (or opportunity) sometimes to see all the sins that you have done in life and those that you are capable of doing. When you experience intimately the evil that lies within you, next comes the experience of complete grace. This is the grace where God says, “It’s OK. I know what you’re capable of, but you still can have everlasting rest in me.”

If I have such grace, why do I want to rush to judge others? That’s just another sin. Lord, help me remember my grace–the grace that you offer to all.

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Pointing back at you

June 8, 2009

Recently there was a small group discussion. I should agree with the participants–at least most of the time. But sometimes I am uncomfortable. It’s a rush to judgement thing. And there are a couple of “bogeymen” that just raise their ire. Reading in the first chapter of Romans where Paul lists the many ways that people sin, they immediately jumped on the homosexual issue.  They stopped reading at the end of the first chapter. Too bad. The second chapter begins (by the way, Paul didn’t write in chapters, so he would have expected the discussion to proceed through this next thought):

Therefore, you have no excuse, whoever you are, when you judge others; for in passing judgment on another you condemn yourself, because you, the judge, are doing the very same things.

Have you ever taken the time to be quiet for periods of time every day and let God talk to you? Have you ever used this time to look into your heart and see all the hatred and evil things in there that you are capable of? Have you realized the grace of God that you have either overcome those impulses and desires or the grace that says, “you are forgiven, go and sin no more”?

When I was a kid, there was a saying “When you point a finger at another, three fingers are pointing back at you.” It is so easy to sit in judgment of others. Remember, someone is judging you. And it isn’t pretty. It is a better attitude in life to realize how thankful each of us should be for the grace of God–and to extend that grace in His name to everyone we meet. And how hard it is to live that thought.

Peace, Gary Mintchell

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Your Mission

May 26, 2009

What are you supposed to do with your life? I’m studying in Acts lately. Toward the end of Paul’s ministry, he was assaulted by “the Jews” at the Temple and hauled off on mistaken charges to be tried. Paul bounced around a little from one governmental authority to another and would up on the Mediterranean coast at the palace of the Roman chief administrator of the area. He could have been set free first if he would have slipped some coins to the one consul or just let the next one decide. But God told Paul that his next ministry was in Rome. Paul evidently figured the easiest way to Rome was to get a trip on the Roman government where he could appeal his case to the Caesar.

The meditation guide I’m using now has a series of meditations on figuring out what you (I) am to do with our lives. What’s your talent? Do you listen to the urgings of God who will guide you?

Mostly what I do both as a vocation and ministry is write and teach. So the proddings I get from the Spirit are to continually look for outlets for those things I do. Jesus was alway perceptive into the people he met. He picked people with strengths that sometimes they didn’t know they had and encouraged them to go and do those things. Some couldn’t make the commitment and went away sad.

Let’s not go away sad. What is it that you can do? What is it that God is calling you to do–or where is He calling you to go? Go and Do.

Gary Mintchell

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Servant Leadership

May 16, 2009

Last weekend I was involved with a youth soccer tournament. It’s the 14th. The last two weeks are always stressful for me, since I recruit and assign referees. Then during the weekend I have to make sure all the games are covered  when refs have to leave or get injured or something. But when things are going well and I don’t have to calm coaches or soothe irate parents, I have time for observation.

One thing I’ve noticed over the years of this and other summer projects is how normally nice people seem to get on little ego trips during these events. If they are on the committee or sometimes even just peripherally involved, some just need a status symbol. In these events, it’s a golf cart for riding around the site. I want exercise, so normally I’ll walk even though I have a cart at my disposal for getting to the scene of controversy quickly or ferrying referees from place to place. Some who have no responsibilities just seem to want to have one to ride around in.

This is not extreme, but it does remind me that Jesus’ example was washing feet. If you want to be a leader, then be a servant. When I watch others, I’m challenged to look at myself and ask whether I’m still fulfilling my roles as a servant leader or as a lord ruler. How about you?

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Maintain Focus

May 8, 2009

Last weekend, the word of the day seemed to be distraction. I noticed in church so many people were distracted from the worship and teaching. Later at a concert, the same thing. So many thoughts and concerns running through their heads. So much need to talk.

But I know focus is a hard thing. I’ve been pondering how to maintain focus, study and prayer while living a hectic life. Last week I was in California (from Ohio) all week. Five days, four hotels. Up at 3:30 am Monday to catch the 6:15 flight eventually to San Diego. Off the plane, meet my colleague, drive up to Temecula, check in hotel, drive to company we’re visiting, discuss technology and business, leave for dinner and back to hotel 10 pm PDT (1 am EDT).

Next day up early, videotape interviews, lunch and back to airport for flight to San Francisco. Once again in hotel about 10. Same thing Wednesday and Thursday. Friday up early to head to airport, home 1 am.

This week just two days that bad, but the problem is–how do you maintain discipline and focus in the midst of life? It’s easy for me to sit in observation mode and watch others in a state of distraction. Harder to step back and watch myself in distraction. Let he who is without sin cast the first rock, as Jesus once said.

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Ache Search Rejoice

April 20, 2009

— Gary Mintchell

Now that we are celebrating after Easter, this passage from Luke seems even more meaningful. I’ve been contemplating on Luke 15 for months now, and finally decided to write about it. During my study of Luke, I visited Willow Creek Community Church in suburban Chicago. Founder/Pastor Bill Hybels was concerned that his church had lost a little edge and brought out one of his original “Contagious Christians” talks. The outline is his, other thoughts mine.

It seems that well into his ministry, Jesus heard the grumbling of the church people–those who observed all the laws (so they thought anyway), attended services, hung out with the right people and all that. These are things we can recognize today from “church people.” So he told three stories to answer their question about why he hung out with “sinners and tax collectors.” The first story is about a shepherd who has a flock of a hundred sheep. Upon discovering that he has lost one, he leaves everything to find it. The second story is about a woman who has lost a coin and searches diligently until she finds it. The third story is about a man who loses one of his sons and looks longingly every day until that sons returns.

These stories have three things in common: aching, searching, rejoicing. And they all describe God. And as we live in remembrance of the Easter events and celebrate the risen Jesus, remember this context.

God aches for every lost person who cannot find the way to salvation and wholeness. Just as we should ache for those same people. Ache is deeper than shallow emotion. It is as if something in us is missing and we won’t be complete without it. Do we care about those who are lost? Or are we comfortable with those around us? Do we always sit an empty chair in our small groups in remembrance that we need to fill that chair with someone who needs to be brought into relationship?

The aching leads to action–searching. The shepherd diligently searches though all the rocks and crevaces until he finds the lost. The woman sweeps the floor, moving furniture, looking under things until she finds the coin. The man goes out to the hill and looks everyday for the return of his son. Do we ache so much for the lost that we search for them? Are we trying to bring wholeness through Jesus to people in need?

Finding leads to rejoicing. In each case the finder is so overjoyed that they invite all their friends over for a big celebration. Just as Jesus was telling the Pharisees and other “church people” (including us) that God rejoices for every person who was lost and then was found, so we should rejoice when a person finds the way and comes to God. As we live in this after Easter celebration along with facing a chenge in pastoral leadership, it’s important to remember we can have Easter celebrations every week that we find lost people and help them find wholeness. That’s what has grown our congregation, and what we need to continue to focus on.

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