Archive for the ‘Wisdom’ Category

Premature Theories

November 29, 2024

Sherlock Holmes, “The temptation to form premature theories upon insufficient data is the bane of our profession.”

We call it “jumping to conclusions.”

My mind forms a picture of a kid jumping over a water puddle following a rain. The jump is short landing the poor child in the deepest part of the puddle splashing water, becoming wet all over much to the parent’s chagrin.

I hired a young man newly graduated with a B.A. from a leading state school in Ohio for an entry level position. Something came up in conversation. He replied, “I took a course in that at university. I’m an expert.”

We read one part of a sentence from Scripture. We conclude we know everything about that idea. We read it in English. It was written in Greek.

We look at someone newly arrived. We note their clothes, height, weight, hair. We assume we know all about that person.

We know nothing.

We jumped into the middle of the puddle splashing bad thoughts all around. 

We didn’t clear the puddle, that is gather sufficient data, in order to form a more accurate conclusion. Realizing that when more data arrives we may need to revise that conclusion.

Life is all about “I don’t know” and “I wonder about that”.

The Only True Measure of Success

November 27, 2024

…is to leave the world a better place than you found it.

Do not fall into striving for social media success.

Do not measure success by the size of the house or the price of the car in the garage.

What do those matter?

Leaving a wake behind the boat of your life’s journey of peace, joy, calm, service.

That is success.

Decide What To Do

November 26, 2024

An exchange from The Lord of the Rings by J.R.R. Tolkien on moving forward despite the difficulties we face:

Frodo: “I wish none of this had happened.”

Gandalf: “So do all who live to see such times, but that is not for them to decide. All we have to decide is what to do with the time that is given to us.”

People around the world recently survived democratic elections. The losers face worries about the future. The winners reside in hope that what they voted for actually works. Since politicians (as well as church leaders) promise much only to discover how hard change is, most will be disappointed.

What we as individual people can do is to take Gandalf’s advice, decide what to do with the time that is given us.

We can choose to follow Jesus’s examples and teachings, or we can live in an uncertain future in our minds.

The Pursuit of Happiness

November 19, 2024

I love it when modern social science discovers ancient wisdom. Reading in Adam Grant’s excellent book, Think Again: The Power of Knowing What You Don’t Know, “Psychologists found that the more people value happiness, the less happy they often become with their lives.”

We can read in almost any ancient wisdom literature, such as the Proverbs in the Hebrew scriptures, this same wisdom.

Unfortunately, we seem to be living out the philosophy developed by Jeremy Bentham in the late 18th century and later publicized by John Stuart Mill, “it is the greatest happiness of the greatest number that is the measure of right and wrong.”

Bentham pushed for many good social advancements that once adopted has made life better for many. He got this wrong. 

But look around. Perhaps you, yourself, are captured by this idea and certainly many people around you, who think that life is all about the pursuit of happiness.

Happiness will not be found that way.

Happiness is a byproduct of pursuing a life of service to others. Service that is performed through a spiritual alignment with God regardless of your particular brand of faith.

Choosing Sides

November 8, 2024

We’re back from two weeks of travels. A car at one parking lot sported a bumper sticker “Jesus Is (insert your particular politics)”.

Jesus, in fact, never directly addressed that particular statement.

I understand the deep need to feel that God is on our side.

Maybe I pray that God will support Liverpool to win and Manchester City to lose. Or, to use an American analogy, the Kansas City Chiefs to win and the San Francisco 49ers to lose. Perhaps the other side prays the same thing only in reverse.

Does God really pick these sides? Can we really constrain the God that created the universe and everything within it to fit our desires?

I can see praying for the spirit to infuse my body and soul with healing power. To provide me strength and wisdom to make the wise decisions. To fill me with capacity to love others—even those I feel like not loving.

Let us ponder questions such as these. What kind of life did Jesus live? If we are living like Jesus, would we plaster a divisive bumper sticker on our car? Maybe instead a bumper sticker that said simply “Love Others Always.”

Love Over Opinion

November 5, 2024

I saw this on Rich’s Ride blog

Our love will change the world, not our opinions.

This worked once a couple of thousand years ago. Followers of Jesus walked a different way such that they changed the world.

Today is election day in America. I hope all who are citizens are voting today—for my candidate, of course. 🙂

Oh, I guess I didn’t mention who that was. Oh, well…

I went to graduate school with an idea of earning a PhD in Political Science. Things happened. I wound up back in technology with a side of philosophy. Much better off. But I donate to candidates I like and will vote. And hopefully the months-long low level anxiety will leave. And my email folder and messages folder will grow strangely silent.

Paraphrasing John Mellencamp, Oh, yeah, life goes on, long after the thrill of the politicking is gone.

Character Over Talent

October 29, 2024

Character more than talent determines success in life. Not necessarily more money, power, or prestige. But as someone of whom people touched by them remember kindly.

Who you are shouts louder than what you do.

Put Away Evil Speaking

September 4, 2024

Put Away Evil Speaking–John Wesley.

O that all you who bear the reproach of Christ, who are in derision called Methodists, would set an example to the Christian world, so called, at least in this one instance! Put ye away evil-speaking, talebearing, whispering: Let none of them proceed out of your mouth! See that you “speak evil of no man;” of the absent, nothing but good. If ye must be distinguished, whether ye will or no, let this be the distinguishing mark of a Methodist: “He censures no man behind his back: By this fruit ye may know him.” What a blessed effect of this self-denial should we quickly feel in our hearts! How would our “peace flow as a river,” when we thus “followed peace with all men!”

I was brought up in the Methodist Church and have spent most of my adult life as a member. I don’t remember any specific instruction on Wesleyan thought. Some recent reading suggested several books to read next, so I picked up Wesley’s Collected Sermons. 141 of them. When the book opened in Kindle, the note told me 24 hours remaining of reading time. I’m now half through. I stand amazed at how much my thought came from John Wesley.

The quote from John Wesley should be “inscribed on the heart” of all who call themselves Methodist of whatever flavor. Furthermore, the thought is good for all who claim to follow Jesus. Even further, it wouldn’t hurt every person regardless of religion or politics or whatever to follow this advice.

Choose This or That

August 14, 2024

Seth Godin writes, ““None of the above” is often the best option. We’re regularly confronted with multiple-choice questions. The foundation is already established, the options are already limited, do you want this or that? But the real questions lie in the assumptions that happened before you were even asked.”

When confronted with the choice of this or that I often look for a third alternative. Or a fourth.

Often when confronted with a spiritual question or Biblical “truth” it pays to ask for an alternative. What about this? Why is that? (Five Whys is a most powerful tool.)

Looking for growth in your spiritual formation? Try looking for what the book’s author leaves out. Try asking what or why? The author may be right. But you’ll feel better having explored the idea.

Volunteering, Service, Happiness

August 12, 2024

You don’t want to believe what Jesus and James and Paul and Proverbs say about serving other people, helping them, mentoring them, volunteering at the soup kitchen?

Teams of psychologists have studied people’s actions. Real life. Just like you and me.

They’ve found that volunteering, performing acts of service for others, yes, even when teenagers are forced into it by parents, leads to happiness.

It’s true. It works. Wisdom written 4,000 years ago and 2,000 years ago—all true. 

Sometimes you must perform works of mercy and service to bring your heart around to the right direction. Better is to change the direction of your heart to where performing these acts, small and large, is simply a part of your life.

As Paul says in Galatians among other places against such works there is no law.

Be kind. If you get something from these meditations, share with a friend. If not, share with an enemy. 🙂