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Spiritual Fitness and Endurance

August 29, 2010

I have refereed soccer for over 20 years. Along the way, I’ve been privileged to work some pretty high-level games. In order to be successful, I had to continually train my body and my mind. Part of training the body is to have the endurance to still be running at the end of the match along with the players and not be so tired that you begin to make poor decisions (mind).

People ask me about the spiritual life. Is it one burst of enlightenment? Or, is it believing in a set of words? Baptists (among others) emphasize the importance of decision. Some think that once you make the decision for Christ, then you’re pretty much done. Nothing else to do.

The answer to all of that is pretty much “no” or “there’s more.” Paul often uses the metaphor of athletic training when speaking of the spiritual life. Just as it is necessary to train your body and mind to be fit to be a soccer referee, you must train your body and mind to be fit for the spiritual life. How do you train? You train your mind by study–study the Bible; study scholars who study the Bible and help explain terms the original languages and the like; study writings from spiritual masters; and, most of all think abut what you’re reading. You train your body by working to avoid sins of the body–sexual, alcohol abuse, and the like. You also train through the discipline of prayer.

James makes a similar teaching at the beginning of his pastoral letter–you gain endurance by living through trials.

Once you decide for Jesus, the spiritual life begins in earnest. Begin training now.

Break the rules

May 15, 2010

“Rules are made to be broken.” Bet you’ve heard that one. Probably just before the speaker breaks a rule. Funny thing about rules. Most people seem to want them. It replaces thinking. Just follow the rules, and you’ll be in good shape with the authorities.

When it comes to religion, this gets tricky. Which rules (laws) come from God, and which are made by people. In legal circles, there are laws, which are the result of legislation by a governing authority, regulations, which have the legal weight of law promulgated by governmental regulatory agencies, and then there is the body of judicial decisions. You’ll find this to varying degrees in about every culture.

When God was using Moses to bring the Hebrew descendants of Abraham out of Egypt and return them to Palestine, some laws were required to regulate their behavior and organize them as a civil and religious society. The Ten Commandments were promulgated. But these simple rules had to be explained. So, for the next 1,500 years–in fact continuing even to today–people (mostly men) developed rule upon rule to explain how to obey the Ten Commandments.

Some people wanted the easy way out, “Just give us a list.” These are the “rule followers.” We know them today. The good kids who sit at the front of the class in school and try to please the teacher by both obeying all the rules and by pointing out those who break them. (Obviously, I’m not one of those!)

The rule followers are now subservient to those who make and interpret the rules. But those who make rules can make new rules to benefit themselves. Mark tells of Jesus in the story of his followers eating without washing their hands rebutting the rule makers/interpreters of the day (called Pharisees). Jesus calls them hypocrites because they point out this somewhat minor offense, but they themselves have developed rules that let them get around the Commandment to honor their parents.

That’s the problem with rules. Once you start down that path, those in charge of the rules inevitably through human nature begin to make rules to benefit themselves and make it harder on others. Rules become the game. The original intent of the first rules is long forgotten. That intent is how to live a life pleasing to God.

The hard work is living in the Spirit. You’ll want to do the things God wants without worrying about rules if you live “With God.” You won’t live in fear of the rules and rule masters. Your attention is on God. Jesus tried to point out to all people to put their attention on God, listen to God and to do what God asks. It’s a personal thing. You can’t make rules to force others to do it. Life doesn’t work that way. It’s entirely personal–between you and God.

It’s all in your head

May 3, 2010

They had been asked by the teacher to join his class. They spent the next year or so watching what the teacher did and listening to his teaching. The lessons were difficult. Following his example of how to live and how to treat people seemed something beyond possibility. Then one day the teacher sent them out in pairs to practice. You see, faith like knowledge can’t be all in your head. You have to practice it. Like a saying I once heard, practice doesn’t make perfect, perfect practice makes perfect.

Mark reports a time when Jesus sent his inner circle out to live out what they had been taught. His instructions were simple–travel light; don’t shop around for the best house-if someone takes you in, stay there until you leave the town; teach; heal; if the people of a village don’t want to hear the message, then leave and show them you’re through with them. He sent them in pairs for mutual support and protection as they traveled. Mark doesn’t say how long they were gone. Or what Jesus did during that time. He just says that they preached repentance (turning from a sinful life to a life with God) and healed people. It was good training for what they would have to do when they became the teachers after Jesus left them.

That’s what teachers should do–and have done for thousands of years. First you instruct a little, then you make the students do, then you reflect on the practice and start the cycle again. At some point the student is able to become a teacher. And so it goes. Whom are you teaching today? Not just with a few instructions, but showing them the way to live?

Perseverence toward goals

April 11, 2009

-Gary Mintchell

When I heard that part of our trip to Israel and Egypt would be a stop at Mt. Sinai and the opportunity to climb to the summit to watch the sunrise, I immediately thought of a sermon I heard some time ago by a young woman pastor at the Menlo Park Presbyterian Church in California. She spoke of the climb, how tough it was, struggling up the last hundred or so steps to reach the top. Now this is a sermon, and speakers need a certain dramatic style to be effective (heck, I am giving a talk on intelligent sensors improving maintenance management in process manufacturing plants and I’ll be dramatic or they’ll all be asleep!). So I wasn’t sure how to balance fact from drama in her story. Now I know. It’s a tough climb–and it’s totally worth the effort.

I began thinking of the trip as an analogy to many life situations–think some new project around the church, for instance. You have the highest hopes of reaching the goal. The trip to the beginning of the climb is filled with excitement. The first part of the way is not too hard, but then you start an occasional vertical climb that begins to take some of your energy. Early on, you can’t even see the goal clearly in the early morning darkness.

Part of the way up help is offered. At this point, you need to do an honest evaluation of your strengths versus the effort toward the goal. Sometimes you need the help. This is not an admission of either weakness or failure. You just need help to reach the goal. In the case of Sinai, there are camels waiting to take you part of the way up. Some take them because they know that at the end of the sloping climb lies 750 irregularly shaped steps–and that will be tough. So some of us walked (probably because we’re obsessive, or just think we’re in shape), and some rode.

Yep, those 750 (or so, I didn’t count them) steps are tough. You now can see the goal a little more clearly, but you also see the hard work ahead to finish. So, you climb, then you stop and take a little break. Then you climb some more. Dawn starts to break to add a little urgency to the climb. You’ve come this far and don’t want to fall short.

Then you reach the goal. You sit and devour the sack breakfast that was prepared for you. Then you can look around and savor the view. The sun rises over the distant mountains and the feeling is just awesome. You’ve reached the goal and savored the experience, but then you have to start down.

While the initial accomplishment and experience of the sunrise with many other pilgrims is fantastic beyond words, the real experience comes when you relive that moment over and over when you’re back home in the flatlands. Reaching the goal and reliving the experience wipes away almost all thoughts of the pain of getting there.

Canine Educators

August 27, 2008

Have you ever had to spend time at a nursing home?  You can truly see a cross section of how humans react to life.  My mom is convalescing from knee replacement surgery and I have made daily trips to take her the paper and mail and just to visit.  I take my dog, Gabe, with me. 

Did you know that the dog breeds we have today were bred originally from the wolf to be exactly what man wanted them to be? I wonder if this was God’s intention when he said to Adam to rule over every living creature.  Were we to manipulate them to make them fit our needs?  Is this part of the “image of God” capability?  It doesn’t seem right at one level, because in spite of the fact that God has the power and could manipulate us, we were given free will.    Maybe the wolf turned dog also had free-will and chose to follow the path of least resistance for the greatest reward. It is a puzzle, but the end result is a great companion bound with unconditional love.  Perhaps that is something we should learn from dogs.

Back to the nursing home and my dog’s visits though: it is miraculous how he just wags his tail and rubs his nose on the lifeless hand hanging from a wheelchair to suddenly bring a smile.  Of course, not everyone is enamored by my dog, but many do respond and very positively.  They tell stories about their own pets and look more alive and excited for awhile.  In my mind it is the value of unconditional love; like a miracle medicine that can bring the dead to life. 

At some point in the breeding lineage, the dog responded by looking up to a master to help guide and make the bigger choices in life.  That is where the wolf and dog differ.  The wolf depends on the pack, while the dog looks to a master or higher power.  Huh, that is something we could learn from dogs.

– Darcy

Pathways

July 24, 2008

The city built a beautiful bike path along the old canal feeder.  With paved pathways, mileage markers, historical information signs, picnic tables at lookout spots and split rail fencing along the steeper sides, it is a wonderful place to stroll or pedal through the woods. Today was my first venture onto the path although it has been open almost all summer.

You see the problem is this big hill which falls away from the paved path off my street.  It is rather steep, usually muddy and not yet paved.  They will be finishing it with the 2009-10 budgets. Actually, that is a really poor excuse, but doesn’t it seem so typical.  I want to go get some exercise and enjoy nature, but I might get my feet dirty or exert myself a bit climbing back home.

I think this is like our spiritual journey. Any old inconvenience or excuse and we lose interest and turn away.  In most causes for me, it starts with doubting. Yet, how much we miss!

The only limits to our realization of tomorrow will be our doubts of today.  Let us move forward with a strong and active faith. — Franklin D. Roosevelt

Posted by Darcy

 

Finding time

June 23, 2008

I was at a conference last week and at the same time it was “production week” for the magazine I edit. Remember the 500 word essays from high school or college you hated? I do about four of those every month for the magazine during the week we are finishing everything and sending the pages to the printer. Last week tht meant getting up at 5:00 am, checking email, handling essential correspondance, writing, showering and grabbing the 6:30 bus to the main conference site. Meet people for breakfast, attend conference sessions, press conferences and private interviews. Then off to dinner and back to my room by 10:30 pm. Time for a last email check and off to bed. No time for running. No time for Jesus?

Many of my weeks are that hectic. I prefer a contemplative life–and contemplation has changed my personality. But how do you fit Jesus in that life? First, I’m keeping three blogs going and starting a fourth. I just can’t keep them up. Not enough time for study. But I find that I can wake up a half-hour “early” and lie in what they call “corpse pose” in Yoga (flat on your back, arms resting comfortably by your side), and focus on Jesus. I can grab 20-40 minutes of quiet time–time to pray for others, focus on God and listen. Then I’m in a proper personal focus for the day. Weeks like that make me appreciate even more the weeks where I can study and reflect.

So, how do you fit Jesus in your hectic life?

That nothing … is me!

May 27, 2008

I buy books according to what catches my interest.  I may hear someone talking about it, or see something written about it, but most times, I am attracted for some reason to pick-up the book at a store and impulsively buy it.  Ten or more years ago, I probably bought Breakfast at the Victory by James P. Carse in that manner, but never read it.  I found the book this morning in a basket of books that once sat by the loveseat, but was moved out for the new carpet to be installed.  I started to read it and the first quote hit me perfectly.  In my mind, this is one of God’s many blessings.  Like when you put on a jacket and find money in the pocket – an unexpected bonus put away from a previous forgetfulness.

Gary is right in saying not to wait for permission.  That requires faith in God though; assurance in the fact that we are hearing and following in the way He would have us go. My problem is I have trouble with the follow-thru.  I am an ideator, if you have ever taken the Strength Finders. My mind popcorns ideas constantly, but I tend to lose interest in the process unless there is a challenge involved.  In this instance also, since kids are not my world, I doubt my ability to connect.

Now, let me tell you my God story in all this.  My mind went into what the Gestalt world would call projection. A projector, unaware that she is rejecting others, believes they are rejecting her.’ (paraphrased from Gestalt in Pastoral Care and Counseling – A Holistic Approach by Jeffrey D. Hamilton, D-Min.)  I convinced myself this was a bad idea and no one else in the world was the least bit interested.  Also, in this process though, I started to read Momentum for Life by Michael Slaughter and attended, as a singer with the school choir, commencement for UTS where he spoke.  He used that book as the basis of his message.  He told about visioning.  He said he had stood in the original Ginghamsburg church asking God for the vision of what he could work towards there.  He saw a future church where three-thousand people would attend while standing behind that tiny country church with no parking lot and just a half circle drive.

I asked God for a vision on my future and sat in quiet for a couple mornings.  I read Psalm 86 repeatedly, mainly because I have to write a sermon on it for July, I read my devotionals and I wrote in my journal.  I talked with my husband and to a few friends, not directly on my “crisis”, just skirting the subject.  Then this morning, I picked-up this book and in the first quote, it was like the proverbial light bulb coming on.  I didn’t see a vision, but I remembered a truth.  I am God’s child and it is mine to be a co-creator with Him. (That is in the Slaughter book as well.) I cannot explain how this verse and my mind work, but I am in awe and so very sure.  Of and by the way, I have heard from all the church leaders I contacted and I’ll meet with three of the four of them tomorrow.  As a Christian counselor once assured me, “Always look for more than one affirmation from God.”  There are always more than we will see.  

posted by Darcy

Listening

May 27, 2008

I travel a lot and took last week to try to catch up on work, soccer referee assigning and my other blogs. I’m trying to keep three blogs going and plan to start a fourth (covering high technology products). Take note of Darcy’s post on helping young adults. I try to help young people develop life skills and maturity through the medium of becoming a soccer referee. This weekend I was privileged to see no less than four young men of about 20 years old step up and perform a difficult task with maturity (refereeing soccer at a large tournament and dealing with coaches and parents requires a lot of strength). To Darcy–don’t wait on the blessing of “church leaders” unless you’re spending money. In that case, raise your own (hint, I have some money for good causes). I saw a General Colin Powell presentation where he advised, “It’s better to ask for forgiveness than to ask for permission.”

This week, I’m influenced by a high-tech writer and blogger (co-author of The Cluetrain Manifesto, for those of you in marketing), Doc Searles. He found this quote on listening. I have found that far too many people just don’t listen to others. They’re too wrapped up in themselves, I guess. Ponder these ideas and see if you can make them part of your life:

What deaf people can teach you about listening. The short version:

  1. Look people in the eye.
  2. Don’t interrupt.
  3. Say what you mean, as simply as possible.
  4. When you don’t understand something, ask.
  5. Stay focused.

I’d call all that common sense, if it were more commonly applied. Including by me.

Gary

Opening Doors

April 24, 2008

I listen to podcasts when I work out or drive distances. One that I like to listen to is from John Ortberg of the Menlo Park Presbyterian Church (Bay area in California). I heard him a few times when I visited Willow Creek Community Church in suburban Chicago and really like his scholarship and speaking style. He has had a persistent sub-theme running through his talks for a while called “Open Doors.” He suggests that you include that in your daily prayers that God will open doors for you. I’ve had it happen several times where experience plus openness to fresh ventures has happened to me. Especially in my “other” career where I had an opportunity to become a magazine editor then the door opened to the opportunity to become founding editor in chief of a new magazine. Great career move. Same thing happens every once in a while in the spiritual life. God has opened doors occasionally for ministry opportunities. Maybe this blog is another. I wonder what next opportunity awaits? Maybe I’ll just look for another open door 😉

What about you? What doors of opportunity are in front of you that you need God to open so you can walk through into new experiences and ministries? You won’t see them if you aren’t aware of their existence.

Posted by Gary