Archive for the ‘Living’ Category

Making a person whole

March 29, 2010

She is depressed, withdrawn, always sad. She does not interact with friends, neighbors or anyone at church anymore. In fact, she has disappeared from her usual society. Who knows why. Could have been a death in the family, a seemingly insignificant slight, a bitter disappointment, spouse throwing her aside for another. She needs help, but she has no idea she needs help–or that it is even available to someone like her.

Then someone enters her life, their paths cross perhaps quite unexpectedly for a moment in time. She takes the time to draw out her story and listen carefully. With understanding and perhaps some guidance, perhaps suggesting a medical examination to probe for internal chemical imbalances, this new person helps get her on the path of becoming a whole person again.

Sometimes an entire society seems to be fractured. The people as a group have lost their way. Are not a whole people as they once were.

It was into a society that was fractured and apart from God, with many people hurting and in deep need of being made whole again, that Jesus came. We have a hundred years of psychology where researchers put names on every little and big ailment and compile them in the huge bible of the trade – the DSM. In Jesus day, they would call it an “unclean spirit.” We sometimes use similar phrasing in everyday life. We’ll say someone is depressed (not in a clinical way) or troubled or even crazy. But these troubled souls possess a spirit within that is “unclean” that is not whole with God.

The first three chapters of Mark describe many instances where Jesus healed people such as these. He also restored physical wholeness to people with severe skin disease (leprosy) or a birth defect (withered hand) and to many more that Mark doesn’t describe in detail. Mark says that Jesus taught. What he describes in detail is that Jesus made people whole.

And then he assembles a smaller group–the twelve–so that he can teach them to do the same thing. After he left the earth, that is after the resurrection, the remains of this group did just that. And in turn taught a new generation. We are many generations removed from those days, but we, too, can be disciples of Jesus and bring wholeness to people we meet. You can do this by giving attention to someone else, listening to their story and offering guidance. You can also pray over someone with a physical ailment and bring wholeness of various kinds.

In my life, I’ve been with a small group of people who lay hands on an ill person and I could feel the healing flow. People who had cancer and then were checked and it had disappeared. I have no idea why them and not others. Or why maybe the cancer returns later sometimes. I guess we’re a little less than Jesus who was pretty much 100%. That doesn’t mean we shouldn’t try, though. Where in your world today can you bring wholeness to someone who is broken?

Answering the Call

March 26, 2010

You have a job. That is, a job where you earn an income. The income is traded for goods and services to keep your family fed, clothed, entertained. Maybe even a vacation now and then. You probably think about things other than work when you go home–or maybe even at times while you’re working. Sometimes you discuss the meaning of life with others at work. Sometimes you discuss sports or politics.

One day a guy comes by. You’ve know him, or something about him, for years. A strange guy with different gifts. Doesn’t have a full-time job. Doesn’t have a family to support even though he’s 30 years old. And he challenges you to leave your job and go along with him where he’ll teach you about life. So, what are you going to do? You go.

I’m studying Mark right now. Following Jesus’ trail. He has undoubtedly been studying for many years. You don’t become a teacher overnight. So one day he gets baptized and has a direct God experience. Then he goes to the wilderness to overcome the temptations that face him. Then he returns home and sets to work. In those days, teachers had followers. Actually, there is still some of that today–especially among PhD candidates in the sciences. Its not unheard of. So Jesus didn’t wait for followers to come. He needed an inner circle of people whom he could teach–not only intellectually, but also with how they lived their lives.

First he saw Simon and Andrew who were probably small businessmen. Owned a business, hired people, had a product for sale. Then he saw John and James. Same kind of thing. Except they were apparently well connected in Jerusalem. And Mark makes it sound so simple. Jesus walked up, said come with me, and they did. And over the course of the next three years these were his inner circle.

Have you been called? How did you answer? And when? Did you immediately feel the call, leave everything and go? Is it something you can do alongside your work? Will it become your work? Did you resist for a long time (many of us do that)?

If you haven’t been called, it’s probably because you haven’t been listening. Or you didn’t like what you heard. Because the call, when it comes, will force you to choose–how to live your life, how to relate to others, how to give up things you want in the service of what others need.

Get started, get to work

March 25, 2010

After the temptation and after John was arrested, Jesus came to Galilee proclaiming the good news of God, and saying, “The time is fulfilled, and the kingdom of God has come near; repent, and believe in the good news.”

You’ve had your “high” moment when you feel totally “at one” with God. There is just no higher feeling you could possibly have–and you know it. But then come the temptations when evil tries to divert you back to your former life. Emotionally draining, sometimes you begin to wonder about the reality of that experience with God. But you work through it with the help of God’s word and friends. Now what?

Well, you do what Jesus did–you get to work. What is your message? What talent or talents do you have to get on with living with God every day? Do you have the ability to heal other people’s emotional wounds? Can you uplift others with song or music? Can you teach? Can you speak? Can you make friends with someone who needs God in their life?

There are many ways to go to work. Remember the message–turn your life around by recognizing where you have gone wrong and deciding to walk with God (repent) and believe the Good News that Jesus has overcome evil and death and will share his victory with us. Then go to work helping others realize this and learn their walk with God.

Baptism and Temptation

March 22, 2010

Have you ever experienced a spiritual high? Perhaps around the campfire at a summer camp? Or perhaps during an Emmaus Walk? Perhaps after an intense period of prayer. Contemplatives might meditate for years before experiencing an intense revelation of God. If you’ve ever had this experience, you think it will never end. You’ll live your life on the mountaintop of emotional and spiritual ecstasy. You have seen the revelation of God and now you know everything.

Then things change. You are besieged by demons that you never knew existed before. That spiritual high has been replace by doubts, you are tempted to do things you’d have never  before thought of doing. Trust me. It happens. If you are in that latter period of life, don’t despair. You are not unique, and if you remember your source of love and understanding, then you’ll recover and grow.

Mark briefly describes Jesus’ baptism by John then says immediately Jesus went into the wilderness to be tempted. He doesn’t go into any detail of the experiences that Jesus had. Only says that he was tempted by Satan and the angels waited on him. We get a glimpse of some of the details of the temptations from other gospels–and of how Jesus was able to quote from spiritual texts to answer the temptations.

We learn from this that we should expect temptations, doubts, spiritual and emotional turmoil after agreeing to living a life with God. We learn that by consciously recognizing the temptation for what it is and answering by studying what the Bible and saints who have overcome this tell us about how to go beyond the problems to a renewed life with God. “Get behind me, Satan,” as the comedian Flip Wilson used to say in one of his characters.

Jesus is the pioneer and example of our faith. If he had temptations, you can be we will. But we know that they are but a momentary obstacle on our road to life. Let the angels minister to you (and other people). Continue your life with God.

Is this Age of Cynicism Hardening Our Hearts

March 15, 2010

Jesus discussed whether we are prepared for the seed of God’s Word in our lives through the parable of the sower. He said that there were four types of ground upon which the seed fell. Only one was receptive and grew and produced more seed in turn.

One type of soil was hardened from people walking on it–it was a path. The seed could not even take root and died almost immediately.

Take a look at today’s American culture. We have a growing political movement apparently springing from the distrust of many toward those who may even be trying to help them. We have people who suspect every motive of people who don’t agree with them. Others are convinced that one group or another is out to get them.

These people are not fertile soil awaiting planting of God’s seed. They are not prepared to multiply God’s love by letting the seed of God’s Word sink in and through their lives. I grieve for this lost opportunity for them to be receptive. To let the Spirit in. To live a life free from suspisions, where their lives are determined by others, where they are not free to live in God.

We can actually choose which ground we want to be. The first step is to recognize which we are, then to cultivate, work the soil, pull the weeds and become the fertile ground for God.

Living waters

February 25, 2010

While reading in Revelation, I came across the image of Jesus giving water from the spring of the water of life in the New Jerusalem. This image echos the Gospel of John, where Jesus offers living water. In Jeremiah, God refers to himself as living water. Zechariah talks about the eventual coming of God to earth where living waters will flow from Jerusalem to the west and to the east.

Now obviously the various writers were not referring to H2O water. These are all a metaphor of God’s Spirit which feeds us, enters our body and gives us true life. But…what image do you see when you read these passages? Every time I read them, I cannot help but see myself drinking deeply–almost ceaselessly. It’s like the Spirit continues to flow into my soul giving nourishment and life.

What is this life? Well, it starts with the “With God” life as Richard Foster would say. I will act and behave toward others and myself in such a way that reflects my living with God. I’m sure there is an eschatological meaning about life after death. But what matters to me now is how I act. When people see me do they see someone full of the living water? When I act, am I bringing that living water to others?

Go back and see what you picture when Jesus is offering you a drink from the jar at the well or from the spring in the new Jerusalem. Fix that picture in your mind as you meditate. Then take it with you. Be filled with Spirit.

Phoning it in

February 18, 2010

Do you find yourself going through the motions–as they say–at your job or ministry? We have a phrase “phoning it in” meaning that we aren’t really involved with what we’re doing and are remote from our work. Marketing guru Seth Godin ran into a friend who is in the ministry who said that often she’s just going through the motions. He asks, are you doing that yourself in all your jobs? Shouldn’t you be doing something that you are passionate about so that you are spiritually moved by the effort?

I think we all can get sucked into ministries that we are doing just because we couldn’t say no. Then we just phone it in. I love to see those who are doing a spiritually active job. Think of the many ministries going on around Sidney First–outreach to orphans and to sexual victims in Mexico, the school in Haiti, orphans in China, flood victims in New Orleans, disadvantaged in Sidney through the Alpha Center and other ministries.

Don’t phone it in. If you are–quit. Then do something that excites the fire within.

Giving your attention

February 16, 2010

I travel widely on business and wind up having dinners with a variety of people from diverse backgrounds. I find that discussions can often turn to either spiritual topics or difficulties that the other person is enduring. Sometimes in the midst of business or engineering talk, another issue comes up. I need to be ready to deal with the new reality. Dallas Willard said that the first act of love is the giving of attention. I’ve noticed that before the giving of attention, you must learn to shift your focus to the other person so that you can then concentrate your attention on them. How often do you talk with someone and you notice that their attention is somewhere else and only superficially on you?

Jesus had this knack. He could be busy going somewhere, attending to something else, preaching, and then he would be interrupted. He could quickly shift the focus of his attention on the person, take in their need or question, and then deal with it in an appropriate manner. When they talk about being Christ-like, this is surely one of the elements.

Empowering others as leadership blessing

February 6, 2010

Here is an intriguing post about becoming a “leadership benediction.” I have been writing on how many people feel so powerless–even in a rich nation when they are (compared to most of the world) rich themselves. I’ve even read a book where the research was around how, for so many people, the more they have the worse they feel.

This post on leadership shows the power of a leader to bless someone else. To serve others, recognizing what others are going and taking some of the burden. Here’s a selection. My wish is that you absorb some of this wisdom into your daily life.

I encourage you to begin thinking about your leadership in terms of benediction. How can the influence and authority you are entrusted with be stewarded as a blessing to others? Jesus spoke of this leadership perspective when he said, “the greatest among you must be the servant.”

In their book, Resonant Leadership Annie McKee and Richard E. Boyatzis describe “the sacrifice syndrome.” To be an effective leader a person must make a tangible contribution to the enterprise they lead. This investment comes with a cost of energy, time, and resources. The depleting of resources must be invigorated by intentional renewal or resonant leadership that inspires others will degenerate into dissonant leadership that irritates folks. Boyatzis and McKee go on to describe studies that show renewal happens through “mindfulness, hope, and compassion.”

Getting power to the powerless

February 4, 2010

If the feeling of powerlessness pervades so many people in a country that the rest of the world looks to as powerful, how can people tap into the power of God? Preachers try to infuse the power of God through stirring, emotional sermons. This is not unlike the motivational speakers who tour the country speaking for up to high five figures for a talk. All of us who listen to any of these speakers–religious or secular–know that 99% of the time the feeling wears off before we get home. We all have heard of the unfortunate situations where charismatic leaders actually try to keep followers feeling powerless in order to enhance their own needs for power.

I have long thought that the problem with Christian churches is that we talk about things, but we don’t train on how to do things. Take prayer. There are many ways to pray. If you read the Bible closely (maybe even not that closely), you see where people went off by themselves to pray. Is there an instruction about what they did when they went off? No. Dallas Willard, when writing about Paul and his use of athletic training terms for following a spiritual life, feels that people who heard Paul speak knew what he was talking about. Two thousand years later, maybe we’re not so sure.

About ten years ago someone recommended Richard Foster and his Renovare Institute. Then I finally read Dallas Willard after hearing so much about him for years. Here are people who actually teach the way. They don’t speak about prayer and other disciplines, they teach them. The key is to know the spiritual disciplines and begin incorporating them in your life. Some of the disciplines include study, prayer, meditation, contemplation, fasting, worship, celebration.

It’s your focus and attention that matter. If you start the day with a time of focus and attention on God through study (read from the Bible or from spiritual writers) and prayer, then you will start to tap into the power that is there for you. Sorry, just like losing weight or quitting smoking, it involves work. God is there for you, but you must be there for God.

So, how do we change the world? By teaching one person at a time where to put their focus and attention and help them pursue the disciplines.