Archive for the ‘Living’ Category

Do Miracles In Your Home Town

April 21, 2010

Have you moved from your home town or neighborhood? Ever go back? People remember you as you were, not what you’ve become. I’m from a very small town. Not that many people remember me, now, but when I had been gone only 10 or 20 years, people would remember taking up collections to buy razor blades for me (only guy in town with a beard in 1968, I guess) or some of my other youthful transgressions.

Maybe even if you still live in the same place and you want to improve yourself–maybe as a writer or speaker–and people say “She’s only someone we know.” We do tend to place people in categories and refuse to let them grow and excel. Somehow only people from far away know what they are doing.

Jesus discovered this truth about life. He had been touring the small cities in Galilee teaching and healing and followed by large crowds. Then he made it to the town where he grew up. “People” said, “He’s just the son of a carpenter, what makes him so great?” They could not see what he had become. They could only see what he had been–a little boy learning from his father. And Mark says that he could do no great miracles, only healing a few people.

Malcolm Gladwell in his book, “The Tipping Point,” discusses the spread of ideas (taken from a study of the spread of epidemics). One of his three points is “The Power of Context.” The environment around you has great impact on you and the work you can do. It affected Jesus. It affects you, too. Surround yourself with negative people, and you will find it hard to succeed.

That is one of the potentials of church that often falls short. If your church, which is your support group, is negative, does not encourage everyone to use their talents to the fullest, then every individual who wants to make a difference is affected by the disease of despair or disillusionment. However, a faith group intent on encouraging each other to exercise the fullest of their talents can generate awesome results.

The concept of an “unconference” is one where you go to a conference that is not highly organized, but that participants determine what they want to discuss (within the bounds of the conference organizer) and then go to the small groups where the indepth discussion takes place. There is the “Law of Two Feet.” If you are in a discussion where you are neither participating or learning, walk to another group.

If you are in a community that discourages your initiative, use the Law of Two Feet. Find one that is supportive.

Bring into the faith community

April 20, 2010

Is there something you can do or a disease you can have that separates you from the faith community? Something where the people of God tell you that you can’t come in the doors until you make things right? Today in America, most churches say that they welcome everyone. Do they? Do you?

Moses promulgated a number of laws when the Hebrews started a new life as community in Sinai. Most likely they were designed to keep disease from spreading and wiping out the people. Can’t say they were all good science, but they all made sense at the time. But the notion of “unclean” foods, diseases, acts took on a life in future generations as being ritually unclean. You cannot worship God and be part of the faith community until you become ritually clean.

We seldom use those terms, but I’m sure that we have our own personal lists of unclean where we’ll think that those people should not be part of our community of faith–adultery, mental / emotional disorders, drunkenness, and so on.

As you ponder whether you set up barriers to entry into your faith community, consider Jesus (as Mark writes). He enters an unclean territory, meets an unclean person who is driven by unclean spirits (we’d call that mental/emotional disorders), living in an unclean place (cemetery), among unclean animals (pigs). Whew. But Jesus deals with the man and the situation. He restores him to the community. And people were amazed and frightened. They wanted him to leave before he upset any more things in the order of their lives.

We believe that Jesus is alive in our faith community (at least I hope that you do). If so, then where else can people come to find wholeness than to meet Jesus in your community. And how else unless it’s open and welcoming? And sometimes those of us who think we’re “clean” or those whom the world thinks is “clean” even though inside perhaps we’re not, need the faith community to help restore us to wholeness in God. You can’t be a healer if you don’t reach out.

Calm the chaos

April 15, 2010

Sometimes events, emotions, people, responsibilities just seem to flood around us. We even call it chaotic. We think we’re in control. We think we are free people. But in reality we’re pounded down and often at the mercy of emotions of fear, anxiety, anger. We strike out verbally or sometimes even physically at other people. Alienating our friends. Or at best just appearing to be a fool. But we refuse to believe that we’re not in charge of our life.

As we follow the story of Jesus through Mark’s writing, we read a story that addresses this problem. Jesus started preaching from a boat in the lake. Some of Jesus’ friends were professional fishermen. They knew how to handle boats, or at least we presume so. But he sent them ahead and a storm blew in. Scared them to their very core. Storms in a story often represent these storms in our lives, the chaos that envelops us and prevents us from living a Spirit-filled life. These friends weren’t thinking about Spirit-filled life. They were thinking basic physical survival from the chaos around them.

Jesus comes to them, and they slowly begin to realize even more power about the Spirit-filled life. Jesus brings calm to the chaos. He still does. When you think everything is out of control and you are at the mercy of many destructive emotions and other forces, changing the focus of your attention to God brings calm in the midst of chaos. A few slow, deep breaths. Remembrance of God. Slowly focusing on God. And you can feel calm and perspective flowing back into your life. And that’s peace–one of the fruits of the Spirit. This is the secret of those who can be calm and think clearly in the midst of emergencies and challenges. It can be your secret, too.

Who is family

April 13, 2010

The teacher was doing some audacious things. He healed people from a variety of illnesses. Taught with an authority not heard in centuries. Challenged the ruling elite. Word was circulating that he was crazy, out of his mind. So his family, mother and siblings, rushed to find him and bring him home for rest and healing.

So the teacher used this as yet another teaching example. When told his family was outside the building and had come to take him home for healing, Jesus told those gathered around, “Who is my family? Those who do the will of God are my family.”

A little later in the story as told by Mark, a woman of great faith who was unclean, that is, outside the family of faith, touched him thinking that by merely touching his clothing she would be made whole and restored to the family of God. Jesus said, “My daughter, your faith has made you whole.” In other words, he welcomed her back into the family of God.

Jesus’ choice of words was certainly meant to shake up the preconceived ideas of his listeners. Get them thinking in a new, God-filled way about life. Think of the spiritual life as a life as part of a family composed of all who are doing the will of God. We watch out for family. We “have their backs” as the phrase goes. We do things for the family. But unlike a biological family, this family can grow. By seeking people outside the family and doing good for them, we can bring them into the family. Indeed, God wishes us to go outside the family and bring others in. Hence the parables about great harvest and others about bearing fruit.

Things you can do to help others

April 9, 2010

Ever get frustrated when someone tells you to do something in general without offering concrete suggestions? So it may be strange for a Christian blog to point to one that is not Christian. But Leo Babauta offers such great practical advice for daily living, that I love checking out his Zen Habits blog. (I don’t think he practices Zen, but that seems to be an “in” word for many advice bloggers.) In this post, he offers 34 Little Ways to Share with the World. It seems to fit the path I’ve been on for a few days on being doers of the Word.

Here are some of his 34 ideas to get you started. Maybe you can think of others. If so, comment here to share.

  1. Help an entrepreneur with a Kiva donation.
  2. Volunteer your services with a homeless shelter, soup kitchen, or other charity organization.
  3. Donate money, food, or others goods to charity.
  4. Bake cookies or brownies and share with a neighbor.
  5. Volunteer your expertise (whatever it is) to the world, and give those services to anyone who needs them.
  6. Give step-by-step instructions for doing something valuable you know how to do, online, for all to read.
  7. Give your books away to friends or charities.
  8. Start a community garden in your neighborhood, or contribute to an existing one.
  9. Give people a ride in your car. Carpool.
  10. Hold potlucks every week, rotating among friends/family.
  11. Perform random acts of kindness.
  12. When someone wants to repay you for something, ask them to pay it forward instead.
  13. Clean up a park near you.
  14. Share your tips with others online or through a free ebook.
  15. Smile. Be compassionate in all human transactions.
  16. Invest in a friend who wants to start her own business. Don’t ask for the money back for at least a few years.
  17. Make things, and give them to people.
  18. Read to the blind, help the elderly, assist those with disabilities.
  19. Start or contribute to a tool-lending library in your neighborhood.

What you give you shall get

April 7, 2010

One of my favorite contemplatives is St. John of the Cross. He not only wrote two great books on the contemplative life–“Dark Night of the Soul” and “Ascent to Mt. Carmel”–he also worked tirelessly to reform the Catholic monastic movement in the Middle Ages.

I thought of this while reflecting on Jesus’ early ministry. Mark uses an economy of words to report “just the facts.” He has Jesus on the move constantly either healing or teaching. As he teaches in Chapter 4, he says “the measure you give will be the measure you receive.” Jesus did not want a bunch of passive followers who just sat around feeling needy or wanting someone to make them feel good. Jesus wanted followers who were “not hearers of the Word, but doers, too.”

Linus in George Schultz’s “Charlie Brown” once said, “I love mankind, it’s people I can’t stand.” That’s the prototype attitude of a philosopher, professor or sometimes preacher and teacher. But Jesus turns that statement around. You need to love individual people. Love isn’t a feeling, it’s an action. You actively love individual people by acting–doing something for them with no expectation of return. The paradox is by not expecting a return, you actually get one. You get life with God. Forever.

In the same story about giving a measure, Jesus asks if a light should be hidden. And he says that in the light the hidden will be made open. In this way, when you do acts of love for others, you don’t need to boast about it like the Pharisees, but God’s light will make the acts known and God will know.

So, pay attention to what is happening around you. Then help out where you can.

Change the world by noticing someone else

April 6, 2010

Sometimes when you are deep in study of the details of a book, you need to mentally step back and remember the big picture. We just celebrated Easter. We celebrate the life, death, resurrection and ministry of Jesus. I put ministry at the end of that list for a reason. Jesus spent 40 days on Earth after the resurrection in constant ministry to his followers. He taught them how to really see and interpret the Scriptures and the meaning of his life.

Jesus ministry can be summed as the Shema “Hear, O Israel: The Lord is our God, the Lord alone. You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, and with all your soul, and with all your might;” and what he added later as the sum of the rest of the commandments to “Love your neighbor as yourself.” He defined the latter commandment with the story of the good Samaritan.

Liz Straus writes a business blog called Successful and Outstanding Bloggers. She reflected on the celebration of Easter and the example of Jesus’ life, and asked, “How will you change the world by noticing someone else?” It’s a good question. As we live in the post-Easter time, we need to notice others in order to do good. Our first task is to love God. The second is to reveal that love through the things we do for others. And through that, you will be given life.

Listen up to learn

April 5, 2010

Have you ever tried to explain something to someone, maybe give some instruction on how to do something? Have you ever seen the look in their eyes of detachment? Or have you had the experience of talking with (not to, but with) someone whose eyes are fastened on you and you can tell that they are listening to what you have to say? Isn’t that a great experience when it happens?

Jesus begins the first parable (story) reported in Mark by saying , “Listen.” He knew that many people would hear sounds and occasional words, but that they would not hear and attempt to understand the message. In fact, he quotes his Hebrew Scriptures that says that very thing.

Listening isn’t an art. It’s not necessarily a gift. It’s something we can all learn. Some are just better at it. It takes practice. The first step is to step outside of yourself–your worries, concerns, how you’ll respond to the words, what you’ll say next. Then focus attention on the other. That is the key. Attention. Life is about where you place your attention. When you are in conversation with another, or in a learning experience with another, place your attention there. Completely. Then you can absorb what they are saying. Response comes later.

Many times, I’ve left a sales call with a salesperson from my company and marveled that the salesperson didn’t hear what the customer said. He was too busy talking. Many times I’ve heard husbands talk about how they wanted to solve their wife’s problems while she was talking to them. I simply say, she didn’t want a solution. She wanted you to listen to her. Listening with your complete attention. Same with God. If you don’t place your attention on God, how will you hear and understand your call?

Listen.

It’s not a philosophy

April 4, 2010

Happy Easter. As Paul said, if Jesus were not resurrected, then our belief is nothing but foolishness. The more I contemplate God’s Word and get the foolishness of the theologians and philosophers from whom I was taught in university out of my system, the more I understand. Jesus did not teach a philosophy. The prophets, the foundation of Jesus’ own spiritual formation, did not teach a philosophy, either.

The prophets taught and showed by example a life with God. Jesus taught that since the example of the prophets wasn’t enough to persuade people to abandon their old way of life and live a life with God, then he would offer a more stunning example. He showed the way–probably why the earliest Christ followers were called followers of the Way. It’s a way of life and the way to God.

Philosophers and theologians are quite certainly serious. And reading them can be entertaining (for some of us anyway). But those paths lead to pure rationality. Rationality is important in your life. But first comes the person. We follow Jesus, not because he was rational, but because he showed The Way. Trying to figure him out can be fun intellectual pleasure. But the task of life is to simply follow his example. We follow a man, not a philosophy.

How is your walk going? I know I’ve sinned this week (if the word gets in your way, think of it as doing things that are not what Jesus would do) and drifted from the Way. But the cool thing is that we can always find the path again thanks to Jesus. So today we cheer him, because his example finally broke the barrier to life with God.

Take Time Away For Prayer

April 3, 2010

At the beginning of his ministry, Jesus would rise early and “get lost” to spend time in prayer and meditation. After he had gathered some people around him and begun preaching and healing in earnest, he would still take time to get away alone. Evidently this was as strange a practice back then as it is now for many. His disciples looked for him during his first public teaching. Couldn’t find him. He was out praying.

Then at the end of his physical ministry, he still took time to go off alone and pray. This time, he took his inner circle to pray with him. He still went off alone, but left them just down the hill in the Garden. After three years of learning from him, these men still didn’t get it. Jesus prayed, they slept.

Not an early riser? You can become one. Go to bed a little earlier and then get up earlier. It’s a perfect time to read and meditate and pray. I’m writing this on an early Saturday (I get up about the same time every day–between 5:30 and 6–no matter what time zone I happen to be existing in at the moment) and spring is here. Spring bird calls greet the sun’s very early light still dimly brightening the Eastern horizon. Starting the day like Jesus is a good way to focus and then try to live like him. Easter is tomorrow, where we remember the resurrection. There’s no better time than then to contemplate on the thought “God is good.”