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Sickness of the soul

February 24, 2011

Do we talk much about the soul anymore? After 90 years of “scientific psychology” (psychology was once called the “science of the soul”), have we tried to limit our discussions to physically observable phenomena?

The soul — if I may attempt a very brief description — is that part of a person that lives within our physical being, drives our personality, unites with or rebels from God, and lives forever. The care and feeding of the soul is probably our single most important task in life.

As I continue to read through Julian of Norwich, this passage jumped out at me this morning

God showed two kinds of sickness of the soul that we have:

-the one is impatience or sloth

-the other is despair or doubtful fear

I’m not sure which would be more prevalent for us today. We certainly want instantaneous results. Evidently people 600 years ago did, too. But I have to believe in this electronic age that we are even more impatient. And if we can’t get results right away (without working for them I might add), then we don’t want to bother working for them.

A woman I knew once was hiring young people for entry-level marketing positions. She was amazed. These young people would say “OK, I’ll do this for a year or so, but I expect to become CEO of this large company after a couple of years.” They didn’t understand the work and sacrifice it takes to be CEO–or to just improve as human beings.

Then there is the sickness of whining. “I can’t do it. Mom liked you better. I was never good enough.” These people are diverted from seeking God (remember her “seek, wait, trust”?).

She said later that it was easier to know God than to know ourselves. Unfortunately, the first step to healing these sicknesses, if you have one, is to be able to look at yourself, recognize the sickness and then work to heal it. Here’s a tip. If something is getting in the way of your prayer, study or fellowship life, then it is time to find that obstacle and work on it.

Developing New Leaders in the Spirit

February 14, 2011

One of the most important tasks we have on earth is developing young people to become leaders. We need to provide them with the structure, tools, support that help them make life decisions solidly, in the Spirit.

Yesterday our congregation accepted a number of young people into membership. They have made a decision. We have guided them toward that decision. They have received instruction, been offered opportunities to grow and find their mission in life and supported. Are they ready?

Events come at them constantly. Decisions must be made. Many of these are small, but cumulative. Sometimes hell awaits just one little step at a time. Have we given them the foundation to make the right decisions?

There has developed a culture that I’ve seen in the United States, in some areas of Europe, and I fear it has reached into parts of Asia by now. This culture worships kids–by trying to make them stay kids (and the parents who, not wishing to grow up themselves, also want to be kids). Are we forsaking the future of these young people by not providing a disciplined lifestyle? The strength to face the world?

This is such an awesome responsibility that Jesus pointed out specifically–woe to those who cause one of these little ones to stumble.

It’s a role we should never leave. Even when our own children are grown and gone, there are always young people to teach.

Trust Jesus Completely

February 8, 2011

The third of Julian of Norwich’s “objects” of seeking God is trust. Remember first is seeking. Second is waiting. “The third is that we trust in him mightily in fully certain faith, for it is his will that we know that He shall appear without warning and full of blessing to all His Lovers — for His working is secret, but he wishes to be perceived, and His appearing shall be truly without warning, but He wishes to be trusted, because He is most simple and  gracious.”

While you are waiting for an appearance of Jesus, you must trust Him that He is there and that He will come. As he said once, he’ll come like a thief in the night. Without warning. A surprise.

Trust is tricky. A child will trust completely. One of the most devastating things I can imagine is to betray a child’s trust. I can imagine the look on its face. We have all trusted someone in our lives. Even the most cynical of you trusted someone before you became cynical. And we have all had someone betray our trust. Maybe even a close friend. Maybe a spouse. It’s tough.

Even if you feel that you can no longer trust anyone because of a betrayal so deep and painful that seemingly there is no cure, you need to try to trust Jesus. Why? It is part of being fully human. The inability to trust destroys you chance for personal freedom and communion with the Spirit.

Julian is just one more witness who can testify to the trustworthiness of Jesus. She had a powerful experience of God when she thought she was dying. She then lived 20 more years in a little room in serious contemplation of God and everything he had done for her. He was steadfast for her. He can be for you.

Pride will drive you crazy

January 11, 2011

I was teaching from Daniel last week. It’s always amazing how threads of thought come together. I’ve been pondering whether much of the trouble and strife we have in the country today is caused by pride and then I’m asked to teach from this particular book. My text was Chapter 4 where the king has a dream. He is troubled, but he doesn’t know why. No one can interpret the dream, until Daniel (who is about to be killed along with all other educated men) says, Wait. I can help.

Now, my daughter earned a master’s in psychology. Me, I am just a perpetual student–but not in schools. I’ve read most of Freud, all of Jung, all of the Bible (more than once), and a lot more. She says that a dream is just a bunch of random neurons firing over night probably dredging up random thoughts you’ve had during the day.

My studies (and personal experience to some degree) say that occasionally a dream is more than a dream. (Carl Jung, who studied these things and was much more wise than his followers, once said, sometimes a dream is just a dream. But then he studied a lot of dreams.)

When you are in a position of great authority, your thoughts are on things that are beyond everyday living. You are concerned with history, your importance, what people are plotting, and especially in the ancient world, God. Early leaders right up through the rulers of Rome and continuing into the Middle Ages’ kings and Popes would get the idea that they were, indeed, God himself.

So, the king is full of those thoughts–we would say full of himself, or maybe something soft, brown and squishy–and goes to sleep. He has a numinous dream–one from God. Paraphrasing Daniel’s analysis, “You’d better change your ways, or you’ll go crazy.”

He didn’t; and he did.

Later, when the king was restored to health, he praised God because he had experienced the mighty power of God.

Just so, do we all today–and all those loud-mouthed pundits on TV and radio, and so on–need to go through a season (or seven seasons like this king) of insanity before coming to our senses? Acknowledge your pride and turn your life away from it.

The best advice I’ve seen so far about this is to live only in the present moment without dwelling either on the past or the future but focused only on walking with God during this minute. If you are doing that, then there is no place for the ego to assert itself and get you into trouble.

Can we accept redemption?

January 10, 2011

Paul writes to the Ephesians, “In him we have redemption through his blood, the forgiveness of our trespasses, according to the riches of his grace that he lavished on us.”

I am curious about this action of God. Actually, I’m more curious about how we, as humans, accept the redemption of others. Most of us probably live day-by-day not even aware that we ourselves are redeemed or forgiven by God. How many times have you sinned already today? Probably not really big ones, though. Right?

But how about the times you done some bigger bad things? Could you accept God’s forgiveness? Or, can you accept that God forgives others? I know that for some people healing from the sin of someone else takes forgiveness of the other to begin to heal.

I thought about this during the weekend when Michael Vick was about to play in an NFL football game in the playoffs. He participated in some barbarian activities using animals–he supported dog fighting. I know that this is a male diversion in many parts of the world. But we try to be more civilized here. We count that as a sin and have made it illegal.

However, Vick acknowledged his sin and spent time in jail–perhaps having to forgo a career worth perhaps hundreds of millions of dollars. But he served his time and emerged promising to turn his life around. And, so far, so good.
Many people hold Vick’s past activities against him and evidently believe that one should never be forgiven for past sins. God doesn’t feel that way–and we should all be eternally grateful for that. We are still accountable for our actions. If we but acknowledge our short comings, God is steadfast in his support of us. The least we can do is to act the same way to a fellow member of the human family.

Then we have the tragedy in Arizona. We know little about the young man who went “crazy” and started firing his automatic pistol at a crowd. But what a shame that someone, sometime ago, perhaps an older man in his life, couldn’t have provided some support. According to stories, many people were afraid of him. But, so far as we know, no one stepped in.

Maybe we should be even more watching for troubled souls who need a human to intervene and show God’s redemption so that they don’t have to take terrible action.

But this I know–I am grateful for God’s redemption, and I’m grateful when people turn their lives around for the better. Wish I could share that better.

Praying to keep the Christmas Spirit

January 7, 2011

I’m sitting here this morning looking at my wife’s beautiful Christmas cactus. It’s full of blooms. It sits there all year waiting for mid-December to bloom. The blooms last a little while. Then it goes dormant again.

It’s kind of like us. How many years are we dormant most of the time, then bloom in December with the excitement of Christmas (carols, talk of peace, remembering Jesus, buying gifts for others), then the blooms die in January with the Christmas tree we pitch out on the street.

I’ve been reading 14th Century mystic Walter Hilton–“The Ladder of Perfection”–where he talks about how to cast the spiritual eye of your soul on Jesus. He writes some chapters about how hard that is for humans to do constantly. You slip, think about physical pleasures or pressures.

Hilton suggests praying the Psalms. But praying them in the soft voice of Jesus, not the “high-pitched voice” of men trying to impress. Put yourself in an attitude of communicating with God and then begin to pray the Psalms.

That sounds like a good idea. Many years ago I read a book by German pastor and theologian (and political activist) Dietrich Bonhoeffer where he called Psalms the “prayer book of the “Bible”. Let’s see if that gives a focus to our prayer life.

Make Yourself a Blank Slate

January 4, 2011

Jon Swanson posted a thought on Levite Chronicles that got me thinking. He was talking about giving a gift of blank paper and colored pencils and adding an note, “Sometimes the best gift is a blank slate.”

A new year is beginning. Think of yourself as a blank slate beginning the year. What will be written upon it? Will you control the pencil? Will you let Jesus fill your slate?

 

Focus On Jesus This Year

January 3, 2011

We did a lot of holiday driving. Visited one set of relatives in Tennessee for three days before Christmas, then drove to Florida on Christmas day. In the spirit of the season, I found a continuous supply of radio stations playing “Christmas” music.

Guess how many of these popular Christmas season songs mentioned Jesus. None. Well, one station played one traditional Christmas carol (song). So, I think in 16 hours of driving listening to Christmas songs, we heard Jesus mentioned once.

Do you confuse traditional Northeast US wintertime nostalgia with Christmas? (Think “I’m Dreaming of a White Christmas”, “The Christmas Song (chestnuts roasting)” and the like) How about all the Santa songs?

I’m sure that these bring back warm, nostalgic feelings from a distant childhood. But as far as keeping focus on Jesus–could be an entirely different season.

Now that Christmas is past and we’re beginning the new year, stick a note somewhere (on a calendar, your mobile phone, on a pop up window on your computer) with a memory jog to think of Jesus more often this year. It’ll help your overall outlook on life.

Patience When Stressed

December 16, 2010

This is the time of the year when we are all especially stressed. More so if you have young children in the house. It seems as if there are more meetings and events to attend than there are days to do them. You’re worried about buying the right gifts. Worried about paying for them. Kids are jumpy with anticipation. It’s year end and you’re stressed at work.

Believe it or not, evidently many parents resort to feeding their children various types of drugs to calm them or put them to sleep. Ranging from cough medicine to Ritalin. Check out this CNN news item. This is scary.

It is sometimes the hardest thing for a person to do to handle emotions when stressed then hit with just one more demand from a child, a boss, a co-worker, the pastor. Even Jesus snapped a couple of times when the stress and demands got overwhelming (think cursing the fig tree, for example).

So, if we can’t be perfect, we can try. And teach others. Learning to calm yourself when you pray by focusing on slow and regular breaths is an excellent training regimen for calming your outlook on life. Try looking at yourself from outside yourself when you are in situations. Is it a pretty sight? Then try training yourself to take a deep breath and exhale slowly before responding.

Sometimes you just need to regain your perspective on life. You only have small kids for a few years of your life. It’s over before you know it. In the overall scope of your life, you can handle the stress for a few years. It’s better for you. It’s better for those around you. It’s one of the fruits of the Spirit–patience. So easy to say. So hard to do. It takes training and perspective.

Advent or Christmas Season

December 1, 2010

Are you in the Advent season? Or are you in the Christmas season? Another way to look at this thought is–are you recreating the anticipation of Jesus’ birth that signals the advent of a new movement of God’s Spirit in the world, or are you caught up in nostalgia and gift-giving just to be giving gifts–or even in gift-getting, hoping to get lots of stuff.

It’s the time of year for pastors and teachers to talk about remembering Christ. But a Sunday sermon or lesson is not enough. Then we go out and immediately become inundated with advertising seeking emotional levers in our souls to get us to buy more stuff.

What began as a simple way to remember how visitors left gifts for Jesus has become an all-out effort fraught with worry and anxiety. Part of the trouble is–at least in American society–we all have lots of stuff. What we should be doing is throwing stuff out and simplifying and uncluttering our lives. Instead, we’re asking for more stuff. Heck, even I got more stuff. I’m the owner of a new Apple iPad–my early Christmas present. I’ll use it as a tool for work, but still, I could just use what I already have.

Medieval English mystic Walter Hilton said, “For no man can be spiritually healed unless he wants and desires to be spiritually healthy.” The attributes of focus and placing attention on the right things have become my themes lately (will be tomorrow’s subject when I meet with my new boss at the magazine). Hilton states a psychological truth. You have to want to be healed before you can be–at least regarding spiritual things, and as we now know, addictions as well.

Get yourself a little reminder to keep with you that you can touch and see to remind you that you desire to put your attention on the coming of Jesus in your life and push the gift-giving frenzy back to its proper place. Do something for someone or some group. Give service, honor Jesus. Simplify. You’ll have a more enjoyable December.