We are attending an small event to honor or remember someone. We begin to overthink details—what clothes should we wear, how the hair looks, jewelry (for those who indulge), and the like.
This could be what is called using university terms majoring in the minor.
We remember—it’s not all about me.
Just don’t wear or do something to detract from the event and the other.
The major is—it’s all about them. It’s not all about us.
Faith Venture 
Leave a comment