If it’s not right, don’t do it;
If it’s not true, don’t say it.
Marcus Aurelius, Roman Emperor and Stoic
Preacher and teacher Andy Stanley teaches this simple thought, “Pay attention to the tension.”
There is a moment, often fleeting, between the impulse to do something and the action.Sometimes in that moment there arises a tension within us. This may not be the right thing to do. How often we ignore that tension, do the deed, then regret it.
If it is not right, do not do it. How, by paying attention to the tension.
The Apostle James teaches how the tongue is the mightiest muscle in the body. Just like a small rudder steers a great ship, the small tongue guides us causing all manner of mischief. Sometimes just before we hit “post” on social media when we are passing along something we heard, Stanley’s tension pulls at the back of our mind. If we pause before we post, we can save ourselves grief.
If it is not true, do not say it. Or post it on social media.
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