Posts Tagged ‘Christianity’

It’s a relationship

April 15, 2008

I’ve been going through “The Congruent Life” by C. Michael Thompson. The point of the book is that your business life should be congruent (in line with) your spiritual life (or your “church” life). At the beginning of the book he ponders the spiritual life. As I’ve written before, he goes through some spiritual disciplines. But the point today is that the spiritual life is a relationship. Does your spiritual life start and stop with creeds? Thompson writes that creeds were developed to serve the spiritual life. They are words that describe the faith. It could be the Apostle’s Creed or any statement of faith. The question really is–is there life in your words?

So, how do you move beyond words to a relationship with an “invisible” being? That is where spiritual disciplines come into play. You have to prepare the ground for the seeds to be planted. Study of The Bible and other spiritual books opens your soul for a relationship. Meditation on the words deepens the the word. In this case, meditation doesn’t mean chanting a South Asian word such as “Om.” It means when you read something, you stop and think long about the wisdom you just read. You sit quietly and let the words sink in. Often you will get a “realization” about what those words mean to you at this stage in your spiritual journey. That is God talking to you. Sometimes the word that comes to you challenges you to change something in your life or to take new action. Such a thing happened to Abram when he listened to God and left his home for a foreign land. Such a thing will happen to you if you listen. I can’t believe the things I’ve done while growing from geek kid to semi-geek adult. It’s all in being open to hearing–not just repeating words and stopping there.

Gary

Grab the moment

April 11, 2008

Sometimes life works out and you do the right thing and it feels good. I travel a lot, so I miss lots of goodbyes at funerals of acquaintances. When we planned an Easter trip to visit the daughter in suburban Chicago (and attend Easter services at Willow Creek) we stopped by to see my wife’s aunt in the hospital. It was a joy to see her face light up and talk with us for a while. She was noticeably tired, though, and passed away Monday. Sometimes you have the opportunity to see someone–better follow up. She was very good to me, and especially to my daughter. She could see through things and didn’t put up with BS. But she always helped and was hospitable. The world lost a good person.

So, as I listened to people talk about her life and all the things she did, people she helped and organizations she led, makes me put my life in perspective. Am I doing what I should be doing? Am I enjoying life while I can? Do I know what’s important? I’m getting to be the oldest of the next generation. Makes you pause and consider. What about you?

Gary Mintchell

The Wave Theory of Spiritual Formation

April 7, 2008

Those of us in our faith community who attended the sessions with Dr. Robert Mulholland a week ago were blessed with his deep thinking. His study is in spiritual formation as a journey. He talked about the spiritual journey as a process of growing into the image of Christ for the sake of others. Therefore, his explication of Jesus’ response to the question about what is the greatest commandment is “love the Lord your God” and another way to say that (according to the translation of Mulholland) is “love your neighbor.”

I appreciated his comment which added context to my own recent experiences. I was with the group that toured Israel last summer. I think while most people were experiencing (or hoping to experience) a personal encounter with God, I was told to devote more of my prayer and time to others.

This was all on my mind as I watched the North Carolina/Kansas basketball game Saturday evening. NC was down 28 points midway through the first half and Billy Packer said it was all over. But NC reversed the momentum and almost caught up before Kansas regained momentum and pulled away. There’s a point to this seeming digression. I’ve found after 30 years of a contemplative life that our lives are like that experience. Sometimes we have a wave of great commitment, joy, peace and other fruits of the spirit. Then for no apparent reason, the momentum changes and we feel lost, alone, apart from God. Then the wave returns. As we learn balance and perspective in our lives, we remember that neither the highs or lows last. Just remaining fixed on a relationship with Jesus is the constant. Kind of like other relationships. Sometimes we don’t have the “feeling” but we work through them and do things for the other person. Same with Jesus. Sometimes we don’t have the “feeling” but we continue to do the work he’s given us and then the next wave comes.

Maunday Thursday

March 23, 2008

The music was fantastic at the Maundy Thursday service.  Cheryl and Jane played an arrangement of ‘What Wondrous Love Is This’ (on organ and piano respectively) which truly just took me away.  I looked up from my seat in the choir to the beautiful stained glass window pouring the evening sun over the balcony and closed my eyes to better delve into the music.  The negative imprint of the stained glass frame in glowing white was displayed through my closed eyelids.  A shape of the human brain (a line drawing as in the encyclopedia) was transposed over it in my mind.  ‘The sun in my mind’ I thought.

On the way home I told my husband the beautiful vision.  He said “You have active imagination.  Don’t forget we have to take the garbage out when we get home.”

The next morning my devotional was on Philippians 2:5 with reference to 1 Corinthians 2: 16 that Jesus’ mind was their inheritance – ‘the Son in my mind?’

As God took Christ home, the Spirit was left to continue His work.  In the early church, miracles were performed by calling upon the Holy Spirit and seeking healing.  The blind could see, the deaf could hear and the possessed were set free.  The Holy Spirit remained, but our human egos put conditions and restrictions in place.  Those who were afraid gave way to those who were not and the church leaders became rulers and owners of the ‘keys’ to church.  We humans bought into the programs and gave away our faith and trust to be comfortable.

She is still here, waiting to be invited into every heart.  The Spirit of the Trinity, of God has trouble making contact through the noise, the hardened intellects, the all too sure reality seekers, and the fearful multitudes which seem to dominate our modern world.

Am I crazy, probably, at least a little, but I believe we are missing out on so much because we fail to just ask. And once we have asked to truly pay attention. She does not lead, She nudges.  She does not command, but whispers.  “The wind blows … ”

I am Darcy Dill, a student at UTS working on a Masters of Divinity with emphasis on Church Renewal.  My views are not to reflect in anyway on the Seminary or on Sidney First UMC, just ramblings from my mind.

Relationship

March 21, 2008

It’s Good Friday, a day meant for reflection if there ever was one. I’m still digesting all the wisdom in The Congruent Life by C. Michael Thompson, and this sentence hit me like the proverbial brick. “The spiritual life is more concerned with relationship than creed.”

We have a creed about Good Friday, (“suffered under Pontius Pilate, was crucified, dead and buried”). The church my wife was a member of growing up in suburban Detroit taught that you shouldn’t “say” the Lord’s Prayer. They also didn’t recite the Apostles’ Creed. They taught that prayers “should come from the heart.” But they also had creeds–“I believe in the Bible” for example. The reason I bring this up is not to make fun of Baptists, but to point out how hard it is to enter the spiritual life as a relationship with God, and a relationship with Jesus who shows us the way to God, without slipping into the complacency of repeating creeds–often called “empty” words.

When you pray this weekend, make an effort to put your mind and attitude into one of seeking a relationship with the Holy Spirit. Make It part of you, you part of It.  Don’t think of today as a set of words from the Apostles’ Creed, but seek a relationship with Jesus, who died for us. But come Sunday we also remember that he became alive again, also for us. That’s another relationship. Same person, different experiences. Jesus will go with us from the depths of our depressions to the heights of our spiritual lives. That’s a relationship worth nurturing.

Gary Mintchell

Stirring within

March 20, 2008

So back to The Congruent Life after a brief hiatus. Thompson’s view that you need to get all the areas of your life in order depends upon being aware of your spiritual life. Your actions in the business world and in the “church” world (and all your other “worlds”) need to be congruent–that is, go in the same direction. Don’t have a set of ethics for business and a different one for home. Ethics must come from your spiritual life.

So, what is your spiritual life? Thompson’s research and reflections on his own development, bring him to a definition that most people experience the Spirit as “a search or a stirring within.” Have you ever had that deep feeling that compelled you to do something? You just had to learn more about a topic? You just had to find a way to experience God more deeply? This is a stirring. I think that we neglect to teach people to be sensitive to this stirring in our haste to make sure that they repeat the correct words. The first thing you must do to cultivate the Spirit is to be quiet and listen. It’s OK if part of your prayer time is given over to asking God to help yourself and others. But it is crucial to your development that you take part of that time and just be quiet. If you get an unsettling feeling that something needs attention, stop and contemplate that feeling. See if the Spirit is leading you somewhere deeper. It will probably send you off to study for a while. The process may last for a day, or it may last for months. Mother Teresa experienced Jesus talking to her, then spent her entire life figuring out all the implications all the while doing the work that He suggested. This listening and study become the foundation for an ethical and congruent life.

Some people are worried about the form of listening. Is there a particular posture? Do you need background music or to chant something? If you are my age, you remember when the Beatles went to India and discovered the Maharishi Mahesh Yogi. Transcendental Meditation was suddenly everywhere with its chants and mantras. Maybe that’s a fond memory, but don’t let that corrupt your thinking. If you like meditative music, then by all means play it if it helps focus your mind. In fact, you don’t even need to sit. You can contemplate the Spirit while walking, or even running on the treadmill at the Y. I know of a man who wakes up at 2:30 in the morning and lays in bed on his back and contemplates for hours before he gets up. Which leads to a good point. Setting aside a particular time for God every day is a good habit. You’ll find that you’re ready to listen after a few days. Another thing, a smart person once gave the  teaching, “Try, easy.” You try by setting aside the time. But don’t force anything. You simply quiet your mind and listen. Let the Spirit lead you. You’ll know.

Gary Mintchell

Watch who you follow

March 12, 2008

I write three blogs, and none are political (I hope), but the news this week shows the hazards of placing belief and faith in a person other than Jesus. Just while I was writing about ethics in business, the message is interrupted by this announcement–Eliott Spitzer, governor of New York and former crusading prosecutor, has been implicated in a high-priced call girl scheme. According to news reports, there exists a call girl ring based in Washington, D.C. that rents girls for $1,000 to $5,500 per hour. Spitzer transferred “large amounts” of cash from two of his bank accounts to the leader of the ring. What makes this news is that he has made a career out of prosecuting all sorts of ethical problems including sex trade. People in New York overwhelmingly elected him governor based on his crusading past and promise to clean up corruption in Albany.

Sometimes the demons people fight within are reflected in the preoccupations that they have on the outside. He had a weakness (guess that makes him human), but he evidently couldn’t deal with it within himself.

God uses people to do his work, and Spitzer definitely did a lot of work that God would approve. But now, he has a lot of additional work to do to redeem himself. I hope he does. But for all of us, it’s a reminder to place our complete faith in the relationship with Jesus. People will do good, and people will fall short. Honor the good they do, but don’t place all your faith in humans. A lot of good came out of the fall of the powerful after Watergate in the early 70s (think Chuck Colson and his prison ministry, for example). Perhaps a powerful and influential person like Spitzer can face his demons and come out of this doing even more good work. Or maybe the demons win. It’s the same battle we all face.

What’s the result of spritituality

March 11, 2008

I was writing a series on spirituality, ethics and the workplace from “The Congruent Life.” But I just heard this talk by Gary Haugen at the Menlo Park Presbyterian Church. John Ortberg is the senior pastor there. This talk is about Christians working for social justice around the world. It’s one of the finest examples of spirit at work I’ve heard. Worth a listen. Just click on the link and it should play on your computer or go here to the page with the MPPC sermon list. This sermon is about 30 minutes.

Gary

Welcome

March 5, 2008

Welcome to this first post of a new blog. This blog is meant to be teaching, devotional and somewhat personal in spirit, as we discuss issues and themes that will help us all live a Christian life in these secular times (although that’s nothing new, is it?). The blog is meant to be part of the ministry of Sidney First, a United Methodist church in Sidney, Ohio. I’m Gary Mintchell and I hope to recruit a number of other bloggers as we venture forth in faith. I’ve been meditating for 30 years and teaching a Bible class for at least that long. Feel free to comment back to this post or send an email to gmintchell@woh.rr.com.

I am in the business world and during my career I have run into several self-proclaimed “Christian businesmen.” They all still owe me money for projects or jobs I’ve done with them. In my career in business, I’ve faced many ethical dilemmas. Bet you all have, too. Do your brushes with such self-proclaimed people make you wonder about what it means to be a Christian? It does me. So, I often ponder business ethics and what the teachings of the church should be to help us. Just stumbled upon “The Congruent Life” by C. Michael Thompson. If you’re not an Amazon.com customer, this is a good reason to be one. It makes recommendations of new books based on a database of other books you’ve bought. This was one such recommendation that was quite helpful.

Thompson teaches “business ethics” and is a devout church member. He has noticed a problem in the teaching of this subject. To begin the book, he states that teaching of values/ethics has become divorced from the reality of God–and that too often the word “business” modifies what is expected by ethics. But he continues in the introduction to poke at the church, worrying that churches too often copy the models of businesses with a focus on the bottom line, growth in numbers, endless committee meetings–sucking people into the same whirlwind of activity that they face every day at work.

This first blog is meant to get you thinking. I’ll bring up more from the book and other teachings in the first series that I’ll be writing. Don’t be afraid to start a discussion about what you think on the topic, and I’ll be back with more from Thompson.