It’s amazing the conversations you can have just by opening up–and by listening. I travel a lot for business and have had some of the most deep and interesting conversations at dinner. This week I was in Phoenix. There was a dinner for people from the media (I’m a magazine editor) and various marketing and engineering people from the host company. I sat with my journalist friends from Mexico, Argentina and Brazil. Silvia from Brazil asked if I was “how do you say, Protestant”. Then she wanted to know what sect. (Her English is far better than my Portugese.) I told her I was Methodist. She laughed. Her father-in-law is (as close as I can tell) the equivalent of a District Superintendent and her brother-in-law is a local church pastor both in the Methodist Church in Brazil.
She is Catholic, no surprise to me, but we went on to have a fascinating conversation about religion and spirituality, about my favorite stream of Catholicism–the Carmelites.
At other dinners I’ve discussed spirituality with a wide range of Christians and with Hindus, Buddhists and Moslems. If you’re polite, listen, present your ideas with humility, it’s amazing what you learn about people and the seeds you can plant in return.
I’ve heard the phrase frequently lately from Gandhi about “I like your Christ, but I don’t like your Christians.” I’ve also read other people who couldn’t figure out why, when they should agree with people of various Christian persuasions, didn’t–only to discover it was really the people they didn’t like, not the idea.
Lord, save me from being one of those people who turn people off. Make me a better listener. More like a gentle rain than a hurricane in my dealings with others.
— Gary Mintchell
Tags: Christianity, Ethics, Spirituality
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